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Ok, first off; fuck college. The whole thing is at best a waste of time and at worst a process for indoctrinating clueless children and loading them up with debt so they can be tools of the system.
Unfortunately, i just spent a bunch of time attending one. It was free for me and the degree is too valuable to pass up. I recently recieved a letter from the school saying they wont let me graduate at the end of the semester unless i provide transcripts from the other schools i attended. This pisses me off because when I went to school before I was young and more retarded...
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When I transferred schools they only took my credits. My GPA did not transfer.
Have you even looked at their policies for transferring credits?.....retard
Hey /adv/my bitch teacher kicked me out of class for no reason I'm thinking of suing her in the mean time what should i do?
I really doubt she kicked you out for no reason.
>>16865001
>for no reason
Really now?
>suing her
I'm laughing.
>>16865001
Kill yourself.
Sup guys, I'm 18 and live with my parents. They're super conservative, and know nothing about technology. Anyways, I pirated a porn vid, and now for the first time my parents got an email from our internet provider that I infringed Brazzers or some shit. How screwed am I? Will I need to go along with the settlement they linked (and threaten to do worse if I don't do that), or is it just a warning? Thanks guys.
>>16864964
It will, most likely, be a warning.
Same thing happened to me when I torrented some bangbros vids. You just can't torrent anymore until you move out/get a new ISP.
>>16864964
If they are technology noobys, tell them you got hacked or something of a sort .
>>16864969
Did your email mention about settlements with the company, that need to be done before a certain date? Cos that's whats got me worried.
I'm totally isolated and miserable. I'm 24, For the past 2 years my life has consisted of work and internet, I literally only the house for errands. In that time I have socialized once: a steam buddy was in town to see his family and we had dinner and a drink.
I hate it, I'm miserable, I don't want to be like this, and I accept that my unhappiness is my own fault for not trying. Giving up on life and just beating off and shitposting is the easy route and I took it because I was lazy.
I was given the opportunity to move one state over with my...
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>>16864941
>I'm totally isolated and miserable. I'm 24, For the past 2 years my life has consisted of work and internet, I literally only the house for errands. In that time I have socialized once: a steam buddy was in town to see his family and we had dinner and a drink.
You are literally me.
I'm 24, I've been working my current job for the past 2 years and work so much I don't do shit outside of work other than go to the grocery store. Other than that I...
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>>16864941
I'm in a similar situation only without the work.
25 and I just internet all day every day. Occasionally I go for a walk for an hour or so every 3/4 days just to prevent insanity.
But I'm going to start working in September and I can see myself working all day, coming home, logging into my 4chan account and shitposting until midnight before repeating it all over again.
I'm kinda hoping that paying bills, fixing shelves and doing all sort of normie stuff will occupy my mind. But...
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>>16864970
>>16864941
my nigs, this guy here >>16864950
Go take a vacation to a different country. Seriously. I was in a bad place just a few months ago. But I took a trip to Italy and it changed me. Just getting away from the bullshit I was dealing with and exposing myself to a different culture GREATLY helped me. I even met a girl over there and we've been talking since.
It will break your habit,...
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21 guy here. I have never really had a well functioning relationship. I have had a few flings and been involved in a love affair. Most of the time i don't care about having a relationship or sex, although sometimes i get tired of being single. I am worried that if i dont get into a relationship now, then in the future women won't bother with me due to lack of experience.
Do i need to get into a relationship now for experience or will women understand? thanks in advance.
>>16864936
First of all, try to socialize more, okay? get to know people, work on social situations even it feels like shit, good luck, and dont push for a relationsship, you dont need a relationship right now,
>>16865039
thanks, i have been trying to socialise more. i am going out this saturday and have a few other events planned. sometimes i just dont know what topics to bring up.
>>16865048
well, dont think about topics, insted, try to read the news, watch a movie and so on, by doing this you will naturaly have something to talk about, just some tips from me, i used to be really shy, but its just about trying and becoming better, just like anything else
Hello /adv/
I'll try to keep it short.
>Be 25
>Had flirts and one night stands before
>Never had a stable relationship
>Meet a girl on a dating app
>We talk a lot, I'm usually super secretive about everything but not with her
>She does the same, we're quite similar (very analytical / neurotic)
>Meet up, she's chubby but like good chubby (juicy thighs, ass, some tits), have sex first night then tons and tons of it.
>Still fucking like rabbits, she's getting in love
Here is the frustration part.
I'm not happy with the situation.
I'm quite confused by it actually. She keeps flattering me a lot, telling me I'm cute, telling me I'm very good in bed (I actually had very low experiences, she had dozens but it's not scarying me)...
But still I don't feel good about it.
I know I should be super happy about it. I finally found someone that understands me, she loves sex to the point of having it multiple times a day everyday, she's trying her hardest to make me feel comfortable...
All that praising kinda make me want to search for the same girl but cuter/with a better body.
It's a dumb thing to say but I miss being single already and it's been only two weeks...
>>16864913
Honestly it's either she's a bit inexperience with relationship or you're one awesome hunk that she scared of losing.
Give this relationship another week or two then ask yourself this question again.
>>16864975
From what we've talked, she had rocky relationships.
She's the first girl that is actively spending time and effort to give me pleasure sexually, and apparently it's the same for her.
I know she already talked about it to several of her females friends given the looks they're giving me.
So maybe a bit of both but I don't consider myself super attractive or anything.
>>16864913
>It's a dumb thing to say but I miss being single already and it's been only two weeks..
I feel your exact feels op, i think.
it's been less than a week for me
she's trying really hard to make me comfortable, cooks, cleans, takes ME out to dinner
I find it really weird, being my first relationship with long term expectations...
Do you believe in reviving friendship after you ended it because of fight, or your and your friend's ways diverged?
If so, how would you go about it?
Or do you think it's poitless and one should let it go?
nigga I am not a mind-reader. Either tell your story or fuck off. There are situations where it'd be pointless, and there are other situations where you fought over something dumb and it'd be really easy to patch it up. I have no idea what happened between you and your friend, and therefore no idea how to help you or give you advice
I don't understand what you're thinking when you make a thread like this
>>16864909
came here to say pretty much exactly this
>>16864909
I know I typed it like a stupid nignog so here's the stroy
>been friends with this one guy for 3 years
>pretty close
>I know he struggles with depression and such
>hes being a dick to me sometimes basically pissing me off and giving cold shoulders
>we have a pattern when i call him out, we fight and then make up
>tried...
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>me ang gf fight constantly
>live together
>typically about wanting to break up "i can't do this anymore" type shit.
>two weeks ago break up finally.
>now we no longer fight about breaking up.
>Things are much better between us
>now i sleep with her every night and its just like before.
How do i end this cycle? Neither of us has...
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I'd say to not break up for good. Make it like sort of a break and before you start a big fight talk about how the both of you are feeling.
>>16864905
Thanks. That's what im thinking. We just get fed up with eachother and need space.
Is it normal to get bored of a relationship after a while, even if nothing within the relationship has actually changed?
>>16864888
Yes.
That doesn't necessarily mean you should break up, though.
i fear i'm experiencing this right now anon. wat do?
>>16864888
>even if nothing within the relationship has actually changed?
That's exactly why you're getting bored. Relationships need forward momentum or else they stagnate and fall apart. For most people, that means the marriage/children/family track. After a while, if that isn't happening, your subconscious starts telling you that you're wasting your time, and it's time to move on and try again with someone else.
Don't forget that biology factors...
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I've been with a girl for some months and today she came out saying that her and her family are moving to Perú(her mom is from Perú, we live in Italy) in June.
Still trying to cry.
The last hope is for her to stay with her dad(who will stay here for one more year) and find a job to settle here in Italy but she keeps saying she can't and for some reason she doesn't want to tell me. Pls help.
Also she doesn't want to talk to me.
She wants to move back to Peru, she just doesnt want to admit that's more important to her than staying with you
Sorry bruv
Sounds like she's made up her mind and she'd rather live with her mom than her dad. Sorry m8. Hang in there.
She doesn't want to talk to you because girls can be really awkward about this stuff sometimes, it's tough for her to directly address an uncomfortable issue, so she doesn't know how to say "I care about you, but going to Peru with my mom is more important to me than continuing this relationship"
>>16864873
i don't think so.
even if i do not think about our relationship, all of her life is here, she doesn't know anyone there. She's actually born here
How do I become a better writefag? I make /tg/ style quests sometimes (not on 4chan) but I always end up getting people angry due to how shitty I write.
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Have you tried copying another person's writing style that you like. And then slowly introduce your own ideas
>write stuff
>read stuff
>post it online for criticism (not on 4chan, on writing forums like writing.com)
Maybe take a class at a community college or something. Or at least get some books on the subject.
Sup /adv/isors how can you truly become either determined to live or just end it?
>>16864845
Depends on how much cash you got left
>>16864853
Studying atm so very little
>In college
>match on tinder
>talk for a bit
>meeting up thursday to "chill"
This is a hookup right?
Don't assume anything. Also it's hard to say without anymore information. Going to her place, yeah something will probably happen.
like 85% yes.
If you're just meeting up for coffee, do as >>16864846
If either of you are going to eithers home, yes you're a hookup
>>16864849
I didn't specify coffee, I just said
>wanna chill on thursday
and she enthusiastically said yes.
So I am assuming she's got the idea it's going to be at either one of our places, and I'd rather it be hers cause I hate my dorm roommate.
I'm planning on just bringing some mellow instrumental beats and psychedelic rock to her place cause we're both are into the same music and see where that takes us.
Im piercing my septum and I need to know what gauge to pierce it. I was thinking to do it with a 14g needle but wear a 16g barbell. Or should I just buy 16g needles or will it be a pain to get the jewlery in?
Always pierce a gauge above your jewelry. You want the flesh to heal around the jewelry, if the wound and bar are the same size it's just going to drag and tear through the flesh and irritate the hell out of it. So 14g is pretty standard.
I feel just really sad right now, maybe a little depressed too. But just sad. This will be long but I hope someone can help me
I have a female friend who lives overseas that over the course of the past few months. In fact, it's clear that we have feelings for each other. Very clear. We talk every single day, and have expressed feelings for each other. How she wishes I could sleep with her at night because I make her feel safe, and she just wants me to hold her, and so on. I've mentioned a relationship to her. But she told me that after her last relationship,...
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>>16864818
If you elaborate more, we could help you better. Don't worry anon, we're here for you. Share with use your plights, open up, express your thoughts...
Talk to us, OP. Most of us have been at this same spot.
