>>17113504
bump

Make a list of everything you need to do and just do it. Over time you can start raising the bar for the quality of your work, but getting in the habit of doing it is probably the most important part.

You can start with your interests that way it seems more like something you like to do and go with that. Then build and make your interests productive, make money on them, blog, podcast or what ever that way the motivation comes from the things you like to do.

Not being a clingy guy. "Hey how are you" or "good morning babe" type of stuff. Make them initiate conversations. Act like you're not interested. Make them jealous and let them know you're talking to other girls. Also, be assertive. Girls like guys who take control. Being a faggot who says 'i-is it ok if I kiss you now?' gets you no where. You just gotta feel it in the moment, grab her and kiss her. Be in charge. Dont hold her purse when you shop. Or don't text back right away. Make her wait.

It means they were spineless doormats who went out of their try to trick girls in to sleeping with them by being "nice" (AKA Nice Guys™) because they saw them as sexual objects.

and instead of learning to just grow up and treat people like people, they went to the exact polar opposite and instead of passive aggressively treating them like sexual objects, they just outright started to treat them like sexual objects.

It worked because at least they got noticed...

But it still didn't fix the fact that they went from being one kind of douche...
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>>17113520
>presents self-serving story full of frustration
>claims to be """grown up"""""

I'd let the fiancé know. Obviously you have no intentions to act on that in any way, but just give him the heads up and explain there's absolutely nothing there. The guy is a bit Asperger to say that while knowing you're engaged even though you're mostly just coeds

You did exactly what you were supposes to do. Its up to him to get over it.

>>17113459
He did what is right by telling you his feelings. It is selfish for you to think he should live his life wondering "what if". That said, you did the right thing by telling him you are not interested and are engaged.

Sometimes both parties can do the right thing and realize a relationship has just run its course. My guess is he has feelings for you and it is too hard for him to continue associating with you until he gets them under control - or maybe forever. Don't blame him, just go live your life.

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>>17113430

>This is gonna sound stupid

You're right, that did sound stupid.

>>17113441

Maybe to a pleb like yourself but there will be a Memeology major in 10 years, mark my words. You're just a consumer not a deep thinker

>>17113430

no one would finance such class, and even if they did, at most it would be part of a lecture (a 5-minute example) as part of a psychology course or the human sciences in general

you'd first have to get a PhD in Psychology / relevant field though, so you can teach

if you aren't trolling, i'd recommend creating and offering an online course

when the numbers and interest pile up, you can use that to show a university that there's interest in your subject and they can invite...
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He prefers to be alone with a group of internet friends

>>17113425
Tell him you want him to come do something you know he likes. If he doesn't agree to come, just tell him you want to be his goddamn friend, and that he should hang out with you. If that don't work, it's his choice, but you should still try to keep in touch with the guy

>>17113425
Why are you posting this thread again?

Yeah, that's chill, but I'd say don't add the coffee bit in yet. Slowly ease it in

>>17113383
Damn, I don't like talking a lot online, but I guess you're right. I'll give it a few more messages before I ask her out.

Ayy that's cool

get it on your head like a headband you fucking doofus. christ

>>17113293
Depends how close you were
When I get a tat just think
'When Im a filthy decrepid 90 yr old and probs living in an OAP home will it still be worth it'
Some tats will-some wont-you need to make the choice

Just get a tear tattoo on the side of one of your eyes

Probably not

>>17113242
So how do I get me some sex?

I tried it and i didnt after like 6 weeks i gave up...i find it easier in real life...or get her facebook in the club then ur leaps ahead...

Tell them that

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>>17113205
I did tell her the first appointment. She's all caught up on what I know needs to be done and what can improve.

I almost feeling like I'm wasting her time with my bullshit. But I know I need to go.

>>17113198
Tell her exactly what you just said here. Print it out and read it if you have to. If she's worth her hourly she'll be able to work with that. Silence is difficult to work with, especially early on. Any content, any conversation you bring to the table helps.

>>17113178
go get a job can always continue your education at a later date

There's a lot more to this question than length of commute, but /adv/ doesn't know your life story.

If the solar panel place will support you, give you some experience, add something nice to your resume and fill your days with something productive, then may as well. If you're just gonna be sweeping floors, maybe consider Jr. College.

Take the job. You'll be running the joint by time you would have graduated from jr college, and by that time you'd be lucky to get the job you're being offered now.

>>17113122
What do you want us to tell you, bro? Find out more about the girl and see for yourself.

Or give up.

>>17113136
How do I even approach the subject with her?
>Hey, I heard you're a total degenerate!
Doesn't sound good man

>>17113122
Go pork the one you played smash with. (challenge her to a duel, loser has to fuck the winner)

Working as an EMT has made me hate ER nurses with a passion. Yes your job is hard, we get it, but it's the job you chose so stop trying to make everyone else as miserable as you and fucking do it. That's what I want to say when they give me shit but I dont, because I can't and unfortunately neither can you. He's not your boss and until you hear this from your boss he can go fuck himself.

Keep trying op it'll get easier, don't get discouraged. Oh and stop looking down on male nurses. This guy may be a cunt but there's nothing wrong with being one.

>>17113039
Well was he right though? Just take it as criticism

>>17113050
Oh I know there's nothing wrong with male nurses. My dad and grandfather were both nurses.

It just seems like nurses are so fucking miserable all the time. Literally everyone else in the ER is friendly to me and will ask me nicely when they want things. Whether it's respiratory, x-ray, security, EMTs, all of them give the same respect they get from you, but nurses, at least at my hospital, are all complete cunts.

I actually just took this job for money for community college so I can go to...
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>Mom doesn't like the idea.
>Part of me says fuck mom, it's my life.
>Other part is strongly tethered to family opinion because I live under their roof. Still.

What did you want to study?

>>17113034
I'm really not sure anon. I just know if I keep working this shitty ass fucking job It'll only hold me back. Sure I could work full time, and go to school but I'm afraid I'd end up doing a shitty job of both work and school.
My passion is writing, philosophy and to an extent, medicine.

>>17113013
leaving records online of potential crimes is way too stupid.

Hookers are smarter than you are, though that's not saying much. They'll have you pay at least a portion of it up front

>>17113013

That's called soliciting.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solicitation

Yep

Cognitive behavioral therapy and anti depressants worked for me. I also had a family support network that wouldn't let me give up when it got hard, which it did.

>>17113012
Quick answer, I didn't. I've just been better. Uninstalled all of my video games, started reading more and hanging out with people. Working out also helped out a lot.

>>17113012
apples everyday
lifting/running every second
learnings spanish too

cross the finish line of your first half marathon and tell me you feel depressed. bam depression fixed

it's like a flu anyway. i know it's a lot tought, but goes by, afterwards you're just sad about all the time that was wasted.