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ive always been the weird kid , and ive always hated my life to some extent
ill be leaving highschool soon, so that could give me the opprotunity to reinvent myself
besides working out, i plan to try and become a completely different person. So i need help on what hobbies i should do.
What are some normal, conventional hobbies that aren't considered nerdy?
>>16865579
shut it down.
>>16865579
you will regret it. trust me. "normal" people are boring as fuck and most dont really do anything. they are normal because they are uncultured plebs. you can still be social and confident while having obscure hobbies. you just need to find a balance, add the odd few normal interests into your life but dont complete convert. some normal hobbies are going the gym, watching tv, going on Facebook and talking shit about people and drinking. they dont do much else. being the weird kid isn't really due to...
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doing AND watching sports
go out and drink/do drugs and dance
How thin do you have to be in order to get a boyfriend? I'm aiming for 160lbs, 5'7, or do I need to go lower?
>>16865492
lol. you need to be proportionate, and even that's just a bonus.
I assume you have a vagina? If you're not a landwhale and are fairly proportionate you can have a boyfriend in a moment's notice. Even if you are a landwhale and built like a refrigerator, you can have a boyfriend, just maybe not the one you want.
130 is more realistic at that height, but there are men into fatties as well so you could always choose from them.
>>16865492
if you can diet down to a certain weight and then maintain that weight, its not any more complicated to just diet a little longer and then maintain instead of stopping your diet early
shoot for your ideal body weight which is around 140 more or less depending on your build
A friend of mine killed herself
What do I do /adv/?
Accept it. And visit a psychotherapist
Well, what can you do?
And what exactly are you trying to do? You obviously can't bring her back.
>>16865381
Follow suit.
As a black girl how can I acquire a cutw Korean bf?
be cute
talk to cute korean guys
>>16865352
no self respecting korean will date black, they will be disowned
>>16865352
Just go hit up Tyrone for that good dick you know you want
how does a white person stop hating white people. or at least fix them or kill them off or something. first off all lets get some shit straight.
>be of north european origin
>no white guilty here, just basing this off stuff i observe
>slavs, celts, mediterraneans, are NOT white in this context
celts are retarded subhumans and germanics are borderline robots. what do
pic is an art that i like by a german who somehow the exception to my rule
>>16865329
Stop assuming everyone conforms to stereotypes
>>16865329
Go hangout in Compton, Afghanistan and China lol you'll love white people again.
>>16865329
>no white guilt
lol
I'm already old and getting back into school. Want to make money and have a job I don't hate.
Help.
How are we supposed to know what you don't hate if you don't even know? You haven't even given us anything to work with.
...
>>16865085
Fuck school, get into Carpentry and I guarantee you won't hate it.
>>16865114
This.
Union labor is wide open and you'll learn to love it, at least for the benefits. The whole college bubble burst about twenty five years ago so if you have to ask strangers what to do it's not worth your time or money. Is what it is.
/adv/,
I'm trying to find cute panties for a girl, but all the websites I've looked at only have traditional 'women' panties. I'm talking about panties with little figures, cute characters etc. Would any of you kind gents or gentees give me any pointers on websites/places to look?
>>16865077
which characters? what happened when you tried googling "(name of character) panties"?
>for a girl
sure anon.
>>16865083
Why yes, I did try things like 'character' panties but did not always find anything. I'll try that though. Was thinking more of a general store where I could browse designs though.
>>16865101
Hard to believe but troo mane.
>Neckbeard
>Gone +1 year no human contact
I started college yesterday, small tute group, how do I project myself to be likable and confident?
There is a qt3.14 in the class
smile and dont stare u fat fuck
also epic meemes
>>16865103
How do I make people think good about me?
>>16865138
dont be a sperg and be positive. no 1 likes someone who talks shit or says how sad they are
i swear to god im tired and i dont know what to do
please help me
my life is hell and i wish i could just kill myself
in our house i live with my mother and father and grandma and uncle
my uncle is sick and his mind has something wrong with it and he keeps harassing me and touching me in sexual places
whenever i tell my mom she yells at me and says that i just want to bring shame to my family and embaress my father in front of everybody
i have tried to hint it to my father twice before and he hit me and told me that it was all my fault and that my uncle cannot...
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>>16865069
call the police. if you are worried that you will become homeless, tell the police this and ask them to put you in touch with whatever social services agencies exist in your area.
what country do you live in OP?
>>16865069
how old are you? can you get a job and move out?
>>16865073
i cant leave my parent's house
it's social suicide
even if i managed to do all of this succesfully i know i will never be married because nobody would want to marry a girl like this ..
and i don't even know if they have such things where i live
i live in jordan by the way
>>16865084
im 19
im still studying
how do i stop procrastinating? it feels like a week ago i was focused and goal oriented, but now i seem to be lost in my thoughts and imagination.
I have papers to work on.
Tell your papers to go fuck themselves. You have dreams to chase
>>16865063
not sure if this is good legit advice
>be 24 years old engineering student
>lost a shitload of time trying to study various things without an once of motivation because nothing better to do
>still living with my mom since I have 0 income
>she's unbearable, I've been wanting to gtfo for years but no money for that and she wont put a cent for it either
Now I concretely have 2 options:
- Continue with this shit, try not to kill myself and obtain a stable and well paid yet boring job in like 3 years if everything goes well
>will have fun once a week getting drunk and shit on weekends
Or
- Do something i like with the obvious risks to get financially rekt
>maybe one day I'll be both financially independent and doing stuff i consider fun
>maybe I'll just end up on the streets
Need help for this, I feel like I'm fucked in both options
The second option would be related to craft beer since its the thing i do for fun that is most likely to get me some money.
I already do for me & my friends and it's pretty appreciated, I'd "just" have to produce <9000 times more and sell it
bumping for mercy
Stay where you are until your mother gets sick of you and kicks you out.
Okay to make this short:
>19
>last year in high school
>at a girl classmates house party
>end of party myself and another girl from class starts to make out in a bed
>we have been flirting with each other before so it felt natural
>havent spoken with her alone since, been almost 2 weeks now
Should I ask her out for a date? I know she is kind of shy but she is really cute,...
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Shameless bump, :(
>>16865049
Do what the duck you want, I don't give a shit.
>>16865086
i dont really know what I expected, love is one crazy drug heh
So i have a problem with waking up,
I oversleep every single day, i have tried everything but i just wont fucking wake up.
I have 4 alarm clocks set at 5:30 and i dont hear even one of them.
They just keep making noise until they turn off like 3 hours later.
I have tried everything, sleep in a cold room, no laptop or phone in room, vibrating alarm etc
They only way i wake up on time is when my father throws a cup of water on my face.
I went to a doctor for this and they thought i had breathing stops while sleeping so i got tested for that and...
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adv pls
>>16865110
bump
>>16865041
go to bed early you doofus, cuz when your sleeping theres no lonely times
guys I got a girls number for the first time in my life she smiled at me after she gave it and we looked in each others eyes for a few seconds what the heck do I do
>>16865017
Post it on /b/ with her name. They'll call her and arrange a date for you.
>>16865017
What do you think you should do ?
And don't you dare tell me '' I don't know ''.
Or I will hero you .
So my gf's father tried to kill himself again and got himself into a coma.
My girlfriend went to see him, which is like 3 hours away, and is staying with her family. She tried to bring me over but I refused as I don't know him, the rest of the family and got work to do. Now the doctors told her he will die in the next few days and naturally she plans on staying there until he goes, and a couple of days more for the funeral. The thing is now she keeps pressuring me to go be with her, her family also thinks so apparently, and I don't think this is reasonable.
Her...
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You sound like an asshole. My advice: Don't be an asshole.
Come on guys. I need some external perspective in here pls.
pic unrelated
>>16865022
That's helpful, thanks.
