ur young
you'll learn,
takes TIME
count urself lucky u seen her be a bitch early
more ladies coming ur way soon

>>16997466
I guess you're right. I just feel stupid about my inability to move on, knowing that she's like that/she would be if we were together.
"more ladies coming ur way soon"
That's another thing that i've been thinking about... I feel like another girl in my life could help me forget her, but i'm afraid that i may end up transfering my feelings instead of dealing with them... What do you think?

>>16997505
transfering ur feelings -stop being a fucking homo
u like another girl, go for it, see what happens.
still u made good decision on first girl.
even tho u probaly could've had her as a fuck buddy

>>16997360

anywhere and everywhere. see a cute guy? go flirt. but dont sleep with them. if it comes up in some way, you say 'sorry i really only sleep with guys im dating' and then they ask if you guys arent dating and you just push them to make things official/

tho from waht i hear its a lot harder over there than it is in america, apparently the divide between men and women is getting weird.

Online.
Ask friends to introduce you to their single friends.
>own hobbies
Ok, so you have some specific interests. Are there clubs related to them? Check around campus, check online for stuff around town.
You're in college, you're surrounded by thousands of young men.
Ask your classmates out. Ask your work friends to set you up.

>>16997378
OP here

That´s just the thing. It´s a bit awkward to just randomly talk to people (aside foreigners). Nearly impossible with random guys in my age range. People here are a bit more tight for the lack of a better word.

I thought about the park I go excersise to, but people my age have earphones in (aside of being focused on their stuff), and the rest is a different generation and clubs are filled with European version of Jersey Shore

It´s just too hard for me to find any other possibilities.

Motherfucker nobody here is going to read it let alone give you good advice

Prompt:
“Please provide a statement that addresses your reasons for transferring and the objectives you hope to achieve. You can type directly into the box, or you can paste text from another source. (250-650 words)”

When I was a child, I questioned my surroundings incessantly. Whichever adult was nearest me got a never-ending earful of “how does this work?” “why is that there?” “what does it do?”.
I wanted to understand everything, and still do. The human body has always been very interesting to me. I’ve often wondered how the molecules come...
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>>16997333
If it's a course with relatively low grade requirements, you could write fuck all and it not matter.

The fact you didn't include a tl;dr for your wall of text means I ain't reading shit.

If there was a magic pill or trick to grow taller, make your dick larger, or actually regrow your hair it would be selling like hotcakes. Since these things don't exist they don't exist...

>>16997284
>>16997284
this

all hoaxes

>>16997262
Also worth mentioning that you can't get surgery to get taller either. It's dangerous, expensive, and ineffective, so please DO NOT fucking go to a backalley surgeon in China. You will actually come out of the procedure slightly shorter if you survive and make it back to a real hospital.

I don't drink enough to call myself an alcoholic, but I think it's great that you can take care of your pets. Just wanted to say this.

I can't afford alcohol.

>>16997275

It's not that I drink a ton, it's that I drink because I'm bored and can't find the willpower to force myself to do anything.

I make enough money to take care of myself and have enough left over for hobbies or life changes, but all I wanna do is drink and watch Youtube bullshit.

>>16997140
How does being an extrovert affect your life, you fucking freak? What does it feel like to be what you are instead of something totally different that you don't understand?

Fuck off with your stupid questions.

>>16997140
>Sometimes I can't help but feeling that it's about me; that if he really loved me he would want to spend every waking second with me

Depending on why he's introverted, it could be that... Some people just have bad experiences with other people. They learn not to show too much affection or get too close.
He could be worried he'll be a clinger and scare you off.

But as an introvert, a pretty severe one desu, I wouldn't just jump into a relationship...
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>>16997140
I find it amusing how you can summarize your bf by one characteristic (introvert). That isn't how it works.

>don't have the need for my own alone time
Maybe you are too much clingy?
>if he loves me then he would want to spend every waking second with me
Clingy too much?
>my constant texting
Clingy.

So then lets see the other part of question. What is it like to be introvert?
First, see...
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start drinking and have a good cry about your problems. then move on the day after and continue your fucked up life

>>16997060
>start drinking
Honestly considered it. But I'm 20 and don't have any connections through which to get alcohol.

>>16997066
ask mommy or daddy to buy u some. if not just ask someone. you said youre in school, are u really that shut in.

>>16997048 sounds like a Bernie supporter. GTFO OF MY COUNTRY!

>>16997300
Don't worry, I didn't vote.

At some point, you will have to support that stuff all on your own, which means getting someone to pay you. Take a look at what quality of life you will be having at various levels in the socioeconomic system, and decide how much you are willing to do for how you'd like to live.

Unless you want to risk jail, you might start to see some value in increasing your odds of making decent money by getting some salable skills.

You won't be living so easy for much longer, and you will have many years to regret squandering the opportunity you have now. It is a...
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I find that most bar soaps leave a sort of film over everything, from my skin to the shower itself (where soapy water splashes onto the walls and then dries out). I'm not a fan of that. The expensive hand made soaps tend not to do that but I can't justify spending that much. Body wash for me.

>>16996991
I use a loofah. I like being able to exfoliate and wash in one step.

>>16996991

luffa all the way, get your back and everything.

>>16996984
so you have a problem with your girlfriend calling a guy babe?

>>16997010
I don't have a girlfriend.

>>16997014
so some girl is calling you babe and you want to know if it means anything?

It means nothing. She calls everyone babe, babe.

I got the same degree! Don't bother unless you're going to at least get your bachelor's.

I ended up interviewing for things like tape librarian. Paid minimum wage, with a chance of promotion after 2-3 years to something a little more lucrative. You won't be able to do better than that, and will more than likely end up running cable for a local ISP with just an associates.

I ended up getting a job in a totally different field that didn't require my degree at all, but I will say that if I could do it again, I'd get a generic business degree.

>>16996980
Idk if my school that I would go to has bachelor's for networking and it's the best one in the state

>>16996958
most jobs in the field seem to like to see a bachelor's degree(thought not necessarily in that field). An associates is going to be worthless to you unless you have certifications, and certifications help a lot even with a degree(in terms of being able to command a higher salary and having some job security or standing out from other people being interviewed).

Would you really be feeling a certain way if you didn't want it?

Break it off immediately. Tell her you got mixed up in feelings and emotions. Since it's only a few days in, she will be upset, but possibly not heart broken.

Resource:
>A guy who dated a grill LDR for a year and suddenly lost the love for her halfway in. It broke her heart more that I let it go for that long rather than informing her earlier.

>>16996953
When you put it that way it makes me even more confused. I really like her as a person, but she is younger than I am, and we potentially might not even see eachother in a very long time.
>>16996961
I see. Maybe it's for the best then. It doesn't help that it won't last very long to begin with. I am leaving for the United States Air Force in about 2 months for the job of my dreams, and the school I'm going to could potentially last for a year....
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>>16996940
>my parents are very old fashioned
Then it is very easy solution.
1) Tell your parents you invited some guy for visit (like for dinner or something :-)
2) Make your bf to suit up and prepare meeting.
3) And on the day D, your bf will officially meet with your parents, mentally and physically prepared to endure any test and question they might have.

This way you even test your bf how much can he endure to be your dearest. He doesn't have to propose for your hand...
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>>16996975
that's actually how i wanted to handle it when he was here last week but i chickened out. i think that having them actually meet him would be the most ideal way but unfortunately that's not an option at the moment (he spent a chunk of money already by coming here and we're both trying to save our money back up)

>>16996981
meeting parents requires money? what?

delete history, block the site, do other stuff

>>16996924
I tried that 3 times....... The fist time went great.. I was actually doing good but then I relapsed and hen I relapsed again and again......

I guess i'm just lonely desu
Maybe 4chan isn't even the real problem.....

>>16996850
Didn't you get the welcoming?

"Welcome to 4chan, enjoy your stay"? It wasn't a fucking joke.

Get a girlfriend who isn't prudish and is more open about sex.

Pretty sure opie doesn't want to break up.

OP did you try to talk to your girlfriend about WHY she is shy? Also, what is your foreplay like? I guarantee you from your writing you are probably too aggressive. And now she is probably self-conscious about her 'problem' because you've "told her about it a lot".

Let her take the lead. I guarantee you it's something you're doing wrong. Also you guys should probably sit down and have a heart-to-heart about this shit.

If you can't then you're not ready for a relationshio

You say that you "tell her a lot" but that's not helping, that's judging and criticizing. Does she want to change? Does she want to be helped? She needs to want to be helped in the first place, you can't decide that for her.