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I've been texting a guy in another state for 4 months now. Only for the past 2 weeks, his replies have been less frequent and the time span is a lot longer between texts. For example, last night he didn't replied me (6pm) and right now he hasn't replied me for 2 hours.He has no plan today either.
Should I ask him if he is talking to another girl?
>>16912564
he is probably just doing other shit and can't be bothered talking. girls always think this but normally we are just busy. calm it.
>>16912573
But if he told me the truth, he is not doing anything besides watching TV.
You are probably right though.
idk, I just feel fed up with this as it seems like it won't lead to anything. 4 months and we r still just texting. He doesn't seem like he is planning to visit me anytime soon. But I feel guilty to talk to another guy even though we are nothing.
>>16912607
You see that is a problem
Why should he come and visit you while you do nothing
You're the type that only wants to wait for others to put all the pieces together for you
He could have a problem or just wants some time alone
Hey /adv/, I've been growing a beard for a few months and will be growing it for another 5 at the very minimum.
Do you have any advice on keeping this shit looking good or how to make it look good if you're of the opinion that it currently looks shit?
Length has to be kept, though.
Are you arab?
Get a pocket comb.
Check it regularly to make sure you dont have shit in it.
Get a pair of trimming scissors to take care of loose, wiry hairs
>>16912549
White Britfag
Does anyone want to talk right now? I feel very stressed
>>16912430
Sure, what's on your mind?
What stresses you?
Im mostly here to insult
I asked my husband to get a job yesterday night before we go to bed.
>we're a young couple (19yo and 20yo)
>he's been in school since September
>financial aid dropped him in January
>he planned to get a job but he's been unemployed ever since
>he had binge on job applications some day
>some day just play League from morning to tonight
>I've...
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>>16912216
>getting married younger than 21
>getting married without any financial planning
>getting married at all
I am 21 and make 80k a year. I am looking for a girlfriend. Dump him. Date me. Profit.
but seriously you need to give him a reality check.
>>16912216
dump your shitty boyfriend, you already know the answer.
I've been drinking 4-5 monsters a week for the past month now and my girlfriend is getting all upset about it saying that it's gonna cause me all sorts of health problems. I disagreed, are energy drinks really "that" bad for you?
Yes, if you drink it that often. You need to cut back. Drink one every 2 weeks.
I drank 6 red bulls over the course of a week to handle insomnia (one per day) and I ended up in A&E.
Drinking sugary drinks that often can't be good for you anyway.
>>16912197
I have a friend whom drinks about 4 to 8 monsters a day.
fucking sick, everytime I see him I warn him about that, he just doesn't care :<
How can I get a bf? I've heard that as a femanon it should be easy as I'm not fat but I still don't have one, I'm also not picky, but don't approach people due to shyness, how can I fix this?
Resolve your shyness.
>>16912020
Maybe shy wasn't the right word.. I can talk to people well if they approach me because I know they want to talk to me, but I can't approach people because I'm afraid they won't want to talk to me.
>>16912031
I'm fine with calling that shyness. Resolve it. Feel the feeling and then act anyway. Yes, they might not want to talk to you. It makes no difference in the big picture. You just continue on until you find someone else you want to approach.
Im at the beach righr now. A few moments ago, I almost died drowned. A fucking wave took me in and I coukdnt escape, I swallowed a shitload of water and thought I was totally dying, finally.
By a miracle the sea chose to bring me back, and Im right here, typing this. Feeling alive.
I have been given a second chance. I dont know how I should thank the universe for it.
I honestly dont know what to do with my life now. Any anons here also had a NDE?
You should fap
I almost died the same way as a kid. The wave hit me and I smacked my head on the ground, which knocked me unconscious. It was really weird waking up on the sand with a massive headache.
>>16911929
Maybe you did die and this is all in your head
/adv/, define dateable female personality, please.
Most girls with boyfriend(s) I see around the campus are normal: whine and appear weak only to manipulate guys to do favours for them. It is the most appropriate female action, it seems.
I hate behaving in this manner, does that mean guys won't look at me?
Tried to act as I'm supposed to with a guy I really liked, and only felt miserable.
i'd date you anonette
You're buying into the women hate on 4chan, just act like yourself, there's literally a man for every women (some say there are more women, but it can't be by much.) The problem here is the m/f ratio on a college/uni campus, more men will drop out when compared to women so there are more women on campus and the men can afford to be more picky.
You're a misogynist and that's unattractive.
These threads never work, but whatever. The idea here is that all the fags trying to not be lazy anymore, e.g.:
>>16911087
>>16911564
Do stuff together and update each other on their progress every 30 mins to an hour. So basically, come into this thread and say "I am going to do x for three hours." Then update us on whether or not you are actually sticking to it.
>>16911751
Not a usually lazy person, but I really don't want to start on my senior thesis. Been putting it off for two months. It's due in a month. Have 16 pages to go. I've got my outline, and I'm going to start on some of the paragraphs I care most about. Will keep going until I run out of good ideas. See you later, bros!
well, i'm going to put my son to bed, then clean the kitchen and take a shower, do some meditation and reading. i also have some texts i need to answer and i try to avoid that.
I need to take a shower and get some laundry done.
Hown do I stop crying from every argument l have with my wife? I am 23 and whenever we have a heated argument with her or with whoever I start to tear up. Why is this?
I'm a male. I am sensitive but it sucks crying so much in front of my wife. I feel emancipated and I feel like it shows weakness
>>16911682
>23
>married
>crying
Priceless. For everything else, there's mastercard.
23 is pretty young to be married for a man. You're just immature. Women are a joke. I can't help but laugh when arguing with women, no matter the subject.
>>16911682
>emancipated
you don't even know what words you're using and you're married? what a dope!
I need some help:
I am new to skateboarding and I have had my board for about 3 weeks. When I push it, it turns to the right. I am not sure how to fix this issue. I tried to fix the trucks, but it still goes to the right. Please help
>>16911611
What? Does it happen when you aren't on it? Like, if you just kick it down the street?
You are probably putting your weight on one side too much because you are a noob.
That would be my first guess. As far as "fixing it" - I have no idea, I don't even remember what the underside of my skateboard looks like.
>>16911611
How old are you anon? I'm 29 and want to buy myself my first board. Am I too old?
>16911619
When I push it when I am not on it, it goes to the right. I tested it in a tennis court.
>16911623
I am 22 and you are never to old to skate. I am enjoying it a lot. You need to stay motivated tho as it can be frustrating.
Hey, /adv/, how do you guys confess to a girl you like? Do you guys just plain ask her out on a date or do you guys straight up tell her how you feel?
>pic unrelated
>>16911595
PLEASE. PLEASE. Do not confess.
Whenever a guy confessed to me I was immediately turned off. Makes me cringe so much.
>>16911607
What do you suggest then? I want to tell the girl I like how I truly feel but I don't really know how to do it. We're planning on going out to eat next weekend and I was planning on telling her there.
>>16911614
No dude, you let the momentum and the sexual tension build on the dates and keep talking to her to keep her interested before and after.
You're basically like trying to turn on your water faucet without any pressure in the pipes so the whole thing just doesn't work.
Hello, /adv/!
I'm a little sick and have a few hours to spare while waiting for a bus, so I thought that I might come offer some 'alternative' (by 4chan standards) advice with some of that time.
I don't pretend to have all answers, but I promise to answer as best I can!
>>16911540
Why the fuck are you a Christian?
>>16911540
Can you tell me which version of the bible conservatives use? Because it's not the one I have read. You guys seem to think it's best to fuck over the poor, worship the wealthy, kill people in war, and just generally disregard human welfare, none of which agrees with the Gospels. Or perhaps you could explain why you even bother calling yourself a 'Christian' when you clearly care more about conservative politics than anything Jesus had to say
>>16911545
That's a good question! It started mostly because I was raised around it, but my eyes were truly opened to it only when I got to college. I started looking around, exploring the world's religions and their holy texts, but then--on a whim--I revisited the gospel of Matthew. Whether it was because my re-reading it was framed better having had more exposure to the world or otherwise, from that point on I began to realize just h ow much the teachings of Jesus resonate with me as truth.
i read my boyfriends texts yesterday and i saw that he was talking ot his ex girlfriend who hes still "good friends" with. she was asking him if he still liked getting his nipples stimulated and thens he randomly talked about how he liked her asshole one time. and then she was trying to tell him how to have sex with me? it really grossed me out and made me upset.
so i got fucking angry and when i confronted him he just said that they were together for a long time so they were comfortable with eachother.
am i fucking crazy for being enraged by this?
inb4 "you shouldnt have read his texts"
>2016
>dating people who are still in contact with their exes
Go ask your mom how her ex-boyfriends are doing. She either
a) has no idea or
b) has lots of time to talk about those guys because she's long divorced from your dad.
Come on already.
No, he clearly still has a thing for his ex and she has a thing for him. I would dump my girl if i found out she was doing that shit with an ex
>>16911342
i think she likes him but i dont think he likes her
>be me
>29
>always am attracted to girls that have been through shit
>get turned on by friendzone
>I just want a girl that will take control of my life and give me direction
>I worship females and feel so submissive in their presence, to the point thats it downright embarrassing
>most girls I encounter can immediately sense this
I just want a girl...
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This is not mommy issues. This is a lack of socialization with females.
Would you let her peg you?
>>16911223
Depends, whats in it for me?
