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I think my boyfriend is too close to his daughter. He likes to cuddle with his daughter, kiss her on the lips, take baths with her, go shopping for underwear together, she likes to touch him all over and always dresses loosely around him, among other things. She's 14. Should I be concerned?
>>16873379
Sounds fine to me.
Id be more worried why his daughters mother wants nothing to do with him, I mean there must be serious red flags if you leave someone who is such a great farther to your daughter.
Seriously? No normal 14 year-old wants to kiss her father on the lips anymore. Somethings definitely fishy.
>>16873379
Kiss on the lips and bathing tigether is of concern, the other stuff is ok if he's single dad. (he has to be her mom as well)
hey
i have a relationship question, wondering if anyone can relate here
so my gf and me are soon together for a year and we're quite happy and sex is great
she's 4 years younger than me, im 22
who is josh: some guy who's in her friendzone since forever, like 4-5 years
he is so beta it's unbelievable
so today she just randomly texted me:
>her: josh asked me today if i want to be his model for arts class
>me: nice
>her: naked
>me: wtf?
>her :egon schiele style
>me: you.naked.in.front.of.him, staring at you for hours, alone in a room
>her: what's the big deal? it's just for school
>me: you do realize he loves you?
>her: no he doesnt
>me: he's so deep in the friendzone you're not even realizing
>me: i couldnt care less if it's for art class, but not for a guy who tried to get to you for years
>me: he's not only in for artistic reason, but much more for personal reason, he craves to see you naked
>me: you think he just randomly asked you? so obvious
>her: stop it
I'm so fucking angry right now. Not because I fear anything happens, absolutely not, but only for the reason that he sees my gf absolutely naked and that if we are all in the same room the atmosphere will be like: dude i saw your chick naked and drew her for hours, i looked at her tits for hours, umad?
yes, i mad. mostly the fact thaz she was just like yeah cool lets do it
is it a good idea if i meet this hot chick that wanted to fuck me for a long time just to cook a little and go to a club or something (not intending on cheating). i wont tell my gf anything about that but if this is going to happen and she texts me 'watcha doing?' ill be just like, hanging out with the hot chick you hate so much
how to deal with this?
I can't believe you're 22. You write like a child. You're acting like a child.
You're right but you still fucked up. Cuz now she's gonna say that you think any guy that talks to her is only after her pussy. That she doesn't have anything else to offer, that she's not interesting. As much as it's fucked, she's never gonna see your side cuz "the friend zone doesn't exist teehee silly boys."
>>16873327
I know. I wrote this in a hurry while angry but let's not focus on the formalities but much rather on the matter of fact
This is my way oof thinking about it:
1: i feel absolute disgust at the thought of josh drawing her and looking at her pussy and tits for hours. It's a slap in the face because it's so obvious he wants her and uses art and school as means of accomplishing his perv little goal. my gf is so gullible and falls for it.
I'm also her first boyfriend and took her virginity, doing what she does shows me that it's nothing special that I can see her naked but the whole world can if it's for her beta friend and his art school. I absolutely disagree
2: Am I the only one who would feels that way? If yes, how would you personally deal with it with your inner self?
Pretty straight and to the point. I'm really curious to go about hooking up with older women. Straight for sex, no strings attached. I just really want to experience an older, larger woman at some point in my life.
I have no intention of dating them or telling my friends, just for personal experience. I just don't really know how to do it.
Bars aren't really an option for me.
I'm 23, thin, thicker dick-wise, also quite sexually promiscuous. I love the female body and I especially like curvier women. Eh, I'm probably a 6/10 but I'm decently charismatic and also white.
Thoughts?
Sorry, OP, but every milf I've ever picked up was in a bar.
>>16872856
>Bars aren't really an option for me.
Why not?
Tinder. Dating sites.
>>16872856
>eh im probably just right above average
how convenient. post a picture.
>bars are not an option
they are, you just dont wnat to.
is there any reason for me to learn barre chords instead of just using a capo? I swear god this shit is impossible to fucking learn. I feel like it's the bone structure on my finger or something like that because even if I press down on the neck as much as I can there's always one or two strings that don't ring. fuck this shit mane.
I had the same problem when I started seven years ago
Just gotta keep at it
I still don't own a capo
Keep practicing. It gets easier.
The capo absolutely does not replace barre chords. At all. You're not going to readjust the capo during the song. You shouldn't have to push your finger down with all your might to get it. Are you dropping your wrist down? A lot of people like to keep the neck in a death grip and that makes barre chords pretty hard to do. Try to loosen up and let your palm go away from the neck.
Is it creepy that I save all the Instagram pictures I like of the girl I have a crush on? It's more than a crush really, I'm nuts about her. I've never masturbated to them, they aren't even sexy in the slightest. I just don't want her to ever delete these pictures from Instagram and me lose them forever. She's just so beautiful and I enjoy looking at her. It reminds me of how much I love her, and inspires me to be a better person to be worthy of her affection.
No, it's normal.
Initials?
It's normal and cute.
So recently I decided it was time to tell the girl I like how I feel about her. But right as I was about to tell her I saw that she had gotten a boyfriend the same day. What should I do?
>>16871416
Don't tell her? She has a boyfriend now why would you?
Take it as a life lesson to not put off doing shit.
Go for it if she doesn't know if you know she has a bf. If you're not rejected forget her. If you're rejected forget her.
So, this girl would
>would make sure I overhear that she has a boyfriend all of a sudden, probably because another friend was talking loudly that a girl was being good to me
>she won't mention another guy to me at all
>sometimes will check me out, but other times won't even look at me
>will care for me and ask how i am
>will keep an eye on me when I'm being chummy with another female friend
Wat's going on here?
>>16871390
typical jealousy, just ignore it and friendzone her
Wants you primed on the back burner.
>>16871413
What are you on about?
Would you let your gf go and have coffe with a guy she matched on Tinder 2 years ago and who she added on her FB account a few months ago?
>>16871148
I would let her do whatever the fuck she wants, she just wouldn't have a relationship with me afterwards. After a while, you learn not to take women too seriously, otherwise you're going to have a bad time.
>>16871148
Fuck no.
And I'm a female. If my boyfriend wanted to do that, I'd be pissed as hell and lay down the law straight out.
It's one thing to have friends of the opposite gender, we both do. But we both would never be okay with the other going and hanging out with someone who they were "matched" with. That's a recipe for trouble and drama. Nope.
>>16871151
Oh, and might I add that if she really wants to do that, and insists upon it, she obviously has no respect for you, so if she won't take your feeling into consideration on this, then it's time for you to move on.
I haven't been sexually attracted to my boyfriend ever since he shaved his beard. Don't get me wrong, I love him and no way am I ever gonna leave him. I'm just not physically attracted to him as much. How do I suck it up?
you can look for otherthings that you find attractive. tell him you prefer him with a beard in the case that its not mandatory that he shaves it. maybe he can get away with a short trim? And if none of that then gove him some information about what he can do to get you going. Even if you dont have sex after he turns you on it will set a pattern of you being attracted to him again and change your thought process.
>>16871062
Have you told him?
>>16871062
tell him you find the beard vastly superior. its part of him. he'll grow it out
How to cope with the fact that you're unloveable?
>>16870928
become the kind of person that you would love, and love yourself. in the meantime, work on loving yourself anyway.
>>16870928
>how to cope
i dont understand why people keep asking this sort of question. coping is how you deal with the issue. theres no step by step process. its like asking 'how do i start breathing?' you just breath. its the basic form. its the simplest of instruction. if you cant do that on your own, ur fucked, cuz its an entirely internal experience.
if ur unloveable either 'cope' with it, or make urself loveable
>>16870954
>jus b urself :^)
A month ago my pizza shop signed an agreement with a screen printing shop. The contract says that we'll provide their employees with free pizza and beverages of their choice. The pizza shop covers the tip and delivery fees. In exchange, it states that they will provide 15 shirts for our employees with our logo on them.
Why only 15? When we wrote up the contract, it was understood that orders can be placed as addendums to the agreement - there's even space provided for further orders, shirt quantities and dates. This means we can order shirts at any time, or at least that was the initial intent. It says 15 shirts because that was our first order.
The print shop manager got fired three weeks ago and replaced by an ass hole. Technically, the contract only says that they owed us 15 shirts which they already provided. However, the contract says that we owe them food for the entire 2 year term. The new manager interprets this as their having met their obligation and, although we're dramatically overpaying, a deal's a deal. We give them a minimum of 1 pizza a day. The most we've given them is 6 in a day. They also come over to our shop and help themselves at the soda fountain for free.
I already need more shirts but their manager is going to charge me for them. Do I have any recourse if in the contract itself, it doesn't say anywhere that we can add more shirts?
>>16870786
get a lawyer but don't get your hopes up
>>16870824
I have a lawyer and am going to meet with him. I just wanted to get a feeler out there in case if anyone else has had this sort of situation. It's demeaning and he visibly enjoys the fact that I have to pay for his pizza. He literally grins at me like Martin Shkreli and even said, "you're welcome" instead of thank you when I delivered him a pizza two nights ago. As though I should be thankful for getting to deliver his pizza.
So there used to be this copy pasta about when you're suicidal the world is your oyster because you have nothing left to lose, well I've decided I'm going to have my cake and eat it too.
I really hate living, I hate the people I'm surrounded by, I hate my past, I hate my future, there is no means to escape this with some permanency. I have redesigned myself from the ground up to be a better person, and that wasn't enough. 4 years ago I was very much on the do-or-die edge of suicide, I could keep living and I'd do everything I could, or I'd die trying.
Well it didn't work out, so I'm going with dying. I'm ok with this, I gave it my best but my future is not positive.
All said and done, my life has been short. I'm in my early twenties, I've not had a good taste of life. I don't really want to be a melodramatic prick that jumps off of a multistory or is found hanged in their room. I find that to be a senseless act.
I want to sell everything I've got, pool my money up together, and go vanish somewhere. I wanna fuck people, do drugs, see amazing sights, and eat some good food. At least that way I quit on a high note. So my question for you /adv/, is what are the things everyone has gotta do in their life? Other than shitty 'become corporate genius', 'start family' type things, I mean the sights, the food you gotta try once, the best countries to look at, I want help forming my bucket list.
>>16870716
How are people who don't know you supposed to help you make a bucket list? Seriously though, I hear southeast Asia is a hoot. Maybe lurk /trv/ and see what they have to say.
I have 2-300 dollars and want to do the same thing. Just cut off all ties with everyone and everything and start over fresh in a big city
>>16870750
I'm not talking about the personal stuff, I'm talking about the 'wow' stuff.
I was thinking maybe a bit of Asia, I can vanish in a forest or something when I'm done.
At what age should I be worried I don't have a girlfriend?
I know some people say "Just wait for it" But like, When should I stop waiting?
>>16870519
You gotta go get a girlfriend
if I know one thing in this world it's that girls almost never ask guys out.
>>16870519
How old are you?
>>16870519
At the risk of sounding cryptic, when you're ready.
Have a job? Have your own place? Then it's time.
>girlfriend drunktexts me that she wants to have sex this weekend
>unbeknownst to her i am a 25 year old virgin
Alright folks, how do I proceed from here without fucking this up to high hell
I figure step 1 is to clean the shit out of my apartment
>>16870437
Tell her you are a virgin. Tell her that you haven't had sex. Tell her that you have never been in a sexual intercourse.
Being a virgin is stupid concept and it shouldn't matter. Yeah, it's your first time, but most likely you've seen some porn and you know the general concept.
Caress her and touch her erogenous zones. Ask her what she likes, that'll get you far.
>>16870437
Step 1. Clean yourself
step 2. Clean your apartment.
Step 3. >>16870467
>>16870467
Fucking doesn't come naturally to some people. I'm pretty shit at it
How do I tell my crazy left-wing parents that I'm a right-wing libertarian?
Start with "I have this problem that I haven't been talking to you about, I'm sorry, but I've gone to the dark side," continue from there.
Maybe they're not authoritarian. If you discuss politics go for that first.
>>16870311
Goose-step into the living room with your best business suit and loudly proclaim "The free-market will fix everything!", march back to your room and masturbate to ayn rand again.
