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A few friends commented on an old post on Facebook from 3 years ago. The post was about us hanging out.
One 'friend', who is a dropkick living on welfare, commented on the old post today 'Back when anon was a functioning human' (referring to me). I kinda dropped of his and the other friends radar because I've been busy with study (med).
Why would he comment it and what does he mean? I'm functioning better than he is. Is it rude what he wrote? Should I text/call him asking him to delete it? I'd comment in response to his comment...
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FB can contact him to delete it if you report it as harassment.
>>17117115
You can delete it yourself if it's your picture that he commented on, I believe.
If you want to know why he said that, message him on Facebook and ask him what's up
>>17117123
Nah its my other friends post from 3 years ago, it literally just says 'hanging out with anon, friend and another friend'
>>17117118
Eh is it harassment or rude though?
My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship anymore and wants to focus on his career (that's just starting to pick up). He also doesn't have confidence in our relationship to be long distance.
We have dated for 1.5 years and lived together. Seems like a short time, but we progressed through a lot together.
He says he still loves me and just has to focus on himself now, but won't hesitate to come back if he realizes he made a mistake.
I am a wreck. I don't know what to do with my life. Everything has been falling...
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Would you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you?
>>17117122
Reasonably, no.
For some reason I feel that he does want it, but it's not the right time for him.
I guess I just have hope.
And I was ready for the long haul with him.
It's hard to believe that someone who said they loved you the day before wants to cut everything off the next day.
Every detail of him is in my head and I am getting sick knowing I won't be able to be with him anymore
Hi I'm back from a few months hiatus or so.
I'm there with you, dumped my toxic bf after an argument and was only recently able to get his shit out of my house. All those promises came magically crashing down. Now I'm fishing for a slave because I am not up to the love shit anymore.
I want to get this off my chest, even anonymously. I don't know if I'm looking for advice but I'm new to 4chan and this seems like a place I could talk about this. I've never told anyone about this before so I still kinda nervous despite being anonymous.
I've had sexual relations with my younger sister for 15 years. I know some people here would call that a "win" but I've always felt incredibly bad about it, to the point where I thought that maybe I should of ended my life because of it. I feel as if I ruined her chance to have...
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You'd be arrested and put in jail, if you ever told normal people.
She will one day. Enjoy your time free while you can
>>17117089
This. I have extreme doubts she was of legal age to be engaging in these activities with you. You're right to feel bad, and it's going to catch up with you.
Love is love, the bond between sibling is a love like no other. If you truly love her and she feels the same. Go to a state or cpuntry you can marry a relative, and make her a happy woman. She does not have to be your sister. You worry about ruining her chance to find true love with another man , but what if you are that man?
"Is it ok to obsess over a girl? Explain why"
Obsession is unhealthy. It's not ok to obsess over anything. You shouldn't obsess over your pinky toe.
Only if you are fucking her.
>My father killed someone while serving in the army
>My grandpa revels in what he did in the call of duty
>My uncle killed a civilian in cold blood
>My older brother also killed in cold blood
>My cousin killed someone through "misadventure"
>Dad beat the shit out of me as a kid
>Took it as a character building experience
>Beat...
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>>17117047
It's too bad I just deleted all of my "neckbeards with katanas and edgy quotes" pictures
Don't bottle it up, be more belligerant in your day-to-day.
>>17117047
Go to a therapist anon, and remember that nothing is preordained because of your genetics. There is literally no reason to be afraid of going to a doctor, they can help you deal with your anger so that you won't hurt anyone (anymore). You can work on keeping your anger and physical violence under control, but you can do it a lot better if you have someone to help you
>Just started dating girl about 3 weeks ago
>Found out she is a massive feminist
She didn't have any of the warnings signs either, natural hair color, no tattoos or piercings. Pretty cute, normal looking girl.
What do I do now? I'm 99% leaning towards dump. Is there any reason I shouldn't? I fucking despise feminists, and while she has yet to really put on display her feminist side, she showed a hint of it last night when we talked about video games.
Just leave man, before she can get her rape tenticles in you. The longer you stay with her the more likely she is to accuse you of rape when the relationship inevitably goes sour.
Get her to do a ffm threescore first.
>>17117045
*threesome, stupid autocorrect
Half-way through electronic engineering I realised I didn't care about my life and didn't attend lectures or exams - thought I deserved to die homeless.
But I did feel obligated to try the year again, to not waste a college opportunity that billions would kill for.
When family found out, they put me in much-needed therapy and set me to try a third time, which I also fucked up.
Another college accepted me and I can only confirm if I know I'll succeed - can't let the debt increase.
But if I delay I'm wasting another year at 24yo, I can't...
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You will build a world-saving AI that will make everything worth it. I believe in you anon.
Diagnosis : Depression
EE is a fucking shitty degree. Can you see yourself doing anything else?
I caught my gf stripper lying to me about going to a customers house, I confronted her, she said it was just lapdances for money, I come to find out months later that it was full on BDSM (him beating the shit out of her) and her masturbating to daddy daughter porn afterwards. She was a victim of sexual abuse as a child. I left, to take some time away, she then fucked the guy saying that she believed we were done anyway.
Now she's playing mind games on me saying she doesn't know whether or not she wants me back. Even though she drunk dialed me one night telling...
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no anon, i think you already knew that answer though. you're just looking for someone out there to tell you otherwise, because you have this feeling in your heart that still loves her. the logical side of your brain knows the answer.
>>17116936
>gf stripper
Ok anon hold on
You knew this was coming
>>17116945
I think I know her answer and that she doesn't want to be together and rather be with this rich sadist over me cause I'm blue collar.
Just can't shake the feeling of the one that got away and that she is a sweet girl, who has issues. I feel like the whole BDSM stuff is just totally unhealthy for her, especially when her abuse coincides with her BDSM fantasies.
I am going to fish soon with some friends and need to get a good pole to go freshwater fishing with. There are alot of types apparently I didn't know about. Basically my question is what is a good and decently cheap fishing rod for freshwater fishing?
Just get a rod with a reel and not a button.
You hold the reel bar back, and then throw. It'll cast out the lure.
Trust me, mate, fishing is 40% waiting, 50% drinking, and only 10% dealing with the actual fishing part.
It's great.
You get drunk as hell with buds while something may happen.
>>17116924
Probably won't be able to get drunk we are going at 8am and I unfortunately have to drive
>>17116967
It's fishing.
You will get drunk.
That's how it works.
If you're driving, then you're the loser bitch they've designated to not enjoy the experience.
Fishing is essentially waiting.
If you're not drinking, what's the point?
I need tomorrow off work to go to an event with friends and I organised a shift swap with another friend but my manager intervened and cancelled it.
This means my work place now knows I need tomorrow off, so if were to call in sick, that would be under heavy scrutiny and I'm pretty indispensable but I'm not sure how far they could go. They would be massively pissed off for a while anyway.
As a internet-dweller, I don't get loads of opportunities to attend social gatherings.
If I give in and just go to work, I will probably extremely annoyed...
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>>17116910
why did the manager cancelled?
And it sounds you're screwed
>>17116910
Go, get fired, wait a month and re apply. Your boss can fire you but likely has no say on who the company hires
>>17116914
the manager thinks the person i swapped shifts with could not work in the department that i work in
>been talking with a girl after one of my classes throughout the semester
>brought up going to school's art museum this past Tuesday
>got her number yesterday
>saw her in class again today and she seemed to be giving me the eyes
>talked to her after class (she left class before me and was waiting on a bench outside the building and waved at me so we talked)
>invited me to an underground...
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I can't believe I have to share a board with you.
Die.
>>17116870
What did I do?
>>17116866
Just text her what you told us. That you felt awkward and insulted she gave you a side hug and went to the bathroom without inviting you. Girls like honesty.
my new neighbor is hot às shit. but she's still in HS. like 2yrs younger than me. how do I fuck her
divide your age by two and plus seven, that is the minimum age you can fuck without being a creep
>>17116873
So it's creepy for a 14 year old to date a 13 year old? Even if they're in the same school year?
>>17116876
it's creepy for anyone to fuck a 13 year old, yes.
Potential life or death shit here.
So there's this guy on an obscure chan who is actually trying to kill himself. Recently he cut himself up with a knife on cam, he didn't go to the hospital for help. I'll provide link below. He is insane, believes in magic, occult bs, etc. Talks about how he wants to die, I know it sounds histronic but histronics can hurt/kill others. I'm worried he might go to try and kill others, he's talked about Elliot Rodgering several times and it seems to be getting worse, yeah he's a virgin too. recently broke up...
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the video: http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=09e_1462323576
yeah it's kinda fucked up but those look like superficial cuts, he's not gonna bleed out that way
it won't let me post the links to threads. so i'll have to do with screencaps.
How do I make sure an escort is legit before I go see her?
Come on, /advice /, make with the advice.
Sorry anon, I want to help but in my country prostitution is legal so I just go to a house in the red light district. Man a few weeks ago I was with this girl that was my absolute dream. Blonde hair, blue eyes, over 6 feet, THICK thighs, nice tits. It was absolutely incredible, I have to go back there sometime soon.
It must really suck to try to do this stuff in an uncivilized country like yours, have to meet the girls individually, no guarantee they aren't a cop, they might have diseases, no bouncers to make sure you don't get robbed or beaten.
Sorry...
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>>17116891
I normally wouldn't go for an escort, but this one is so fucking sexy I can't help myself. I don't want to catch anything or get arrested over it though.
Anyone have any general tips on meeting an escort?
how do you get a GF if you're poor and ugly
>>17116819
Looks is not the most important thing most girls look for. And only someone materialistic cares about wealth. Become confident and interesting.
>>17116823
eh, I have lots of female friends and it seems like looks is a large part of what they care about, they're extraordinarily picky
>>17116832
Are you funny, confident, interesting, intelligent? That will override looks to girls that matter.
