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This class is a smaller sized lecture hall, about 80-90 people. I recently started bringing my laptop to class because most of the class is bringing theirs. I've seen several people with headphones in flat out watching Netflix during his lecture, and he had never said anything.
Usually I would work on an assignment from another class, because his lectures are extremely slow and it's hard for me to just focus on what he's saying without me doing something else in the background. Yesterday I didn't have anything to do so I was just on my laptop (in the very...
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1. He has no right to slam your laptop down.
2. It's clear he has something against you
Professor sounds like a narcissistic dick. Fuck that guy.
I'd start documenting his behaviour right away. Just for your own sake if you believe you will be treated unfairly. Documentation will help you deal with authorities/administration later.
White, successful guy here.
How come I find it so easy to be confident and alpha around asian women, yet I can only rarely muster the same confidence around white women of my own race?
Dont get me wrong, ive slept with women from every background (which is behaviour im now ashamed of, but thats a different story); but I dont feel like I can be anywhere near as confident around white women. Maybe its just me, but they seem a lot more unapproachable.
How do I overcome this /adv/?
Sounds like a good old fashioned case of racism to me
>>17000183
>I can be alpha only around some people
I don't think that word means what you think it means.
>>17000206
Maybe so, sure
Doesnt help with my problem though. I feel like white women are much more judgemental, which in turn makes them less pleasant to cold approach
What are some things I can do in my spare time t become a better person?
I have a lot of spare time this semester, and I would rather do something productive rather than play video games all the time. What are some things that I can do in my spare time that can really improve my life? I already work out.
bamp
Read literature, read the news, stay up on current events in the world. Volunteer wherever...
>>17000172
the problem here is you just want to be good for the sake of being good. there a billion things you can do to be good. it depends what your definition of good is. you already know you want a better body. but what defines a 'better person' who is already in higher education and working out?
do you want to secure yourself financially? do you want to learn an instrument? a language? do you want to contribute to your community? do you want to get even smarter? do you want to be a good disciple of...
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How do I relax? I dedicate almost all of my time to either studying, working on some project, or shitposting on 4chan (I don't consider this relaxing).
I feel as though I need to take some kind of a break. But how? What are some ways to just relax and rest for a few days?
Bumping and monitoring bread.
>>17000155
Canabis
>>17000572
No, have mental illness running in my family, and weed could bring it up
My girlfriend dumped me after months of me paying for an apartment for her and food for her (she paid internet and electricity) and now she wants to sign a new lease together just as friends.
she dumped me because "we're not right for each other and you trigger my mental illness when you get angry about things that have nothing to do with me" and that we want different things.
We had a fight because she wants an open relationship and I kinda don't, In the end I submitted and said "we can have a open relationship if its just about fucking,...
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What the fuck, Anon? That was the saddest, most pathetic thing I've ever read.
First of all, she sounds mentally unhinged. You dodged a bullet there, trust me.
I'm a straight guy and I've dealt with my share of insane women. She's one, trust me.
Second, get your fucking shit together. You don't need another person to make you happy. Most people are shit and she's extra shit for taking advantage of you like that. You need to make yourself be happy on your own and THEN you can find a girlfriend. But if you can't even love...
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Honestly if you're that fucking lonely and pathetic having the company might be worth it. But she is totally using you.
Make her pay half of everything though. If she doesn't pay half she can fuck off.
Being in solitude is a better existence than the life you have chosen.
Hi guys, was wondering your opinion on something.
Recently i think someone found out a secret of mine, and everyone may think i have a very weird fetish or no one at all. I'm literally so worried i feel sick. Would normies tell me if they knew? How could i test the water to find out if my friends new etc? Should i delete my facebook?
Thx anons :(
>>17000065
What the fuck is a normie?
Jesus, stop worrying about stupid shit like that. Most people have weird fetishes. People will judge you for it because people would judge anybody for anything. Stop caring.
why is the guy wearing a ski mask to use a computer? is it because of webcam hacking?
Having a hard time /adv/
>Have best friend of 5 years
>we both get gf's
>still hangout regularly, but not as often, still best friends
>he dumps gf, I don't, I'm still totally in love and sure of my future with her
>he becomes social superstar and I have plenty of time with my gf, life is good
>he fucks up with a friend and looses his social life
>starts...
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>tl;dr
bros b4 hos was just made up so that lonely guys can push their friends to be lonely like them and not be jealous about them
>>17000067
That I guess that says i'm justified to want to spend time with my gf.
How long have you been with this girl, OP?
What makes you sure that you and her will work out in the end?
What about this friend, how good of a friend is he exactly?
I'll tell you what dude. In my experience, girls come and go but a good friend is nearly impossible to find.
Do cops use /soc/ to bust degenerates like me because I'm going to be purchasing MDMA from a guy that I gave my kik to on a /soc/ thread
Is there any chance it will be a cop
>sorry I'm a paranoid person
I think they only bust people doing large sales. Small time stuff isn't worth the paperwork.
>>17000061
lol
enjoy prison
Yes Anon, they're after teenagers buying MDMA for fifty bucks on freaking 4chan.
Source, I'm a cop and also right behind you
why dont girls maintain eye contact with me in public? we normally lock eye contact for a second and they look away. they usually look down.
>>17000032
Humans usually don't maintain eye contact for longer than a second, it's not a normal behaviour.
>>17000041
It's a* normal behaviour, oops.
>>17000032
if you don't look like a homeless or a total douchebag, that's a good sign, it means they are interessted but they are embaressed about that... Next step you have to take, approaching them!
Girlfriend texts me right after I jerk of telling that she's drenched from thinking about me inside of her all day and will be getting off work soon.
I am not horny in the slightest. We made plans yesterday, but I just wanted to chill, not necessarily fuck.
What do?
You know you can pleasure her without penetration right? Play with her clit, go down on her, try new things, really anything.
Well, just wait till she's over. Maybe you will get in the mood nonetheless. Otherwise it's perfectly acceptable that you don't feel like fucking. You aren't a sex toy. She'll understand.
Not tonight honey.
I'm old and poor as fuck. Started to get my life together very late and that's an ongoing process. Currently work as nursing assistant in old folk's home and enjoy it a lot, so kinda thought nursing would be a logical next step. Made it through a lot of prereqs but this semester dropped anatomy because it was fucking ridiculous with work and everything else going on (like sometimes severe depression). I'm wondering if maybe I'm too lazy for school. It's kinda rough having things to do 7 days a week. Work, school, work, work, school.
And A&P...
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>>16999975
Nuns are female though
Bump guys this is my life :(
>>17000142
Lol I am female.
why are women mean
because life is too short to care
They don't have the physical prowess to compete with men in a fight, so they have developed social and emotional weapons instead, including cruelty and shaming, and utilize them as their primary means of getting what they want.
>>16999970
They aren't; they just don't like you, personally.
>>16999992
Or you.
My gf broke up with me becouse during sex I cum to fast.
I tried holding on but I either lose erection, can't cum or cum real fast.
I'm hurt, I miss her and I have been crying for days none stop.
I dont know why is this happening to me?
I need only read advice please. I'm man enough to say that I'm realy hurting and miss her to death.
What can I do???
Please help...please give me the awnser.
Thank you.
>>16999948
assuming this isnt b8,
she broke up with you for a rather shallow reason. there were probably less shallow reasons as well, people rarely break up for one little thing (kek) but this was the easiest to explain.
for future reference, try edging. it takes a little practice when its something as nice feeling as a vagina. but its great. edging is like having a miniature orgasm, and it makes your actual orgasm feel even better.
Uhm... Maybe it will ease your pain to know that she didn't really break up with you SOLELY because of that. It might have been the one thing that threw her over, but there where a LOT of other reasons. Maybe most wheren't even your "fault". My bf cums fucking quickly and i love that guy to death. I would never leave him because of this. This is not a single bit of a reason to break up. You'll find a better girl, OP. She wasn't the one you are looking for
It's a little disappointing when they cum too fast but it seems to be a very common problem for men. Agree with the others that it probably wasn't the only reason.
Some SSRIs fix premature ejaculation. Everyone's different but this may be an option.
What are neat names for a female german shepherd puppy?
dudley
frau Adolfa
>>16999908
i named mine godzilla.
i knew of a german sheperd named elsa, but that was back in 2002 so dont hate.
it kinda depends on how she looks. german sheperds are kinda diverse. some are silly (like mine) some look noble and awesome. a cute puppy can grow into a noble one, so be careful.
what kind of name do you want? something silly? something hardcore? be careful with how hard the name is to say. the first few months to a yea you will be saying that name a million times an hour. sying 'godzilla'...
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Is there a way to forcefully give myself amnesia or forget everyone I know?
>>16999901
You'd become a vegetable, your experiences shape who you are.
>>16999915
Without becoming an inanimate object*
>>16999901
Tell someone to hit you in the head with a bat. There's a risk of possible death though.
