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how do i find work in another state? I dont have any other immediate family members in other states and lived in the same area for my whole life. It's getting really boring and I could do with a 'fresh start'
How do people move countries and start their lives? any advice?
Craigslist
Are you serious??
>Apply for job in foreign country.
>Phone interview stage one, phone interview stage two.
>Job offer.
>Pack bag and leave country behind.
That was 3 years ago and I never looked back
>>17007196
Are you American? Not OP but I'd love to work in Vancouver but I would never be able to afford US income tax on top of whatever Canada takes.
I love her, and we want a baby. I've never had a kid before, what's some shit i wouldn't expect? pic related
>>17007145
baby is black, for once.
>>17007145
If you've never heard about it, say goodbye to your sleep for the first few months. Other than that, enjoy. It is great. It will change you for the better.
>>17007150
yeah that'd be a shock, but no. its definitely mine. what's some stuff i can't predict through common sense, gonna run at me
for the next 37 weeks?
I'm a male who for the past two weeks has had a slight burning/ itching sensation in the urethra during urination and ejaculation as well as for a short time after.
I haven't had any new sex partners in this time, though I did have one unprotected encounter with a girl two months back outside of my regular fuck buddy.
There is also a very slight clear sticky residue under the foreskin in the last few days. I'm wondering if from these symptoms, folks think I might have Chlamydia, or if it's just something else like a UTI or Thrush. (Maybe a...
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>>17007133
Did you drink anything before the ejaculation? I had this problem a while back... It was because after ejaculation, urination is difficult for your urethra or some shit... I forgot.
>>17007133
>What do you reckon?
A Urologist
>>17007133
It could be Amata.
i'm a bad person
how do i stop
>>17007081
Kill yourself faggot, or apologies for your sins and i dont mean to god
>>17007083
but wouldn't you think that you can apologize so much before people doubt your sincerity
Embrace the evil within. Destroy what you hate and build what you love. disconnect yourself from morality, that illusion will only hold you back. Manipulate and control everything around you into a perfect chaos and learn to enjoy it.
Why stop if you can power through and build upon your dominant trait even if its being a bad person
I met a girl a few months ago when I was at a very dark point in my life, and she was everything I needed and everything I could have possibly wanted.
There was nothing wrong, everything was going smooth for two solid months, then she stops talking too me for four days straight, and proceeds to leave me through a phone call saying nothing much more than "I can't do this"
I feel so fucking lost. It's 4:30 am and I can't sleep. I really just need to type this out and talk to someone but I've got nobody. What do I do, /adv/? I know it was a small,...
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Well, it's hard to tell what made her feel like she "can't do this". Maybe you where too depressed? What do you think are her reasons? It's a shity way to end a relationship though.
Ps: did you save that image from /adv/ a while ago?
>>17007079
I'm not outwardly depressed, I've gotten very good at coping with shit over the years, this particular event is just hitting me hard.
She kind of rambled on about not seeing a future with me, being scared, wanting to sort her own life out and still missing her ex. The usual bullshit, but none of it was an specific reason. I think she just didn't have it in her to tell me she didn't want me, which would have been a whole lot easier.
And no, I believe I saved it from a gallery somewhere
>>17007082
Thats just how women are, they rather help themselves then help others, she saw no future with you because you couldnt accomplish what she desired, just move on and forget about her anon
I've had a small dick for as long as I can remember.
As an early teenager I thought it'd be bigger when I get older. Then comes 17-ish and I'm getting worried, but read that guys don't stop growing until 20+. I'm nearly 22 years old now and I'm BARELY 5 inches on a good measurement. Can't pass the TP roll test in girth and a fraction of a milimeter sticks out of the other end.
What am I supposed to do about this?
I've accepted most girls would probably laugh at it in private or be disappointed, but is there anything...
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Dick size--something that really doesn't matter.
Girls aren't fucking you for your dick. They're fucking you because they want to fuck you. And, considering you're here, you're probably not attracting girls who want to fuck you just to fuck.
Get in a relationship. Your dick size doesn't matter. Learn to use other things. Get her off. She'll be fine.
You'll be fine.
there's no way in this earth you can get it any bigger. you have what you have
you just have to play with the cards you got dealt with
Pic somewhat related
I'm a 20 year old college student. I've been skipping class and now I am goi g to fail my first class. I'm just not interested in Fiction writing. I'm barely supporting myself and am going to have to move back to my parents. I'm not motivated in school. I never have been. I've just been doing the bare minimum to pass w/ Bs and Cs and occasional A.
I'm depressed.
There is so much I want to do. I know there is a passionate hard working person inside me. I want to do something. I want a job that I love...
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>I'm just not interested in Fiction writing
That's not a real degree and nobody will hire you after you're done with it.
Drop it immediately and move back in with mum and dad then figure out something else to do.
Or maybe just become NEET. Whatever.
>>17007031
What's NEET lol
My major is writing but I might switch to comm or sociology cause I will graduate sooner
If you want to work with the environment, they have classes for that. Meet with your advisor.
So, my ex told me her menstruation is late. I joked at first but she was serious. We broke up 2 weeks ago(cos i am a fucking manlet, 4 inch shorter than her and she sees no future to us...me kinda neither but still, i attached to her), i tried to talk to her and repair things but she is just difficult. She has another child already, not mine, 2y old.
Thefuck do i do if she turns to be pregnant? I fucking freaking out, i'm 21, i dont need any lil nigga. Also, used protection and did not feel cumming but it happend to me before. Help me fagz
>Thefuck do i do if she turns to be pregnant?
If she gets more collaborative, then you can see what you do.
Otherwise, a paternity test. No matter how pissed off she gets, you get a paternity test. As a man, that´s pretty much the only thing the law allows you to do to protect yourself in this kind of situation.
And if it turns out to be mine? I really really dont like the idea of an abortion but my life would be shit with this lil soul in it. I am in the second year of college. This birth means that i would have to work to pay her ass.
>>17007036
What you think about an abortion is completely irrelevant because you can´t force her to get it unless you go full villain and put something on her coffee. If she wants the baby, she´s having it, and you´re paying. Get a lawyer and go over the laws and stuff, because it changes from place to place, but in most of the world and most of the USA you can´t do anything but to follow whatever path she wants.
I know getting a child now has a huge potential to ruin you. That´s why you should get a paternity test....
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Hey /adv/,
I've finally gotten everything I ever wanted.
I have my dream career. I married my "dream girl" who is my equal and, in some areas, surpasses me (and, in some areas, I surpass her). We purchased our dream home. I have done almost everything on my "bucket list" (e.g. knocked Antarctica and the Galapagos off my list in 2015; finally knocked skydiving off my list in February). I have enough money to purchase or experience almost anything.
And, I have come to the realization, I'm not happy. I dropped out of college at...
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>>17006965
Thats just general human nature my friend.
Our life is an endless struggle. We set our goals and are rewarded with a brief moment of relief or bliss or whatever you want to call it. But we will never achieve a permanent state of happiness...
>>17006965
It's the "what now?" syndrome.
You devote all your energies to achieving some goal(s) and when you get there it's a letdown because the striving and anticipation were a big part of the fun.
Set new goals. They don't have to be financial. Decide to lose weight or learn Chinese or play the piano or help the less fortunate or anything. The striving will be the fun.
Take a deep breath.
You know the 'je ne sais quoi", wich not everyone gets.
Maybe this is that "chemical depression".
I would suggest seeing a phychologist, speaking to him/her, and then maybe seeing a psychiatrist.
The first will give advice, the second will give drugs. A drug free life is always better, but some times necessary.
This sounds like depression. You are aware to the goods in you life, but still struggle with feeling it.
It's not bad. Just maybe necessary of help.
Or try: volunteering. (sounds stupid, but why...
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Hey guys
So for 2 days ago I had my first breakup.
I haven't been able to cry, even though I feel like having a big loss.
I liked the girl, she was just not right for me in many ways.
I feel like having a big empty hole in my stomach, how do I deal with this?
How do I move on, and forget about her?
Thanks
I know that feeling man. It was the first time I ever felt like that before. I've gone through heartbreak but that was the first time I couldn't cry even though I wanted to. You feel like crap but your emotions won't come out and show it neither will your body let you.
To move on, as many would say. Delete her and everytbiing about her. Number, pics, everything remove her completely so you don't have things reminding you of her
Time.
Just because you don't cry and know that it is for the best doesn't mean there isn't a loss. It just means that you didnt react the way you see on TV. And that is normal. But it is still a loss. Take the time to think about it. Accept it properly. And LEARN. It is always about learning.
It's okay
>>17007038
Thank's anon, i'm just so busy thinking about her and are losing sleep etc..
Not sure how to put it, but I wanna move on as fast as I can - So I can enjoy life as I used to, but this without her.
Hey /adv/, I have a bit of a problem on my hands.
I have been with my current gf for aout 6 months. She is a chubby treasure of a girl, she loves me very much and so do I, we are basically perfect for each other... but there is a but.
In these six months I have started going to the gym. Like, seriously investing a lot of time in my physical fitness, and I have come to notice that there are a lot of ridiculously hot girls around, a lot of which notice me as well. My gf is very self-conscious about her body, and while she is trying to improve her fitness, she isn't...
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It really doesn't matter what you do, because your relationship is fucked either way
It is a hard situation when you're a larger girl. Going to the gym, scarier than jumping out of a plane.
Maybe try cooking for the both of you. Become a great cook for the healthy foods. That can help. And ask her to do things with you, like going for nice walks, jogs. Tell her you want her to be part of YOUR fitness. But the gym, that's a scary place. For a big reason of all of those hot girls.
Try that first.
And try doing other things, like movies and those walks.
If she is reminded all of the time that you love her, maybe she will feel more motivated....
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Maybe you could encourage her by working out with her in less public places, then segueing to the gym when she builds her confidence. It's worth talking about
>Literally don't care about anything
This started when I was around 18. I thought it was a phase or something, and now I'm 22. I still don't care about anything, aside from my family.
Its starting to become a real burden, especially when having to tend to all my obligations, and daily shit, when I just don't care. The only reason I do, is like I said, my family. They expect a certain level of shit from me, and I always meet expectations, so I can fly under the radar.
I don't want to make friends, I...
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>>17006881
18 yrs here. Right there with you, I barely eat, sleep crazy hours if at all, don't want to go anywhere, losing my interest in damn near everything. Don't know what to tell you except you're not the only one.
>>17006881
20 yo. also wanted you to know i am in the same exact situation.
Have you gone down the checklist Op? Seen a doctor about it?
Diet, excersise, anything tramatic happen, not getting enough sunlight, not sleeping well at night, etc.
How's your home life? Relationship with the parents? Trusting, loving? Do they let you be you, or have unhealthy expectations from you/expect you to fulfill their goals?
Think about all that shit. Go down the checklist. Start paying attention to daily habits, take note of any unhealthy behavior/hobbies, and healthy ones. Also talk to a doctor.
Went through the same shit and have...
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Well shit,/adv/, I have literally fallen in love with a slut. Known her for around a year and a half, started hanging out again recently. She's basically put me on her fuck list, but it kills me to think that I could be digging her a deeper hole, no innuendo intended. What do, boys and girls?
>digging her a deeper hole
how so? she's responsible for her actions, not you.
>>17006884
Yeh, I know that, but she's not a happy person
>>17006885
what's your concern? do you want to pump and dump her and are afraid of hurting her feels?
I know it's probably not socially acceptable to have the procedure done as a 28 year old working in healthcare, but could I get fired for this? And would it impact my ability to get/keep future jobs?
Takes several weeks to heal but I'm thinking I could get it done right before taking a bunch of time off work so it doesn't look so bad when I go back. If we have wounds we're supposed to keep them properly bandaged and covered which may be difficult.
Is this a good idea? Please say yes.
>>17006824
Probably one of the worst ideas I've ever heard. Go for it op
>>17006824
Completely fucking stupid.
But ears are like hair and if you don't like the style wait a few months for them to grow back. Not.
>>17006830
They usually look pretty good once done healing. My ears are big too which helps I think. It's just the healing and possible work repercussions that concern me.
>>17006851
They don't look stupid to me.
Can a 26-27 year old guy going to college do well socially? Like developing friends or dating women?
naw. unless you want to be the creepy older guy in the group. or if there are a lot of other people around your age
>>17006821
Thats it?
if you look younger get all 21 jump street on they ass.
if not then you're SOL
