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Hi !
>be me
>student
>sometimes we have IT projects to do
>As far back as I can remember I always did the coding 100% by myself even if I was forced in a group
>didn't go to uni in a while
>learn we have 2 different projects to do
>this chinese weeaboo insist to work with me on both projets and message me on fb
>I say yes but I tell her I always do the coding myself
>she says she want to work and it's mean but I didn't get if it was for me or for her as she doesn't speak french very well
>I ask her what she meant by this
>she didn't get my ansew so I loose patience and tell her yes we can work together on both projets
Now I feel fucked I'd like her to give me the subjects but I don't want her anywhere my code as she's only beginning and doesn't know shit about what we do. She says she will make efforts but I'm in a difficult situation where I'd like to release some stress by securing good grades in CE and be cool if any failure happens.
Also I already have been grouped multiple times with her in Practicing Sessions so she got that I'm confortable with the languages and platforms we use and I saw that she was often lost and sometimes even suggested non-sense codes or command-lines.
I'd like to be nice and work with her but t.b.h. I fear I will lost a shitload of time by trying to make her do something Ok. Maybe I can ask her to do the makefile... Or simply letting empty function in my code for her to complete... What do you Anons think ? What would you do ?
>>16890672
Regis?
>>16890672
can you explain the joke to me please
>>16890722
unix shell script hat has a 1 in 6 chance of wiping whole hard drive (otherwise prints "Lucky Boy")
i.e. geeky version of russian roulette
Hey /adv/. My brothers girlfriend seems to always ask me if im dating anyone or if i want her to hook me up with someone everytime i see her. Its a short conversation that happens every few weeks when i see my bro and his girlfriend. We hangout and when i go to leave she seems to always ask me if i want her to hook me up with someone. Its somewhat annoying. I refuse and leave everytime. Honestly im not in a place right now that i want a girlfriend i just wouldnt have the time to treat her right. Im dealing with my personality issues( i have ocd but i never told anyone.) and am trying to become the best version of myself with diet and exercise. I feel like a girl would just complicate everything more and might make it all 10 times harder. Idk im probably over thinking this alot. Anyway another big concern is if i did go out with whoever this girl is we wouldnt have anything in common. It would turn out horrible and i would probably take a hit to the confidence i have worked so hard to build. What do you guys think should i go for it or not? I literally know nothing of this girl idk if there is multiple girls or what i have no idea. Also to make it completley clear my guts telling me not to do it.
if you dont want to deal with women, then dont. it's not crazy what you're saying.
however if this is just some shy bullshit way of allowing yourself to never feel vulnerable by making excuses, you should probably change that otherwise youre in for a very sad life
>>16890651
You have a somewhat autistic view of relationships. It's ok, it's what everyone grows up thinking.
People are interesting. A friend is someone who shows you stuff. Music, hobbies, activities, bars... A girlfriend is a kind of friend. She isn't there for you to treat right or to have sex with. She is there to teach you what she knows meanwhile you teach her what you know. Don't undervalue that just because you are busy exercicing. Meeting new people is always a good experiment. It might work out, it might not. Worst case scenario: it goes nowhere. Best case scenario: it changes how you view the world.
If you are fine where you are right now, its alright but IMHO you should always try for more.
>>16890654
I dont think it is. I really just am dealing with shit and dont think i could be in a relationship with someone and actaully be a good partner to them the way i am now.
How do people make it as neets?
I have no skills that could be used for a job, i hate speaking/the sound of my voice and i have no connections. I don't want to be wageslave i really don't but i'm afraid once my mother dies i'll end up a homeless retard. How do i avoid that? It seems like it's unavoidable.I don't see my life getting better, i cannot function at the capacity of a normal person, my time's running out. I need help.
>>16890572
>How do people make it as neets
they live off their mother until she dies then become homeless retards
suck it up and get a job
>>16890572
They don't, that's why they're NEET.
See if you can get a doc to diagnose you as an actual autist, and then see if you can find programs meant to help mentally-disabled people. My local grocery market seems to hire disabled people specifically, and my cousin who has severe mental disabilities has an easier time finding jobs than I do.
How do I tell for sure if I have one of these? Basically overnight there's this pinching sensation just inside my asscrack. I feel it when I spread my cheeks, touch it etc. There's no swelling or pus or anything, yet. The area is also pink colored. But I don't fucking want one of those cyst things considering I'm actually healthy and don't sit around all day like some NEET. Will this go away on it's own as long as it doesn't get worse?
GO TO THE DOCTOR! No seriously, my family is very prone to that shit, my father and all my three siblings have gotten bad ones.
For your sake OP I hope it is just some cracked skin because these things fucking suck.
>>16890539
Oh man, I had a rectal abscess when I was 18.
Go to the doctor NOW. Like, fuck. I ignored it and I didn't recover until I was 19 and I wasn't fully recovered until I was 20.
Doctor. Now.
>>16890539
This is really common OP and embarrassing. Those things seriously suck. I had one and I'm scared it might come back.
How do you know you will be good at learning languages before trying it when you're an adult?
Pic unrelated
>>16890533
Actually it'll be harder to learn a new language as an adult unless you already speak one!
Something to do with your brain development and how kids are better at learning new sounds.
My advice: You wanna learn french? Take some basic courses, get a handle on the basics. Then move to france and speak it every fucking day. Immerse yourself in that shit. You'll get there and it'll be a good experience.
>>16890533
You don't know how good you will be until you try. What kind of fucking question is that?
>>16890533
you don't. So try it and find out, fuccboi
What do people think about relationships where the couple have opposite personalities, but similar interests?
I'm in that situation right now and wondering how it has worked out for others.
it only works if you force your personality and don't let her change you.
There's a difference between opposite personalities, and complementary personalities. The latter can work, and often does. The former is usually a recipe for disaster, at least in the long run. "Opposites attract" is not reflective of actual, lasting relationships.
google 16personalities
my grill and i are opposites and we're together for more than a decade. No struggle.
communication is important.
I have an interview with a call centre tomorrow.
I need to buy something to wear. I want something acceptable but not over the top formal, if ya know what I mean?
Ideas pleases! (I am a 22 y/o male)
>>16890505
Golf tee and slacks that aren't jeans.
>>16890505
Slacks, a button down, some nice shoes.
It's a fucking call center. Don't wear a suit. Dress how you would dress for work.
Just make sure you shower, wash, get a hair cut, shave, wear clean clothes, brush floss and mouthwash.
Smell good, be clean, haircut, and just dress how you would day to day at the job.
Button up shirt (tucked in, leave the top button undone) and pants that aren't jeans or chinos in obnoxious colours. Dress shoes. Belt, preferably one in the same colour as your shoes. Clean-shaven or neatly groomed facial hair, no stubble.
I have crowded teeth, similar to the ones in the pic, except my two lateral incisors, one on the top and other on the bottom, are pushed in a bit more, fairly "deeply".
I'm in my mid 20s, basically a shut-in, though I make a few hundred bucks a month from online transcribing, but no job with good insurance for me to be able to get braces.
What's the fastest route to getting some on? How long do you reckon I would need to keep them on for?
>>16890500
At least 2 years.
Also, your teeth look fine. Stop using them as an excuse for your shitty life situation.
-I'm a dentist
>>16890529
No his teeth do not look fine. I'm actually a dentist
>>16890529
Heheh, and where did I say I blamed my life problems on my teeth? Having shitty teeth is just another small side effect of all the other problems I have/had which may or may not be my fault, certainly not the source of my problems, although they do make me more unexpressive and self-conscious, which definitely doesn't help in social settings. :[
I started talking to a girl online, shes pretty niave and seems to want my attention. shes kinda dodgy on sending nudes but really I want something more.
I want her to give up her soul to me so I can crush her body with sex and make her fuck all of my friends too, how do you manipulate someone like this? should I just pretend I "love" her and bait and switch or just be kind of cold the whole time and condition her to be a slut by rewarding that... Thank you /adv/
What the actual fuck is wrong with you
>>16890499
>>16890499
You're a fucking asshole
However, so am I so let me enlighten you.
The best way to do it desu is to try and take advantage of her emotions. Make her love you a lot and get your friends to talk to her as well. Invite her into your 'posse'. After you've had enough fun with the goods you need to break up with her and try to destroy her emotionally in doing so. The more she cares about you the easier this will be. Then your friend just needs to be there for her and pick up the pieces. If they invest time, he can get close and probably into a relationship eventually. DON'T leak her nudes to your friends or that will end badly for your little game.
Good luck op,
enjoy the pussy.
>>16890499
How's that "Nice guy" syndrome treating you?
>go to smoke shop every once and a while
>qt grill working there
>start talking to her while my friends are looking around store
>sees there's a minion shaped pipe
>start unleashing my minion meme knowledge on her
>she thinks my stupid meme shit is funny
>next time I go in she remembers me
>jokes around with me some more while we're there
>asks me what my name is and ethnicity n stuff
I feel like we hit it off pretty well but she's probably like 2 years older than me and I'm just a freshman in uni. Would it be weird for me to try and talk to her some more?
>>16890479
It's not weird so far so why would it be more weird?
Unless you make a move and she has a BF that is...
Try to inject some comedy into asking her out for a drink and see what happens. If she says she has a BF, you say, 'That's okay, you bring your BF... I was thinking of bringing my Mum anyway..
That way the potential weirdness is masked by humor. And she'll probably still like you.
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I'm in a nearly two year relationship with a wonderful girl. Things are going spectacularly and I could see us with a house and family in the future.
About two weeks ago I met this girl while out at a pub in town. We made an instant connection. That was a Thursday night. We swapped phone numbers and hung out on Saturday and Sunday for drinks and chats.
I'm certain we both have feelings for each other but here's where it gets complicated.
Both me and her are Christians, but we're both dating people who don't share our beliefs. Fair enough, not everyone wants to believe that stuff, we're both cool with it.
Her boyfriend lives in New Zealand, I live in South Australia and the new girl lives in Sydney soon to move to Melbourne (about an 8 hour drive or 2 hour flight from my town.
The reason I mentioned that we're both Christian is that after talking over the other weekend some of that faith stuff became the topic of the conversation and we realised that we can talk to each other about that stuff a lot easier than to our partners.
It seems I have a few options here...
1: I could keep the new girl as a close friend, which will probably happen anyway, not tell the girlfriend about any of this and keep it a secret.
I kinda dislike this because I haven't told anyone yet and it was making me feel sick today.
2: I could tell my girlfriend that I met another girl but nothing has really happened between us, and continue with option 1. This could potentially end the relationship that there is nothing wrong with, but I love her enough that she definitely deserves to know.
3: I could see how the new girl feels about a slightly closer (for her) long distance relationship and if she's keen then we could both end our current relationships and start a new one together. I could definitely see a stronger future with the new girl but theres nothing wrong with the current one!!!!
Or you could stop being a weirdo by going on "not dates" with strange women. You've never really had female friends or attention, have you?
nah nah nah the new girl loves it and wishes she had more time with me. actually have a few 'yes dates' planned this week
>>16890419
You're not being very Christian, OP. Ask yourself "what would Jesus do?" or enjoy your time in hell, heathen.
So i feel kind of guilty, i love buying street wear like hundreds, supreme, and lrg and shit. I recently copped a 50 dollar hundreds shirt but i feel like i really dont know how to take care of my money.
Should i shop at thrift stores, i mean are there usually nice street wear pieces and other cool finds. I just dont like being ripped off by captialsim when i can buy more clothes even if they are used.
Should i just go to thrift stores instead of going to retail?
Yes. You can find nice brands at the expense of other people. Typically the resale shops are the brand central for thug wear and hoe attire.
>>16890424
this op
meant retale, but still same thing
>>16890418
Stop shopping.
You won enough things.
Never "go shopping". Only buy things when you really need them.
I just found out my gf cheated on me. We live together in an apartment and I can't stay here tonight. I'm staying with a friend and in the morning I plan on taking my things and moving back to my parents' so I can look for another place to live. How fucked am I? I know getting my security deposit back is out of the question, but I also know she can't afford the place we have on her own. I'm not legally liable or anything for leaving her in this situation without an ability to pay the bills right?
>>16890388
Are you on the lease?
Did you sign any sort of agreement, either with her or her landlord about paying rent?
>>16890388
Why are you so emotional, stop being a little bitch.
Find out why she did it so you don't fuck up your next relationship and then don't speak to her.
Improve yourself if it was you who truly fucked up.
Little faggot
>>16890422
Not OP, and I don't have any advice, but holy fuck this is one of the reasons I hate posting on /adv. Yeah I fucking know, it's 4chan and I should expect some bullshit responses, but fuck this stupid nigger faggot. Yeah, I'm probably falling for the bait, but when someone needs serious fucking help, all these niggers do is insult you. I hope you get the advice you're looking for OP.
>have a pretty good and eventful day
>get the urge to fap
>find a decent video
>suddenly overcome with the fact that I still love her despite all the shit she put me through
>lose all desire to fap and just feel like shit
what the hell do I DO? It's been like two months, I haven't spoken to her, I deleted her number, I blocked her on Facebook, the whole 9 yards
so why does it still hurt so much? goddamn it
i don't know what to do
>>16890384
Whatever you do, don't let two months turn into three years. Don't be like, me, anon. I've got nothing for you, but good luck, anyway.
>>16890384
Get back on the horse
Go find a new girl to screw around with and you'll have better things to think about
Fuck a fat chick if you have to, just get her taste out of your mouth
