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I need some advice I guess, or maybe I don't, I'm not sure. I feel so out of touch with everything around me, and it isn't that I don't try to pull myself back in it just seems the harder I try the more tired I get because in the end nothing helps. I feel really depressed, I can't get into the things I used to enjoy like playing music, drawing, or writing because nothing meets my already low expectations of what I'll make even though I try to put everything I can into it. I can't interact well socially because I don't relate to anyone...
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Are you in highschool? It's a common problem there. Try new things till how find what you love again. If no one else loves them wait till you get into college. You'll find people who also like that same thing .
>>16891191
23, and out of college. Shits been going on since I was probably 8 or 9.
I'd recommend a trained councilor... my subjective opinion is it has the sounds of depersonalization personality disorder DPD.
I'm basing this of a feeling keep in mind
Ever since my gf broke up with me and moved to a different state, I've been unable to pursue any of my passion projects.
I just go to my day job, perform it like a robot, and come home to my empty apartment. If I try to make anything, I fail. I used to make tons of shit almost every day. She was my muse.
Right now, I'm sitting at my desk, just had my coffee and my meds. I should be ready to go. But I'm not.
I'm wasting days. I'm putting the weight I lost back on. This has been going on for over a month now.
I feel empty. I...
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>>16891161
Focus more on what your trying to make instead of your ex. By the way you speak about her you put her on a pedestal. You've lived without her before, you can do it again.
>>16891324
I suppose, man. It's just hard, being alone again.
Normally I can force myself to care about stuff, but my tank feels so empty right now.
I feel like shaking things up would help, but I don't know what to do. I just have the same old friends to do the same old shit with.
>>16891876
Do something by yourself then.
How do I wake Mr bubbles?
Make a boat put, the Bubbles in the boat, put the boat in the tank and set it on fire. He'll be fine after 3 days.
>>16891142
Thanks
/adv/, I have a problem sleeping with my wife.
Not sexually mind you, like actual sleeping. You see, she kicks and jerks while sleeping. This is an issue because we're on a relatively cheap spring mattress. So when she kicks or jerks, it rocks/sways the entire bed a good bit. She does it almost every couple of minutes at night once she falls asleep. Now, I can sleep through it just fine generally, but the issue comes if I'm trying to get to sleep, because when I'm going to sleep and I'm almost asleep then she kicks and it jars the bed, it wakes me...
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Simple as fuck. Get a separate bed, or two twins/full sized beds that you can push together for bang town, and separate when sleeping.
You're both adults and married. Should be understandable.
You could tough it out after you move. And at least you are sleeping in the same room, so you're not going. Anywhere.
If you don't want to buy a new mattress, which you should be, then you can sleep on the floor or the couch. You could also try an air mattress, but that money could easily go into a new mattress.
Even if you move you'll still need a new bed. Keep an eye out for sales and do research on the best one for you.
>>16891113
Tie her up.
How do I tell a friend that I have feelings for her without ruining the friendship?
I realize that however I say it, her mind is already made up whichever way it may be, and there's always gonna be that risk/awkwardness, but I don't want those things to be worse than they need to be if she doesn't feel the same way.
Is "I need to be honest about this, I have a bit of a crush on you" a good way to say it?
Don't "confess" that's inorganic and awkward as fuck.
Just ask if she'd be interested in going on a date some time.
>>16891104
The thing is, we've already done a lot of date type stuff without calling it that (or anything else), and I've had it before where I realize long after the fact that I went on a date without knowing it.
Feed her and put her in a good mood first.
In brief, i'm quiete sure she is interested, because she gave me a decent amount of signals: she's looking for me on FACEBOOK, she wants to hang out alone with me, she invited herself to my house when i was alone (and she knew it) BUT i'm scared to move things forward, even if i'm the MEN. Surely she wants to have sex with me rether then a story XD. But i've almost no sexual experience so i'm SCARED to take action (vs her in particular). On the other hand, i know that she won't do more then what she did. Im the men.
What should i do?...
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>>16891095
Just sit back and let her take control.
She knows what she wants and how to get it. Let her have it.
>>16891095
Damn, is this how you get a sugar momma
>>16891095
Enjoy this, it won't happen when you're older.
huh. Im soon to finish first year in history studys. Studying middle ages now, which i hate, but whatever, ill get past it no problem. Last days im starting to wonder what will i do with my useless fucking degree. Im 19 and will finish uni at age 22 and be a bartender or smth from then.
What will i do with it and what can i possibly do with this degree. I really love history and find it interesting, makes me think and understand world, but I don't wanna spend my life sitting in archive or museum. I want my job to be interesting.
How useless is history degree...
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come on 4chan, motivate me or at least demotivate me. TELL ME THINGS!!
>>16891123
My grandpa has had a history degree
>>16891090
Come over to europe and do your PhD or next step in your studies here. After that find a job in your field, its probably not the best paying job but its better then bartender.
How to last longer during sex?
Try not to cum works for me
How are you at math? Do some problems in your head, think about meat loaf anything to take your mind off of what your doing.
>>16891084
Cum more than once.
I don't know if there's anyone here that can help me. I just want to know the truth and I know I can't get it from him, it has to be from her. I found her facebook page, google plus and all and all I gather is that she is perfect for him so I don't know if he is just using me? Till he knows he can be with her for good?
So I was wondering if anyone could help me gather more information. I know there are places on the net I could gather it from but I don't know how to get there because let's face it, I'm just a stupid useless girl. If anyone...
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>>16891082
You won't get a clean answer short of snooping on their fb and phones.
It doesn't matter anymore. 4chins has never helped with this shit and most likely never will.
Just run off and don't look back.
No matter how shit a girlfriend you are, it's never okay to cheat. Breakup is the only right way to end a bad relationship.
I'm not a bad girlfriend, I do everything for him, I stayed with him no matter how many times he cheated on me over the past years, I give him everything he wants, I cook and clean and do the laundry for him I pay all his bills I'm the only person who is always by his side no matter what I'm not a shitty girlfriend
dont even bother, girl. You shouldnt care. Hes not good enough for you. Trust me. If my gf cheated on me ill just go away and wont even think about looking back. Be happy that he did it now and didnt waste more of your time.
>want to start a youtube channel where i talk about interesting and original content
>record myself over 30 times and not be satisfied with the result
what do?
pic related, everytime i see footage of myself
Stop making shit content and it should fix itself.
Give a link to your shit and we'll give you advice on how to fix it.
We are going need a link if you are talking about visual content
as i said in OP, i did not have any content up
i want advice on how to not be harsh when critiquing myself. i don't think i'm bad but self-confidence and the idea that my friends will see me intimidate me to no end
I am tired of 4chan, but where else can I go? I need a good source for internet content, but reddit went to shit and tumblr is too decentralized of an information flow for my taste. It tried 2chan but I don't know Japanese so it got old p fast.
I feel like 4chan is dissolving my soul but I need more memes and fun stuff to read. Please help.
Best I can do is Facepunch
One of my friends has not talked to me and many other people. She literally drops people and doesn't talk to them ever again. I have this girl's address and I'm trying do decide if I should give her a piece of my mind or leave her bitchass alone. What do you think /adv?
She's a bitch, what more do you want.
Just leave her be, you gain nothing from calling her out but an ego boost
She might be a bitch but you sound like a fucking asshole.
Grow up. She owes you and your shitty friends nothing. Get some help before you permanently ruin your life.
>>16891044
drops them how? does she tell people "I don't want to talk to you anymore, have a nice life"? or does she just go long periods without talking to anybody?
if it's the first, she's either a bitch or has mental issues. if you decide to give her a piece of your mind, it will have more impact if you're specific. tell her it's rude to just abruptly cut people out of her life for no reason. then at least there's a tiny chance she'll catch a clue and change. if you just...
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is chemical engineering a good degree?
In today's world? It doesn't fucking matter. Know what does? Networking your ass off.
Also found this funny since I work as a chemist. My BA is in philosophy.
>>16891033
how do i network
Broke up with girlfriend due to complications. It could've worked but she's not in the position to realize how we could fix this and her interest is gone.
How do I get over this? This is really fucking hard and I don't know what to do to feel good. She won't accept meeting with me for any closure and I feel that's the only way I can move on. I just want to get over her.
>>16891029
Have you tried drugs and alcohol?
If not just give it time. You'll think about her less and less as time goes on.
>>16891032
I'm considering alcohol. Will that really help?
>>16891029
Fuck another girl.
Not even kidding. The attention from another girl will take the edge off what your brain is doing right now (which is literally addiction withdrawal).
Dating and sex with another girl is the quickest way to get over it.
Why do people base their feelings on relationships? Every thread in here is something like "oh I'm so depressed because my gf/bf left me" or "I hate myself because I've never had a relationship" Who cares? Why let something so stupid rule your life? I'm married and if my wife left me it wouldn't bother me not like this
>>16890972
Why do people (you) lie about their feelings on here
WAIT
BETTER YET
WHY DOES THIS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ADVICE?
>why do things that happen or not happen to people affect their feelings
Serious question: are you autistic?
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