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Why are men so shitty???
We just had a baby and things have been busier. He comes home today and is grumpy and goes straight to bed and says he is exhausted and just wants to sleep. Then he tells me, "something is missing in our relationship. I don't feel like we have enough time to be attracted to each other."
Are men just incapable of growing up and dealing with life?
>>17005737
Someone will fall for this b8
>>17005737
He has a point, but he shouldn't have had a kid.
Was the kid planned? Was the kid a mistake?
This is the reason I don't want to have a kid. Everyone I know is depressed, tired, and besides showing off occasional pictures of the kid, has nothing enriching in their life or any other interests anymore besides catching reruns of cartoons or Yo Gabba Gabba.
It sounds like you two need to work better on splitting time with the baby and yourselves so he's not as tired or grumpy, and accept that "just growing up and dealing with life" isn't an answer to it. It takes work on both sides.
>>17005737
Maybe you guys had a baby a bit too soon in the relationship? How long were you guys together before you had the child?
hi anons. im 23 now travelling south america and I have a terrible case of social anxiety. it got to the point im really difficult having conversations even with dudes, not talking about them girls. do you anons have any good advice for me to overcome this problem? tnx.
Just be yourself
>>17005676
just remember that no matter what happens here, you are going to leave in X amount of time and literally no one will remember you one day later. its like most of life, except at the end you will be in a completely different country so you literally have no reason to be scared of being socially awkward, assuming you arent dealing with cartel.
>>17005676
Remind yourself that you will probably never see any of these people ever again, that you have no need to impress them, and that you are only using them (as they are using you) for the moment's company.
That won't be wholly true, but it is fairly close to the truth, and realizing that will take some of the self-imposed pressure off.
My gf won't let me have a threesome. Even though I do everything else that bitch wants. What to do?
>>17005643
Dump
>>17005643
Offer to have a mmf threesome (if you aren't willing you can just fuck off because you're a hypocrite) and if she's okay with that and does it, then push the ffm threesome I suspect you want.
>>17005660
Bitch won't let me have any. She's asexual as fuck.
My ex cheated on me when she was drunk and kept apologizing and saying she would understand if I wanted to break up, and I was so mad that I did. Now I'm wondering if I should've given her a second chance because I still care for her a lot. What do?
she cheated on you. I don't think I would be able to get around that.
Nope, if you gave her another chance you'd just be falling further into cuckery
no trust left in the relationship
drunk isn't much of an excuse; not like she'll never be drunk again.
There's a girl in my class that I'm considering asking out.
the good
>She's cute and thin
>dresses like pic related (most girls in my uni wear sweats and north face)
>funny and smart
>very polite
the bad
>has green hair
>has 2 visible tattoos, a mouse and a coffee cup on her arm
What do you say? I don't want to get involved with a crazy girl. She seems cool but I don't know how big red flags those are.
Green hair is a big one
Are the tattoos good quality?
>>17005562
Oh let alone this crazy chick for others who can handle her dude. She's out of your league. Back to those "the north face" gal. And good luck.
not worth it bro.
So /adv/ I'm still a virgin and I don't meet any girl because I'm let's say not a sociable person but I'm not bad looking and go gym n that, just my personality must suck so what do? And I mean I don't wanna bang some ugly girl, I have the attributes for a not bad looking in shape girl lol but yeah what do
>>17005475
Go to social events/gatherings. They don't even have to be super social. I met my first girlfriend trough a book club.
Try not typing like a fucking 16 year old for starters.
Also the fact that you haven't gotten an attractive girl yet means you're overestimating yourself. My advice? Stop giving a shit about being a virgin and getting laid, that shit oozes off people like a fucking perfume
>>17005486
You know I didn't give a shit until everyone kept making it look like a bad thing so much, let's just say I have a small form of aspergers and im 18, so if it don't matter people then why does everyone make it look so bad
Should i be worried about this thing?
It's showed up on my body like 2 weeks already. It's itchy and a bit swollen. I had some more on my breast. One right on my boobs. Should i go to the doctor for a scan check?
No you should definitely just sit on it and ask an image board for medical advice
>>17005452
Hmm, need to see the ones on your boobs, just to be extra thorough
It doesn't really LOOK like anything serious. But if they all developed around the same time, and this is an unusual problem for you, then it can't be a bad idea to get it checked out
I'm a 20-something year old shitter whos been stuck in retail ever since he graduated high school, then dropped out of university. Stuck in Alberta, Canada, I really just wanna leave this province and go work in a different part of the country.
I found an entry level job listing for a position that's not asking for any previous experience in the field that I'd love to work in, but I'm worried about not excelling, and ending up jobless on a lease in Montreal, and its making me second guess the whole thing.
Should I go through with it? Are there any precautions I could take in just that scenario?
You want it don't you? Go and get it
Job market is shit in Canada. Go to Africa you have a chance there.
Don't self-sabotage. Go through with it. You have nothing to lose except for your old, shitty life.
Is it a red flag if a car's been on Craigslist for three weeks and hasn't been sold yet? The price seems pretty reasonable.
I drove it three weeks ago but decided not to buy it because the interior was so shit. Drove seemingly fine. I see that it's still not sold.
>>17005448
What difference does it make to you, you're not going to buy it anyway
Get a PPI. They're $100 max
>>17005476
It's one of my dream cars, and I didn't know I could find it at this price ($1500). But I wonder if there's something so horribly wrong with it that it's A) priced low and B) people still haven't bought it
I'M DONE I EITHER KILL MYSELF OR START MY LIFE FROM THIS POINT LIKE I SHOULD HAVE DONE LONG AGO. I DON'T WANT TO KILL MYSELF, TELL ME HOW TO PROCEED.
All I want to do is drink or get high whenever I'm not working. life is so dull, but it's the bed I've made so I'm not going to kill myself. Why do you feel they way you do?
What's wrong OP?
>>17005433
Therapy just go
I'm a 27 yr old dude, 6 months from 28. My last relationship was about 1 year ago.
I'm kind of losing confidence in finding someone to marry, have kids with.. I enjoy being alone, don't really enjoy going out. I feel it's too "late" now to experience the benefits of marriage. I want to know someone for at least 3+ years and I feel like time is running out.
I do most of my dating online, my hobbies simply don't yield prospects, friends are all married and barely do anything with me anymore. I find online dating isn't as dramatically bad as people portray it and have met some great women, but no one I would want to spend my life with.
I guess all I'm asking is, is there still hope in my 30's? I feel women in this age range are used up, with massive baggage with kids.
When I find someone, will everything just kind of work out? It seems as soon as the fights and nagging come into my relationship, they all are doomed to fail.
>>17005414
I wouldn't say the,woman are used up but most of them are probably going to have kids or just don't want them.
>>17005414
wheres the pic from? thats so scary
Let me give you a situation:
There's a girl sitting alone at a table, never talked to her but have an interest in her. How would one strike up a conversation?
>"Hey, listen, i dont want to intrude but i was looking at you earlier and I thought to myself that i couldn't live with myself if I dont try to kidnap you. "
>(confused/scared look)
>"You will be the final piece to my human doll collection. Dont worry, it will.only hurt in the beginning. You will get used to pain as time passes"
"Sup bitch"
Just grab your balls and go over their. You can just sit next to her and say hi
>Currently junior in college
>In freshmen year met a cute girl that I immediately fell for (though most likely because our families are from the same countries)
>Out of the blue, I asked for her number
>She gives it to me and I am happy
>Over the semester I would text her and sometimes she would respond back (she is really busy she volunteers in like 3 different places)
>Never have the guts to flat out ask her out
>Over the next 2 years I would randomly text her (like how was the semester going) and never get a response)
>I just assumed she changed her number or she is just ignoring me
>At this point, I pretty much given up on her as I never had another class again
>But today I bumped into her during some event
> She remembered my name and I asked how she had been
>Then with all my strength I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime
>She tells me she wanted to wait till summer because of finals, but if she was free we could go out for coffee or something..(she said this hesitantly)
>This was the very first time I asked a girl out, not because I am beta, but because I couldn't find anyone good enough.
>I ask for her number (because I believed that she changed her number, but she tells me she already gave me her number
>So I realized she was ignoring me all this time...
>SO finally I told I had to leave and she could text me anytime (and I asked if she had my number which she "says" she has without even taking out her phone
>What are the chances that she will text me so we can go out. (or is she just saying this because she dislikes me and this was the nicest way...)
>Should I text her first or will I just be bothering her like before causing her to ignore me
>Sorry for the long post....first time posting
>All I want is just to have a cute girlfriend to talk to....
>>17005376
No, she's not interested in you. At all. Like absolutely zero chance of you two ever becoming an item.
>This was the very first time I asked a girl out, not because I am beta, but because I couldn't find anyone good enough.
Yeah okay, keep telling yourself that.
>>17005376
At first I was upset at how stupid your post was, but you used Gyro so I can forgive you at least a little bit.
You don't wait two years to act on feelings, by then it's long overwith. If she ever had feelings for you she's making it clear that she's gotten over them long ago and it's creepy that you're still attached the way you are after so long without communicating.
Just let it go dude, and next time you're into a girl fucking TELL HER.
>>17005376
She doesn't sound that into you, even if she was she seems too busy for a relationship anyway. You really wanna get put on the back burner all the time while she's constantly off doing her own thing?
My best friend of 5 years got a boyfriend about a year ago. It's childish, but I'm jealous that he gets so much time with her. She's drifting away. She went from saying she loved me to not caring much about me anymore. I felt betrayed when she gave away her first kiss after saying we were going to give that to each other. I'm upset about them going further soon. I tried dating too, but I couldn't love anyone as much as I love her, so it didn't work out. I think I'm a straight female, so it's very confusing.
I have the awful thought about wanting to be there at the end through all her boyfriends. It would help if I thought her current boyfriend was good to her -it's not my business- but he seems to treat her badly. I want to stop being selfish and just be happy for her. Can this be done without cutting contact? I'd rather be in pain than cut contact. Also, I know I sound underage, but I'm over 25 and feel ashamed.
Threesome
Eat her ass and post it here after filming.
>>17005473
I thought about spending time together as friends, but she won't introduce me to him, and I'm glad. Her last boyfriend ended up liking both of us. I wish I had never met him, because she's the only important one to me.
I want sex but whenever a situation happens in which sex is a possibility, I want nothing to do with it.
Wat do.
Jerk off
>>17005357
I'm a girl.
>>17005372
Get out and stay out
