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To guys mostly: would you be friends with a girl who is kinda hot and cold?
I have bouts of depression and sometimes get very weary and tired of people and often break up friendships and then beg people to take me back. I'm know I'm crazy, and I'm trying to work on that but idk. I just have the same issue, like I told this guy to go to hell but now I want him back in my life but dunno what can I do about it tbqh. I already apologised and sort of explained that it's because of my mental shit but what more can I do?
I'm so fucked eh
>>16876033
>women
>friends
Pick one
>>16876033
really, no. i wouldnt even be friends with a guy like this.
if i was interested in banging the girl, maybe put up with it for awhile to see where it goes. but honestly if it takes more than two weeks to get into someones pants, not really worth the effort imo cuz they want something more serious.
so no. i wouldnt. i tend to be stress free in my relationships. if you cause stress, we aint friends. and saying 'i have mental issues' doesnt really excuse or fix what you did. it just means...
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No I wouldn't because they will do stuff like lead on often times and it gets annoying if not frustrating.
You can try growing up though and treating people more like human beings.
OK /adv/ I need some help. how do I go about finding a man that will let me be his house wife. this is all I have ever wanted in life is to be a wife and mother. I'm pretty old fashioned and it seems like most guys now a days just want girls who party and not into the whole family thing.
>>16875653
Try churches and such? Date older men? I'm turning 30 this year and still want a girl who will go have some fun, but some of my coworkers at least seem ready to settle down and have the income to support this kind of thing.
>>16875653
Church would probably be your best bet. If you want an old-fashioned lifestyle, hang with old-fashioned people.
Or did you want to have an 'old-fashioned lifestyle' while still being liberal and unrestrained by old-fashioned social conventions too?
>having your cake and eating it too
Try /soc/. Now for the serious question, where are you located? And why should any guy pick you over the other girls, especially when you won't contribute financially?
During college I met a girl. Well not met, more like admired from a distance. Intrigued by her from the start, fell hard.
Months later, out of curiosity, I google her in hopes of learning more about her. Accidentally discover she's transgender.
Absolutely floored, but after a little while I realize it hasn't changed the way I feel about her. I do some research and watch some videos, and see that transgender women tend to be very cautious/afraid due to the stigmas some men have, which greatly lends to their insanely high murder rate.
The first time I approached her, it seemed like she was uncomfortable x1000 and wanted to eject out of her seat and through the ceiling (and no, I'm not a creepy basement dweller, neckbeard, obese or anything like that). Nor was I saying anything weird, I said hi, introduced myself, asked her a few questions pertinent the class we were in (yes my game is awful).
Since then though I've caught her looking at me a few times, but I don't know if that's, "I like that guy but I'm afraid he'll out me and/or kill me," or, "I think that guy might clock me if he hasn't already, better keep an eye on him." (clock means to deduce that someone is transgendered)
I just want to spend time with her so she can get to know me well enough to know I'm not that kind of person... you know, if she's interested at all. I want to talk to her, but the first round of her looking uncomfortable made me feel like a creepy piece of shit.
I guess what I'm looking for here is input, /adv/ice, similar stories, etc, just to help mentally prepare me for what might be a repeat of last time.
Pic unrelated.
>>16875502
Maybe you could try to approach her by showing some vulnerability of your own. That's a bit of a vague suggestion I suppose, and might not be easy to put into practice. Perhaps you could start by expressing some difficulty over the class you share, and (not pushily) ask for her help or advice. Then maybe you could segue into outright saying "I'm really sorry to bother you" or "I'm really sorry, I can see I'm making you uncomfortable" and see if she responds in any particular way - I.e. contradicts you, maybe. Sorry, I've not got much of my own experience or successes to draw on, but I can't stand to see an unanswered thread.
>>16875507
>"I'm really sorry to bother you" or "I'm really sorry, I can see I'm making you uncomfortable"
definitely don't do this, it's not polite it's like fishing for compliments only instead of compliments, ego validation, and no one really likes cringing whiners who apologize for everything
>>16875516
Yeah, I kind of thought that when I wrote it. Sorry OP, an annoying SOB like me isn't really fit to advise anyone about these matters.
I'm male, 18 and only 160cm tall. I've got naturally large shoulders and a broad chest. This has always made me feel extremely self conscious. What can I do to get past my insecurities?
Release your insecurities.
Work out... Seriously, no one's gonna look down on a 5'2" brick wall. Then learn martial arts, just so that you can be bad ass in addition to being jacked.
>>16874279
>5'2 1/2
My sides. Manlets btfo.
But seriously, we were all dealt our cards. You just have to move on. Prove yourself in a way where your height is unrelated. Yeah a lot of women wont want to date you, but you only need 1 women to marry. That being said Id stick to women 5'3 and under.
Youll get passed them when you make a name for yourself and get a wife.
Ask a Christian man anything.
Also, offering advice to Christians.
>>16874200
What denomination would you consider yourself a part of? (I feel like that sheds more light on your specific beliefs and philosophies.)
>>16874200
I believe in God and our Lord Jesus Christ but wouldn't call myself a christian and I was thinking about this:
I think we come from evolution and evolution makes perfect sense to me in a religious way because that would mean that God is so wise that he gave us the ability to adapt to whatever condition the planet is in.
So my question is, why do christians in general refute evolution when it makes perfect sense? And the other would be, why do christians in general think of God as "magical...
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>>16874344
Well, it looks like OP got raptured or some shit. So I would like to take a crack at answering your question. (For the record, I am a UU. Not a Christian, so if your ideology differs, that's A-okay!) And I realize there's a great chance that your post is bait, but even if the question is posed, an answer might help someone.
>Why don't Christians subscribe to evolution theory?
It's really simple. Personal religious belief stems more from a sense of identity...
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ITT: We talk about whats wrong with us
> I'm 29 years old, good looking, very fit
> Own a successful passive income real estate portfolio and real estate business I built myself starting from age 21
> Slept with a fair amount of attractive women, nothing too bad though almost 20 total
I have everything a man at 29 could want but one thing... I can't relate or find a woman that I can see myself spending a lifetime with. I've come to realize all the artsy...
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>hurt so bad
>you don't come around here anymore
>worse than that
>nothing seems to be helping
>I been thinking
>about drinking again
I am at the point where I'm so intelligent that I'm creating my own path that can be the object of astonishment for other people.
The problem that I have that because of time constrains I can do only so much in the world.
I hit the point where if I want to see anything done within my path in my lifetime I have to let other people work on my projects.
And yet I'm so afraid that if I teach other people they will just fuck it up with their mediocrity.
I don't want anyone touching it.
>>16873858
you have to give it to someone, you magnificent cunt.
The condom broke and now I'm pregnant.
Bf wants to keep the baby. I don't.
What do?
I am willing to carry the pregnancy to term IF I am guaranteed that once it's out of me I won't have anything whatsoever to do with it anymore.
>>16872680
are you two in a situation where raising the baby is a possibility?
why is your bf against aborting? i'm assuming he wants you two to care for it?
You'll have to pay child support
>>16872680
Jesus Christ. You are one cold bitch.
I've always wondered what girls thought of the average sized penis?
>>16871562
once you break 5 inches or so length doesnt matter much and actually gets bad around 8+ inches since you will hit the cervix which hurts. the sensitive parts are not that far in and it really matters more what you're doing with it.
6 inch is larger than average.Average is about 5 inch
Is 7 inches good?
I just discovered that my sister draws copious amounts of very extreme furry porn all day and I don't know how to feel (maybe a little bit angry).
I am posting here because I feel like I need to talk about it but telling my mum would hurt her and if my sister knew I knew she would be hysterically upset.
I have nothing against porn. I look at it myself but she is literally spending her entire time drawing it. How do I know? She is always drawing in her room but she always hides the screen whenever anyone enters. Her tumblr is full of it dating way back and...
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I want to clarify a few things. I am female. I guess I should mention that.
About the job thing. I have been aiming for a particular type of job and it's really competitive. I have been working very hard (I have another interview soon). I work in retail while I look but my family are disappointed I haven't landed a career yet. Everyone has expected a lot from me since I was considered 'gifted' and these expectations have weighed on my heavily upon me.
The most surprising thing about this is that it's your sister. Chicks don't do nearly as much weird furry porn as guys do.
Is she doing commissions? It is well known that drawing furry porn of people's OC is the best way to turn drawing skills into money.
>feel like this in a way relates to how I feel about the porn thing.
Maybe you associate both of these things because you want the secret porn to be your legitimate reason to hate her back?
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What if I'm non-gender specific? Who do I ask then, shitlord?
>>16878271
Then you ask >>>/lgbt/. Duh.
Guys: Kim, Khloe and Kourtney Kardashian. Fuck, marry, kill.
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And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I...
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General question about these threads. Does anyone actually give a fuck whether there's link to the old thread in the OP of these threads? Because whoever else makes these threads keeps putting in a link, and I have no idea why.
Explain the science in disliking penises is more gay than disliking vaginas.
>>16874989
Sometimes people ask questions in old threads, walk away, get answers, and can't find the old thread because it's been bumped off. Saves people having to dig through the archives.
Is waiting to find a virgin girl to lose my virginity with a lost cause?
Past the age of 19, yes. It's shallow and pointless.
women dont like virgins
If you are a virgin past the age of 18 yes. Stop being beta, faggot.
Join us for some live worship, all are welcome!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqANd2aw8Mc
I want some goddamn pancakes.
>>16874309
International House of Prayer
bump
All are welcome!
I don't know where to go for answers. I'm in my first relationship and it's been 3 months. She's 18 and works full time and I'm a student. We live pretty far apart and only see one another once a week or so.
She only hangs out with guys because she's quite guyish (competitive gamer) which I understand. She doesn't tell me anything other than "I was hanging out with a friend" I don't want to come off as jealous or controlling but where the fuck do I draw the line? I'd like to know what you guys would do.
The...
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I don't know if she was serious about what she said to him or if she would actually go to karaoke with him because of the context but if she tells me she wasn't I'll believe he. I know she's honest. Her only other relationship lasted 2 years and she was faithful but it's clear she's becoming more exploring.
Nevermind. I'm going to let her do what she wants. I won't worry. I'll trust her and if she breaks that trust, it'll be over. Simple as that.
Would still like any input though.
Run far away from 4chan
Ever hear of a thing called money?
>>16873617
if you go to berlin don't try to sneak into the teufelsberg radio station. it's full of big boars hanging around and the station is full of junkies that will threat you for money. just saying cuz it may be Dangerous.
