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How do I move somewhere and start over with a new life? I don't have time to sit here and save up like 5,000 dollars. I just want to save up some money and get roommates in a new city I don't really mind walking and taking buses everywhere.
Let in on details?
Living with parents? Shit job? Qualifications? etc.
>>17115444
Living with parents looking for a shit job and I'm not really qualified for much other than maybe being an administrative assistant
I just want to live in the ghetto with a small room in a big apartment or something
>>17115457
Country? What specific qualifications do you have? Can't just pull out some motivational shit out of nowhere bud lol
I don't like the idea of getting too comfortable with my bf and it ending up being more like friends. What are some signs that it's become more friendship than relationship and how can I avoid/change it?
guys?
Well, the object is to become closer than friends. Meaning you know eachother better than anyone else.
>>17116009
Honestly the ideal relationship is a friendship. If he's truly attracted to you as a person and has you a friend, then you're lucky. Most people find that their relationships lose the friendship part and they see their partner as just a partner and not a friend.
What hairstyle is this /adv/? I'm wanting to go to the hairdressers and ask for this style but I'm not sure what I should say. Picture would be nice too
>>17115363
Just show them a pic of the anime guy.
Weeaboo young Leo.
>>17115375
agreed with that guy. i'm a haridresser, and it's always WAY better, if someone brings in a pic instead of trying to explain what he means... that never ends good.
find some more pics of similar hair that you like. the more the better. the hairdresser can see what's the common thing in all of them and can make sure to get you that.
btw, >>17115380
young leo is a good search term. doubt that a hairdresser will get what you mean, so stick to pics.
I want to go to college but I don't have any idea where to begin.
How does college work?
Is it similar to high school?
How do I know what classes to take?
Where do I sign up?
I honestly don't know how any of it works. Any help and advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks
Is college entirely the same as University for burgers?
I am in University in Germany and could give advice
Go to the open house, you'll have a guided tour of the campus and buildings. It is similar to high school in the sense that you have classes to go to, essays to write, etc etc.
The classes you end up taking depends on what you decide to study in. I took Social Sciences so I did a wide variety of things. You can also usually pick complementary classes to fill in your schedule.
You sign up by applying to the college of your choice in the program you picked.
>>17115296
So if I want to be an architect what classes should I take?
Also how do I get help paying for college?
About 18 months ago I got a new manager. He is awesome, and has a taken a real interest in developing and mentoring me. He has seen my potential, and while I was always good at my work, he has extended my role and given me greater responsibility, and worked personally with me to increase my skills. He is always encouraging and seems to believe in me completely.
A couple months ago, he called me into his office to discuss some work stuff. He closed the door and we talked about work for half an hour, and then non-work related stuff for easily a further three hours, I think...
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>>17115272
Sex.
The answer is always sex.
>>17115272
Do you like him ?
>>17115294
I really don't think it is. I... almost wish it was. I'm certainly not the most beautiful girl in the office, and he's also very settled with his partner, who is older than he is.
>>17115382
I like him very much. I like spending time with him. I am fortunate because my work quality is very high, so nobody could ever suggest that any of my new roles and responsibilities are because of my closeness to him, but I just don't want it to be a talking point.
Is it cheating for your fwb to tell you they love you in an open relationship?
My fwb is in an open relationship with his boyfriend while they're long distance, they both have permissions to have a fwb and generally sleep around. However, my fwb started making our situation more friendly than sexual, but in a way I'm confused about. I'd go over to fuck friday, we'd fuck, i'd sleep over, we'd wake up together, get breakfast, hangout and do random things like get groceries or watch movies, we'd fuck during the day or not, and fuck again...
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Seems like the 'cheating' line for them is emotional. Physical sex doesn't matter as long as they love each other. I guess the guy you're seeing is polyamorous, and his partner thinks they're the only person he 'loves'.
SO yeah its kinda cheating but since the sex is okay with him I guess it's kinda whatever. Obviously his partner would be somewhere between devastated and uncomfortable if they found out.
>>17115256
>gays
>promiscuous
Color me surprised
>>17115275
Kek. This.
My bf wants to have nose plastic surgery and I have prejudice against it. I think its vain and I don't think men should do it no matter how horrible their nose is.
How can I overcome this? I know its something that bothers him and I want to keep loving him.
>>17115221
>I don't think men should do it no matter how horrible their nose is.
is this a troll thread? this has to be a troll thread.
if not...sooo it's ok for women to be vain but not men? come on now.
as to how to get over it, maybe try recognising that it's his body and he has a right to change it if he wants to.
I wish my biggest problem was that my husband wanted to make himself look better.
>>17115236
That's not once what she said. Stop pushing your agenda. So many guys on here bitch about girls who wear makeup. So it's suddenly not okay with her to feel uncomfortable with the same thing? Regardless o think it's both equally stupid but come on.
>>17115264
>I don't think men should do it
>men
They weren't pushing anything, this thread is bullshit and your comment was almost incomprehensible.
Hello /adv/,
Recently I came on my girlfriends back, cum stayed there for a few mins then I wiped her off with a paper towel. I realized that her skin had some kind of allergic reaction to my semen.
Would you kindly fuck your girlfriends, let the semen stay on their back for a while and post pictures after wiping it ?
I wonder if my situation is normal or maybe she should take some antihistamines ?
>>17115209
That's freaky, m80.
I jizz on my wife's back all the time and never seen anything like that.
>>17115209
I've heard of this. Some women actually do have allergic reactions to semen. Looks like she's one of them.
could be something you ate
I'm considering buying a condo. Would like input from more experienced people.
>26 y/o, montreal
>Enough money in the bank from dad's life insurance to buy the condo without taking out a loan
>Married, wife will get her permanent residency and move here in ~2 months
>Currently living at my aunts, but she'll need the room in 1 month.
>No job (although I'll find one in the next days/weeks) which makes...
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>>17115166
I like to call condominiums "condoms" in casual conversation. Sometimes people just look at me weird and and don't correct me. Shit's hilarious.
>>17115166
Your money probably isn't making money in the bank so why not? How much are the condo fees and after you buy the condo how will you be able to afford the living expenses (condo fees, utilities, insurance, repairs/maintenance) if you aren't working?
>>17115211
I will work. I was a bit vague, but basically I quit my work to go spend three months with the wife. I've been back for three days only, but I've never had trouble finding work in my life.
How do I vent immense anger and frustration?
Can I use it for productive means?
>>17115151
hit the gym
>>17115151
I go to track days every now and then.
>> doing 200 is soothing.
>>17115151
become mma fighter
I'm new to sex. I just had sex using a condom and spermicide together. I cum inside her, I did some more thusts before pulling out, pull out, condom still looks like its on fine and im mostly hard but theres no cum in the condom. I checked to see if it was broken and it doesn't seem to be. Its the next morning and she just took Plan B. How is this even possible?
Holes in the condom? It happens.
>>17115144
Are you worried she's pregnant?
>>17115144
Are you sure you actually came inside and wasn't just hardcore precum?
A younger friend of mine recently took about 1.8k of his bank account that he didn't have. He's 17 so the bank isn't even supposed to allow him to overdraft. The only reason he did is because they were doing some sort of maintenance and lowered their security. He doesn't have really anyone other then me for advice and I'm not good with this shit so does anyone have anything that could help me help him out? The bank (NBSC, in South Carolina) told him that he may be facing a felony. But his father co-signed the account so I'm confused on who would...
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>>17115136
So he should give it back. Why is this even a question?
>>17115152
Yeah, he's a fucktard. He kinda spent it.
>>17115162
The he should face the consequences of his stupidity. Maybe it'll teach him something.
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Are all guys into anal sex?
I was sexually abused when I was younger and because of things that were done to me the thought of anal sex makes me feel physically ill.
I feel like one in every 10 threads here has something to do with guys wanting anal sex. Is that just something every guy expects now? How important is it?
>>17115124
Nope. No clue why so many guys claim to be into this, but I also don't understand the appeal of cumming on someone's face.
Vagina feels a lot better than ass imo.
Don't even bother stressing yourself over this OP. You had something terrible done to you and that's enough stress as is. There's a lot of dudes out there that would rather vagina over ass. Don't feel like you gotta like something just because some males find it attractive.
Anal sex is different, from my experience. The texture on the inside is different from theat of a vagina. It stimulates one's penis in a different way.
My girlfriend actually likes to have anal sex when on her period. I think it makes her cum quicker too because it stimulates her from a different angle and it feels deeper. It does hurt at the start and desu I only like it at times..
Sometimes I cum inside her ass but then when I take my dick out it got some brown slime on it too..........
Anyhow, its good when its clean and both sides enjoy a whole different experience...
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Is there a way to lose libido forever/become asexual?
kys
>>17115108
SSRIs can fuck you for a long time. Why would you want to lose libido that's lame as shit OP.
>>17115108
it's called castration
I am a average-below average guy. I am 25 and just can't talk to women. I hate "yoloing" shit and basically doing something without knowing what will happen.
I like to weigh my options and prepare for things. Dealing with women doesn't allow me to do this which stresses me. I look visibly stressed when talking to women I want to date. People have described me as looking never calm.
Does my demeanor make women uncomfortable? I don't see a way around it because talking to women inherently stresses me out because each woman is different but they all find random men creepy.
I actually think this is why there is a influx of perverts in cities. Men are just "yoloing" interactions with women because almost nothing works in making progress with women.
It makes perfect sense why guys rub their dicks on women on a crowded train. They probably tried all other types of talking and nothing works.
Perverts are not born. They are created.
Also, I don't condone perversion on transit. I was just saying... It's not as simple as the media makes it out to be. They think it's just pervs being pervs but it's really just desperate dudes trying anything for female attention. They are at their wits end.
>>17115088
>I actually think this is why there is a influx of perverts in cities. Men are just "yoloing" interactions with women because almost nothing works in making progress with women.
You sound more like your problem is that you've stewed your brain in 4chan and porn to the point where you have no idea what actually goes on in reality anymore. You're right, perverts are created, and you've made yourself into a pervert.
If you want to learn to talk...
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>>17115107
this. its not really that hard. just talk to them the same way you talk to men. i do it all the time in uni. women are actually quite easy to talk with, they do go on a bit sometimes though lol.
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