>>17002746
Don't go onto your phone or any electronics (except when NEEDED) for a week and you'll get plenty of sleep. At the very least you should turn electronics off by ten.

>>17002756
But that won't make me sleep for a few days continuously, not just at night

>>17002746

Things you should do if you aren't:

1.) Exercise during the day, especially cardio or anything that'll get you sweating. I know you feel exhausted and the idea of exercise seems impossible, but if you can push yourself to run/bike/treadmill whatever using up that energy will allow you to sleep easier.

2.) Take 15 minutes at a time out of your day to sit in a quiet place and meditate. It's strange if you've never done it, but once you sit still for a few minutes doing nothing...
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>>17002736
A beta kisses her full on

An alpha is confident enough to let her make the last few cm to his mouth

>>17002736
a true alpha kisses her on the lips

no not those lips silly ;^) those are for the betas

In my own personal experience kissing only gets easier with experience. My first kiss was dreadful and the girl made fun of me behind my back. But the last girl I kissed told me I was one of the best kissers she's been with. Practice makes perfect.

>>17002667
NoFap + NoPorn helps normalize your fetishes, it gets them closer to straight vanilla sex with a girl. That said you'll probably relapse back into it after fapping. The longer you go without porn, the longer you go before relapse. If you want your fetishes to die forever, you have to give up the porn. I only recommend that if you're having a lot of sex.

>>17002667
It's just like any other addiction. Very easy to get hooked into but difficult to let go.

Go cold turkey.
No porn for atleast 3-6 months. Go get, get exercise, busy yourself.
If you have to masturbate, do it without looking at any porn, without thinking of any porn.
Your brain should start functioning normally within those 6 months.
Good luck.

lel OP I waslike you but for some reason after not fapping to vanilla I suddenly came back to it and nowmasturbate to solopics of girls/fantasizing about my female friends.

>>17002599

i always say go. the fact taht you are considering it shows she doesnt mean that much to you, and the fact taht she isnt considering it shows you dont mean that much to her.

that being said, romantic relationships are the most fragile of all human interactions. 4.5 years is great, but its going to end. so why not end on a high note? A 'until we meet again, if ever' kinda thing? a 'we had a fun ride, lets have the best time we can and then go our own ways'?

if shes open to that. if not, id still say go. shes been here 5 years. she might not be here in 5 more. who knows where you'll be job wisei f you can only ever stay there.

though i think a big issue is also whether or not you WANT the job. you said career so i imagine you are invested but perhaps you are comfortable where you are.

How much more cash are you going to make?

>>17002623
She's basically a part of my life. It is depressing/weird to think of living by myself again. I think ending on a high note with the possibility of coming back later is the best scenario for us, I just have doubts of whether or not I'd majorly regret this if I lost her forever.

>>17002626
About 4-6k a year more but my next step from that would be considerable more.

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They probably try to make you their beta boy who'll give them feel good words on their fat days. We all have that 1 guy who does that for us.

>>17002642
Well, if they don't reply then I just never text them again.

Women really go this far just to get attention?

I worked in a call center for a week and quit. I was only allowed 5 mins of bathroom breaks and was expected to work 45 hours a week. My supervisor would yell at me while I was taking calls all the time.
You are better off starting your own business in what you are best at than working for someone in this day and age.

>>17002565

worked in a call center, wasnt bad. it ws inconsistent though. if you didnt get lucky in the early hours they sent you home early, so you never actually knew how much you were bringing home. yuo werent expected to last 30 days cuz its a high turn over system to avoid paying people benefits. knew one guy who lasted two years but they threw him out suddenly cuz his luck ran out.

they praised me one day for getting $150 dollar donation o nmy first call, then fired me a week later on my birthday for only...
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>>17002577
Lol how many bathroom breaks do you need?

>>17002605
yea, ive heard similar stories of them letting you go if you get too good because there will always be a monkey coming in like me to do your work so they wont have to give you a raise
Who were you calling and what for exactly?
What was your worst call?

Learn how to empathy.

>>17002547
But how

Fuck you little bitch. Then don't come up on me and peddle your ass ever again wit yo flyer and shit. I'm sure it'll be full of posers like you, and suck.

Op here also the funeral is in 10 and a half hours. So I'm really desperate for advice. Thank you

I feel for you op. It's okay to be honest with yourself, it's ok for you to have these emotions. If you feel like the funeral will be too hard you don't have to attend, and if you decide to go you don't have to stay long. Sorry I'm tired and not really giving great advice, just know that I'm thinking of tonight and will be thinking of you tomorrow much love, get some rest.

>>17002570
Thank you anon I needed that

No one does. It's kinda hard to get out of, your best chance would be to call and postpone, you could probably even postpone it online. You can postpone it, but you still gotta go

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Say you are racist.

Say you are distrustful of law.

Telling them you are stressed about school and are not in the right frame of mind would probably work too.

Both statements will usually get you excused.

>>17002439
Also I just had jury duty back in February. I was there for 3 hours and then my whole group was dismissed. Didn't even have to go into court. But everyone's experience can be different.

>>17002423
Here, I guess. What's your story?

>>17002428
>>17002428
I act on impulse like 24/7. ive been on social media seeing these girls doing terrible things and laughing about it. It's not even that big of a deal but i feel like i could rid them of this world and it may or may not help help someone.

I feel like if i dont do it no one will.

Like women with no respect for anyone else getting pregnant on purpose poking holes in condoms, this girl i know who i follow on instagram posted multiple videos...
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>>17002428
Example: i am not associated with this guy or girl. guy with loud fucking mouth at a party, saying some racist or offensive or hateful shit, beats a girl senseless, breaking bones & ripping hair out at a party in the bathroom and goes home before anyone finds her. No one has seen him in a few days but i know where he lives. Not friends with him at all but i was driving through the neighborhood and recognized the car, model, trim & first few license plate #'s.

Would i not be doing the community/world...
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>>17002352
>I'm one step away from driving over there to check he's okay and get an explanation but I'm not sure that's the right choice.
You're probably better off talking to him in person over something like this. At the same time, this could be his way of trying to get out while not feeling like the bad guy.

Fuck... He thinks you are lying. How long habe you been dating? Try to find pics/vids of the girl where you can see that it's NOT you. She can't look like your long lost twin

>>17002368

It's so surreal, it's like a dream. He knows I wouldn't cam and even if I did, I genuinely wouldn't have thought he'd ever be bothered. All his messages were garbled, none made any sense.

The weirdest thing is that we were discussing us the day before when we were together and he was so reassuring, saying how he loved having me in his life, he'd be devastated if he lost me, all this stuff.

Literally none of it makes sense.

My only worry about going over there...
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>>17002319
It's only clunky cause it's wordy
>Food should never go to waste. That's why I'm pursuing methods to efficiently process, repurpose and utilize food manufacturing byproducts.
The key to good writing is saying the most with the least.

>>17002341
fuck that was fast and effective

although, shouldnt there be a more appropriate punctuation symbol/use between those two sentences
wanna help me with the rest of my essay?

>>17002341
Or to make it flow better (if you have space)
Food should never go to waste, (additional bit emphasizing that food should never go to waste). That's why ...

Find one that isn't a shallow, iphone-wielding Schaqueeshka.

>>17002261
Just date whatever you're attracted to and ignore the haters, be they angry white boys, angry black women, of anyone else.

Also if it makes you feel better a very large number of the really really hot desirable black/mixed girls almost exclusively date white boys because they can so just do you and fuck everyone else

>>17002268
youre right, but the problem is that finding one is fucking difficult as compared to women of every other race. Its to the point that it is easier and saves much more time for me to just put off every black woman instead of endlessly searching for a normal, feminine one.

*fap

who cares what others think

everyone does it, they know you do it.
but as long as you're not blatantly staring they won't really care.

just jackoff to yoga pants porn until you're sick of it, and look for a second, but don't stare when you see a really nice one

>>17002139
Find a business that has recently shut down and list that you were a manager there.

I did that when the RadioShack in my town closed down and got a $16/hr assistant manager job with zero experience.

>>17002139

It's really a sticky situation here... what kind of job was it? Why DID you get fired? Did you learn anything?

Honestly, as someone who has hired nearly 100 people in a lot of different kinds of jobs, I don't care if you were unemployed or got fired, as long as you understand why and learned from the latter.

Learning is important, though. If you just say "naw fuck it dawg that place was lame," I'll never consider you. If the gap of unemployment to being hired wasn't...
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>>17002152
It's a pretty niche field, it might be hard to fake.

>>17002163
It's science related, requires education, laboratory work. It was partially my fault, but it was a bad company, the management was terrible and constantly tried to blame things on me, and were looking for a reason long before to let me go. I made one mistake and they used that to get rid of me. But I've been told not to say things like that in an interview because it's bad...
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