The image was not awesome enough to distract me from reading the text. Yes, I think it is wise to communicate your feelings. You gain nothing from holding back that information, you only hurt yourself. If you want to date that person, say it, if it is painful to keep being friend with that person, say it. It's hard and scary but it's the correct decision.

I would prefer it if they admit their feelings to me. Rather than leaving me in the dark.

Image was pretty cool. I wouldn't have read your post if I hadn't seen it. Good choice.

Now to the issue at hand. I'm a dude. Here's a breakdown. This would apply to a guy friend as well btw:

1. I am not potentially interested.
a. She is not potentially interested. No problem
b. She is interested but hides it.
i. She hides it well. No problem
ii. She sucks at hiding it. That is really weird, and would definitely push me away. I would much rather have her admit it.
c. She is interested and admits it. I would be flattered but explain...
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Well, yeah they handled that all wrong and basically admitted to calling your bluff, in a sense. Seems like your close friend isn't as close as they appeared

>>17110864
I wasn't bluffing. I never really said I was going to do it. Just that I was thinking about it.
But I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks so.
Thank you.

>>17110968

I know, I just mean in how it was interpreted and they didn't feel 'pressure' about being there for you

>>17110823
Ask her to prom, then murder her and her entire family.

>>17110871
kek

>>17110823
Write her a love story then create a TV show based on it and shit all over the script

don't worry about learning linux unless you want to be a sysadmin or a systems dev

what is your end game

Just install Linux on your computer and use it.

>>17110811
Don't even worry about it for that.
Become familiar and comfortable with it by using it as a daily OS, but 95% of businesses utilize windows for their servers because of cheap technet subscriptions.

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thats her i know she ain't cute but i really like her and also shes like a very nice girl

>>17110779
>lost interest in woman
Clarify: Have lost interest in women, or have lost interest in this particular woman?

She's a cutie pie and seems to like you. You already know you'll be a bad boyfriend, so don't be a boyfriend since you already recognize you might be. Just go for it.

>>17110764
No your not a little shit as long as they know you love them because that is all they have for you. I had a similar but different relationship with my parents. Dad did what ever he wanted regardless of what was important for the family so he would buy himself things and we would miss a power bill, he also treated me and my brothers like friends not sons. Mom made the sacrifices and had to control the money so we could eat. Parents got divorced and both talked shit about the other. Dad convinced me mom was a bitch...
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Fuck your parents, you are not supposed to be friends, that's some new age shit. Visit them, keep them informed about your life events, get informed about theirs.
How is your brother, try to be his friend, apart from saying he had a disabling accident you didn't mention anything more.

>>17110848
I didn't mention much about him because there's nothing much for me to mention. We used to be close until things just changed. I honestly don't know what happened. He's in a wheelchair and can only verbalize through mumbles. He expresses emotions through squeals, yells, and his arm movements. His motor skills are very low. He is mentally about a 13 year old. He slowly started to get frustrated with me being around him (Mother thinks he's upset that I can do all these things physically and...
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>>17110701
there are 2 things you could 2.
1. dump him and find someone that will fit better you expectations. An then dump the next guy and move to someone else because you will always be unsatisfied cunt... or
2. talking to him and resolve things as adults (that you are assumingly are) instead of posting about it in anonymous chinese cartoon forums.
the choice is yours.

>>17110701
You probably push him away for no reason at all. And you think that him reaching out to you is love or something. He probably is not as into you as you think. Maybe he just wants to talk to you, instead of you pushing him away.

You're probably a whore and can't handle any kind of serious relationship.

>>17110701
I was the head over heels boyfriend in this situation a few months ago, and then she dumped me and completely shattered my heart and self esteem. Now she's off laughing and continuing on as normal while I'm stuck in near depression. She never told me what I did wrong so I don't even know what I could do differently in the future.

Talk to him, OP. Get out of your own head and actually ask him what he wants. You may think he deserves better, but that is you being selfish if all he wants is you.

>>17110692
Don't go to the movies go somewhere you can both talk freely and openly, like a restuarant or some shit. Get some drinks in you or something so you have a little bit of liquid courage then go from there man. Don't mention you have feelings for her because that could make things awkward and a bit weird even if she has feelings for you. Just openly flirt and have some fun and when you're walking home say something along the lines of "I had a great time tonight" or "I really enjoy hanging...
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Well yeah after the movies we went and got ice cream at a local place and we both enjoyed our time together... Later after I dropped her off at her place she messaged me later saying she had a blast with me and of course I told her I had a great time too.

>>17110721
Say it in person fuck this texting bullshit, look deep into her ayes and kiss her man. I know it seems like this massive hurdle but seriously this girl sounds like she does like you so just go for it and if you get rejected who cares you now know this girl wasn't into you so you don't have to wallow in self-pity asking yourself "What-ifs?" Do it dude have some confidence about it to know that this saturday you're gonna kiss this girl.

Is he literally me?

He has social anxiety and depression

Ask him to do something with you. For me, that's the next step to take towards friendship.

>>17110689

He might be depressed by its not effecting his life it seems. Top 1/4 of the class

He says he has a best friend back at home, and hes content with just that.

You gotta touch her without being creepy, maybe gently touch her lower back. But be flirty and if things go good then ask her at the end of the night.

>>17110646
Should I ask her where we stand before or after going out?
I don't want to waste money if I don't have to..

>>17110651
Naw don't do the "where do we stand" thing, it's lame and will lead to second guessing on her part, you have to be blunt. Just do your think and at the end of the night make your move.

>>17110603
Sorry for the wall of text

Don't take her to prom. This is the definition of when guys say girls are retards and why men don't understand women. Don't take her, she's a bitch. Go to prom and rub your junk on another girl and have fun.

>>17110603
Take her to prom, then fuck her. You've gotten seduce her man. Sounds like shes playing hard to get, go for it.

It sounds like she's telling you, you better pounce or I'm moving on.

>>17110570
pretty shitty desu

being alone when you want to be is pretty cash though

A lot of unspoken words

>>17110571
Are you lonely?

>>17110544
Do other things. Do you work out? Keep a healthy diet? Engage in interesting hobbies that you're passionate about?

Those are like the three pillar of self-esteem, along with your social life. Focus on yourself, not on the girls. Stop seeking them actively; you should be your top priority, not them.

And that's the problem with PUA culture, I think. They tell you to focus on yourself, but ironically they still make you build your confidence around girls, which makes you almost dependent on their response.

>>17110653

This. 100%.

Confidence is not something you build directly, but rather a byproduct of fulfillment in your life.

Dude. I'm going through the same shit. I've basically accepted a hermit life at this point. Fuck feelings.

Smile and say "hey, we should fuck"

They have no idea you have interest in them at all?

>>17110521
Answer the door on all fours with your ass in the air, give a few quick wiggles when he looks down.

They aren't growing correctly.

>>17110476
The leaf tips look like they're turning brown.

>>17110476
Have you tried using soil instead of dog food?