>>16864555
Absolutely never happened to me in my life, but bump for interest

>>16864555
Is it abnormal? Yes, but it is increasing in popularity. You need to work on being super friendly, positive, helpful, and assertive. The flirting game with it involves doing something that shows your value, being shy and coy (all about the body language), and catching on to when you are getting asked out, women are a bit more subtle about this. Also remember that you could be genuinely asked to do something as a friend and not as a potential partner. This happens to me a lot (I've usually been in a relationship...
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Try to solve it using emotions and common sense yourself, just to exhaust all of your options at home. I figure you're smart enough to figure out what turns you on and what type of mood is conducive to wood. I'm sorry, by the way, that you have anxiety or whatever. That shit is no fun.

If trying again doesn't work, maybe see a doctor for ED or something. If he says you're fine, then just keep trying to give yourself some self-applied therapy at home. If you go months without being able to fuck, after getting penile clearance from the dick doc, perhaps...
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Calm the fuck down and just fuck the bitch

>>16864548
Quit being lazy?

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>>16864541
Welcome to the club.

>>16864541
Do you have any hobbies that could potentially be turned into a career?

What interests you?

What would a job have to give you in order to make you want to get up every day?

Not having a degree is a massive disadvantage these days. Would you consider going to university?

bumping in a slow board

Honestly, I think you fucked up by telling her you loved her when you really didn't. I know it was putting you on the spot when she said it, but you've got to sack up and be forward with what you want and how you feel.

In regards to your current situation, honestly, it sounds like you're not ready for a relationship of any kind with girl one. It just sounds like its not what you want. You need to be direct and tell her how you feel ASAP, because its going to hurt, no matter what. But she'll get over it and life will go on. Also, you'll be able...
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You're not losing anything. Guilt isn't something to protect. Cut her off and get your sex, or keep her and keep your sex.

All's fair in love and war. Just be clearer with the next girl so you don't fuck her over like this one if you feel bad about it. It's already given that you've fucked her over, so you might as well flip a coin if you don't like thinking. Who knows? If you stay with her, you might learn something. If you're gonna break up with her, you can be as clear and sincere as you can be, or not. All up to you. I'm...
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>>16864524
...really?
Nypa kiddo

>>16864524
My advice would be not to do stupid shit like this.

Why would this be stupid? He harasses me like every week?

You obviously still have feelings for her and are still under the delusion that this fuckbuddy thing going on is a vessel for your relationship to continue.

Move on before you get yourself hurt.

You are in the most toxic point of a relationship. If you want to have a chance in hell of getting her back/making her regret everything. In one message simply tell her what you saw, and do not respond for weeks. She will literally fall into a void of pain. The whole fuckbuddy thing is so retarded and I personally would never be a part of a relationship like that. Anyone who can be is actually quite sick in my mind.

>>16864492
Slowly, carefully, and with planning. What are your problems and goals?

Stop fapping or playing video games when you're bored. Exercise at home or ride a bike in case you don't have friends to hang out with. Also stop eating so damn much.

get off 4chan

>>16864491
If you feel college isn't for you, you'll resent every day that you spend there. Don't force yourself to do something you know you hate. If you are fine working without a degree, then do it. You can always go back to school as an adult, if you feel the need.

>>16864491
idk how it is in europe but in the USA unless you come from a rich family or are naturally talented in some way you basically perma-yourself by not having a college degree. the 'you don't need to go to college' hype is bullshit propagated by bitter losers and people who need more blue collars to fix their cars and toilets.

classism is real. you will be looked down by literally everyone at some level for not having a college degree unless you're like the founder of a startup or something....
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>>16864514
>perma-fuck yourself

this is childish. just let it go

>>16864453
ive been bullied since i was 12 and i just cant let go this things

>>16864454
That is a problem with you. Not anyone else

>>16864435
>person a initiates breakup with b
>a is then sad and depressed

Were you expecting to get a new chick instantly

>>16864445
No, it's just I didn't know that I'd feel this bad.

>>16864435
You'll get over it.

You broke up for a reason.

It isn't 'her' you want; it's the loneliness you don't want.

You'll get over it. Grab a 24 pack. Play your favorite vidya. Rub one out, you'll be fine.

If I can initiate and get a divorce from my wife whom I was married to for 9 years, you can get over this.

It's probably not as bad as you think.

Working in retail whilst you're reading your degree is fine. You can't start your proper career because you're still working on the qualification you need to get your foot in the door, and you can't do a 40 hours monday to friday job because you need time for lectures. The only options that really leaves is food service or retail, which is what the vast majority of students do.

A part time shelf stacking job doesn't pay enough to have savings. To do that you need to earn more money than it costs...
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>>16864416
Prostitution

legit mate, i need to fill DPA papers up

Only way to do that is to get incredibly lucky

>>16864402

Last october i thought i'd try to reconnect with her and take her out to lunch. I texted her saying hello and apologized for being an immature dick. She was wary of my intentions "what triggered this all of a sudden?". Agreed to go to lunch and then canceled/flaked at the last minute. Then she said she was 'busy' and couldn't hang out with me. Got the message, didn't talk to her for a while.


A couple weeks ago, my friend gave me two tickets to a local opera super...
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>>16864404

>ignore that last line


Then later that week, she tried to booty call me at midnight. I didn't see her that night, but I ended up taking her to dinner again, hanging out with her another day, and then getting booty called successfully a couple days after that.

I'm starting to think she only wants/wanted to fuck now, but she's playing the 'maybe someday when i'm not so busy, ugh i have all this stuff to do' card when I tried to hit her...
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>>16864402
Hard to say exactly what's going on as I don't know the in's and out's, but I'll give you my gut feel -

Chances are, she doesn't exactly know what she wants and is just having fun.
Most girls enjoy the date-y things, cause, in general, they just love attention.
The problem is - you caught feelings.
You are a booty call because you do a good job, and, unlike how guys can just jerk off, girls really need dick to satisfy that urge.

The bottom-line is this, if you...
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>>16864382
Be gentle as fuck no matter what you do. I'd stop overthinking it (suffocated by a thought) first and foremost. The next thing I'd do is try to set up some reoccurring event (weekly poker night, guys night out, etc.) and try to encourage her to do something that she likes during that time. You could also try introducing her to hobbies that are the check in on type (painting, reading, etc.) so that she can start doing things on her own while you still are able to be supportive of her.

>>16864396
She has a few hobbies. These include reading and cooking mostly. She doesn't do much active things, which I think could help make her feel better about herself too, but she's not very open to this. As soon as things seem like I want her to change something she'd be like "why does everybody always want me to change??" And makes me look bad. She often says she is bored..

>>16864396
I'll try to stop thinking too much of it, but what I'd like is for her to get more confident and not depend on me emotionally.