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I'm a 24 year old woman working at a Day-care, and one of the dads looks like he's checking me out and I feel uncomfortable about it, especially because:
A) I'm pretty sure I've seen him around with his wife.
B) I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend who has just recently proposed to me.
Could you help me think of a way to get him to stop?
And maybe people in general, I feel uncomfortable when people, man or woman, check me out. Except my fiance, of course, but still.
2/10 for making me reply.
Won't stop others from posting in a bait thread though.
>>16905016
No seriously, I'm really feeling uncomfortable when the guy comes around.
>>16905027
Shoot him then and claim it was self-defense
do girls like guys that play the guitar? are you attracted to guitar players? studies say yes but id like to have some female feedback.
>>16904981
I myself am a lesbian, but I do know a couple girls that do like guys that play guitar, if it helps?
it depends.
actual skilled guitar player: yes
fag who is past highschool but wears beanies and long swept hair. plays one song, simple chords. is "that guy" who brings his fucking guitar everywhere for attention: no
Women like men who have skills or physical dominance.
It's like tits and ass in men.
Do you like tits or ass?
Some men say tits, some say ass.
Some women say skill (e.g. money) and some say muscles (e.g. fucking muscles you idiot).
So learn it good and you might reach one of the prerequesites
Hello /adv/
I'm at a loss about what to do with my hair. People always ask me if I like the Beatles, or "what message I'm trying to convey", whatever that means. I'm not trying to be edgy or anything. I just want to be a normal guy with longish hair (of whom there are many). Why do other guys get away with having long hair, while I'm criticized for it?
Because you're a greasy faggot without either the personality or body to enforce a confident position.
Get a normal haircut until you, but your very existence, make people want to like you.
>>16904941
Long hair isn't normal? Does everyone have to have a buzzcut? Go back to the 1950's, faggot
Ask a guy who was stalked for two years by a girl and almost raped in high school by said girl anything.
>inb4 guys cant be raped!
You will be surprised how indirect rape can be.
This is really priceless, princess.
>>16904830
Ah shut up.
>>16904830
How does it feel to know that most people on this website think that men can't be raped?
I'm taking an employment piss test next week, and I'm a little nervous about it. I know I know "degenerate drug addict faggot" blah blah blah.
I haven't smoked weed in 31 days, but I was an everyday toker for a good year and change (not blunts or joints, just a few hits off the one-hitter). I'm 5'10 about 145 pounds, with minimal fat around my abdomen. I took a home test yesterday and it had two lines which they say is a negative but the line was a little bit fainter than I would like it to be.
Am I getting worked up for no reason? The test I took had two lines, but if the lab sees the second line is a bit faint when I take the real test, will they fuck me over? Should I just buy another test?
If anyone has experience with pre-employment drug tests, please share. Luckily I have a few more days but I wonder if that will even be enough.
god damn you need to lose weight. also piss really hard
>>16904862
>also piss really hard
wat?
>>16904862
Lol. I'm 5'9'' and about 155, though almost all is muscle. Do you think I need to lose weight too?
![cigarettes-to-cost-more-excise-duty-increased-by-18[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/k3eR8mM.jpg "cigarettes-to-cost-more-excise-duty-increased-by-18[1]")
I smoke a cigarette or two every day, is this REALLY gonna do any damage to me? Whenever I look up anything about smoking risks, it always talks about pack-a-day smokers or 25-a-day smokers
You'll still get the usual shit, like yellowed teeth, wrinkles, etc.
Just at a much slower pace.
While only smoking 1-2 is great, it's still not healthy. At such a small rate, why not switch to a Vape or Pen? Quit it entirely and live for an extra 2 or 3 years maybe
My gramma smoked a pack every other day since she was 12 and lived to see 85. True Menthols, fuckin gross stogies.
Grandad is 86 been smoking dince he was 14 isnt healthy but still doin pretty good for 86.
Friends mom is 59 had emphysema last 6 years and is on death bed. There are too many factors inlin life. Do what you wanywant
How do you know if you have a porn problem (addiction)?
Also, how old do you think the character Marie Rose from doa5 is, from the looks of her?
>>16904690
How often do you look at porn?
She's """""18"""""
How the fuck do I hold a conversation?
So... I basically have a girlfriend now, but I don't really know what to do. I like being around her, and taking her places, but I am not good at talking if the other person is not significantly contributing to the conversation. I have asked others and seen videos about the subject, and essentially I am just told to lower the bar regarding what I say and just talk about whatever, but I still don't know what the fuck to talk about. The only thing I can really talk about is video games but that obviously isn't a trendy topic with the girls. I think this stems from me having such a boring and mundane life (especially before I met her), even though I try to do stuff and keep things interesting. Can someone please help me?
>>16904457
Get drunk, do shit, talk about that shit.
Just do shit together, that's how you get stuff to talk about
>>16904457
Yeah sorry OP, you are right on this one. If you read, watch interesting movies, etc, you will have shit ton to talk about.
I think you should give it a try.
>>16904457
I have the same issue OP but nearly everyone I meet. I noticed recently that I keep up conversations and I keep trying to talk and people give shit responses or short answers. I understand now that people just don't care about what I have to say. But I did learn something I will pass onto you. If the person likes you, if the person wants to get to know you better then they will talk with you, they will keep the ball rolling. If its just you asking questions or trying to keep the conversation going then odds are the other person might just not care about you enough to want to talk with you.
>Started talking to guy online, met on a dating site seems pretty ccool
>Go to sleep told him I'd snap him after work
>did so
>he asked me whats up
>just said "I'm ready to cry and die"
>he opened it but didn't reply
>isn't responding at all now
Should I have not said that? I don't get it, why would he suddenly not talk to me after that.
>>16904414
Wow maybe should've waited a bit before throwing your sorrows onto a fucking complete stranger?
Haha
So awkward
Perhaps he's actually intelligent and sensed you may be an emotional vampire. Depends if you usually have that ironic depressive tone.
Nice you just scared him away
I'm a professional dancer. I love what I do but it comes at a cost... to my feet. My new bf of 3 weeks just confessed to me that he has a crazy foot fedish. I've broken all my toes and never put on sandals. What do I do? I'm so embarrassed! Pic related
haha what are the odds he has a foot fetish? Sorry OP, I'm not laughing at you, that's just a "Perfect Storm" situation you've got there
I don't really know what to tell you. How important is his fetish to him? I guess you'll just have to find out
>>16904221
>3 weeks in
>dude is also divulging fetish information
>those feet
I dunno OP, all of this is gross. Better tell/show him ASAP before you get too attached. If it's a dealbreaker for him, it's best for him to know sooner than later.
>>16904221
>My new bf of 3 weeks just confessed to me that he has a crazy foot fedish.
Holy fuck get away from that annoying faggot.
I dated a girl for 8 years and though we were compatible most ways, I put up with alot of BS regarding sex (lack of). We just get to the point of real sex in the last 2 years. She says she wants to pursue dating guy in her apt. complex that they call Mr. Porshe and breaks up with me after one last night of sex (meh). Turns out she was already screwing him, so just exposed me to all his STDs. WTF.
>>16904092
So what advice are you looking for exactly?
Sorry, maybe just wanted to bitch about it. Or what should I do to her?
>>16904111
That's fucked. You could try and press assault charges by telling the police she knew about the STDs but they might not take you seriously.
Run your mouth about her to everyone you know and get her a bad reputation
Ok, femanon in first year of uni and a lot of things have been pointing to the fact that I'm actually being stalked, but I don't know what to do about the situation, things that point to the conclusion that I'm being stalked:
1st incident
>lose wallet day before going to a movie
>two days after movie get message from campus security
>someone found wallet and gave their info
>text them
>say they will bring wallet back, that they found it *that* morning at a bus stop
>wat.
>give them my address since they said they'll just deliver it to me (nice)
>leave wallet in plastic bad attached to mailbox
This alone does not make me think someone's stalking me, it's just supporting evidence to what happened later as this unknown person now has all my contact info available in my wallet
>walking home in dark
>not paying much attention because I live in a relatively safe area
>look back
>person peering at me from behind a building I just passed
I think it's probably nothing, but become more alert
>I look back again, they're still staring
>they pull head back behind building
>peek
>nope
>speed walked home (didn't want them to be intensely aware that I knew they were watching me if they were dangerous)
I forgot to mention I've also been seeing the same guy everywhere, including at that theatre where they followed me downstairs to the bathroom
Cont.
>>16904025
I demand you post titties immediately!
>>16904025
>in theatre
>go downstairs to bathroom before movie
>nothing downstairs except m/f bathrooms (m on left, f on right, roughly twenty feet apart)
>look behind just as I enter bathroom
>guy standing 10 ft behind me
>eye contact
This freaked me out, but I automatically kept walking into the bathroom
>stood in hall of bathroom for a minute to check if they were going to follow me in
>they didn't, so I did what I had to do and walked back upstairs
>didn't see guy upstairs or any other time that day
I don't think I can call the police since they haven't done anything and I'm unsure whether I'm even being stalked, it could very well just be paranoia, how do I lower the chance of this type of thing happening?
TL;DR- possibly being stalked, what do?
I know it sounds canned, but surprisingly, wiki-how's can sometimes be pretty useful in life.
http://www.wikihow.com/React-if-You-Think-Someone-is-Stalking-You
Totaled my car, what do I do with it (if anything)?
2009 ford fusion. Frame is bent out of whack, engine is fucked. Cops had it towed to an impound lot.
The lot wanted the title/deed to the car and $75 to take it.
Do I retrieve it and pay the towing fee to scrap it? Would I even break even?
My dad suggested just not following up with them and letting them do whatever with it, rather than paying them to take it, but he wasn't sure if it was legal.
Would this legal, and would there be repercussions for abandoning it?
>>16903949
Don't pay somebody to take it. It's worth money, even in that state. Generally, most junkyards will pay you a few hundred bucks for it, and some will go pick it up somewhere to get it. I'd recommend calling all the local junkyards and finding out if they want it and if they'll give you anything for it. I know that there's one in my area that will pick up just about anything with four wheels (or less) and give you a couple hundred bucks for it. The lot is ripping you off, especially asking you to pay for them to keep it, as they will make money off it no matter what.
>>16903949
Also, your dad is an idiot. If you abandon the car, the lot can charge you a daily fee for the car being there (if they're not already) and you are legally on the hook for it to a point. I don't know what the limit is, but even if you disappear, they will turn your debt into collectors and it will follow you wherever you go.
That's not even near "totaled". Just sayin.
What's adv"s thoughts on short replies from girls and guys?
Is it a form of friendzonging?
>>16903848
It's a sign of the times. People are horrid at replying, if they reply at all. The modern youth is comfortable with "easy come, easy go." They don't realize it's rude, because it's all they've ever grown up with.
So don't take offense to it. It's rarely anything personal. If you don't agree with it, find more talkative/respectful people to interact with.
>>16903851
Get outta here grandpa!
>>16903848
Means they're busy, blowing you off, or not the texting type.
>>16904035
If they're busy but still giving you a reply back, that's good?
Okay. So when I was 13-16 I had such an amazing body. I stayed at or under 100 pounds. I wasn't honey though. I loved my thighs, they were so small. My waist, my ribs, collar bones. EVERYTHING was perfect. Well, not so much anymore. I think I'm around 120 now. I eat so much junk food it's ridiculous. I'm gonna post a picture bc I wanna know what my body is considered; tiny, skinny, average, thick, fat.
I'm 5'5. I have scoliosis so my weight carries more to my right side. I really want honestly on what body type I have please.
*boney not honey
You're skinnyfat. Lift stuff.
Hit the gym.
