What is your depraved fetish that girls won't indulge you in?

>>16891887

its one of those weird rules of science like gravity. its universal and exists for literally no reason, but its 100% true and not at all a stupid attempt at a bait thread.

>>16891892
I just want her to dress up in a furry costume and piss on me, and she acts like that's just the fucking sickest thing.

You realize if you go through with it, she'll essentially be fucked over for life, have massive abandonment and daddy issues, might not ever end up in a decent home, and might just end up dead in a ditch OD'd.

If you're having a tough time, swallow your pride and get some help. Most governments are pretty sympathetic to single parents.

>>16891870
get help from relatives, friends, gov't
killing yourself is probably the worst thing you could do for her you selfish faggot

I suppose I am just a selfish faggot

hearing her say "daddy" is literally my favorite thing

still feel shitty af though

even posting here I'm just whoring for attention

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I've been in this position and I don't think it'll end the same way for us both. Honestly me and the guy I was dating broke up twice. Once we had forced no contact which basically drove us both crazy. The next time we kept mutual contact, and after a month of grieving I began to feel okay without him.
Honestly, I think what you need to do is let it all out. Allow the contact, allow the obsession to show its ugly face, because bottling it isn't going to get rid of it. Most likely you'll wear yourself out of this obsession by letting yourself feel...
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shameless self-bump. I contribute to so many other threads, hope someone contributes to mine

it sounds like you already know what you have to do. break the procrastination and just get going again dude. things will fall into place. even if you think you can't face the idea of finding work again, you gotta do it for your wife man. you can retire in 20 years or so if you stay on track.

OP are you traumatised by that specific type of work, or just working in general?

I have a similar situation to yours - I worked a decent-paying but high-stress job and eventually burned out. I was left with severe depression and panic attacks. I had had depression and anxiety before and was working on it, but the stress of the job made it so bad that I couldn't work at all. And yes, I felt very ashamed about it.

One of the biggest things that has helped me was learning to not be ashamed. It sounds like that may be one of your biggest stumbling blocks and...
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>>16891833
Go see a therapist.

>>16891840
I did. The grief is not eating me up from the inside anymore (lost 3kg in 2 weeks through lack of eating) but the grief is still there.

I feel so mad about how unfair what happened to her was

>>16891833
You were too young at the time to properly grieve. This means you're going to have to deal with it now, or you'll spend the rest of your life haunted by the things you saw.

>>16891840
Anon is right, find a professional and work out the things on your mind. It'll do you a hell of a lot of good. I suffered a bereavement at a young age and it took me >20 years before I tried to deal with it.

>>16891826
No it is deudly poison

>>16891826
Yep. I've taken pills from packs that have accidentally split in my bag or whatever, and I've never had any problems

>>16891819
Go to professional courses. Learning language like mandarin on your own and through web is a terrible idea. Internet can help but it cannot be your main teacher. Good irl teacher is absolutely essential.

>source: learned mandarin for almost two years

>>16891835

I would go. But i don't work and i can't ask for my parents to pay (it's quite the money for us) because its something they view as "superficial" and not really important to invest money into. They already pay for my brother's medical school and are trying to save money for the family business (I help them with it but it doesn't really make enough to pay for more than food and other fundamental expenses).

Sorry for the rant but its just so you get the picture and can...
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Should I switch to an easier yet asian language such as Korean or Japanese? Which one would I be able to learn studying by myself at home 4 hours/day?

>>16891804
Your testosterone caps out on the 7th day of not fapping from what I understand. So fap once a week for maximum results. Also being hornier will give you more incentive to hit on women. Get a girl and then you can just have sex everyday and say goodbye to fapping.

I'm pretty sure there aren't any and that nofap is just a bunch of psuedoscientific bullshit and cherry-picked studies.

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>>16892034
CURIOUS HOW YOU CALL NO FAP PSEUDOSCIENCE BUT KEEP PUSHING PSYCHOLOGY

>>16891786
Dunno much about anger management, but I find that breathing deeply while removing myself from the situation for a moment (physically if possible) helps me a good deal. I also stay vigilant of when I'm starting to become upset and try stave off the anger by attempting a different approach to whatever happens to be frustrating me.

>>16891786
Poker logic for immediate issues says you should be aware of what can set you off, outside factors any given day that may make you easier to set off, and to try and counteract these issues even if it means getting out of a bad spot.

On another level, ask yourself why you get mad. For me, it is pride. This is a long term question.

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It's tough but in can be done. >>16891828 can definitely work. When I was younger I would have to just go away and be alone until I wasn't angry. Sleep usually helped, as well.

Nowadays I can usually just convince myself that exploding into a rage isn't worth it, and would only cause me unnecessary problems.

>>16891779
>In the last year we have only seen each other, like 12, maybe 15 times

is this even a relationship? sounds like a mess about. one if you clearly doesn't really give a shit.

You are essentially not in a relationship.
In reality she probably doesn't see you as her boyfriend, not that she necessarily has someone else, hence why you barely see her.
Call it quits. You have nothing, there isn't really anything to attempt to salvage here.

Ask yourself this, if you didn't contact her, at all, for a week, or for a month, would she even notice?

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>>16891799
>is this even a relationship?
This is pretty much the feeling that has been slowly festering in me. And it's not that I want someone else, but it feels not even a part of it of the mess.
>>16891806
>if you didn't contact her, at all, for a week, or for a month, would she even notice?
This is where the headache starts.
I have tried to focus on myself, but she seems to notice when I...
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Gaiz, plz help plz

It's up to you. I think the biggest issue here is the money, so if you can afford it without it impacting you too much financially (including loans and whatnot), then I would personally go for it.

Not sure if it'll help you socialise though, seeing as you live with 20 people and still don't know anyone other than your classmates, and you're moving in with your classmates anyway

>>16891742

you text them with a 'sup' and see if they even bother to respond first. do it on a night. not too late. not too early. gauge their response to some general stuff.

>sup
>nm you
>just watchin some netflix. you should come over.
>ill bring my dragon dildo!

its that easy.

SWANS!!

What happened?

>>16891738

here's a plot twist: IT DEPENDS.

women are not toasters. there is no single combo that works on them. some girls get mad if you take an hour to respond. some girls lose interest because you just because someone there to keep them busy via text while they interact with real men in the real world.

the big question is, what is the nature of the relationship? are you dating yet? like legitimately bf and gf dating? if not, i tend to only use text to confirm plans.

>we...
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>>16891738
Yes. "I want to be with you every waking moment" is better on paper than in practice.

oh right I guess I figured I enjoyed getting a message from her every time it happened so she would also enjoy getting them from me but I guess maybe I should message less

>>16891730
Make sure to hop in a time machine to 10 years ago

Do whatever you want no one really cares

>>16891730

why not?

>>16891675

got pics?

>>16891675

ur kinda just as bad as they are if ur whining about alpha male and the number of times you get laid.

life isn't about the number of people you stick your dick in. its enjoyable but its not important at all. you do not need to be an alpha male to get laid, let alone often.

>>16891681
for the safety of my anonymity, im not posting a picture of my face.
>>16891695
well being an alpha male is an important factor in this life, as much as we like to think to justify against with with some caveman theory or whatnot - women still pick them. silly losers with the safezone jobs and boring lives (imma gonna b good daddy to our baby) deter girls in their 20s.

and i dont wanna settle in my life just yet.