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I recently had a fling with this girl I had dated in Highschool.
Two weeks into dating I realized I had a cold sore. I asked her if she knew any remedies, to which she broke down and admitted that she knowingly gave me herpes. I am sad now.
I now have 6 sores in my mouth, and so far nothing on my junk.
Needless to say we are no longer dating, what now? I am virtually untouchable to girls as cute as she was.
Pic related.
>>16899360
Slap her. And then live you life like everyone else spreading herpes. This is honestly why I express my fear of herpes before I kiss someone.
>>16899360
Are you in the United States? If you are, use your phone (in your pocket or w/e) to record her admitting that she knowingly gave you herpes.
Then sue her.
>http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2012/06/herpes_verdict_in_portland_wom.html
What this bitch did is tantamount to rape. She knowingly did something to you without your knowledge that will negatively impact you for the rest of your life.
If that were me, I would make this girl regret the day she...
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>>16899375
....
Did you just compare herpes to rape?
Seriously?
Have you not ever actually met anyone who was raped? Do you know what rape is?
Also... if guarantee you if you try and sue someone over a cold sore in your mouth, something more than 50% of the adult population has, you will get laughed out of the court and get yelled at for wasting their time.
Babies. The both of you.
>In college
>5 roomies
>1 comes out of the closet
>closely cut all contact with him
>never talk to him outside of class or respond to him
>locks himself in his room for weeks
>missing classes
>apparently 'accidentally' overdosed on medicine
Im not really one to sympathize but I do feel bad that hes trapped...
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>>16899284
What? Has he ever tried making a move on you? Haha, he just didn't want it to seem like a shock to you guys when he brought his gay friends over.
>>16899291
Hes really weird. Like fedora tipping weird. He doesnt really have any friends so he stays in his room all the time.
>>16899284
>what are my options
1: stop being a cunt
2: stop being a cunt
3: "accidentally" OD as well
Can I get any advice on if I am being harsh, rude. tactless in my email to my project partner who isn't keeping up on the work level necessary? She's nice, but she seems busy outside of work and she hasn't done much and the work she has done is pretty bad... We have 6 days until finals and she's sent me a total of two and a half paragraphs for a whole research paper. I am well equipped, and probably more prone to being harsh and almost mean when i am irritated and I just don't want to come off like that. Here's the text...
"If I am being honest this isn't doesn't look to be going in a good direction. The observations in these are pretty face value and don't go into any of the films we were going to research (except for The Fly) and aren't what I would say are strong. I get the feeling that you may have been preoccupied the last few weeks, which is totally understandable and I can't blame you for whatever happens outside of school, but as a project partner this is disappointing. We have about 5 days left and I feel like you've only watched one of the movies we talked about and you've had a concrete layout of what we had to research for three weeks and even some of the paper itself for almost two weeks. And last week you still thought we were doing horror movies and I had to ask you if you understood what we were doing for you to tell me that you didn't. I plan to have the paper written in the next couple of days and the Power Point done as well, but from what you've shown me so far I just don't feel comfortable putting your name on either. "
>>16899235
Part 2.
"I don't plan to be in class today, I've got something else I will be doing and then I'm going to work on the paper. This is a rough conversation to have this late into the quarter and I wish I didn't feel like it was necessary, but I just don't feel like you've been able to put in the work necessary. I feel bad having to do this but if I don't receive anything more substantial from you by the end of today I don't think we can continue as project partners. "
>>16899235
Oh just suck it up
In college I had some crap like this my dad said just suck it up. As long as YOU get the grade. So- if she isnt jeopardizing your grade then just suck it up.
Welcome to the world
>>16899241
Clearly I am if I'm going through with it. You're not really acknowledging my question.
I'm so tired of being alone, not having anyone to talk to outside of internet forums, not having anyone who cares about me (orphaned), I just want someone to tell me they love me and be able to tell them I love them too.
I'm a khv and have trouble looking women in the eye. I've never had gay thoughts in the past but I'm considering it now, I think I'm bi but I've never tested it. The only time I ever went out years ago (to a bar) I was hit on by a cute, well dressed guy who brought me drinks but I didn't realise he was hitting on me till my "friends" told me later, we spoke for maybe an hour and it was really nice, I was so comfortable around him. Thinking back on it now I feel so stupid for not realising and not pursuing him.
I'm wondering how I meet gay guys and how I identify guys as gay, I'm really shy and often visibly shake in social situations so going to a bar again is no longer an option for me. I've thought of using grindr but in the end that is just a hookup site, I don't want to hookup I want to take things very slowly, I want to snuggle and hold hands and let my emotions develop with the relationship.
Aside from this and my social problems my life is on track. I have a good career and a home, I just want someone to love me.
>tfw no replies
Is it because it's gay advice? No one will help unless it's girl advice? :/
Gays are fucking everywhere nowadays you find them just like anyone else, and don't pull that dumb IS IT COS I'M GAY THAT YOU WON'T HELP only 20 minutes after you made a thread bullshit you needy annoying fuck.
Stop idealizing fantasies for yourself and accept that you need to not be a child and you most likely can't have a little sickeningly sweet fairy tale relationship. People hook up then the relationship happens AFTER. Use Tinder, or something.
>>16899217
>Is it because it's gay advice? No one will help unless it's girl advice?
Yes now fuck off and kill yourself faggot.
Opinions on this method? I'm getting ready to give it a go(The reasons don't really matter), and I had some questions.
I hear that the 'balloon time' brand of helium tanks sold pretty much anywhere that you can buy helium as a person that isn't running a business are cut with 20% oxygen. Will this actually prevent me from dieing? Are there alternatives I can pick up as a layman? I live in NYC so buying a gun is out of the question because the place is an authoritarian shithole that doesn't get the same rights as everywhere else in the country....
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>>16899054
>I live in NYC so buying a gun is out of the question
Nigga, take a bus/train trip. Hitch a ride. Go to Vermont or something. You can pick up a gun easily there.
>>16899058
I'm a poor fag. It would cost a shit load of money to take a trip out of the city and buy a gun. And this is the north. I can't just walk into a store, go 'Hello good sir, I'd like one shotgun, please!' and walk out with it. Waiting periods and background checks abound, and they're not going to sell it to me when my address is in NYC.
Have you never bought a gun before?
Besides, this isn't a gun thread, I need help with this particular method.
>>16899054
>I hear that the 'balloon time' brand of helium tanks sold pretty much anywhere that you can buy helium as a person that isn't running a business are cut with 20% oxygen. Will this actually prevent me from dieing?
Fun fact: Earth's atmosphere is only 20% oxygen (most of the rest is nitrogen). That's why helium is cut by the same amount: it's not the atmosphere you're used to, but it's perfectly breathable. Scuba divers use it sometimes.
So...
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I think my neighbor has been literally beating his gf at night
Last night, i was trying to sleep and i woke up to an argument going on at my neighbor's house, and i thought something was wrong, so i called the police in case her bf was hitting her.
The next night, the neighbours were back to their screaming match.
I listened in and i could hear what they were arguing about.
apparently her son wasn't his and he found out about it.
i raced back inside and called the cops for the second night in a row, and the police showed up, talked to the couple again,...
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>>16899009
You should mind your own damn business. It's not up to you to police their relationship.
> defending a cheating whore
cops usually tell you who called if they get asked, you better start minding you're own fucking business your slut enabler.
>>16899009
If she wants to leave she can leave.
Just as she chose to fuck someone else and let this guy think it's his kid..
My husband teaches at a high school. He loves posting photos on Facebook, particularly photos of our two kids. Since he posts so much stuff on FB, I don't really pay attention to who is liking his stuff. Anyway, one day I accidentally saw his FB chatbox (whatever it is called) when he was logged into FB. Apparently he kept in contact with this girl who graduated two years ago and they tend to message each other around once a month or a bit longer than that. It appears that she sometimes likes his stuff on Facebook too, but she never likes his family photos. Should I be...
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>>16898949
What is their conversation be like?
>>16898949
>they tend to message each other around once a month or a bit longer than that.
if they really liked each other, there chats would be more frequent
/thread
>>16898953
TV shows, books, hobbies etc as well as my husband occasionally mentioning our kids and her updating him on her college life.
If we copy a microorganism/cell atomic structure and if we put it together atom by atom would it be alive?
>>16898913
Not if that's all you do. The best you could get just by copying the molecular structure would be something akin to a corpse. It wouldn't respond to stimuli, or exchange gases, or carry out any of the other basic life processes.
If you went deeper, copying a creature on a quantum level instead of a molecular level, that might work. We don't have a sure answer to that question yet. But molecules definitely aren't enough.
We don't yet know how to carry out the final step of animating...
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>>16898913
Of course. But you cannot imagine HOW FAR away we are from being able to do so.
>>16899060
>I have no idea about biology but I'm gonna talk anyway
People that learned a completely new language they had no knowledge of to the point of being fluent and able to use it like their mother tongue. How did you do it?
got to practice it erry day
just chip away at it
Jeder Tag, lese ich die Deutsche-Welle Zeitung, oder schau ich ein deutsche Let's Play, und naturlich I benutze Duolingo und Memrise
dunno if I ever quite got to the point you describe, but immersion plus dedication to practice.
>>16898755
>>16898751
Yeah, I'm learning Deutsch too.
I already know the grammar because I pick up that kind of stuff (in theory) but expanding the vocabulary is so hard.
http://bs.to/andere-serien
There is a lot of popular shows here dubbed into german so I watch it on one screen with google translate in the other and just type out everything they say but I keep coming back to most words. Duolingo is very time consuming but slow.
If she gives you her number as "anonette work", that's bad yeah?
We're coworkers
Why'd she give you her number at all?
I don't have my co-workers numbers (besides the ones I might speak to outside of work) and I'm not sure why I'd need them for work purposes. I only have my bosses number.
>>16898729
We might catch up sometime, she wanted me to go drinking
There is something called making friends. I hate it when guys misinterpret my intentions.
>massage therapist
>pretty good at my job
>work for a couple of months
>random clients get horny
>didn't notice cause naive as fuck
>happens more and more
>30 something milfs comes in
>moans, jiggle ass, grinding, flashes tits
>hot as fuck
>don't...
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you're basically doing foreplay for a living. Lol naïve is right.
>months later
>new job
>everyone professional
>feels good
>I still find myself pushing the boundary
>hunting for the horny housewives that want me to finger them
>find a few
>never cross that line
>my work is a sloppy boundary pushing mess
>feels good though,...
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>>16898721
>Any advice on keeping the job but Idk not being a creep?
Get a girlfriend plus healthy sex life with her and your problems won't be anymore.
>be me, smoking cigarette outside an art event
>I yawn
>the girl next to me says "that's a big yawn"
>we start talking, it's a very flat conversation
>we go inside to a bar, she writes her number on the receipt and gives it to me (didn't buy her drinks as I had already given up at this point)
>tell her I have to leave, she kisses me on the cheek
>I...
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i wouldve called
>>16898324
Yes, women do shit like this all the time. Don't bother trying to figure out why. I am saying this because most men drive themselves up the wall and get enraged because logically it doesn't make any sense. Never question why, just accept flakes will be flakes and fuck them.
>>16898324
As a girl I find 10/10 guys unappealing. I suppose it just my subjective experiences but they seem to turn into arseholes, not grounded at all. As a result I love guys who seem a little introverted. I want to build them up and support them. I get off by bringing him pleasure and being his rock. I would be the kind of girl who would give you my number. It would be this reckless choice made in the heat of the initial attraction. If you didn't call me the next day I would feel utterly foolish and be pretty pissed...
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I walked in on my boyfriend of 4 years giving a blowjob to another guy.
I don't know what to feel. I don't know if this is real life. I'm sitting here posting from my laptop in my car in front of our apartment wondering what I just witnessed.
Drive away and never look back. Also get yourself some comfort food.
>>16898253
Drop him. no emotion and no regret. He blew another man, he wasn't the guy follow.
easy.
walk away lady. walkkkk awayyyy
How do I stop feeling like shit? My boyfriend of 3 years has a low libido, and my sex drive is constantly through the roof. I didn't think this would be a problem, but I feel like utter shit every time I get rejected. At first it was manageable, but after so many months of "I'm too tired" or "I don't feel like it", it brings you down. He says it isn't appearance or physique or anything, and that he wouldn't want to put in the effort for any girl. Hearing that makes me feel like there isn't anything that we can do, and that this...
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>>16898213
Yeah, you can throw down the gauntlet and tell him if he doesn't go get help for whatever his mental issue is, you're going to leave. Bottom line. You're a fool for staying in a relationship like that. I don't care how nice he is or how compatible you are or whatever else you'll try to rationalize. He's a guy. There are billions of others. Millions of those guys will be just as compatible and cool as he is. You're settling for a shit relationship, and cheating yourself out of a...
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>>16898213
He sounds like a lazy fuck. Tell him to use a dildo on you or something if getting it up is the issue.
Break up perphaps... Not much else you can do.
How the fuck do people do 9-5 office jobs?
You get less than four hours a night to attend to your personal affairs, and almost every major company in Australia is paying monthly (seriously... what the fuck).
So not only do you have to be super careful with your spending, you get fuck all time to enjoy yourself. This is literally living to work; not working to live.
Can anyone explain to me how to make the most of this? Because the chunk of my day that get's wasted is starting to affect my mental well being.
>>16898177
that is a lifestyle of a drone.
Like the ant colony, the majority of the inhabitants are just worker ants.
Humans are quite similar my friend,
>>16898177
You get 2 days off, and evenings off. That's really nice. The way you "deal with it" is by realizing this is what most people do, and you should feel lucky to have an office job. You could be toiling away at a 60 hour a week manual labor job, which will ruin your body and you'll be on welfare after 50 because you're incapable of working.
As you age, you stop giving a shit about "muh free time" for video games or Netflix or partying with bros or whatever else you feel you...
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>>16898177
>9am - 5pm
>8 hours a day working
>~2 hours max drive and prep time
>8 hours of sleep (being generous)
>6 hours left to do whatever
Sounds pretty good to me. You can get a lot done still. Plus the weekends are free, so not too bad.
What is your schedule like? Maybe you can change priorities around?
