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How do you convince yourself to live healthy? I'm 27, a bit antisocial, single, and find creeping thoughts of loneliness and despair get me in situations I regret. Like right now for example, I'm hung over and feel lower than I have for some time. I wouldn't say I'm an alcoholic, I don't have a physical dependence, but maybe a mental one. I've struggled with social anxiety, and it makes it hard for me to meet people or seriously talk to girls. I don't think I'm unattractive, I'm kind of tired of coming alone for family dinners and having there be discussions about kids and marriages. I feel a bit lost. I think I'll stop drinking though, the cons outweigh the pros, moreso now than ever.
>>17110468
>I think I'll stop drinking though
That's a good start. Really, it's about getting out of your comfort zone. Try new things.
One small step after another OP. When I started working out, everything else came much easier. Just gotta make the effort for the first thing.
>>17110491
I used to. I feel like I used to be a good person. I move around a lot, more than anyone I've ever known. I think that's effecting me. Originally I thought being able to uproot my life and move somewhere else was a strength, but now, I look at how few friends I have anymore, and I'm not so sure. I got in this slump I guess. I had my first panic attack half a year ago, and I think that's a symptom of all this. The one good thing is I finally have a career, but I'm definitely more alone than ever. Family is all I really have, but I'm thankful to have them.
Are there any good parts of 4chan?
I'm starting to feel like this is more of a drug addiction then a place I like.
yes, /trash/
fucking love that board
>>17110423
What exactly are you looking for?
>>17110435
trash isn't a place I'd like to stay for any amount of time.
>>17110440
less negativity.
Seems like the girl next door wants my D.
I have an online gf (lol)
But she's actually 18 and has 3 kids, not even lying, believe it or don't.
Should I slay? Could get my dick sucked at the very least. Haven't really been recripocating her messages much so she's stopped replying. (as of 5 mins)
I should, shouldn't I? Been a while since i've let a girl handle my magnificent cucumber
>>17110401
>online gf
>18 and has 3 kids
She seems like a nice young girl. What would make you stray?
>>17110404
Meant the lass who wants my diddly aha. I know it's forbidden fruit but I just can't not imagine how much she puts out. Was pretty sure she had a bf but with the way she was msging me, gonna try and get my dick in her mouth. She has a bf too tho
>>17110418
The fact she has a bf and is willing to have sex with you means she's super classy and would never do something like that to you.
What you're going to read is immoral, if you're not okay with it, just get over it
> Be me
> Get girlfriend in my own faculty
> Be me
> Another girl from the same faculty seems too friendly with me
> the booty calling both
How do I properly cheat in this situation, /adv/ ? How do I get her to be a "side chick" as they call it, knowing she could always meet me and my real girlfriend everyday (The year's almost done so... )
The second girl is all innocent and pure, she always comes to me to ask me stuff about my and my life, telling I seem good and weird stuff, I believe she's totally into me, and I've already said that I have girlfriend once (casu mistake, I know)
I just don't know how to play it so she's okay with the situation. Anything I'll do will be weirdly seen (if I ask her to study with me while not being real good friends, my gf will probably see the thing)
How do I play it ?
Make a choice. Either stay with your girlfriend or dump her and get with the other girl. Cheating is never an option, anon.
>>17110406
That's your ethic problem, not a concret answer. You just don't want to help someone to cheat, it's okay but don't give me that bullshit, i'm immoral.
Cheating is an option since many people do it.
You know, now that I think about, I'm pretty sure I've read 4 different doujins on the panda that involved drinking lava.
>24 years old
>Not in school
>No money for bars/clubs, very few in my area anyway
How the fuck do I meet women my age? Tinder is a bust, POF and OkStupid only attract bottom of the barrel druggies where I live. How do I meet girls?
I literally was making a thread asking the same damn thing
I want to put my pic up on POF but I still see an old crush on there and it would literally kill me if she ever knows how much of a loser I am
Never tried Tindr, should I?
>>17110645
OP here
If there are girls worth chasing on POF in your area then do it. As for your ex: most girls very rarely actually browse POF anyway. They just filter through the hundreds of messages they get on the daily, and MAYBE their profile visitors. Just don't go poking around her profile while you're logged in and you'll be golden. And all that being said, your old crush probz doesn't even remember who you are anyway dude.
I've met some decent women online in the past, but atm its just completely dried up in my area and I have no idea how to do it IRL.
Feels lonely anons
>>17110765
Well I am in the same boat, friend
It's gotten so bad I am half way to just jacking off to hot girls who dont message me back and then picking up a fucking book and dropping the dating idea entirely until I can go to a city
ok, /adv/ here is the thing. I am an ex MGTOW, from one side this quite controversial philosophy helped me a lot in my life, on the other side it made it obviously empty from a love and affection point of view. Casual sex with was not enough.
I decided to give women another chance and right now I'm dating a girl, she seems to be a perfect match to me, yet i'm fucking paranoid about her, what if she tries to take advantage of me? Is she staying with me just for my reasonable wealth or there is something more?
I still can't get out of my head the idea that women's only purpose in a relationship is sucking your blood and once you're dry they'll look for another "victim".
I know that this is kinda weird but I feel like I'm still scared of women, and if I happen to fall in love with her I'm fucked
While this may seem odd at first, I think this is something you should discuss with your girlfriend. Communication is important in relationships, and especially communication about personal insecurity.
>>17110241
You're a paranoid fuck in general. See a fucking therapist. Your hatred of women if only going to fuck you over in the long run.
Guess what, we are not here to ruin your life! My boyfriend makes 1/3 of what I do. You were just using MGTOW as a crutch to explain your previous frustration, bad experiences, or lack of experiences with women.
Again, see a therapist. These are fucked up thoughts.
You're not taking that paranoïa away, you probably have an history with some female important in your life.
But i'm glad you took the chance, talk a lot to her, don't avoid the subject, say how you feel and maybe, if you think you know why you feel like that, tell her also. Tell her you always want the harsh truth before anything else in the relationship.
You will always be vulnerable, you can't try to hide it okay ? Just be honest and if the person you're with is somewhat human, she will understand your position and reassure you.
Don't worry if this doesn't work out, maybe that wasn't the right person to be with, that happens.
Also if you got time and money, go see a therapist, a real one not these weird vaudou-like group therapy.
A'right good luck if you have any question I'm still here
Planning on sending shit to my french teacher and dont want it linked back to me
(Sending a moon man ear rape and shes black)
>>17110187
This will probably just end bad.
Maccas has free wifi if you're hell bent though.
>>17110187
If you do anything dumb like sending multiple bomb threats then they will be able to find you. There is pretty much no way to be completely untrackable. It all depends on how badly and how much effort is put into tracing you.
There was a guy at UPitt who sent like 20 bomb threats one after the other. It made national news. Cops and FBI involved, traced emails to a VPN provider in Russia somehow. Traced various ISP logs for packets intended to this VPN and rooted it down to a coffee shop somewhere. Got a suspect on a security cam, identified him, some batshit crazy Asian kid with schizophrenia.
Don't do anything stupid
>>17110258
>bomb threats
>versus some dumb shit
OP is probably fine. They won't look that much into nor will the FBI get involved.
>talking out my ass
>hoping OP does it
>gets caught
>ruins his life
>oh am i greentexting this...
Think I may be picking up a cocaine habit. My ex-girlfriend killed herself a week after we broke up and I've been hitting it up at least once a week when I go out clubbing.
Is a once a week habit a danger sign? Any experienced users in the general vicinity?
>>17110174
I've only dabbled in coke as it's ridiculously expensive here.
>>I used to take speed once a week.
>>Then it was a weekend binge.
>>Then it was every other day.
>>Stopped getting as much effect.
>>Started smoking meth.
>>5/7 days a week.
>>Progressed to mdpv (yes, bath salts)
>>Errday.
Not even worth it.
>>17110174
>Is a once a week habit a danger sign?
Once awake isn't particularly dangerous for your health but it definitely isn't a good sign.
Coke habits usually escalate. If you feel yourself escalating then you definitely have yourself a problem.
Any cocaine at all is a danger sign. I recommend looking for an addiction support group.
Do women really want the whole package when it comes to dating and sex ?
>>17110140
Yes. Most want the whole package and have it gift wrapped with a bow.
Guys who know how to make themselves the 'whole package' are the ones who are in demand.
>>17110140
>Do women really want the whole package when it comes to dating and sex ?
Women aren't a species of Pokemon. They all want different things.
Also, what the fuck is the "whole package". You're asking an annoyingly vague question.
Well, yeah. Why would I want someone who's fundamentally flawed?
Hi guys,
I'm currently thinking of going to either Syria or Iraq to fight ISIS/Daesh alongside the Kurdish peshmerga. A bit of background on myself, I've been serving in the British army reserve for the last 4 years however my only deployment has been to the Falkland Islands. Outside of the army I've also taken part in some anti-poaching work in Africa. I don't know about you guys, but I'm sick and fucking disgusted by these dogs and truly feel like I need to be doing something other than looking for a job in England once I finish university in a couple of weeks. My question is, what do you guys think about this? And if you know, where would be best Syria or Iraq?
Be honest, and plz no turkfags who are just going to say the Kurds are terrorists and the Armenian genocide never happened.
Pic is me.
You're just about to finish university, and you want to go die in a shithole? I understand your sentiment, but this isn't your fight, and you have your life ahead of you. These people have to learn to fight for their homeland, I certainly wouldn't get involved with it, especially without the backing of my country.
>>17110053
I see what you're saying. But I think this is my fight. I spend a lot of time in France, and I was in Paris during the Bataclan attack last November. This isn't just a regional power struggle. This has to be the elimination of this twisted ideology from the face of the earth. Thank you for your opinion though, because I don't want to die. No body (except Isis) wants to die, and obviously I imagine I won't.
All sides are ill-equipped and poorly trained. It's not worth it. You'll get fucking hosed with the rest of them if you don't get turned away. Find a private military outfit that suits you if you still want some action
https://youtu.be/4jPTrS-7d14
Is it weird to fb message a girl I haven't had any contact with in a year? We used to have some mutual friends and I'd see her from time to time. I kinda liked her, but she had a boyfriend at the time and our friend groups kinda drifted apart so I haven't seen her since last year.
Recently I commented on a photo of hers, and she commented back, which made me think of her again. I'm pretty sure she's single now, should I message her and see if she wants to catch up sometime? We're both 24.
OP give yourself permission to be creepy, and I'll tell you why. There is never not going to be a least one woman who doesn't find you creepy. You could be the most charming, hot, and amazing guy in the world, and there's going to be at least one woman who finds you creepy. And when I say give yourself permission to be creepy, I don't mean catcalling, walking up to women and saying "nice tits", and groping people in public. I mean doing things that are usually outside of social norms and being bold. I guess you could interpret this situation as weird, but you'll never know how she responds until you do it. Just fucking do it faggot. You're going to experience rejection in life anyways, and what are you gonna do anyways, sit around and wonder if you should be messaging this girl like a beta? Fucking do it.
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Also don't be a complete fucking sperg about it and be confident in what you're saying. Acknowledge that what you're doing is not normal. Be a champ. "Hey, I know this is kind of weird, but I think you're really cute and I'd like to get to know you."
Besides when are you ever gonna see this chick again?
Other anons might bash me for telling you to be so straight forward, but if you're messaging her out of no where and you barely know her with the obvious intention of wanting to bang her trying to start a conversation about the election, then you're going to be creepy.
Perhaps it would be alright to start off with a "hey, what's up!"
Then after she responds, tell her what I told you to say.
How do you know if your bipolar? Also if you are bipolar can you tell me your experience? Thanks have a great day!
ginga
>How do you know if your bipolar?
Have you had any of the symptoms of mania or hypomania?
is that the actual size of saturn relative to earth?
because holy fuck
>just started a Medicine degree 26
>living back at home
>mum dosent approve, keep trying to make me move to south america
>wtf, wake u every morning to mum rambling to herself
>dad passed away when i was 21
>shes been trying to rule over me since dad has passed away
>my brother has left years ago cause he couldnt deal
>slowly failing my first semester
>shes trying to hard to get me to move, wake up to her screaming
>try to explain shit to her, she dosent want to hear it
>Theres literally no jobs where I live
How fkd am I? What should I do?
I'm confused. Your mom wants you to move to South America, but she lives here? Does she want to move there and bring you with her or something?
>>17109997
Yes, basically trying to fk my life up so I have no choice but to move there
Op you need to leave and never come back, live under a tree or your friends house if you need to
Should you really trust your gut, /adv/?
I have a feeling that my partner is lying to me consistently based on the fact that I have been lied to in many past relationships and am pretty good at picking it up by now, but it also might just be me being paranoid.
>>17109911
>I have been lied to in many past relationships
Why is that, anon?
>>17109917
I'm pretty naive and have been unlucky in the last ones (3) that i've had.
The first one was a compulsive liar and the last two cheated.
>>17109911
Are they doing something in particular to make you think this?
Well I might get banned for drug related post, but I'll give it a shot.
I want to do some drugs with some friends. Never done drugs before, only had alcohol. So I want to do LSD but I'm pretty sure that this might be a little early to do it, given that I have no past experience in real drugs. I'm not too curious about weed, but more hallucinogenics. I've heard that you get more imaginative when you're tripping. I write screenplays and make short film and would like that creative boost plus the cool experience. Would any of you say it's fine to do LSD as a starting drug, or would you say use a weaker hallucinogenic. If so, then what?
Also, my fathers side has a history of addiction and schizophrenia. Will either of these be a problem on first uses? I assume the addiction will be nothing to worry about.
Thanks in advance /adv/
>>17109898
Taking drugs before acid really isn't necessary,but getting heavily baked has a few light similarities to acid and could prepare you for some physical experiences you're not used to. Also the whole LSD-induced schizophrenia thing isn't proven at all, and it's not grounded in anything. Acid is great for the experience, but honestly not as much if you want to consistently use it, in my experience shrooms and weed are generally better when it comes to needing to record your ideas, but acid will still definitely help your creative process. For safety, get a testing kit since street acid tends to be sketchy and get a tripsitter so you don't do any crazy shit. Another useful tip is do it on a good day and have a calm and relaxing area to trip in to avoid a bad trip. Have fun on the other side, OP.
>>17110085
> Also the whole LSD-induced schizophrenia thing isn't proven at all,
lsd doesn't cause schizophrenia, but causes latent psychotic disorders to manifest. and OPs family has a history of schizophrenia, so there is this possibility.
also, a testing kit is worth nothing these days because the only test you get for LSD is an ehrlichs reagent, which just tells you if an ergoline is present, but not which of the 20 lsd derivaties that are available atm it is.
>>17110085
It's irresponsible as fuck to suggest that the link between schizophrenia and LSD is completely unfounded. Anything that can profoundly affect ones mental health, which we can all agree that tripping does, could potentially cause a latent mental illness to surface. Combine that with the fact that this is an adolescent with a family history of schizophrenia and it's plain old stupid to not consider it.
However, that's not to say that OP cannot/should not do LSD.
OP, consider the fact that tripping can be an extremely emotional experience which can change the state of your mental health for the long term. Consider the fact that you have a family history of a disease with a slight link to recreational hallucinogen use. Consider these things and decide for yourself if the consequences and the risks are something you want to live with.
In all likelihood, you will be fine. But there's a chance it could change you forever, better or worse. Don't let anyone lull you into a false sense of security or fear.
