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Has anyone ever done any research on or tried a penis traction device for enlargement?
I'm curious if they are to any extent actually effective.
To clarify, I'm not at all dissatisfied with my rod, but shit, more is more.
It could decrease your erection quality
>>16889973
Pretty sure everything short of surgery is a scam. And even surgery doesn't pay off good either
if there were a good way to enlarge your penis everyone would know
Has anyone here ever dated a girl that's smarter than them?
Like, I'm smart, but she's one of those kinds of smart that scare you
I don't know what to do.
Help
>>16889787
does it make you feel emasculated?
> I don't know what to do.
Fall in love in her.
Travel the world
Get married, or don't.
Have kids, or don't.
Enjoy life.
Grow old together
Why does it matter if she's smarter than you?
>>16889795
Not OP but I tried dating an older woman with a master and while I was able to keep a conversation, I think she never saw me as an equal and went only after guys with lots of studies(I never went to college but am quite handy)
So my girlfriend recently gave me head for the first time , she's nice quiet and funny , I didn't really wanna ask her so one been taking my time with things and after a drink or two last week I asked and she got straight down to sucking no questions asked , it was great well amazing really she took it right down her throat without a gag , thing is she was with a pal of mine briefly a few months before we met and now I can't get the image of her sucking him like she did me out of my head and I fucking hate it and it's after turning me off the idea of another blowjob , what do I do /r/ keep her and hope it passes or just save myself from the annoyance of the image every time we have sex and leave her? File not at all related it was the first pic I clicked on
You're literally cucking yourself
I have no advice except to stop doing that
>>16888681
stop being a fucking child and enjoy the blowjob from your girlfriend
fucking insecure beta motherfuckers, goddamn
>>16888681
You just need to get over it man. If you can't get past this you will have this problem with every woman you date in the future.
I sent my crush a friend reauest at 1am last night. Now its 9:00am and she hasnt accepted. Am i fucked?
>>16888258
Thirsty af
No.
She's probably asleep still m8.
In a couple hours she'll wake up and crush all of your dreams.
I don't want to work on myself, because it's a waste of time. There has to be a way to get a girl anyways. I know a handful of guys having nothing, say no job, no friends and no health, who are in realtionships. How is this possible?
>>16888100
They date ugly psycho whores. Go and find one.
>>16888100
if we are to assume that you are so awful that self improvement is the only way to get a gf, and by your own logic self improvement is a waste of time (which is inherently contradictory but whatever) than according to you, getting a girlfriend is a waste of time.
therefore you should not get one.
>>16888100
>I don't want to work on myself, because it's a waste of time.
OP, if working on yourself is a waste of time, then what isn't a waste of time?
After 20 years of bad behavior, it has finally dawned on me that my wife simply lacks the ability to feel empathy like most people.
Examples:
I was in a wreck and the car was totaled. As relatives arrived on scene they all cried and huged me. My wife never made eye contact and acted pissed that her car was broken.
She called our 14 year old son a jackass. It really hurt him and even though he tried to act like it didn't, he spent two days fishing for her to take it back or apologize and she never acknowledged his feelings.
I was once dressed and heading out the door to go to my aunt's funeral and she was upset that the laundry hadn't been out away. She said she'd divorce if I left for the funeral. I stayed.
Then there are thousands of little things: she is very selfish in bed, only affectionate when she feels like it never in a comforting, nurturing way to me or the kids, can be abrral asshole to service workers, had had fender benders rather than let jerks squeeze into a lane, etc
What should I do? Is there therapy that can teach empathy? Or is it 100% genetic?
FWIW her dad was highly dysfunction bouncing between prison, homelessness, drugs, etc. wrecking lots of lives along the way.
>>16887777
>FWIW her dad was highly dysfunction bouncing between prison, homelessness, drugs, etc. wrecking lots of lives along the way.
bingo
It's not genetic, but your personality is pretty much shaped in your childhood, the older you get the harder it is to change
>>16887777
>20 years
>finally dawned
You're fucked homie
>>16887777
>What should I do? Is there therapy that can teach empathy? Or is it 100% genetic?
Nobody knows for sure, and I wish I had sauce, but my best understanding is that the majority of personality is genetic and/or learned before the age of 7. Traits and attitudes learned in early childhood are so hard to change that they almost might as well be genetic.
Short answer: If you can't deal with her like she is now, you need to leave her. If you don't want to leave her, you need to find some way to protect yourself and your kids from her sociopathic shit.
Longer answer: She is not going to change unless she wants to, and no matter how she tries, any true change is going to take years. Even if she suddenly sees the error of her ways and does a total 180, you have to remember that it is all on the surface and inside she is still the same person she was. Even if none of it is genetic and it's all childhood trauma shit from her dad, she would likely need years of therapy and/or self-work to come to the point where her past is not affecting her behaviour.
If you've been married 20 years I'm guessing she's about 38-45. I have known one or two people in their 40s/50s to admit they've been a jerkoff all their life and start turning their attitude around, but it's rare and I wouldn't count on it at all. Usually if they don't do it by 25 or 30 they're not going to. Maybe you leaving will be the catalyst that gets her to change. Maybe not. But don't stick around hoping it will happen in time to save your marriage and your sanity, because it won't.
Is it still gay if you'd only do it with a single person and you only did it because he was going through a rough patch in his life and you were always the top?
Yes.
It's even more gay if you try and convince yourself it's not gay because you did it with a single person and you only did it because he was going through a rough patch in his life and you were always on top.
yes.
are you gay? probably. maybe not. but chances are you are going to go through a series of 'well this one didnt count cuz XX and this one didnt count cuz YY'
trust me i feel your pain. there's a large rush of 'im not gay but i have sex with men' because being gay is considered worse than ever. but sex with men isnt. people just dont want to be a faggot.
probably not, you just happened to do a gay thing
So what is the good length to shave your body hair?
>Arms? How low do you shave? Like up to the elbow or a little higher then that?
>Same with Legs Chest and Back
Where do you shave your body hair up to if your covered in it?
>>16887580
Assuming you're male, why the fuck do you want to be hairless?
>>16887592
No im not going hairless I know that I need to shave my shoulders and back but I just wanted to see how far down i should shave on my arms and how far up on my legs. Like when I say shave I don't mean totally. More like a trim down I am hairy. Like for example I have hair that goes from my arm to the back of my hand is that too much? Should I get rid of the hair on the back of my hand?
>>16887597
Okay, unless your body hair is getting tangled, there is no need to trim. You're a man. Men are supposed to be hairy.
Do friends usually stick together after highschool?
Mine didn't.
Our group disbanded and everyone went their seperate ways. Pretty lost right now and don't know how to start my life
>>16887389
In my experience, most people stay in contact with a couple of good friends. Large groups don't usually stay together unless you all happen to go to the same college.
>>16887389
Of you aren't a normie you can't really make friends after high school. If you go straight to work, no one is really friends with coworkers. If you go to college, the normies form groups within a few nanoseconds and then it's game over. You can't make friends because unlike high school, you aren't forced into proximity with the same people for endless hours on end with nothing to do, so you can't really form any bonds.
>>16887389
well in my case i lost all my friends in highschool when i went to college and i went through a dark time like yours. What I did was find a job where i could get to interact with alot of people (i work for the library so i can adjust my time with people and alone time) and made close friends that way. I also started making small talk in my classes on people that seemed nice and now they've become good buddies with me that I eat lunch with whenever we're all free or something.
point is you gotta start making moves yourself instead of wallowing in self deprivation and loneliness because your group disbanded.
Is there any way on this earth that a white boy with dreadlocks could be anything but a piece of shit?
>>16887169
No. There is absolutely no way.
>>16887169
No. Pic related looks like filth incarnate.
>>16887169
My dealer has dreads. He's a cool guy dont hate
I'm a 21 y/o friendless guy in college
I have social anxiety and i'm awkward as fuck
I think I can keep a friend once I make one but I have no idea how to even get one
I think we're too deep into the semester for me to start randomly talking to people in my class so I was thinking about just approaching random women on campus and starting conversation
is that a good plan? What else should I try and improve because i'm tired of sitting in my room all day playing video games or programming in my free time
/B/ro just chill. Take it slow. It's never too late to make friends. I for one struggled for a while but you can only blame yourself. Find the root of the problem. What caused all this social anxiety?
>>16886827
OP here, my uncle used to molest me on family trips to Colorado. Do you think this might be related?
>>16886827
being really fat
but i've lost a tremendous amount of weight now so I thought it would be easier but it isn't because I still feel like i'm the 300lb guy and i'm now around 160lb
So I just hit inception level and Im a little afraid. I havent fapped 2016 and instead of getting a wet dream, I dreamed I was having a wet dream and humping the bed in my sleep.
Now I was laying on my back because I thought I was in that half sleep state where you are aware of your body and dream. So I woke up because I knew I had ejaculated from my dream of banging a female friend. But I woke up to another level. I was laying on my back not my stomach humping the bed and I didnt ejaculate.
Now Im a little freaked out by this. Ive never dreamed within a dream like this. I dont know what level Im currently on. I dont have a totem. Im shaken as fuck right now.
Fuck that dream about dreaming of sex has made me really horny.
How bad is a cheat day of nofap. Like I wont fap, or watch sex. But I really want to look at a video of katee owen right now. Does that count as porn? Im so horny I dont know what to do.
Don't do it bro, you'll hate yourself afterward.
>>16886558
Its just boob jiggling. It cant be that bad.
Hey I'm a 26 year old virgin male by choice. I was wondering is it possible to be a "heterosexual asexual"? I'm a self proclaimed male "real feminist" not a feminazi. I love women and would love a relationship with a women and would be willing to eject sperm for procreational purposes. However I'm not willing to sleep with women because I find sex to be very degrading from my experience watching porn as a teenager in high school.
>>16886312
You're a bitch. Like, the dictionary definition of a bitch.
You don't need a fucking label and neither does anyone else. Just be you, and that apparently is being a bitch.
>virgin male by choice
sure, buddy
>Self proclaimed "real feminist"
Stop proclaiming yourself to be anything. No one cares. Maybe try to be a man someday. You'll regret not doing so when you're old.
>find sex to be degrading
cause you're a bitch. sex is sex. it ain't this thing or that thing, it's sex. lots of different things at different times.
>watching porn
delusional and a bitch. If you can't separate reality from fantasy, you've got other problems, my friend.
Go build something.
>>16886312
>porn
>comparing to real life
You have some real issues you need to sort out, none of which are related to what buzzword label you want to put on yourself at the age of fucking 26.
Bait
Long story short my gf caught me in the act of cheating on cut my eye open with a knife leaving me neat half blind as well as a huge scar on my face. Now obviously people are gonna ask where I got it from. How should I answer?
"I put my dick in something"
>>16886289
I'm a retard please rape my face
>>16886298
i come to this board after ages and i see you here. i thought you stopped posting lol
So I've asked for advice from all of my friends and co-workers. So I figured I'd ask some strangers on the internet for some unbiased advice.
I started dating a girl I had known since high school. After our first official date she had told me she had broken up with her ex 4 months ago and wanted to remain single for a period of time; however, she was still interested in me and wanted to hangout with me some more. Take it slow. The weeks and bases go by and I finally hit home plate (get laid) and I think it's going great. That is until one night she gets plastered and sends a drunken text to her ex. She began to feel conflicted and didn't reply to my texts for a while. One night she tells me in person that she wants to spend some time alone and described our circumstance as "to be continued". She then starts talking about self respect or something like that and it's directed towards me. Probably because it didn't really faze me that she had sent a drunken text to her ex. It's been almost two weeks since that event and we haven't spoken to each other since. Interestingly enough, she still goes on Instagram and likes my photos late at night. Up until that night she wanted some alone time, she was really into me. She remembered all of the little details of my schedule and seemed to hang onto every word I said to her and just generally wanted to be around me. I pressume my main issue with this situation is who should break the silence first? Not a day goes by where I don't think about her because she's so close (she literally lives minutes walking distance away from me),yet so far.
At this point I'm open to dating other girls, but even though our "fling" if you will, only lasted a month I still have feelings for her.
My current plan is to not seek her out and see if she contacts me first. That way I can hold the cards so to speak. That'll only happen if she still has feelings for me as well.
I'm open to suggestions.
>>16886268
1. Break all contact with her
2. Masturbate twice so you can deal with it
3. Fuck bitches, get money, smoke trees.
She seems immature. If you can handle that go for it, it looks like she doesn't know what she wants.
>>16886546
>Immature: Very. She smokes a lot of weed because her sister works at a dispensary. Although she doesn't base her life on it. She's not YOLO 420.
>Doesn't know what she wants: Precisely. She actually told me this after our first date. I decided to give it a shot because I've never had a gf before.
I may sound stupid as fuck but I like her. Maybe it's because I lost my v-card to her, or perhaps it's because she's the complete opposite of me.
I feel like I grew up too fast and was always lost in books and actually got good grades and very introverted. Whereas she is the party type and is very extroverted, and not too educated, so to speak.
Maybe it's because in high school, she was one of the most popular girls, and I was the invisible nerd, and now 4 years after graduating, I had sex with her.
It could also be because we're both still very young (I'm 21, she's 22) and I'm looking for something serious, and it's beginning to look like she just wanted a fuck buddy after our first date.
I'm at a crossroads here.
