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When dating an asian girl is it ever okay to reveal your power level?
If you asked them to wear school uniforms or cosplay in bed do they pretty much realize that youre a yellowfever beta pursuing a fetish and leave
Real life isn't tumblr. I bet the vast majority of asian girls don't know or care what yellowfever or betas even are.
>>16894253
>is it ever okay
yes. there are plenty of weeb and fetishist asians. if shes not, wait to gauge how much she actually likes you. if she likes you she wont mind. if she is on the fence about you, getting weird isnt okay.
but there are asian girls who will like your weidness, or at the very least understand it
>>16894253
If that's the only reason you're dating she'll pick up on it faster than you can apologize in japanese to her korean ass.
How usual is it to have really bad thoughts and such?
I'm 28 and I think of killing people kind of constantly, whenever I'm driving alone at night and I see a girl walking alone I have the impulse of pulling over and well, doing something bad.
I also used to feel attracted to the idea of CP until I was 19 or so but then realised how dumb that is and stopped. But I'm engaged and I'm scared stuff may be latent or something.
I highly doubt I'd ever do something as I consider myself a very moral person outside these thoughts and I know...
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>>16894115
Jerk off. That's ur male testosterone talking. Pretty sure u lazy as fuck but if u exercise and jerk off u will release excess hormones
>>16894145
I have a good job and I lift, so that part's covered.
It's true that I don't have that kind of thoughts for a few hours after I've had sex actually, so there might be something to that.
>>16894115
how old were you when you started thinking about killing people?
How do I get over my girlfriends sexual past?
She's been with 6 guys at 18 and I was a virgin until I met her. I didn't bother me at first because I was just looking to get laid but then I ended up in a relationship. Then we were talking about sex and I told her I wanted to face fuck her next time. I made the mistake of asking her if she's even been face fucked before and she said yes. It just bothered me, is this normal? She's been open to her past with 100% honesty all the time before btw.
>>16893947
>>6 guys at 18
stopped reading there, not gf material, just a fuck n pass m8
>>16893947
>How do I get over my girlfriends sexual past?
I don't know how you can get over something like that, as I've never had to deal with the situation before. But for happiness, in general: Stop comparing yourself to other people. Your sex life isn't a race and quantity =/= happiness. Focus on quality.
And for the record, if you have these issues, asking her personal questions like that will never yield the result you want. You'll never want to hear the answer...
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>>16893952
Don't know where you're from, but that's pretty common in the west. That's not to say you should settle, if that's not what you're looking for. If you think sexual count devalues a person, then more power to you for waiting on the right person.
3 months ago I got rejected by a girl who was my close friend at the time.
I deleted her off facebook a few days later, couldn't face her at all.
I miss her as a friend, have I burned my bridge (is it far too weird for me to try and speak to her again?) or is it alright for me to try and contact her?
Well you already fucked up by being a little bitch and cutting contact with her because she rejected you. So she probably thinks you're shit, but maybe you still have a chance at recovering whats left of that friendship if you admit to her that you were stupid. If she even wants to talk to you
>>16893928
alright that's really good advice, fucking hell why do I even come here
hang yourself you trip using mongoloid
>>16894012
she thinks you're a fucking autistic sperglord cunt now, which coincidentally is what you actually are.
I just found out my girlfriend was abused by her stepfather at a young age and that she was raped by 2 boys one of them being a family friend when she was 16.
Normally I would just run the fuck away as fast as I could but I feel a really special connection with her but I'm not sure if I can handle the pain from all this. I've never committed to a relationship before and the one time info all this shit happens.
On top of it her dad doesn't want us to date so we never see each other. Her dad has no clue what happened also I'm the only person...
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It sounds cheesy, but I think with how you reacted it sounds like you really like and care for this girl. She must trust you a lot to tell you this too. It hurts a lot, I know, because I've been in then same spot. If you stick around, prepare for a lot of emotional ups and downs (not from her but just yourself). It was worth it to stick around in my opinion though.
>>16893749
Thanks man I really do love her a lot but this is just an actual nightmare come true and usually I would just leave but but thinking about my life without her and her being with someone else kills
Me but the thought of staying kills me also
>>16893716
>We've only been dating a month and only hung out once or twice.
how is this dating
So I'm going to vent here and you're welcome to ignore this dumb shit.
I was in a bad mood this weekend because I was vending at an event with very poor attendance. I was pretty desperate to make sales to recoup costs. So here comes this little shit Sunday morning, about 5 minutes after we'd opened. He's looking at some of the airsoft stuff I carry and seems very impressed with this gas mask. I mention it's not a functional gas mask, but it does have a fan that acts as a defog mechanism. I can tell this turd doesn't have the money for it,...
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>>16893677
And if you're a coworker? Hell no I'm not interested. You're just making my job harder. Stop fucking staring at me. Stop leaving me your number on napkins or to-go boxes. Stop with the thirsty texts. I don't care that you think my hair is cool, or I've got a cool personality. Back off. Look at all the other dudes I can talk with normally and take note.
I'm friends with a ton of guys in my life, I don't hate men. I've had some good relationships, I've had some regrettable ones. But let me tell you straight, not one dude I've dated picked me up at work. So leave me the fuck alone.
If you don't want to be ogled or hit on stay out of male centric hobbies then you cunt.
>airsoft stuff
You do realize that's basically a manchild magnet? You should have expected this
I need some Advice. I have a job coming up and I smoked some weed last Sunday. I know this job will ask for a urine drug test. I rarely smoke, but I did smoke two weekends in a row..
My question is, can I get a drug test for my own purposes so I know what my THC level is before getting the test through my employer??
Just accept your failure m8.
>>16893656
No I have time to detox, but I do want to check my level's before officially going.
This is why you should always have back up pee store away.
Gf slept around while we were apart for a short while and I cant love her anymore even though shes been absolutely perfect since weve been back together. its not even that I cant. I dont want to.
Shes doing everything she can to prevent a breakup and Im just being a dick right now.
How do other people deal with this?
Don't love her anymore. And don't post frogs anymore.
Find a way to make it appear that the person she slept with was related to you, like a fake family tree. Then tell her that because of this you can't imagine banging her cause its like banging your cousin or uncle. Break up with her. Bang cousin.
You get over yourself you selfish pig. Love is not quantified by how many people you fuck while not together. Be grateful that she's put up with your shit and talk to her about how you feel if you ever cared about her at all
>youre gender
>longest time you went without a relationship
>why
and none of that 0-14 i was a dumb kid hurr durr shit
>>16893293
Male
0 days
Its easy
Not to quibble but you might be better off asking how long people have gone without sex, if that's what you mean. "Relationship" is a subjective word.
Male
23 years, 9 months
I'm an unlikable faggot.
Welp adv. I just got friend zoned. Fuck. I confessed my feelings to a girl and she told me that she loves me not only as a friend, but someone she can actually have fun with at school. She wishes that she could meet those standards. She also mentioned that she is psychotic and trash and that I somehow know this (this is obviously a way to lead me off). I've never felt this rejected before, I don't know how you guys do it.
I saw this coming anyway, while she was a great friend, I guess she kinda lead me on to thinking that she likes me. But I don't think...
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>>16893278
Stop talking to her, watch some depressing movies, listen to some music, and let the rejection soak in. You'll become numb to this girls rejection in no time at all. Trying to pursue it further or attempting to going back to being friends is futile.
>>16893278
Start cutting her out of your life. Dont cut ties as people will tell you.
Demote her to an acquaintance though. This works for me 99% of the time. Basically show her that she cant have all of that 'fun' with you because thats something you should be giving to your gf. Hang out with other friends. Meet new people. Stop going to her and wait for her to go to you. Act distance. When she realizes that she cant just keep the status quo she'll reconsider you.
Thats the point of the friend zone. Its not that she sees you as just a friend. Women look for comfort and you made her comfortable as a friend. She has nothing to gain from dating you if you give it to her already.
>>16893289
>>16893292
This advice is actually really interesting. I like it. I've done things like this before I confessed and she actually took more interest in me than her friends. So it might just work out now.
I'm listening to some music now, I already feel the rejection. Looks like I got a journey to fulfill. Thanks guys
Hello, /adv/. I want to know in what ways i can ''disappear''. As in, completely. Start from point zero, sketch, not just name change. I've always wanted to move away from where i was from. Ever since i was a small child, ever since i noticed how much i disliked there. Once i grew up a bit, i started wanting to completely start over somewhere else, where no one knows about me. Start anew. Nowadays, i have even more legitimate reasons to want to be forgotten, and start again, somewhere far, far away. I'm 20 years old. I want to be a Doctor, it's...
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>>16893226
>And, before you say ''Just don't tell people'', i really want to start over, i don't want people to be able to track me
Why would they?
>>16893353
It's more of a self-reassurement thing. I want to make myself forget it as much as everyone else, and i know the first place to start is eliminating such ''risks'' as much as i can.
>>16893369
Well I hate to break it to you but you're not as important as you think. Just move to a major city in the US, preferably NYC or LA and no one will care at all about your background, believe me.
So..
My brother started acting weird about a year ago. He's always been into yoga and meditation/a low ambition guy, but he's really just dropping off the face of the Earth after his girlfriend left him.
He quit his full time office job to take a job as a chef at The Original Pancake house. He quit eating meat. Most of the time he's just meditating or going camping/hiking. Last I visited him and found him meditating out behind his place in the snow. He was just in shorts and nothing else (12 degrees F while humid and windy). He said he can keep that...
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Don't know what to tell you, everyone has got to live their own life.
>>16893116
Force feed him and tell him to stop being a dumb bitch.
Problem solved.
>>16893188
Now that he's thinner I probably could. I've never been able to beat my older brother at any wrestling or anything like that.
What should my target demographic be as a single mom when I'm trying to get a boyfriend? 35+ year old men? I feel like guys in their 20s won't want to date me seriously.
>>16892924
>dating a single mom
No hymen no diamond
>>16892924
Age?
>>16892934
I'm 24.
>be really lonely last night
>get horny as fuck and jerk it 4 times
>dick so sore I can't get it up if I want to
>gf just texts me and says she wants fuck
Fuck what do I do?
Text her "well fuck you too!", cut off your phone, and go to sleep.
Sure, there will be drama, but you can just play it off as a simple misunderstanding the next day. Your dick will have healed sufficiently by then.
Why didn't you just go force yourself on your girlfriend last night?
Just tell her you will lick her sweaty slimey cunt if she just deepthroats you dick first and lets you finish in her throat and have your penis covered with warm vomit.
Hey adv i need to know what you would do you were dating a girl and helping her out of a abusive relationship and then she leaves you and you figure out she was using you and she says she wants to be friends i am pissed
Been there man. I know it sucks, but the best thing for you to do really is to just move on. Find something to keep you occupied, look for another girl. This one is obviously not worth your time. You've probably heard that before but that's because it's the truth. Do you have any hobbies?
Lately ive been getting into to smoking and playing the bass and ceramics
>>16892836
And ive deleted everything tomorrow me and my friends are burning a drawing i made her
