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Does anyone have general advice on how to break up with a girl who's insecure and very attached? She believes what we have will be forever..
don't date teenagers
>>17000561
Does anyone have some experience with this?
I've never dumped someone even..
>>17000587
I'll leep that in mind next time. Problem now is she's 19 and I am 20 and we're close to 2 years together. I have no Idea on how to bring this to her.
Hey /adv/ My best friend plans to break up with his gf, because he met somebody new. Problem is, he plans to force her to break up and blame everything on her, while still progressing his new relationship right now. I wouldn't say shit about it, but i've been on the "recieving end" of such act recently. My ex-gf broke up with me, tried hiding that she cheated and played the blame card. What should i do guys? He openly flamed my ex for doing this shit, yet he now wants to do the same stuff without any concerns.
>>17000531
suggest he break up over a vague 'things change' concept. offer to back him up by driving him there and extracting him after 10 minutes so he doesnt have to go into too much detail.
if not, decide whats more important, telling her the truth or your friendship
>>17000531
he's your friend so just say he is doing the same thing your ex did to you. Leave it there unless you somehow think you have a shot with his soon to be ex and if so don't go there
>>17000545
For me the "friendship" ends if he acts exactly the same way my ex-gf acted. Sorry, but there's no way my friend would get special treatment when he pulls a stunt like that. I'm resenting my ex-gf for acting like a spineless swine there's no way i'd accept such thing again, no matter who did it.
Can I take classes for engineering as a computer science major?
I may be accepted into a great school as a CS major because I lack a course requisite in time for engineering
This means if I attend the school for CS I'll have to wait until I have about 27-30 credits before major transferral
I'm a freshman now, to be a sophomore.
I can go to another school with an engineering major already, however this other school is literally like ten times better.
I can wait a year sure, but I really don't want to. I can't stand it where I'm at anymore, I have nothing in common with most of the people and am an outsider to the culture.
What do?
Pic related, me right now
Bump
Didn't wanna ask /sci/ cause they'd just send me here
Pls respond
Is love meant for eveyone?
clearly not for you
>>17000496
definitelly not for me. All male friends think i'm a cool guy and alpha but women tend to ignore me no matter what I do / how I behave
Of course not, that's silly.
Also what is love anyway? Most people don't even understand what it is and how different types of love even work. It's very complicated and most people myself included are too stupid to understand it. If you don't understand something you are more likely to fuck it out of lack of understanding.
My friend's bike was stolen a couple days ago
>police have been notified
>it's been spotted around the area but culprits have not been caught yet
>absolutely heartbroken
>please help me get him back
get off 4chan and go look for it
yeah he's probably not getting it back. the police won't do jack shit.
So any anons have any bright ideas on how we might be able to find it/get it back?
Hey can i get some advice from people who've left a home without family support?
I'm currently going to college but the combination of a shitty home life + having to do schoolwork and hangout with friends is really taking its toll and I'd like to leave.
My parents are fairly wealthy and have decided to pay for school and let me use their car, but if I leave I won't have a car or any money.
My plan was to get a job, save up about 1200 and then leave if I have to (things have been getting pretty bad) and sleep on a friends couch until I can afford an apartment.
Thoughts? Things I haven't considered?
get some real problems
>>17000400
>My parents are fairly wealthy and have decided to pay for school and let me use their car
If they're offering money for school and their car there's a good chance they will give you some help with an apartment or something too. talk to them.
>>17000406
Great advice bro, thanks.
So, there's this girl whose virginity I took about a month ago, we both thought it'd end up being something serious but recently just figured we're better off just being friends because of the distance. She was the one who brought it up so I'm not hurting her feelings or anything. Still want to be there for her when she feels like shit though, and tonight seems to be one of those times. I really don't know how to handle this though, chat log below:
(was busy for about 3 hours, sent a message, seemed like she was asleep for about half an hour but then she read it)
Me: Yay, she's alive!
Her: She wants to die though!
Me: :c Why?
Her: Because. Let me be.
Me. What happened?
Her: Ok, here's a tip. Most girls sometimes mean "Don't let me be at all" when they say "let me be", but you don't fucking ask what happened, jesus.
Me: Alright, I don't know what happened and if you don't want to talk about it that's alright. I just don't want you to feel bad. :/
Her: Then comfort me?? It's not so fucking hard, jesus.
Me: It's a little hard when you seem pissed as fuck at me, feels like I did something. Did I?
Her: -_- Bye, see you later
Me: But, no. I want to talk to you.
Her: Sucks to be you.
Me: Talk to me, [name]. I want to know what happened. Never seen you this upset :(
Me: <3
Her: Fuck off
Me: I want to talk to you and I want to comfort you :/
Me: I'm not going to bed until I know you're ok
So...what the hell? I'm not sure if she's upset because of me or because of something completely unrelated, and I have no idea how to comfort her right now.
Pic unrelated
My god she is insufferable. Delet her and never talk to the cunt again
>>17000384
This. She just wants attention and you sound like a complete faggot. You have bigger issues than the feelings of a dumb teenage girl.
>>17000341
She's kinda being a bitch
okay i need some advice pretty quick
>virgin
>never had a girlfriend
>meet this girl through friends of friends sort of thing
>she's not crazy pretty or anything but she's quite funny and we connect on things like video games, movies etc
>by some divine miracle she likes me and i get her number
>hang out with a few of my friends the next day and tell them about this chick
>they tell me not to waste my time with her
>confused.png
>think about what they said the next day
>say fuck it, this is gonna be one of my only chances to find someone
>call her and arrange to get coffee next week
>day comes, nervous as fuck
>tried to dress nice, probably looked like a sperg
>she comes in and sits down and we talk for what seemed like hours
>eventually she says she has to go but arrange another date, this time dinner on the weekend
>excited as fuck
>buy a suit
>we go to a really nice restaurant, food was really nice
>she looked great, objectively 7.8/10
>finish meal, pay the bill
>m'lady
>kiss outside restaurant
>it feels like that sequence in requiem for a dream where they shoot heroin
>constantly text her, become really close
>feel like i could tell her anything
>a couple of months go past, we go on dates all the time
>movies, dinner, bike rides, all the regular shit
>i've been round her apartment a couple of times and she's been round mine
>it's never progressed from kissing and making out
>become frustrated
>i ask her why we haven't had sex yet
>she becomes all serious and explains to me how she used to date skeevy guys and a lot of them were into hard drugs
>a lot of those dudes had contracted hiv from fucking prostitutes without protection and sharing needles and what have you
>dawns on me what she's telling me
>'i have hiv'
>calm on the outside, meltdown on the inside
>she seems pretty calm and nonchalant about it
>tells me she loves me
>tells me she wants to have sex with me
>i tell her i don't want aids
cont.
Its so obvious this is fake. I don't even need to see the 2nd part.
On the abysmal chance this is real:
Dump her, never talk to her again, go on with your life.
>>17000296
>she says that if i really loved her i’d have sex with her and risk contracting hiv
>manage to avoid having sex with her and just cuddle and fall asleep
this was 2 nights ago
what should i do /adv/?
i really don’t want to get aids but this might be my only shot at love and i think i really think i love this girl, despite her disease
also, she’s had it for a few years so she might die soon idk how it works
would it be that bad?
fuck her
Seriously? How do people get into relationships? All the things you see people doing in candid amateur porn videos, your girlfriends have done with other guys, and you still buy them shit and fawn over them.
Yes, sex is natural, but does this not destroy the image of a romantic relationship for anyone else?
Personally I'd rather be alone or have one night stands than pretend the person I'm with is anything special. What do you guys think?
>Somebody having explored sexual pleasures with more than one person makes them not special
You know most girls aren't down for that shit right? Most women are only open to light erotic novel stuff, like banging against a wall or a light hand on the throat. It takes some time and effort to get them into kinky shit most of the time.
Not even girl is out there gargling cum for fun you fucking weirdo
Romantic relationships are too idealistic, they will never be what you want them to be. Accept it or keep picking up sluts in clubs.
I really like fapping.
I don't wan't to grow old with a person, I hate old people.
I want to find a girl who's self destructive so we can do drugs and get drunk together and live recklessly with. But also someone who only likes me the way I only like her because I'm a really jealous person. I want to meet the best person and die young.
I haven't found one yet and it doesn't matter too much to me because I like being alone and if I ever have a relationship to invest time and effort into, it has to be perfect but I know it can't be perfect because I'm looking for someone that probably doesn't exist so yah.
Better alone than in bad company they say.
Sorry for the stupid image, I'm fucking shaking.
My mom just got a call from the special victim's unit. It's about my little brother.
Is there a chance he's okay?
This feels ridiculous but I don't know what else to do with my eyes and hands right now.
Like if the call comes from SVU is there a chance the dude isn't dead?
>>17000268
Raped and dead, or kidnapped and found. Either way he got fucked up dude, ripperoni in pepperoni anon's little bro.
Somebody plugged up his ass with something, sorry OP.
special victims unit is usually about rape cases
How do I go back in time, /adv/? I'm 18 but I feel so old, like the best years of my life are already over. I just want to go back to my childhood days where life was easy and there were no worries or hard decisions to make...
So yeah, any CERN employees here? Pls tell me how to go back in time thx
Oh buddy, just wait till you're in your 30s.
>>17000267
life hasnt BEGUN to fuck to fuck with you yet...
>>17000267
You can't physically do it, but you can find someone into age play and get treated like a small child. Though, unless that's your fetish you'll likely find the very idea disturbing as all hell.
>Sitting in class
>Overhear some girl say "You support the faggots?
>Literally could not believe my ears
Shit guys she didn't even act embarrassed or lowered he tone or anything.
I legitimately like her so much after this, she seems so fucking based
Guys how the fuck do you start a conversation? I want to see if this was legit and if yes go on from there
Any advice on starting a conversation with a more or less stranger?
So you like a girl because she used the word "faggot"? Are you slow or something?
She's likely a religious nutjob who protests abortion and things. But anyway the key is confidence.
>>17000236
Sounds like a bitch.
So I've gone to see my current psychiatrist a total of 6 different times and of all those times I doubt I've been with him in his office for even an hour.
I usually go see him, very briefly describe how I feel and then he gives me a prescription in like 2 minutes.
Is this normal or should I go see a different psych?
>>17000225
depends what you want. if you have no actual mental disorders and dont want to be medicated, i suggest seeing a therapist. they tend to focus on figuring out why you are sad, addressing those issues, etc.
Sounds like your psych is a fraud. So yes.
>>17000226
I'm in therapy, just in a bad situation currently and needed some meds to get through it.
>>17000234
I was thinking the same.
What is your opinion on the reacher/settler concept in relations?
When thinking about it I've been reacher last time. This time I feel like the settler and I'm feeling like going after a bigger catch after some time.
How can you be at peace as a settler? I'm not used to this feeling.
who the fuck is holding the camera in that picture what the hell 0_0
>>17000195
Angled mirror by a cameraman offscreen?
>>17000195
mirrors angled and she could have a remote switch or timer with a camera on a tripod.
Shit's not hard. You can get camera remotes for like $5.
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I feel really guilty over this. My dad is a great guy and has never been inappropriate, I just keep fantasizing about treating him to me or having him want me bad enough to have sex with me.
He and my mom romp around a lot, they aren't gross or anything but it's obvious they see each other in a sexual way.
I keep fantasizing that he'd ask or that I would catch him staring or that he'd just start touching me and that it would go from there, but at the same time I know that would be bad and wrong.
Does anyone else feel this way about their dad?
Its not exactly every person that suffers from this, but its hardly uncommon either.
Its obviously a bad idea, and has profound spiritual consequences.
It sounds like you are ready to meet a man yourself though and should probably invest more time into seeking a husband.
>>17000185
i have similar issues. but instead i think about everyone elses father and pretend they are my own. i think my dad was really hot when he was younger, but not anymore.
in my dad is a cold crippled distant manlet with anger issues so I pine for big strong older men who hold me in their arms and make me feel safe and loved
erryone got issues
