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Need website help. I'm relatively good with learning technology and such, and I could probably figure out how to go about setting one up. I'm thinking I would be too busy to do it myself, however.
So where do I find someone to help? Money isn't too much of an issue, but would I need to constantly have someone to work with when it comes to updating my site? How the fug do I find someone pleasant and patient with my requests? I'm looking for a certain a e s t h e t i c.
>>16885298
you just write the html and buy webspace
>>16885303
H-how
>>16885402
https://www.codecademy.com/learn/web
when you finish that, purchase webspace using something like godaddy and use a ftp client like filezilla to upload your content
How do I cope with the fact that I will never live in a medieval/fantasy world? That I'll never drink in a tavern with good friends after a day of adventuring, I'll never walk through castles with royal friends, will never fight with a sword, etc.
I already work in a medieval style inn, I can go hiking, I can travel the world on horseback, but I will never find an inn to rest, bathe and place my horse, or discover new things or get quests. It will never be as good, I will always be stuck in this shit reality.
Larp I guess
books are your friends
also alot of RPGs have the medieval feel to it
>>16885147
Tried that, but it's ot the real thing you know
>>16885151
I haven't been able to enjoy games/rpgs for the last few years, no matter how hard I try to immerse myself. Skyrim was the last game I could play for hours.
If you have any good book recommendations, I'd like to hear them. But then again, it'll never be real.
Have you guys ever felt powerless? Like for example you're a victim of a bully or someone throws a sucker punch at you and you can't fight back. Do you ever just feel weaker than the person who is targeting you?
How do you deal with that kind of situation? For example, today some guy tried to rear end me because he was going over the speed limit before he noticed there was a stop light ahead. He was in the wrong, had to brake hard enough to avoid hitting me. But he was upset at me and when the light turned green he cut me off and gave me the finger. Of course...
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>inb4 OP is a huge pussy
Won't deny it, I am. The guy was a redneck white guy and I'm just a small asian guy. Makes me feel inferior, but I wish I could change and not be so soft.
I feel like I've seen this thread before. Have you posted about something similar?
>>16885039
No, I haven't. I don't make threads in /adv/ that often, in fact this may be the first one this year.
I am having French classes at uni. I really want to be able to speak that language. I don't know any French speakers IRL, but I can practise my friend by chatting with my Quebecois online friend every day. We've known each other for two years.
I worry that one day we will lose contact with each other and I will forget my French simply there are very few opportunities to actually use it here in Australia. I don't want that to happen. I a scared that this will inevitably happen though. I am a girl and he is a guy and you know what everyone says about how "guys...
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>>16884865
somewhere between 0 and 100%
Quebec French isn't completely same as France French, just a reminder
As in, it might be detrimental for your worldwide French skills to practice with a Quebec native speaker
>>16884874
Well...
>>16884884
You can still communicate with other French speakers with Quebec French? It's like how Americans can understand British English and vice versa.
Hey /adv/ my PC is in the living room currently and that's kinda annoying because I can't fap to loli hentai when my parents are at home. What do? I want to move it to my room but my dad asks me why I want to do that but I can't just tell him the truth...
P.S. I'm 18 even though I'm probably less mature than most 12 year olds
get job, get own house, buy own computer, fap your life away...
>>16884696
>I want to move it to my room but my dad asks me why I want to do that but I can't just tell him the truth...
Migjt as well. Not like he doesn't already know.
>>16884708
Well, that's in progress, but it's gonna take 2-3 more years so..
How serious are missed periods?
I haven't had one since January, and apparently my period tracker has looped around and instead of being 27 days late it's now 1 day late again, and I don't feel it coming.
I'm 22, otherwise healthy, never had sex without a condom and none at all for two years.
my girlfriend never had more than 8 in a year. now she has an iud and none ever.
>>16884595
So it's normal that they're random?
>>16884602
well, it's normal for her. when she went to the doctor and mentioned it they did a basic blood test to make sure it was not an iron deficiency or anything and it was not.
In what situations one should engage in physical conflict? When is it reasonable to actually ''fight'', you winning or not? Men seem so afraid of fights nowadays. I see it as something bad, but necessery if the situation requires. However, my visions are rather skewed. When one should engage? What are the tipping points where diplomacy isn't viable/shouldn't be used anymore?
>>16884503
You should use physical force to defend yourself or a loved one from physical harm or threat of imminent physical harm.
>>16884503
>You are being attacked or threatened with physical force
If not you probably shouldnt fight someone.
Now personally I take actions I know will escalate to a fight, but I dont engage in unwanted confrontation. Its just stupid.
So if someone is shouting in my face, itd be dumb to engage in a shouting match with them or hit them. Im not a fucking child. That being said Im petty enough to push their face away from mine, which I know is likely to spark a fight.
>>16884507
>>16884510
Let's say for example; someone just starts ''bullying''(words seems kinda childish), as in, provocking you for no reason on the street, or someone hits on your girlfriend when she's with you and clearly does so in a disrespecting, threatening manner., or even if there's the simple low disrespect that happens to strike a nerve, specially if it's intentional. Should physical conflict be used?
>sure I'll get back into the dating game after a ton of empty sex
>this shit
Welp. What the fuck do I do.
>>16884383
are you the purpose or white text?
>>16884389
purple*
>>16884383
To give the girl some credit, that was kind of rude, but abandon fucking ship man
Give me a reason to not do it
Because you probably just want a better situation than the one you're in now, as opposed to nothing at all
This is an odd place to ask that.
Anyway, family loves you, people will be sad etc etc etc
The fact that you're asking why not to end means you don't want to do it. Find something to love and stick to it, life sucks now it'll get better.
>>16884345
To answer, why do you want to do it in the first place?
Is it weird to date a guy who's 23 when you're 18?
Some will say yes, some will say no.
Yes. He is pretty much a pedophile.
>>16884211
its fine. probably better for you, younger guys are more immature.
Do you think this needs surgery? I tried removing that growth, but it just started bleeding a lot. A LOT. I think it's just dead skin but it won't budge. What is this?
>>16884185
go to a doctor, your toe looks fucked.
Nevermind
It appears to be an older injury, like an ingrown toenail. How long ago did it first appear? Has is ever been swollen, painful, or red around the area?
Also you cut your toenails too short, leave them a bit longer or you will be prone to ingrown toenails, which could have caused that wound.
Man I'm a god at FL Studio, I open up my Sawer, insert a small tune, and I make something amazing using presets. I then publish it on soundcloud and gain like 2000 plays. My family thinks i'm the shit, my friends think i'm the shit, my band teacher thinks i'm the shit, and wow, i'm going to do this for college. This is my passion. I'm talented and a natural at this
Music major at uni reporting in
Ur gonna go to uni and then meet dozens of "the shits". Talent is only achieved through hard work so please humble urself. 2000 views isnt a lot. I once made a rap song about twerking and it got like 1.5k views on youtube. Being proud of something so small is really something id advise against. Who knows maybe you will understand when you go to college.
Inb4 falling for bait.
>>16884681
Sadly, like 75% of the threads here now, this is b8
Is there a question in there? Regardless probably a troll but if not, like the other poster said there are a lot of 'the shits'. It is sad but hard work and even some talent don't mean a lot if there is nothing special about it. Also 2000 views isn't a lot, most cat videos get more than that.
Its an organization that focuses on humanitarian aid, its kind of like the national guard except it goes to other countries.
I'm completely sick of living my life the way it is now, and no matter how hard I try I cant seem to change it for the better, so I'm wondering about just saying "fuck everything fuck this gay society I'm done the US can burn in hell" and exploiting the peace corps to basically get to move for free to another country, get payed to live there, and get all my sex there and just go back to my base when I'm done.
The countries in dark blue are where I could go.
>inb4 why not just rape girls here
Because the US is a 1st world country with modern day technology to track down rapists, plus everyone and their dog has fucking smart phones that can take pics and record video
Other countries care way less and sometimes they don't care at all, and even if they do care they don't have the technology or resources to track a rapist down, especially when he has literally 0 ties to the country and stays in his base 24/7 other than prowling...
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>>16883979
>joining PC to rape women
>>16883978
>>16883979
Remember these words when the locals are hacking you to death with machetes. I've traveled plenty in my life. We are lucky to have the justice system we have, even with how messed up it can be.
19yo here, I've a date on 12th of March
Any advice? Her hobbies are fashion, literature and movies
She has [spoiler] an Instagram account with 20 000+ follows [/spoiler] but she's still shy as fuck
My budget is $1000 and it's my first date ever, what clothes/stuff should I buy and what should I talk about
HELP
>>16883635
Just be yourself.
>>16883635
Just go on a cruise for the weekend. Also $1000 is really low for the first date. With that many instagram followers the usual budget range is $5000 - $10,000. Look up the most expensive restaurants in the world and fly her out to Japan or something to go to one, if you don't want her to be completely disappointed.
>>16883642
>$5000 - $10,000
Jesus fucking christ
I forgot to mention - I live in Europe, so that much money is unimaginable
realistically speaking, what is the least amount of time I can have been dating a girl before it would be considered a huge mistake to marry her?
I'm in a situation where I might have to say goodbye to a chinese girl I met in college forever since its so hard to get working visas but I don't think I can let that happen since I'm so madly in love with her
we will only have been dating for around 5 months when she leaves
it would be easy to keep her here and easy for her to get a job here if we were married, but holy shit 5 months
do...
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One word, PRENUP
I think this is different for everyone. Personally, I wouldn't consider marrying before at least one year. Probably two. The reason being that things cool down dramatically after the "honeymoon period", and you might find the person you're living with unbearable after your hormones stop raging.
>>16883632
how bad can things go if I get a prenup
>>16883633
so do I make her leave the country and try to find other ways for us to be together to wait to decide? it seems like I wouldnt find out if she was right for me if we weren't living together anyways and then she might slip away from me under the pressures of long distance relationships, plus if we only see each other on visits it would be like a bunch of honeymoon periods instead of normal life
