Ill keep this short >militaryfag >girl I've known for 4 years wants to get married for all them military benefits >was pretty honest about it, said that she believes it's about opportunity for the both of us >my salary will nearly double, she'll get a place to live (getting thrown out in 3 months) >we've never dated before, just friends >I'm 23, she's 22 Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
its an iffy situation just cuz, while you do gain from the marriage part itself, you do lose if she ever decides to just be a fucking cunt and divorce you. even if you are just friends she can divorce and take half your salary later.
on the toher hand, being married means (as you said) doubling your salary. married men tend to get better consideration for everything, you get an actual house (or housing allowance) isntead of being forced to live in barracks, etc. id do it for the double pay alone, but... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16914065 You realize she just has to stick around for a little bit then she gets to take all your shit and possibly you pay her for absolutely nothing for years and years right?
What do you get? Double salary? It's gone when she's gone, fool.
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>19 male me >At Wolfmother concert >Going alone because I've never gone to a concert alone before, figured it'd be interesting >Go to merch stand, pick up shirt before they sell out. Got there late anyways, halfway through opening act >Girl comes up and stands next to me. I don't say anything. >She starts chatting... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16914063 I'm pretty indifferent. I don't know enough about her yet to feel if I have feelings for her or not. If it develops into anything more, cool. If not, then I have a cool concert buddy. Nothing else.
I've gone out on a date with this guy twice now, he only messages me when he is asking to hang out otherwise i do not hear from him, after our last date which was almost a week ago he has not asked to see me again, yet he did kiss me bye.. I'm confused he acts so interested in person but i am not feeling this right now.. help from the perspective of a guy is he trying not to look desperate or is he just not into me.. I'm confused
I know for me personally i don't really like non-personal interaction. I don't really text anyone except for two friends that live really far away. If I do contact someone, it's to ask them to hangout. It took my girlfriend a while to get used to that and we kind of met in the middle. I now semi frequently text her but if we're together she gets all of my time but she knows that if I'm by myself it just mean I want to be by myself. I dunno if that's what this guy is like but i hope that helps some.
>EVERYONE IS YOUR ENEMY >EVERYONE IS A TRAITOR >BE CAREFUL
These are my 2 cents for you faggots, read this again and again. Memorize it. Live by it. Print it and paste it on your wall. I designed it by myself just to post it here.
Why? Because i want you all to learn from my experience. Dont trust anyone, dont say something bad, dont do something wrong, there will be always SOMEONE HEARING and they will tell your allies about it... and so they will destroy you and harm... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16913726 A few weeks ago I would've said you're crazy but my best friend started straight up saying he was talking shit about me and said "dude, really" when I simply asked "what'd you say" then he said it again a week later and now I find it really hard to muster the willpower to start a conversation with him.
>>16913830 this week i was the one talking shit about my workgroup and some IDIOTS told them about it and NOW I AM THE EVIL GUY... now i understand what this guy says... be careful
I've never talked bad about my friends and I've made it clear that I don't want them to talk about me or talk about the things that I say. If you communicate well with your people and find people of quality, then they won't betray you
Well, my life has officially gone down shit creek.
>19 >Live in small town in the middle of nowhere >Living at home with Christian Parents >My father is a minister >Dropped out of highschool, getting a GED, which I'm almost done with >Can't drive yet >No money, but about to get a job
This isn't the problem, but it's why I'm in this mess
I watch porn, I jack off like every other guy, however, my parents know (Don't ask why), and they've threatened to throw the baby out with the bath water and shut down the internet in our house if I don't stop watching porn, only because they practically think it's a heresy to even get an erection, they think that it's wrong to pay for internet if a small portion of it is spent on X-Videos, HentaiHaven, and Shadbase, and they're willing to make everyone suffer if I can't stop. They've decided to make me accountable every day, asking me if I've watched anything X rated, and I'm seriously at the end of my rope, and out of options as to how I should approach and handle this.
What should I do /adv/? Should I:
>Lie to my parents and continue to beat the monkey until I move out, at the expense of feeling bad for lying >Try to stop watching porn, and let the sexual stress build up >Or try something else completely different
Also there is literally nothing do in the hell that I live in, so finding a new outlet is damn near impossible until I leave.
>finally get a gf after a long time >she's my my type exactly and I'm really into the way she looks >more attracted to her than I am any other gf >get really close to her closer than anyone I think I have ever have >we haven't seen each other much but still stalk 24/7 about everything >starting to think about marriage and kids >actually... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
try not to let your insecurities ruin your relationship with someone you actually love. If you two got married and she got assaulted by two males would you divorce her just because something happened out of her control? You may need to go to therapy to get a better understanding of how someone else getting raped traumatizes you.
This is why girls should stfu about shit like that. I made that mistake of telling my boyfriend about some shit that happened with my ex and he was never the same with me after. Lesson learned.
ITT talk of your college experience and recommend tips for a senior like me (or others) on which one to attend. I am thinking a service academy but I am not sure. Give me /adv/.
>>16913338 Make your college experience worthwhile. Don't just go and get good grades. Actually try to get something meaningful out of your classes, even the mandatory ones. The quality of your education isn't up to your professors: it's up to you. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll be ahead of the game.
i'm going to have sex for the first time tomorrow. can you give me any advice? what condoms do i need to get? is it weird to buy them in store? how do we both finish at the same time?
My first time I wasn't confident at all in my cock prowess or cum control. So I studied cunnilingus and fingering technique in depth, I could have written a fucking thesis on it after all of my research. The reason for this is that I made sure that she was satisfied as fuck before even moving onto cock stuff which gave me a massive safety net if I fucked up.
Good thing I did because I came pretty quickly and way before she did during the penetration action, but I got back down there and made sure to finish the job with my face. It worked out, as a result she enjoyed... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16913296 Try to keep calm, don't think about being bad at it.
Just take your time and talk with your partner to be sure you're doing it right. Also keep it simple, if you don't know how to make a cunni for example , just don't for now(unless you really want to)
Also don't be ashamed and don't worry we all had a first time.
If your a girl whose dad left when she was very little, and who has been raped, is there even any point to your existence? Because you'll never be marriage material right?
I'd marry someone with this going on as long as we dated long enough for me to know they were sane. If you have some crazy issues because of it, well, work on them.
I did a long time ago but don't now, at least how most people think of love. Got hurt too many times by people close to me saying I don't care about you with their actions. I hope I'm wrong.
I'm a girl. I like men and have a soft spot for them. It's hard to explain. I will always care about young boys compared to young girls. Men are way better than girls. All my friends are boys. I just have a fondness for masculinity
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In the past few months I've started hanging out with these guys that I really don't like that much. But childish, boring, irritating friends are better than no friends at all which is what I had for literally years.
And I was thinking about the most common thing I see on here which is telling both sexes to just lower their expectations. And really they're right. If the girls on here just hit up short fat NEETs and the guys just hit up fat drug taking moms by tomorrow there would be no single people on /adv/.
So why don't people do this? What... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I've never lowered my standards, not because I feel like I'm better than anyone else but because I'd rather have the right people in my life over just people so I'm not lonely.
Maybe that's just me, I'm not shitting over you lowering your standards are anything, just saying what I think
Because then instead of being full of "why am I single?" threads, /adv/ would be full of "why does my relationship suck and why am I miserable?" threads.
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