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>go to bar.
>see girl there.
>she keeps grilling me on how she know me.
>we go through a bunch of people over 5 minutes. Get to my friend.
>The moment I tell her my friend's name she says "oh shit nevermind bye".
>A year ago.
>she went on date with my friend.
>He tells me they fucked and yes, she seemed pretty...
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Anyone?
>>17010451
Were you drunk when making the OP??
>>17010524
No?
>Gf hates coworkers
>I tell her I don't talk to them so she can shut up about them
>Afterwork
>My car battery dies
>My phone dies
>Coworker offers to help
>We try to jump it but fail
>He lets me charge my phone in his car
>Call gf
>She gets mad that I'm...
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>>17010345
she is crazy dump that bitch
>>17010345
And she hates your coworkers why?
She sounds like a fun girl
Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who was shorter than you? How was it?
>>17010289
lol manlets, when will they learn?
>>17010289
Fine. But then he wasn't obsessed with his height, so it never mattered.
My ex gf was 4 inches taller than me. It was never an issue because neither of us made it an issue.
Help
>Met gear that is wheelchair bound at work
>She had some accident as a kid, paralyzed
>Been working with her for a few months now
>We hang out, outside of work
>She is cute as all fuck
>Like white porcelain skin, black hair, blue eyes
>Hnggg every time I look at her
>Started to fall for a bit after hanging out so...
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>Do paralyzed people even date?
No. Why else do you see so few of them? Cause they rarely reproduce.
of course disabled people date, what the fuck kind of question is that?
ask her out idiot
And when I say paralyzed I mean from the waist down. Not anywhere else.
>>17010149
I don't know, I've never seen paralyzed people on a date.
I'm still a virgin male and everything but casual sex just seems so boring and pointless. I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though. Is this feeling justified?
Stop thinking about it so much. Not everyone is having sex, let alone all the time. Chill. Have compassion for yourself.
I'm about to do some tumblr level shit but whatever.
Have you ever considered that you're asexual?
Literally means someone who is not interested in a sexual relationship (different then a romantic relationship).
so, by the fact that there is a community of people that are sexually like you, I'd say you shouldn't feel inadequate.
-another asexual
>>17010138
>everything but casual sex just seems so boring and pointless. I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though.
Do you mean everything ABOUT casual sex seems boring and pointless? I'd say that's a more common view than you'd think.
When I was younger and single, casual sex was not my bag--I had a couple of awkward promiscuous years and finally discovered that, at least for me, new conquests are only theoretically exciting, and sex is dramatically better in relationships.
Not for mushy reasons, (love makes better sex, etc.), although I've heard from many people who feel that way, but for purely practical reasons. Practice makes perfect, basically--when you've slept with someone more than a few times you know better how to please them and vice versa, and hopefully you're comfortable enough with them to communicate.
But if you're saying that you don't experience any sexual desire, even sex in a relationship may not be your bag--barring physiological, psychological, or neuro issues (low testosterone, drug interactions, depression, some ASDs, etc.), perhaps you really are asexual, as >>17010183 suggests. The internet tells me it's a real thing.
hey /adv/,
What does this mean? I am a girl trying to hang out with a guy that I miss and care about. Why is he putting me on standby?
What do I do?
I don't know how to respond to this ambivalent text.
>>17010121
He said you'd figure it out, he's not saying no he just doesn't want to commit to any specific plans.
If he's enjoying hanging out with you then he'll keep hanging out with you, if not then he'll bail early.
He's an alpha, or trying to give off the impression that he's one. His time is valuable as he is a busy guy.
WHAT DO I SAY?
I am so confused with his reaction. He is completely unsure about me, and ambivalent on even hanging out with me.
What the fuck is his problem?
I feel like slapping him upside the head to make a real decision.
Hello /adv/,
I have been homeschooled my entire life and will be graduating in about one month from now. After that, I need to start pulling my shit together and start researching on what I want to do with my life. What is some general advice you can offer to someone who lived a somewhat sheltered life whose about to step foot in the real world?
my advice is to join the military, that'll pop that bubble real quick by forcing you out of your comfort zone and make you become a part of a unit with all types of people you never would have encountered otherwise
Failures are the only way you'll learn. Don't sweat it. Always act like you have no money because trust me, it disappears quick.
>>17010055
>>17010061
Thank you, anons. Quick question: general opinions on college?
