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>straight A student for my whole life
>work my ass off in high school
>5th in a class of 400
>get into honors program at a pretty good NYS university
>in the middle of 6th semester of college
>suddenly can't bring myself to focus on my schoolwork
>straight up didn't hand in an assignment earlier in the semester because idgaf
>only...
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This happened to me when I turned 17 and I never recovered.
Good luck :)
>>17000918
I find getting myself incredibly pissed off helps me bang out assignments quickly.
You sound depressed. Talk to a therapist.
>Told myself i'd kill myself if things ever got this bad
>They're this bad
>I can't do it
Like, ha!
How bad are things?
>>17000930
This
OP is making us curious
Op here changing my major
>Have GF of 3 years
>Hang out with other girl a lot for a few months
>Get pretty sure she's attracted to you, try to gain vanity from it, even though you wouldn't act on it because you love your GF
>Still want to know for sure she's attracted to you mainly for the thrill of it but it starts to develop a "what if" kind of thinking, get guilt from it
>Today hang out with her, she's unhappy in her...
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bamp
pls need opinions on this
>>17000910
desu I would just grow a pair and realize this isn't worth posting about
>Be me
>20 years old
>dont like to get out of my house
>just have 1 gf on my live but was a little bitch
>feel very loonely
>want a gf because feels good haave one
>Im very shy to get one
>Im a little fat guy
>whenever I get a good friend (girl), she already likes someone
>Tired...
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>>17000905
This is a common story I've read countless times, experienced to some extent, and still haven't completely recovered from. But the solution is reintroducing masculinity to your self identity. In every aspect of life. Lift more, speak louder, look people in the eyes, write life goals down, be aggressive with the things you want, you want a better body? Put yourself through hell for it. Drink beer, watch college bro sitcoms. Try everything. I have done a fraction of these things and it has made me ridiculously...
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>>17000932
That still wouldn't make asking a girl out easy though.
>>17000905
>how do i be a better guy?
- take out pen and paper: write down the qualitites you seek in a mate
- stop changing to suit your new prospective partner unless you are a performing seal...
- start getting out of the house how can somebody new find you if you dont go looking for them?
- start losing weight, get some abs: make dem gains!
- start working on you: make yourself your biggest fan! you cant expect somebody to love you if dont love yourself first.
- wash regularly...
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TL;DR GF being annoying
>be me, 19
>meet 15 year old girl
>hit it off start dating
>fast forward
>still dating
>im 23 now, shes 19 now
>out of nowhere she starts accusing me of looking at other girls (younger)
>i havent been
>im into teens yeah, but i date her, and have been faithful
whats...
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>>17000835
Realize that by now young girls will be way less interested in you, and tell her truthfully you wouldn't have a chance with them anyway.
It might be less that she thinks your paying attention to other girls, and more you aren't paying enough attention to her.
>>17000848
they are, i dont reciprocate though
>>17000854
i do, that the thing, we are together almost every day. maybe shes trying to find a reason to ditch me?
I just understood that I'm photogenic, but nothing likely good looking in real life.
In photos, I'm something what a 7-8, but in real life I doubt it I'm even a 5.
Is there anyway to improve my looks?
I feel like shit.
>>17000796
Can I see a photo of you?
>tfw have the opposite problem
>amateur photographers used to ask me to model for them
>would try and turn out looking super shit
>they don't ask twice
Two sides to the same coin. All I can say is workout, treat your skin well (moisturizer, sunscreen), drink plenty of water, and hope for the best.
>>17000801
If you want to post a photo go to /soc/
If you want to improve your looks you have two options
>be as healthy as possible. Good hygiene, good haircut, don't wear make-up (chemicals damage your face), moisturize everywhere, etc
Or
>get plastic surgery, you don't have to tell anyone but I reccomend telling significant others
Hello /adv/
So I met this girl online 8 months ago and we have talking everyday almost since, but the thing is she lives too far, and I might have fallen for her. She has made it clear, she is not interested in a long distance Relatiosnhip, and I understand it sounds like BS to me honestly what is a long distance relationship anyways? But besides the point, the thing is this chcik is not interested in me and I am way too invested in her, and everytime she sleeps with a new guy, or talks about how badly she fucked someone, or how much she likes another guy, it affects me...
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>>17000773
You can't prevent yourself from being angry, that's stupid. But that's a good enough reason to cut contact. Tell her how you feel and say goodbye. It's best for everyone OP
>>17000773
Write slash stories to her about you fucking her really hard in Israel. Period.
>>17000792
I cannot cut contact with her. I am addicted to her, I tried a lot of times I get pulled back, and she knows at this point she is so smug about it - she said. You won't leave. I never thought I would become that guy, who falls hopelessly for a woman he has never met and here I am. So all I can do now is find a way to not feel anything towards here exploits, because she clearly feels nothing for me, and here I am for her.
Hello, quick question. So my wife is a stripper, I always was able to give her the trust that it was just a job and paid the bills and not interfere with us. So money has been tight and so on. One night I found that she was not at the club and at rich man's house. I confronted her, she told me to stay out of her life and all that. Then she told me she did the same stuff at work just with a bigger cut. I said OK. I then looked at her search history one day and found spanking and daddy related BDSM role-playing stuff. Furious, I confronted her since porn was off limits for...
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Fuck no, get rid of her
She also had a big bruise on her breast that she lied how she got it.
>>17000768
She's obviosly trying to hide stuff and doing things behind your back, e.g. cheating. Either she can cut the shit or get tossed. She's lost any of her ability to be trusted, IMO. I couldn't put up with cheating or hiding, and no one should have to. You'd be better off with a better woman.
How do I deal with the fact I'm a monster?
I hate, hate myself and have good reasons for it.
I wish I could say "I'm a good person".
Is there a way to change myself without being someone else?
Is there a way out when you think everything's so fucked up it is irreversible, even if things magically changed to be perfect out of the blue? If yes, what is this way?
What is it that makes you such a monster?
>>17000673
Its possible to change. But what do you think makes you a monster?
Hating yourself this much requires you to already have an inflated sense of self-importance or relevance to the world.
I'm gonna tell it to you straight. There are a lot of people who are better than you, and a lot of people who are worse. You're probably just average.
And beyond that, every sinner, every saint, and every bland average person, no matter what they cause or contribute to the world, ultimately it's not going to matter because everything is going to end one day anyway.
Try opening your mind to different experiences. Get out...
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Kush Creams vs. Lidocaine 5% Patch
Please explain why you think so.
Personal stories are always welcome, if you don't mind sharing.
What have you found to be more effective for severe nerve pain? (pharm or MMJ)
For the last week, I've used Kush Creams. Today, I'm using a lidocaine patch and NOT taking outside pain meds (no MMJ, no OTCs). The pain is 10/10 most of the day. I really need help with pain topicals, after my docs are "trying" to help -.-
I take care of the leg with pharm meds from my doc, OTCs, imaging, MMJ, and...
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Try both and see what works. I'm very interested in topical cannabis creams, but have never tried them myself. I hope you find somethings that works well and have a full and speedy recovery!
nigga smoke that shit
Sorry idk why this part got cut from the OP..
What medication is more helpful to my damaged leg?
I'm having trouble to decide wether or not I should be homeschooled. It's my last year in middle school and my class is just horrible. In fact, my whole school is horrible. I fear that high school will be a lot worse with students doing stupid things and probably I would turn into one of them. I've been having trouble in school because of this. And I think I would ending up failing the year and probably go to summer school. Or staying back.
I want to be homeschooled so I can be independent in doing assignments and other work without things or people getting...
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>>17000583
I did online school for my third year if highschool. Best choice I ever made. I worked part time and was able to do whatever I wanted.
My opinion is that it's probably not a great idea. Learning to deal with people is one of the best benefits to attending public school. And running away when things start to get difficult is a bad approach to life in general. Not a great practice to start as a kid.
What exactly is your issue with your peers?
kids are such pussified quitters these days. You go to school, focus on your work and get through it. Ignore everyone else. It's not that hard. I'm guessing you don't have any friends either?
I'm going to preface this right away by saying I know exactly how stupid, irrational and childish I'm being. This is exactly why I'm asking for help.
On paper I have a pretty good life. I have two jobs and I'm doing a PhD part time, I have good friends and I have a strong relationship. I'm not really good at anything apart from being booksmart, so I like to play video games. My friends also like to play video games and they're really freaking good at them, so we usually get together and play games, then also travel around and enter tournaments....
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Someone please think of the autism.
Maybe theres some underlying insecurity?
The feelings sound like anxiety (thinking that people laughing at you) and depression (feeling worthless)
>>17000800
Hi, thanks for replying.
I fully admit I'm not the most secure person in the world and a lot of the time I don't understand why people would want to spend time with me. However, I can't overstate enough how supportive my partner is. He sits and listens to me rant and counters all of the negative opinions that I have.
I just wish I could listen to him when it matters. I just seem to bypass all irrational thought when I'm not doing very well and turn it into an issue of me being a...
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What's a good argument for someone who says that if you like short haired girls you wanna fuck little boys?
I'm fucking mad, me and my friends were talking about Tracer from Overwatch over Curse and they said this. I do have a thirst for short haired girls but I ain't a faggot.
>>17000565
Man, stop denying. Embrace your homosexuality :^)
The length of the hair doesn't influence the existence of a vagina.
lol you wanna fuck little boys?
Do I leave a job I was fired from on my resume?
I was there for 2 years, and the experience might be beneficial to the job I am interviewing for tomorrow. I was fired for sleeping on the job during a 16 hour shift where someone called off and I had to stay. On the other hand, the companies may have a good rapport with each other and may tell them not to hire me.
Was it a recent job? and if you leave it off, what would you use to fill that 2 year gap?
>>17000666
I worked there from 2013-2014.
I didn't work any job before it other than paid internships but I've worked after it.
>>17000563
Leave it on the resume, do not use it as a reference.
I got hired as a presentation team member at Target. My orientation is tomorrow. I have no idea what I just signed up for. My future boss said something about putting up promotional posters and such, but the actual job description describes heavy lifting and rearranging products. Am I a stocker?
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>>17000562
No, you are a loser.
>>17000562
Don't worry you'll quit showing up after a week.
>>17000595
Wow. Gee. Thanks.
>>17000617
Thanks for your support, I guess.
