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>>17043320
well then do IT DAD
>>17043320
Livestream it please
>>17043320
livestream plz
Nice autism belt faggot.
Either kill yourself or stop attention whoring on pol
Will i get into Harvard if i am /fit/ /fit/?
I got 2000 on SAT, band 8 on IELTS and +100hours of voluntary work. I really want to go to Harvard because my crush went there brehs
>>17042069
>Will i get into Harvard if i am /fit/ /fit/?
No, actually. You have too much thin privilege.
>>17042070
what would a broad one look like? big tits?
>>17042069
If you only got a 2000 and only have 100 volunteer hours then no
I'm 30, and I've had 21 years of crippling suicidal thoughts. 2 suicide attempts, 1 where I threw myself in front of a trailer, 1 where I hanged myself. Broke some bones, and got up both times after a short stay at the hospital. I genuinely tried this thing you call life after being constantly reminded since I was 10 that "it only gets better" or some basic shit like that. My friends are gone, my wife is in the mental hospital, and will never be ok again it seems. I'm jumping from the bridge, and it'll surely kill me on impact, but I wanted to ask...
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Just have a great vacation man go out with a bang.
Let someone else have it. If you are so unable to enjoy things you can't think of anything you'd like to do with that much money, it probably just isn't worth anything to you.
Also, don't kill yourself. Also, why "one million dollars"? That really just casts doubt on your post. Try harder next time.
>>17041956
See anon, I never ever had a suicidal though for more than few seconds. Even when I fucked badly few times in my life.
But I guess it is thanks to my "average" family and my ability to think before it is too late. So here am I, thinking how stable am I, even though I have never had to stand against something really traumatizing. To me you look like another weak suicidal anon.
>What do you do with money?
I would use them to keep living.
this might look like bait, but its not - i'm really genuinely curious. So pls limit hate and shitposting to minimum.
So, i cannot understand the "concept" of trans people. What internets tell me, is that they feel mentally like the other gender from the one they were born with, which fucks them up. And this "feel mentally like <gender>" is exactly what i dont get. I'm (biologically) male, but i cant say i "feel internally like a male" (or female or anything else for that matter). I feel internally like myself, and being physically...
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>>17039922
Well, I don't really go thinking 'I am man'.
I just like what I like, but... These people feel uncomfortable inside their bodies, and think transforming into a man/woman is what they need.
Of course, people rarely truly know what is the best possible choice is in these kind of extremely confusing situations.
So they follow through, hoping that maybe relief will finally follow. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't
That's what I know. I wouldn't think too hard on it. If it makes you uncomfortable, just remember they've pretty much removed themselves from the gene pool just to remove their own discomfort.
>>17039937
Also this.
>>17039922
the truth is its hard to have a frame of reference because gender is not fluid and humans have a generally high demonstration of gender dimorphism.
there are different brain chemistries/compositions we know of at work, in addition to hormones going on on the inside. There are also the external visual factors, of course.
that means the simple fact is it won't actually be readily possible for you to know exactly how strongly you are defined by your own gender. you can only speculate based on...
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>Met girl with borderline personality disorder (not yet apparent at the time) and became pretty close friends
>About 1,5 years later end up losing my virginity with her, wild 2+ hour sex session, both very drunk (she had a "we'll probably become bf/gf soon"-thing with someone else at that point and was pretty regretful, pretty sure it wouldn't have happened if it wasn't for bpd promiscuity)
>Friendship fucked up, was crushing hard and we lost contact for 2 years, was severely depressed for the first half
>Got back in contact a few months ago, only been chatting sporadically
>Started chatting yesterday when I noticed she was single on fb for some reason, she had dumped her bf because he didn't handle her bad moods well and it made them both miserable, so now she was drunk off her ass
>"I'm unfixable. It's selfish and mean for me to be with anyone because I know I'll commit suicide sooner or later"
>Comfort her, remind her there are lots of people who would be sad as fuck if she died, chat a lot about mental health (I'm currently on antidepressants for depression unrelated to our past, and used to be on the same meds she's on), went on for a good while
So...basically, I told her it seems like she needs someone to talk to more than ever right now, and that I felt kinda bad about not talking very often since we became friends again. Both true, and although I don't have any other motives right now, it does feel kind of good that the girl I used to be so into is single again. If it were to end up going in that direction, I think I'd be willing to try to handle her unstable psyche, because I know she's an awesome person when she's in an ok mood. So...should I even entertain the thought of possibly being with her, and if not, for whose sake shouldn't I?
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>>17037468
>wanting to have a BPD gf
Oh boy, OP. You're in for a ride.
>>17037468
Get out there, imagine you're black and she's a cop, srsly, just run like a nigga.
>>17037472
I suspected that. I haven't really had much contact with her bad side, only seen her freak out and cry while drunk occasionally. The last few days of talking to her before we stopped talking was probably a good preview though (her ex/my acquaintance found out we had sex, she thought I assumed I had told the entire town and was trying to slutshame her and ruin her life, etc.). From what little I've read about bpd, the term living hell doesn't seem too far off.
Start your question with Guys, Girls, or Both, so we know who you want to respond.
Avoid asking questions in the FAQ.
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
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Girls,
Is TRP right about this one thing? Are women the gatekeepers when it comes to consensual sex?
>>17037437
Yes. This is true. Beware though, they can and will remove consent when they see fit, even after the deed is done.
>>17037439
I wasn't really worried about the whole consent thing. What I mean was this. Are women ultimately the ones to decided who has sex and who doesn't (out of heterosexual men of course)?
Hey man,
I don't know if you remember me but we used to be skype buds a few years back. I met you through my partner at that current time, you would remember them. But they were a jealousfag and made me stop talking to you because we were just two peas in a pod and talked so much. I was just a kid at that time and let them walk all over me and I regret it. But we're good friends now and I don't know, I just remember how chilled you were and I missed that even though it lasted only for a little while.
Ex found your facebook all stalker like and I'm...
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C,
Way to tell me that you miss me and then not follow up when I try to do something with you
yare yare daze desu senpai
Ellie,
I hate this. I guess i'll just have to give you time but it's eating me up inside. We both suffer from mental illness and I now see how I should have been more understanding. This really hurts and i wish you would answer my questions. I also wish you would believe me. This is really sucks and it's killing me. I hate that it's my fault, and I hate that you're putting walls up. The worst part is you're not moving to France. I hope things will get better because i'm of the verge of bursting into tears half the day
25 y/o male virgin. I'm convinced it's never gonna happen at this point. Give me any reason no to blow my head off right now.
I'm 22 and am facing false rape allegations from my ex gf
It could be worse, man.
>>17029584
maybe you shouldn't hit women you fucking asshole
>>17029572
How often do you talk to women and how often do you go on dates? When you're out with a girl are you flirty and playful or reserved and formal/in interview mode? Do you play up your sexual side around women or hold back in fear of being rejected? How do you rate yourself in looks, do you still love with your folks, and do you have any major passions or interests?
Who do I vote for?
Im an upper middle class straight white male for was educated in private schools and currently studying computer science. Im also and atheist and pro choice and want to end the war on drugs, but strictly against illegal immigration or general unneeded immigration.
Sanders- Pro immigration, says white people cant be poor
>30% of all welfare recipients are white
Clinton
>Will say anything to get your vote
Trump
>Says crazy shit, so crazy it seems...
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>>17034242
Your description of the candidates show that you know very little about them, or politics in general.
Maybe you better stay out of this one.
>>17034242
Vote for Sanders, don't you want free healthcare, free college tuition, and jobs?
He's literally the only candidate who is not a corrupt piece of shit tied to big money. The United States has never had a candidate like him in recent memory.
>>17034242
You didn't come to ask a question, you came to shill for Trump.
It's so fucking satisfying to see him crashing and burning, you know that? And the way it's panning out is delicious, because he's failing at the one thing he said he was good at - making a deal. He's whining and crying about how Cruz is beating him at winning over the GOP and winning over the delegates, but tough tit - those were the rules all along. Cruz is winning the deal, and all Trump can do is baww about unfairness.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't....
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Ahh man. You beat me to it. i was going to update the FAQ too :/.
