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So I recently just got into a relationship with this girl I have been talking to for a while. Before I go any further, I'm going to say that it is a long distance relationship. We live in completely different states. Over the course of me talking to her I was just starting to get over my ex of three years, and I helped the girl I'm currently dating get out of a relationship an abusive and manipulative guy.

Now, I'll be honest, it probably wasn't the best decision to get into a relationship as quickly as we did because I didn't give myself enough time to really invest emotionally in this person. I am for the most part over my ex now, but I am not sure if I truly want this new found relationship. It's only been a few days and I'm already feeling like this.

What should I do? I don't want to break her heart, but at the same time I don't want it to feel forced. She seems fairly emotionally invested already and I am not sure how to continue.
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Would you really be feeling a certain way if you didn't want it?
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Break it off immediately. Tell her you got mixed up in feelings and emotions. Since it's only a few days in, she will be upset, but possibly not heart broken.

Resource:
>A guy who dated a grill LDR for a year and suddenly lost the love for her halfway in. It broke her heart more that I let it go for that long rather than informing her earlier.
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>>16996953
When you put it that way it makes me even more confused. I really like her as a person, but she is younger than I am, and we potentially might not even see eachother in a very long time.
>>16996961
I see. Maybe it's for the best then. It doesn't help that it won't last very long to begin with. I am leaving for the United States Air Force in about 2 months for the job of my dreams, and the school I'm going to could potentially last for a year. More of a reason not to continue, I guess.
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>>16996979
I feel ya, man. I think it would be for the best. I'm in the Navy and even though the girl I was dating before supported me, I felt it would be more of a burden to keep the relationship going. I'm not you, but I would recommend to let yourself live without settling in with someone. Also, be sure the next time you interact with a girl that it is someone you want to dedicate yourself to be with happily. Don't let infatuation take control of you.
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>>16996995
Thanks for your advice. I appreciate it.
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>>16996942
break her heart faggot
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