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I'm 25, single, and make $38k/year.
I have $14.5k in savings and $11k in student loan debt. Should I pay off my debt in full? That will only leave me with $3.5k in savings but I'll save over a thousand dollars interest.
What would you do?
You can deal with the interest just fine. Better to keep your emergency fund.
I would not pay it off in full if I were you, but I might pay like 5k of it down.
>but I'll save over a thousand dollars interest.
The answer is pretty obvious.
How useless would getting a degree in music be?
>>16880775
In what specifically? Its not entirely useless if do something you can get a job in. I know people who got degrees in things like Music Theory and Music Therapy, and both did fine.
>>16880788
Performance
>>16880775
Music major here. Why are you getting a degree in music? What are your goals?
I found out that this really obnoxious, loud, opinionated and fucking crazy girl in my friend group has had a crush on me for months. My friends say give her a chance, because they find her funny, and she's not ugly ( though she's fat ). Should I go on a date with her and give her a chance? Her parents are pretty loaded and she has and does a lot of cool shit.
>>16880741
no need to date
just buy her a cheeseburger then fuck her
buy her another cheeseburger
get her fatter and fatter
get married
move to a black neighborhood
get cucked by tyrones who want dat fat white ass
come back to adv and bawww
i'll be there to give you some more good advice.
>>16880741
gross.
Doesn't sound lady like.
Also, fat? Double gross.
Have some respect for yourself
>>16880741
but do you like her?
I'm a virgin and before going all the way with my long-term boyfriend I want to give him a BJ. I'm worried that I won't be able to do a good job since I've never done anything sexual. Do any guys have tips or tricks that will make it feel better for him?
Dont just suck. Try many things. Lick, twirl your tongue, blow gently. Get creative, learn what he likes and do it more.
Do stuff with your hands. Cup his balls, grab his shaft, play with his legs. It shouldnt be mouth only.
Look him in the eyes when you can.
Dont be afraid of his come, it wont hurt you.
"omg where did u learn all this stuff??"
"i.. uh... 4chan?"
"... i don't know if i should be relieved or scared""
A good blowjob is actually half handjob.
i hate being a manlet so much
i cant walk by a girl without them laughing
people openly mock me for it in public
i don't know how muck longer i can do this
im a 5'9 160 pound manlet and no matter what i do ill always be one.
i cant do this any more but i don't know what to do.
>>16880600
im 5'6 and i kinda feel that but just worry about how you feel about yourself.
>>16880600
Lol get off this website, 5'9 is not manlet it's average height, and the reason they're laughing at you is the fact your insecurities are somehow showing
5'2 guy reporting
But I'm qt so it's k
I'm male.
I have 0 female friends. For me, if I'm not dating/fucking girl (and I have an active sex/dating life),
I want nothing to do with her.
Is this mysogynist?
>>16880440
>Is this mysogynist?
No. It's common sense. People should be like you.
Not thinking women have anything worthwhile about them besides sex is pretty misogynistic, yeah.
>>16880455
They don't
Hey,
I've been dealing with a somewhat severe depression for many years, lately it has been worse, whenever I go to a professional they keep telling me that I need many many sessions of therapy but due to my current lifestyle I can't really do that
does anyone have any good experience with medication? of course I'd visit a professional again if I were going to take meds, but so far dealing with professionals has been so useless to me. And while I do have some childhood issues and shit, right now I'm on the best moments of my life, so I think my depression...
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Do you have any hobbies?
>>16880293
yeah, plenty, I'm always trying new stuff too.
Doesn't help at all with depression though
Yeah, real therapy is hard. Leaves you feeling kinda raw to talk about everything.
It's up to you. I would do it if it's in your financial means, but not otherwise. You have to find the right therapist. Lots of people say to look for a professional who is your gender/sexuality/age close to yours/etc. so you aren't always explaining basic shit they don't understand.
So, I've lost more hair these last months. My confidence has gone, and I don't talk to women anymore because of this. I've bought minoxidil as my last hope, but I doubt it will work. I started going to the gym, so I don't become a fat balding loser.
How have you dealt with male-pattern baldness?
Are women really that bothered by it?
Girls who are like 18-19 are bothered by it, but you look way too old to be dating them anyway. Girls of your apparent age will think you look totally normal because you do.
>>16879986
I know, that's why I said women.
Another perspective, looks fucking awful.
Hey, when my girl gets drunk she usually doesn't have a filter, gets drunk and tells me what guys she thinks is hot that were around and what not, that doesn't usually bug me, Anyway, last night we were drinking and she told me soinso was cute, but she wouldn't have him be her go to. I was like go to? She sad well this is embarrassing and went off on a goofy drunk rant... so Im left wondering WTF is a Go to. I think I know but coming to ya'll for some clarification.
Buuump.
Ya'll are as confused as I am eh?
>>16879369
She's talking about who she thinks about when she flicks the bean.
Asking all involuntary virgins: if you could loose your virginity to a random girl you don't know, that is aware you're a virgin and doesn't care, maybe even sees it as an advantage, doesn't want any money and generally just wants to enable you to finally experience how awesome sex can be, would you do it? If so, what would your perfect scenario look like? If you could choose with no restrictions.
How do you stay an involuntary virgin in the twenty-first century? I'm seriously confused as to how this is a thing.
I'm a voluntary virgin, for religious reasons.
>>16879355
Wouldn't do it.
I'm not incel because of a lack of sexual options. I've had options.
I'd prefer some emotional attachment though... gettin' off doesn't matter to me - at the end of the day I can just jerk it.
I'd just rather be with someone who matters to me, rather than a stranger.
>>16879358
>>16879364
You both are aware that this is the reason i adressed my question to INVOLUNTARY virgins, right?
Why do so many guys obsess about being tall?
I'm an average sized guy, and when I see someone tall, most of the times it looks awkward due to a disproportionate body.
Look at basketball players, they look like caricatures.
>>16879319
>I'm an average sized guy, and when I see someone tall, most of the times it looks awkward due to a disproportionate body.
>Look at basketball players, they look like caricatures.
Stay mad, manlet.
>>16879351
seeing this pic i realized something, why gym guys tend to post pic of them with boners?
>>16879319
Girls want to feel protected. A bigger guy seems like he can protect them better or something.
>>16879372
There's a stereotype that guys in the gym have small balls. So this is a subtle way of them showing they have big balls.
What define charisma ?voice ? clothes ? muscle ? natural leader ship ?
How to become charismatic ?
>>16879099
talk like obama
bump for interest
>>16879114
actually, once you realise his delivery pattern is to stand dead straight and bob his head from side to side like an oversized meerkat, the charisma evaporates.
predictability is the enemy of charisma.
What is the most fierce male name out there?
>>16878965
Bob.
Courage Wolf.
>>16878965
>fierce
lance
Hey, /adv/. I've noticed I'm becoming more self-deprecating, lonelier, more thoughts of suicide, creepier, and weirder.
I don't have many friends, since next to everybody at my college is an athlete-type, "supfamtbh" kind of guy. That's fine and all, but I just don't relate.
I've started talking to myself when I'm alone, but only when I feel like shit or remember one of the 9 million embarrassing things I've done, and even then it's mainly "Christ, I'm pathetic", "I should fucking kill myself"...
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Nobody? Alright, that's fine.
>>16879005
>depression is genetic
how to spot a dummy 101
>>16878961
Don't beat yourself up over pitty things. Be aware that EVERY single person you'll ever talk has had these moments.
Do you ever go out? I don't want to get you hooked on alcohol but it really can help you get over that initial insecurity. Also, you can be 100% that the people around you either don't care or don't remember how you were acting. Well, unless you harass someone in an alley or something extreme like that.
Women, explain this.
I thought this was a meme until I tried online dating.
>>16878752
>make profile
>reject 500 guys in a week
>omg where have all the good men gone FA girl here ;_;
>>16878752
Why continue to make bait threads like this? Why? /b/ is just over there, why ruin this board?
>>16878752
online dating is a trap if you're a man, you will never find a good girl
whoever you end up with will have their personality ruined by constant male attention and the knowledge that they can leave you at any time for another option
you have to date like 5 levels down instead of 1 or 2
date in the real world
