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that is indeed shocking and unfortunate but listen man at least you stopped and didn't just drive off laughing like some people really would do in that situation.

i have cats and honestly it would be fucking devastating if one ever got hit by a car and we're all adults, so i can imagine those screams you heard...

just be glad you have a conscience and can feel empathy.

>>17101542
You're not a terrible person, you'd be terrible if you intentionally hit the cat or didn't do anything to avoid hitting it. You did all you could, and the fact that you went back and buried it is commendable, I don't know if I would do that I'd probably freak out. It's a horrible thing to have happened but it was an accident and it doesn't make you a bad person.

>>17101554
btw if you buried the cat did you make sure it was fully dead before burying it? i assume it got badly hurt but if it was twitching it was still alive. cats are highly intelligent and very emotional animals, maybe you aren't aware of that, but as someone with cats i don't see much difference between killing and burying alive a kid than a cat. i hope you showed some sort of respect, like apologized to the cat as you buried it. cats just wanna live out their lives healthily and happily like we do. they feel the slightest breeze on their hair, you better believe that cat felt tremendous agony being hit by your truck

>>17101534
Is this some kind of metaphoric bait?

No I had no pictures to post so I posted the Skyline. I'm seriously stressing though, becuase the bitch got arrested

>>17101534
okay bro, cops are out of the question when you're a john with a hooker, so you've got to about this your own way.

I'd suggest you track this hoe in some way, whether it's fake emails and pictures to get her attention on craigslist, or driving around the crack neighborhoods looking for her tweaked out on a corner.

And, then it's simple, beat that fucking tricks ass.

Now, they're used to this kind of behavior, so it's important you don't feel bad because she's a woman and stop after you think you got her good, this bitch is battle hardened, and I bet she's been bullied more the same night you find her than you ever dreamed of in highschool.

So, you're going to need to get this bitch on the ground and relentlessly be kicking her in the god damn jaw, and removing any teeth she might've had left from the meth addiction before she was too poor to afford any more.

Now, here's where it gets different, you're going to find out a few different things while she's bleeding out her gums on the ground in a ripped thrift shop sun dress, and those things are

1. She's broke, you're broke by proxy of her theft, and there's nothing more you can do about that, so enjoy your revenge, grab a tall boy on your way home and maybe find a bitch to fuck, because you're going to be horny and full of yourself.

2. You get a payday to replace those bloody shit kickers you killed the warranty on, in which case you might want to put some of that aside for a higher class broad next time you feel the urge to degrade a woman with your penis & newly acquired cash.

3. She'll have some notable possessions worthwhile to steal in leau of pay. May include a firearm, as you mentioned tazer, or cell phone with contacts. Same end result as the first option, but you can get some cash or use out of the possessions.

you had a petty little experience that wore off so quickly you're already here on 4chan discussing it.

protip: don't get hung up on experiences, they are all impermanent, they come and go, and normality always returns.

my advice to you is forget about third eye stuff and focus more on an intellectual study of ancient eastern religions like buddhism. sharpen your mind with thinking, don't get lost in chasing the dragon of "spiritual" experiences or you'll just turn into a hippie burnout like so many others. acquire as many books as possible and read, forget all about these experiences.

later on when you have a very firm intellectual foundation in the religion, then you can start meditating again. right now you're doing it backwards, hence your confusion. you need a firm foundation in other aspects before moving on to esoteric meditative practices, this is how it's always been in such traditions. the thing is that in internet age all the information is available at once, so the old way of making gradual progress guided by a knowledgeable master is lost and what we have is a bunch of baby's first trance type spiritual seekers rushing right into what used to be totally unknown esoterica without a strong foundation in knowledge and morality.

>>17101478
You should try again but after it happened to me I could never feel that way by trying to feel that way. I feel like what you described comes to you when you're very lost and need guidance and also when your mind is thinking about something very important pertaining to your life.

Did you see anything? I've had my eyes closed and open during that experience, when closed it's all darkness with a huge blue dot in the middle of it, it looks like a blue eye or portal. When my eyes were opened, it was basically what I saw in the room but it looked everything was zooming in but also out?? and the same blue dot was there covering my vision until all I saw was blue with my eyes open! I freaked out and made my body move and the blue faded away. I've seen it again twice since then but only with closed eyes.

this is some wild shit… but I'll play "Devil's (tee hee) Advocate" and ask if that glad doesn't need this kind of work to "open' it if you're a different kind of person. It just does its shit all the time. It's automatic.

maybe because youre a male, and the distance between the two globes of the brain is much wider than with females. Therefore, it's harder for your brain to make a connection with it because it's further away. In some people it's very easily obtainable because the lobe is right there.

Still, what youre doing is interesting and as long as you dont' try and contact "Captain Howdy" you're doing no harm.

Well, until you mentioned the kissing part, no it wouldn't be weird at all.

But now I understand. Your best friend has a cuck fetish and wants a threesome with you

>>17101463
definitely this. i've seen this happening and been part of that dynamic countless times.

cuck fetish confirmed

>>17101463
Lol ;^) Next time i see him ill pull out my dick

bumping for /adv/

bumping for legit question

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>>17101410
>tfw her name is also Emily
I'm literally in the exact same situation buddy. Have a bump.

(2/3)
The latter shouldn't be an issue–after all, we are more likely to enjoy media we can relate to. It has evidently worked wonderfully in the past. The problem lies within **what** is relatable. Take a look around you, and you'll realize society has become very, very boring. You'll notice everyone is glued to their phones/laptops/tablets, engaging with each other indirectly. Culture is no longer being shaped by the world around us, it's becoming homogenized and compressed into one disgusting melting pot. The future is rapidly becoming less about enjoying life, more about feeding egos. Not to mention, everyone is walking on eggshells trying to not offend one another, adopting a "live and let live" mentality. Millennials were raised with the ubiquitous notion that "everyone is unique, beautiful, special" and just as deserving of a good life as everyone else.

To illustrate my point, imagine Seinfeld–a notoriously successful sitcom–and shape the plot of an episode so that it could be relevant to this decade.

(3/3)
Would you watch Seinfeld if it revolved around Jerry & friends talking about how many retweets they got, or what they saw on instagram? If Jerry started using youtube as a platform for his stand-up routine? What if Elaine met someone on tinder and they turned out to be catfishing her? What a gag, right? Ah but wait, it doesn't stop there! A new character would be introduced to the show, to add diversity. A strong, fat person of indistinguishable gender and race. But that's not diverse enough, is it? Let's add a character of every race, culture, and religion. Ensure they all get enough screen time, shove their "progressiveness" down the throats of viewers. Every episode would revolve around the same concepts and the same restrictions.

Fucking horrendous, innit? What's even more horrendous is that this is already happening.

I'm having a hard time putting this into words, if you couldn't already tell. I just want to ask you, /adv/, am I the only one that has a big fucking problem with current society?

Hows being 17 treating you?

>>17101369
How about a passport and ransom money?

>>17101383
I've got a passport (practically everyone in my country does). I did remember that I need a visa.

I still need to find out the best place to get foreign currency from.

>>17101395
>the best place to get foreign currency from
A currency exchange.

>>17101341
It's so 2016 seeing someone who makes more than 150 thousand dollars a year asking advice on 4chan about where to move

>>17101341
just gonna put out there, you said you don't want to live in the deep south but Mobile actually fits all your criteria, I've been there a few times when my ship came into port and I was really impressed by it compared to the rest of the south.

Tampa and WPB are extremely boring areas just fyi. If you're going to live in Florida live in Miami or Jacksonville. If you want to live in California but not LA/SF how about San Diego or Santa Barbara, both are very nice.

>>17101341
Seattle, WA if you don't want snow.

Minneapolis, MN if you do.

Your metropolitan requirement is pretty shit.

>>17101308
>I've been waiting to get married.
Fucking why?

I'm 21 and lost my v card a few days ago. It was alright, but holy fuck is it over hyped.

None of your problems go away after, your life doesn't magically get better. You just stuck your dick in a girl.

>>17101385
Knowing what you know now would you have waited for marriage?

how can you not afford a $15 game

are you 12

>>17101271
Literally turned 18 just two moths ago

Nope, parents won't buy me anything related to "those devil games"

>>17101282
then buy it yourself??

Got some bitch pregnant huh?

>>17101261

If you're willing to work, you can live indefinitely.

If you just sit and do nothing till your money runs out, you could last a few months.


Tips:
>head south where it's warmer

>get a bicycle so you can have free transportation

>if you live out of your car, consider getting a gym membership so you can have a place to shower

>living in a storage unit is a possibility, usually against the rules and illegal in some places (https://www.storedge.com/how-and-why-to-prevent-live-in-renters)

>subletting someone's shitty basement gives you the ability to get a library card, free internet, email, books, obvious amenities of indoor living

>buy generic and cook your own food

>painters will hire anyone who will work

step 1. fit as few personal belongings as possible, don't take shit bc its yours take shit bc you need it.

do bring lots of clothing.

start googling tips on how to live out of your car and where to take showers when homeless. there's plenty of info online.

from there the biggest thing is to spend these 3 weeks making sure every bit of preventive maintenance and cleaning that can be done to your car is done. you want that thing running well, well stocked on oil/fluids etc and the cleanest its ever been.

if you get woken up while sleeping in your car by the cops, you want the car to look perfectly clean with no trash in it. then you can sell basically any excuse and they'll let you go on your way, assuming you aren't black tho desu

beyond the car looking as good as it can look and running as well as it can (put air in your tires etc) you ought to spend the lion's share of the next 3 wks figuring out what you are going to do after you make your run for it to add to your $3k bc that will not last you forever.

honestly this is a pretty specific set of problems that many people have written about, you don't need /adv/ just google how to eat, shower and sleep when you are living out of a car.

AND MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHERE/HOW YOU ARE GOING TO FIND WORK. Gotta get on that shit.

some stuff you might forget (bring a tire pump, bring toiletries including a setup you can stay clean shaven with). its crucial that you be able to walk in from your car/home to a job interview and stand some chance of landing it.

>>17101190

sounds like you werent in the wrong (but we only hear your side of it). truth is college friends dont last. they become facebook buddies, and in the day of facebook you tend to meet up with old friends less than ebfore facebook. cuz you dont imsss them when you can just message them all the time.

anyway, if you want to make new friends its not only possible but normal. the big issue is that after college friends tend to be less reliant on each other. dont think they want to be, they just get that way from not having a forced hangout situation like dorms and classes. the following advicei will copy paste was intended for meeting girls, but it works even ebtter for friends.

>>17101201
effort. lots and lots of effort. and also, doing what you like. going out is in no way restricted to bars and clubs, though if that is what you enjoy, by all means, go to bars and clubs.

the truest way to find chemistry is to experience your life in the most enjoyable way, and see how you match with the people who come into it. interacting with someone in a casual way shows you how you ACTUALLY get along, not how you hope to get along cuz you really want this to work cuz you need a gf.

so write down a list of all your hobbies, and find a way to externalize them. most people live at least near a city these days.

go to any and all hobby shops and ask about local events. gun shops might have hunting trips. or you can just go to a shooting range. comic book stores have game nights. or live commentary movie nights. if these shops do not host events, offer to host one through them, after all it will only lead to more money through them.

you can even go to a more casual store, lets say, a book store, and stand in your favorite aisle (lets say, horror). talk to everyone who comes by looking for a book. ask what book they are looking for. tell them what book you are looking at. try to spark a conversation abotu your favorite author. maybe take some suggestions. if you really hit it off, try to trade numbers.

its okay if it doesnt pan out. this isnt a scoring system. there is no man in a cloack in space making down on a cosmic chalkboard how many failed conversations you had. 99% of interaction is dumb. you are waiting for the 1% and enjoying talking about your favorite things with strangers until then.

>>17101204

>but anon, going outside somewhere to find out if maybe they have an event doesnt suit my lazy lifestyle!!1!

and for those who simply cannot bring themselves to get up out of the house without a guarantee go to meetup.com and look for something of your interest. no matter what your interest it is on there in a group you can meet with. and if not, you can start your own meet up.

Now, some of you may argue that these sorts of tailored events are attended mostly by men. yes. mostly. but some women too. whats important here is you will be doing something you love, with people who love what you love, and when the right ladies come along you'll know they love it too. you will have that common ground.

I'll bump this into oblivion!

He is saying

"is op a faggot? Yes op is a faggot"

>>17103887
Thanks

Anyone hear something different?

>>17101152

>still waiting

here is your problem. you arent waiting. you are expecting. a watch pot never boils and all that jazz. you DO need to live life. you claim you are but this post indicates you are not.

its okay to talk to someone you only have a casual interest in and see if it gets stronger, but dont go around looking for love per se.

As it seems to me, you might not form deep and meaningfull relationships with people in general, easily. It seems like you think that you can fall in love "at first sight". But what happens, when you do that, is that you "fall in love" with your idea of how someone is. That's pretty dangerous and misleading.
In your case, i can see two possible reasons you haven't fallen in love yet.
>the girls you have met all didn'tnfit your criterias. That's a legit possibility
>you don't get to know them good enough, so you ASSUME, they are not what you want/need

I lean towards option two

>>17101169
There is a certain truth to this probably.
>A frustrated man makes an impatient man.

I do go through my daily life not thinking about it and don't 'scan' my environment for 'love'. It is just that statistically (and considering that I am member of multiple student organisations, etc.) I should meet a person I feel motivated to follow up on.
I love talking to people and getting to know them. But I have found it increasingly hard to find people I really want to get-to-know.

>>17101182
As said above, I love getting to know people and what makes them tick.
>What is your passion? I can listen to people and talk to people (and have done so in the past) for hours.

On that level I don't really have a problem.
It only feel that building that meeting people I find even mildly interesting is getting smaller.
>This is genuinely scaring me.

I do not suffer from any clinical mental illness. I am busy yes, but so are many others.

>>17101140
tl;dr

When my parents came to get me after the end of the semester they could see how bad I was. I did the same for a couple of months at their house. I locked myself up and never went out of my room, the only time I would leave my room was at night when everyone was asleep I would eat. My parents sat my down and my mom told me she thinks I should seek medical help. I was so use to locking myself up that when I did the therapy it did not help because I was still locked up in my mind. Another factor was the therapist was the father of someone I went to school with his daughter bullied me so I felt uncomfortable saying anything to him. Since this therapy was run through the government I could not switch and if I did it would take me another year and a half to get someone else.

Therapy ended nothing happened, my mother told me I should give college another try but this time it would be online. I went to school for graphic design for two years and did really good at it. In this time my mother also hooked me up with this guy and we had been dating for a year and a half. My boyfriend then joined the air force. I finished my college and had no clue what to do. I started applying to jobs locally just retail jobs to get some money in while I worked on my portfolio. I had gotten so confident from my schooling that I forgot how bad my anxiety was when I was around people. First job I had was just part time at a store near me, I was very nervous. On my 2nd day I admitted to having an auditory processing disability because my manager was yelling at me calling me stupid. My manager responded saying that I should of told her during the interview that I had a disability. I quit the next day for fear of being fired. Next job I got was at an organic food store, it was very hard for me because I had to remember all the codes for each product in order to put them into the cash. I am dyslexic but did not want to admit to having a disability, I spent the next month getting yelled at.

>>17101181
I quit that job because my anxiety had gotten so bad that all that was on my mind was work. I could not get my mind to rest. I was in constant fear of being yelled at for making mistakes. After a week I got another job at another place. A big warehouse store, the company benefits were really good when I got offered a job they never told me what job I was doing I was just excited that I was going to be moving forward and that I may find the right fit while I work on my portfolio for graphic design and look for a job in the field that I studied for. Got to work turns out that I was doing cleaning. I did not mind cleaning but how the other staff treated me made me feel embarrassed. I would get comments from staff saying ew do not go near me whenever I was near staff. It did not bother me that much.

One day I had to close the washroom because there was a leak I had 5 mins to clean it up and fix things up so that customers could use the washroom. Customers were waiting in line patiently and were very polite. The staff has their own washroom and one of the rude staff cut in line of all the customers and went into the customer washroom even though it was closed. My anxiety was bad but I told her that was rude and not to do that and that there are staff washrooms and to say sorry to the customers for yelling at them and being rude. She said she was coming back with a manager for harassing her so I said "okay I will explain the situation then". She never came back with manager instead she came back in the washroom she said I was harassing her because she was black. I was put off by this and said come with me to her and brought her to a manager she lied about the situation and I ended up getting in trouble. I tried really hard for it to not bother me. I was in a crowd of customers in the store and I started having a really bad anxiety attack I could not talk properly for a couple of days I was stuttering that bad.