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I'm in love with two guys.
Guy A is a friend who lives a few towns over from me. We've gotten to
talking and he's admitted he likes me. However, he's focused on college,
graduating and finding a job now so he was stalling for time.
Guy B lives on the other side of the country, but says he's been in love
with me since he saw me. He broke up with his ex girlfriend [my former best
friend] to be with me, and i've recently decided to be with him as well.
However, I still really like Guy A and he's not too happy about my
decision....
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How you going to date some asshole on the other side of the country? Dumb Hick
Live with the consequences of your decision. You already made your choice, so stick with it.
>>17116777
Find another guy. Someone who is willing to leave someone for you will leave you for someone.
What condoms are actually good, especially for a guy who's a bit thicker than average?
The condoms I've tried (durex normal, extra safe, thin, extra thin) all cut the feeling by at least 10x and I end up losing erection every time.
Are there any condoms that don't reduce the feeling by a ridiculous amount - to the point I can't even stay hard in them? Even lube in the condom doesn't do anything for me. I just barely feel anything in a condom. Are there any brands that are actually good?
magnums
>>17116759
Is that picture real? Because if so my god.
>>17116759
I just get extra thin trojans and I never have a hard time with sex.
if somebody wanted to build a bomb, what would be the best place to seek information? do people honestly just google that, as if it falls under freedom of speach or something? this is for a story im writing
Yes you can actually just google it. Everything is on the internet. Information on making a bomb? It would take you ten seconds to find how NUCLEAR bombs are made. You can find the plans for a device that can destroy the world. Of course there's information on how to make a pipe bomb or whatever you fancy. The Anarchist Cookbook https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Anarchist_Cookbook has been floating on the internet since forever.
>>17116698
You are not on a watch list and the super computers are more deeply analyzing all of your communications.
Why would you want to build one OP
How's everyone doing? Anyone made progress becoming not-so-much-a-loser?
I'm coming home from work doing 160 hours over 2 weeks. I decided to walk home instead of taking the bus. I wanted to how far I can depress myself watching other people start their weekend.
Gonna spend the whole of next week trying to learn basic coding, Christ knows I can't spend the last bit of my 20s bagging groceries for fucking yuppies and hipsters.
>>17116692
Looking for jobs myself OP, Haven't got a gf, haven't got any friends anymore save one, who I joke about going vagrant or becoming a career criminal with.
I wish I had advice for you, but all I can say is I'm a loser too. but maybe OP maybe if we work hard enough we can become something more, that's what I chose to believe stay strong man.
finally found a job!!!
should I just sell my gun? I don't need it now
>>17116725
I wouldn't.
I work for a neighbor. I work my ass off. He has given me 4 raises in 2 years(up to 28.50 an hour). With that being said i am socially inept. His son's 25 birthday is tonight and he told me that we would really like it if i stopped by for a little bit.
Can i skip this?
What do i do
please make up my mind for me ;-;
Do you like the son of your neighbor?
>>17116673
>Can i skip this?
Can you? Obviously. Should you? Probably not.
>>17116684
This.
If he's worked with you for two years, he probably knows you're socially inept by now, and he still wants you there. Go there and awkward it up.
I want someone to give a shit about me, I'm tired of being the only one.
It's a good vibe when others give a shit about you but it shouldn't be a need. You should be self-sufficient, you should be able to give enough shit about yourself that you don't depend on hand-outs. Do you give enough shit about yourself?
>>17116674
It's pretty tiring actually. But yeah
>>17116639
http://rentafriend.com/
what do women want?
A good pair of shows and some god damn.whiskey
What do men want?
>>17116637
A pair of whiskey some dog gone shoos
So about a week ago, my grandfather died of cancer.
I only met this grandfather a year ago because i've never met my father, and he didn't know i existed. I've only ever talked to my father on the phone and the relationship between them is completely severed by my grandfather.
So once we knew that the cancer would kill him, he told me not to tell my father he had died because i'm the only one in contact with him in the family. My father has repeatedly told me how sorry he is and how he has tried to make ammends with him but all contact fails.
As...
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>>17116603
did he leave you any money?
>>17116608
Not that i know of
>>17116616
ok so a stranger asked you to keep a secet for him? why? did he own anything? im pretty sure someone will tell your dad he inherited some shit
I think I got chlamydia from a tinder girl a week ago. One morning I was about to do my morning fap when I saw 1 milky drop come out of my dick and I wasn't even hard yet. Went to an STD clinic, they jabbed my dick with that cotton shit, and then collected a sample of this fucking discharge.
They gave me 2 pills of Azithromycin two days ago and they told me not to have sex for 2 weeks which I know is bullshit and I have tinder girls crawling all over my dick and I don't want to /bioterrorist and infect girls on purpose.
How long does chlamydia ACTUALLY...
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>>17116564
2 weeks minimum. Then get retested to be sure it isn't an antibiotic resistant strain.
>>17116564
Just whack off man, and always use a condom from now on.
Nigger, did you not learn your lesson? Next time it might be something more permanent. Enjoy fucking fatties and uggos on tinder by the way. Hopefully you'll get the herp like my coworker just got. It looks fucking gross during an outbreak and I know he's embarrassed by it too.
p.s. learn to google that shit you fuckwit.
Curious if anyone could suggest a decent supplier for phenibut. I'm very wary in general, and looking to better inform my risk assessment, as well as somewhere to start.
Don't really care about the nootropic angle, I just need an effective anxiolytic and painkiller.
As it stands I primarily use yerba mate, and for small windows of time, cocoa beans. Kava can be nice, but inhibits memory and higher reasoning.
Guarana can work as well. I've never found plants that synthesize caffeine to be overall anxiogenic, other than kola nut which seems generally terrible for you anyway.
Please help.
Bump. I'm actually interested in phenibut and was looking at reviews for lift mode's brand on Amazon. I've heard it's can make someone more social, outgoing, and overall increase their well-being. Is this true or is it a sham?
So I work in a shop and there's this girl who comes in quite often who I'm kind of into. She's displayed a few signs that could be positive but are they that positive? Generally she's really nice although kind of strikes me as a bit shy as well, she just has that whole introvert feel about her.
She's called me 'babe' a few times when leaving ("thanks babe"). On one occasion she asked me about the e-cigs we sold and when I mentioned I was thinking about one she said "yeah, me and you should both get one together!"...
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>>17116498
She maybe had a shit day.
Stop being a cuck and next time she shows in the store ask her out.
>smoking
Fucking degenerates.
>>17116508
Maybe. She was buying wine after all.
Don't know her name but of course that's my endgame.
Do you post on /pol/ by any chance?
>>17116517
Used to, anyway. I'm an ancap but I am still heavily influenced by "pol culture" when I'm on the web (I'm pretty direct in real life too). I'm going sober on 4chan now, been trying to quit porn/fap and this place is trigger fest, even on /adv/. I'm on day 14 of that, I guess day 0 of nochan? lol.
Anyway, next time you see her ask her what her plans for the weekend are. If she's got nothing (or even if she has something other than her grandmother's funeral) just...
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>Have PhD in chemistry.
>Have 10k in savings.
>No debt.
>No dependents.
>Love of life is asexual.
>No idea how to progress.
>Goal: want all the money, women, and power.
How I do it?
You don't
>>17116473
Should have gone to med school.
Well, if the love of your life is asexual and you're not then I recommend that you reconsider that relationship and seek a more compatible partner. If someone tries you to shame you for that decision then shove a chemistry kit up their ass.
Is it normal to be embarrassed about meeting your bf/gf online?
Embarrassed? Of yourself? Them? The situation?
No. It's very common now.
Embarrassment is a vague feeling. Do you think you can describe in more details how it makes you feel? Is there something in particular that triggers the embarrassment? If you could change something that decreases the embarrassment, what would it be?
Is the dentist dude in the building?
Hi
I'm having mouth trouble.
I've had a filling a while ago on "right permanent mandibular canine 27" . The upper teeth do not bite down together very well on it.
Also the gum around the tooth is very inflamed, maybe ulcerated or worse. On flossing it can present a white nodule, as if blood isn't feeding the gum (but I'm not sure).
I'm flossing twice a day, using anti-septic mouth wash twice a day and keeping them meticulously clean.
A big lump has suddenly appeared beneath the gum over about 4 weeks. My...
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>>17116443
>>17116418
Michael, it was a pleasure meeting you in passing some months back. Find a dentist in New York.
there's this company that i am dying to get into, and i realized i sent my resume and portfolio to the wrong email that was listed on their site...
should i send another to the correct email address? i've only realized it was wrong after a week that i applied.
>>17116420
should i tell them that i made a mistake or do i continue like it never happened? they haven't responded yet.
>>17116416
>>17116430
You dumbass, if you used the wrong email then they didn't get your first one. Just resend what you wrote the first time.
>>17116446
it was the wrong email in the sense that, it's still one of their company e-mails, but it was a general one instead of their career-oriented one.
i kind of figured they might've forwarded my email to the appropriate department, but the lack of response makes me think that they probably didn't get to it yet. (not even to reject me)
