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My mom does nothing but masturbate when she's home. All night, all day I just hear her ugly grunting, woofing noises coming from her fucking bedroom which is conveniently located right next to mine. I feel anxiety whenever I am waking up, going to sleep, etc. because I have to fucking listen to her and it fucks me up. I put in headphones and still it doesn't work, because if they even begin to come undone or come loose, I hear everything. I've also tried playing my music out loud, and when I do, she just apparently feels she doesn't even need to try to conceal...
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Easy, by recording her and putting the footage on the internet (^:
Vocaroo for starters, drop a video camera in there later.
>>16887746
have you ever considered talk to her? i mean... she is your mother, its not like you're living with a roommate.
>>16887763
Have you ever talked to your mother about something like this?
"Oh, so hey, I noticed you're getting yourself off at literally every waking moment.. Good for you! But also guess what: I don't want to hear it"
I came here a few months ago to get some advice about my boyfriend's serious long affair with porn addiction.
Rundown:
>We've been together for 2 years
>He's had a serious addiction to porn, phone sex and the sort for 10 years
>He's blown tons of money on porn/teases/phone sex
>Was affecting us in very serious ways
>Became jaded as a result of this and our fights about this
I got...
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>>16887167
yes, you bf is a bitch ass faggot, you're just wasting your time with him.
>>16887172
That was very eloquent. Thank you.
>>16887167
I mean, yes?
Sounds like you've been more than reasonable with him, and his shortcomings. It sounds like this is who he is now, as sad as it may sound.
You could take control over his internet, lock him out of sites that he frequents, but, honestly, you can't live together in that way. You're his partner, not his parent, you're not supposed to act like that, nor is he. Children lack self-control on this scale. He's a grown adult (Or not).
Relationships are supposed to...
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For pretty much as long as I can remember, something has always felt off about me. I was never like the other people around me growing up, I never thought or acted like everyone else, I don't really know how to describe what's different but it's there, and now that I'm getting older and life's throwing more and more shit my way the more I notice something just..... not ok with me.
I'm tired of feeling like this, I have been for a while. The only reason I haven't looked for help sooner is because I figured "how can I get help if I can't even describe what's going on with me."
Feel free to ask me anything, there really isn't anything I'll be uncomfortable answering.
Well, we cannot help you if you wont make it more clear. What do you think isnt `okay`? Are you sad? More mature than others? Just a social outcast who prefers to sit at home than go socialize?
>>16887163
>Are you sad
I do feel like I'm a sadder person than I should be yes. But I think I feel shitty a lot because of whatever's "wrong" with me.
>Just a social outcast who prefers to sit at home than go socialize
I used to be really bad with this, now it just depends with my mood (but I guess that's normal).
I thought of a few more examples that could help.
I just can't approach women, like at all. I get extremely nervous and scared at the mere idea of it. For example:
>Go out to bar with friends last night
>Hotties everywhere, a few girls at a different table eyeing me up (according to a friend anyways)
>Couldn't bring myself to approach any of them, not even say hi or anything
>Ending up sitting with my friends hoping "the next drink" will be my liquid courage.
I always just get worried that ever reasonably attractive girl will consider me out of their league, especially if they appear to have an extremely active social life (It's really hard to explain, basically it just makes me feel like I have a lot to compete with).
My ex thinks I have Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I don't see how I can be narcissistic in any way if I assume the entire world around me is out of my league but here are her claims specifically.
>My sense of self-worth is way to high
>Feel absolutely devastated at the idea of having normal limitations
>Absolute lack of empathy for others
I'm not sure how accurate it is to how I really am (this is the first time I'm hearing it after all) and this conflicts with a lot of my personal observations of myself, but I suppose it's something to keep in mind.
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>>16887163
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This last one is a pretty big problem.... I just... can't figure out shit for myself. Not in terms of school or education (always done pretty well in school), more-so life challenges. The moment things don't start going my way I lose all sense of myself and my brain just freezes. I've become reliant on others to figure out my life because of it (pretty much what I'm doing right now).
for example, I feel into a deep deep depression after my first serious relationship ended because...
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So my girlfriend said she was considering getting another piercing some time soon, which I thought was alright but I really don't like piercings. Much to my dismay, she's considering getting a smiley, which goes in that little flap of skin between your upper lip and gums and can be seen whenever your mouth is open. I made it clear to her that I really don't like it. I don't want to look at it, and I really don't want to feel it when I kiss her. She doesn't want to upset me and said she'd even take it out when she's around me. Am I being...
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You can't temporarily take out piercings (especially those in your mouth), unless you want infections and/or repierce it every day. If she wants it she should get it, it's her body. You can dislike it, she probably also has small things she doesn't like about your appearance. As long as you don't leave her over this or make it matter too much, you aren't being an oversensitive pussy.
>>16887051
Fair enough. To be honest though, I'm a bit concerned about being intimate with her if she has a smiley. It's not like a nose piercing or something, it's dangling right in front of your teeth. It would be impossible to avoid touching it one way or another.
>>16887068
You will feel it, but does it really matter?
I'm a 27 year old guy and after several years of realtionship I'm Single now, for about 9 months. It's killing me from the inside. I tried online dating pretty hard during the last 7 months, but without any success. If I go out on weekends, I`m too afraid to talk to women without getting any signs of interest beforehand. But As you might guess, this is also not happening. I would try to get a girl through my social circle, but in my age group there is literally no single woman. What should I do?
>>16886807
I've been single for twenty years. Fuck off, normie.
Get some hobbies... pick up guitar, hit the gym, 4 weeling ext. I'm sure you'll find true love... just go have fun. She will come along. ;)
>>16886884
Back to retard9k bro
Anyway OP, 9 months isn't really THAT long in the scheme of life. Maybe try making new friends, picking up a hobby you've always wanted to try, use this opportunity to work on any projects or goals you've wanted to work toward. Use this time to reconnect with old friends, spend time with family, and learn how be alone with yourself.
This girl just sicked a hacker on me for calling her a mongoloid, and she steals money from autists. What should I do about it?
Apologize and stop being such a cunt.
>>16886755
lololol good one. She called me ugly before I did that though. And she is in fact a mongoloid.
>>16886750
How do you know she" sicked a hacker" on you?
My country's retarded laws regarding self defense have made it difficult to defend myself from idiots and retards and an hero maniacs.
What are some ways to defend myself without harming my attackers?
Note: Pushing, shoving and punching is harmful to my attackers, yes it's that retarded.
I could run away but my legs are weak, I could hide, but then i'd have to run away again, which I can't.
Maze and baton are allowed to have if I get a license to carry, which costs a fuckton to get.
wat do?
Picture unlikely related
Are you allowed to match their threat level after they've done it to you?
become a cop
Sounds like Denmark laws.
Nothing you can do, besides call the police.
Ive been reading about bpd and reactive attachment disorder (rad). Think of rad as what a childs version of bpd before becoming adults to be ultimately diagnosed with bpd.
As serious a condition it is, i admire the level of confidence these people have. ive read that your self confidence makes you highly attractive to other people.
Tell me what is it like to have that level of confidence and where does it come from?
I have BPD. I had a father who put me down constantly because I was female. And he hated me because I looked like his mother. I was sensitive and he tried to desensitize me and it didn't work. My famiily tried to keep me a child so I would stay with them.
I have no confidence in myself. Every waking moment is yearning and searching for the love my father never gave me and never findng it.
>>16886393
However, I am somewhat social, in an odd way. I like to perform music. I am very comfortable and I slay on the mike. But I'm very very awkward at bars I look in the mirror and I see my father's face and eyes and I'm so ugly to me. But people have been drawn to me my whole life. People have been trying to fuck me my whole life.
>>16886398
YES. Thats the attraction ive read, bpd easily has people feeling strongly attracted to them. How do you do it? That's what im after. Pls explain
"I don't want window's 10!"
It keeps poping up even after I kill the Program.
Why did you install the updates? You fool.
>>16885991
I don't think I downloaded it, I did sign up for it before it came out. chose not to cuz of new spy OS.
>>16885991
WTF! now I cant turn my pc off without updating
So my best friend knocked up my mom and she's keeping it
What the FUCK should I do?
I just punched him and he admitted he kinda deserved it
>>16885865
Be happy for your mom and get your friend a good Father's Day gift.
>>16885865
What's the story?
How did this all go down?
