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My boyfriend broke up with me after finding an old video of me having sex with 2 guys.
I've been on 4chan forever, and I've read stories like these before but I never imagined I would be one of them. This is what happened:
>bf and I dating for a month
>blurt out that I only had sex once
>he asks: "really? just one guy?"
>reply "yeah just once"
I never told him that I had sex once, but with 2 guys at...
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>>17052318
It's really hard to believe you unless we see the video.
>>17052318
Dont reply to this bait
Get rekt whore. You reap what you sow.
Didn't see one
Dear OP,
You are not a faggot.
Love, Anon
>tfw no OP that wouldn't be a faggot
Im going to therapy soon
Hopefully I can stop stalking you finally.
I dont know what else to do.
Hey..
It's been a long time, I'm doing a lot better than the last time you saw me..
I cleaned myself up, I stopped drinking as much and I haven't taken any drugs for what feels like an eternity.
I pulled through, I miss you so much. I want you to be happy, and I don't want to fuck your life up again.
Promise me you'll make him as happy as you made me.
I was debating whether to post this on Reddit or here, and I chose here, because I feel like I'd be getting less sugar-coated bullshit answers. I don't think my boyfriend is gay. He's a hikkikomori and not a porn addict. He hardly masturbated before he met me. You know how people say all guys only care about sex? Or that guys always think about sex? Well he doesn't. It's not with me, it's not with other girls, and it's not with anyone/thing else. He's just not a sexual person. I know he loves me. I know he's attracted to me. But he...
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this is good bait
there are people here who will bite this bait, and therefore it is successful bait
Small dik
>>17056093
I should also add that physically, I have a considerably nice, thin body. Wearing lingerie does nothing for him, he just wants to "appreciate" how nice I look rather than him want to have sex with me. He just doesn't allow himself to get turned on, and if I start to stroke his penis while we're cuddling in bed, he tells me to stop. He says it's physically stimulating and it feels really good but he doesn't "WANT" to have intercourse with me. In the past he's apparently...
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for sleeping with married people?
>>17054642
yes, you are a bad person
Not necessarily. It's enabling someone to deceit or manipulate someone else that's bad. If you sleep with a married person and nobody is being lied to then no biggie.
Depends... were they awake?
Alright so I really fucked up.
My best friend has had a crush on me for a long time now and I used to like her. But shes super sexually active so I find that incredibly disgusting and brush off her advances.
We once had a long talk about dating and I tried to passively reject her but she kept harping on about how good we were as friends and how we might as well change our 'title' without changing anything.
About 2 nights ago and a party/gathering and somehow people started making jokes how we should be together because we are 'perfect' and I spilled...
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>>17054042
She was in denial about her behaviours and thought she had everyone else fooled too. Either she'll come around or sink back into deluding herself. Either way, hold your ground and stay true to yourself
>spilled spaghetti
jizzed or puked?
yo as a girl and a slut: you fucked up. Like shit, she probably was pretty insecure to begin with and now you have absolutely crushed her self cofidence. You should probably apologize because the attention would make her fell less weird but if you do apologize make it clear you are not interested otherwise she will think you are in love with her and cling fo sho
To start us off, I read something recently which in my experience is wholly untrue but I'd like to get your (girls) thoughts on it. On women rejecting men and their feelings towards those guys
"She wants you to be that man. She's secretly rooting for you, She doesn't want to reject you. Every time a new man walks up to her, she's secretly saying to herself, "Please, please, please be the man. Be the attractive man that I can't say no to." And then he nervously stutters around buying her a drink and makes uncomfortable jokes about the weather and she's back to that horribly uncomfortable position of having to reject him again."
So how accurate is this? Is that what you girls really feel when a guy approaches you?
I'm probably not representative of the average woman, but I don't mind if guys are nervous, stuttering, and/or awkward... I get nervous talking to guys too so I understand what they're feeling. I wouldn't reject someone on that basis. I don't expect some guy to ride up in a chariot with angelic horns ringing behind him and sweep me off my feet.
I'm also not secretly rooting for guys that talk to me tho. I'm mostly just nervous and thinking, 'oh shit someone is talking to me be cool be cool'.
Women are people same as...
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>>17052121
>Women are people same as men. I hope most of us get that?
Femnazi detected
>>17052061
Not rly. My enthusiasm would either lessen or Id find it incredibly cute. Either way Id give a guy a chance.
Anyone need advice on girls?
I do really well with ladies, and dedicated much of my 20s with the soul purpose of learning even more about attraction and what buttons to push.
Willing to help some of you out. Ask away.
What do women want? Also can the average dude get to the level of a stud with women?
>>17051342
I can address this easily. Women want control. The more you have, the more they can take. The average dude will rise to the level of the stud after he has undergone the ritual of self-purification wherein one
"gets"
"good"
>>17051342
The more specific the question, the better, but I'm assuming you're talking about what women want in relation to trying to fuck them.
They want a wide spectrum of emotion. This is why you'll see them drama ing all over the place in a normal day. It's also the reason the so called nice guy (we can get into the nice guy thing later, often cases they are anything but) bores them to death and they get nowhere.
An average dude can absolutely become a stud. When you get deep into this...
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>No, but we can be "just friends!"
>we can be "just friends"
>"just friends"
>"ʲᵘˢᵗ ᶠʳᶦᵉᶰᵈˢ"
>ʲᵘˢᵗ ᶠʳᶦᵉᶰᵈˢ
Why is "just friends" a thing?
Why shouldn't it be?
>>17051119
>Why is "just friends" a thing?
Is "I have no attraction to you and would never want to date or have sex with you" better for you?
>>17051125
>"I have no attraction to you and would never want to date or have sex with you"
Sure, let's totally hang out and be best buds!
I am a female with Borderline Personality Disorder so I am a she-devil incarnate.
Ask me anything!
Can the she devil help me get rid of another she-devil?
What does a typical day consist of
>>17049426
I need more specifics. "Get rid of" meaning get her to stop bugging you? Sure.
>Be 5'4" 165 lbs
>Have a wife and a child, not even 20 years old
>Wife subtly starts suggesting I work out
>Months pass, no progress because I don't feel like it
>She starts getting more upfront, saying I should care about my physique like how she cares about hers
>Reply with "But I don't need to. I'm not morbidly obese."
>She...
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you look like 5 feet. Is your wife hot?
>>17052693
Maybe she'll let you masturbate while watching them have sex.
>>17052693
>what do I do?
You read the fuckin sticky, then lift.
How do I get less picky about sexual partners?
I want to slut it up but I never see any guys I'd be interested in.
How picky are you? Could you give examples of a yes and no, maybe with generic pics? I feel like you can't change attraction so I'm not sure what to tell you.
Get drunk and fuck everything that's remotely shaped like a cock?
How slutty do you want to be?
>>17051784
A nice, neat, well-groomed guy who's kinda fat and doesn't have a weird face. Ethnicity is not really a question as long as we have a mutual language and some kind of a similar cultural background.
I can't come up with a picture but I'm picky enough that the literally only guy I know that I'd be into is the one engaged to my best friend and they're very happy together.
Self taught programmer here
How do I convince my parents that university is a waste of time and money
they're afraid I won't get a job without a degree
Land a job.
>>17051687
Consider community college or some sort of vocational school if you don't already have some programming job or a full college scholarship lined up. It'll be hard finding a job with just a high school degree.
>Self taught
Do you have any projects actually finished and published? Otherwise, it'll be very hard to convince others that your skills compare to someone who has done four years of university.
You also should make sure you're fairly active in the open source community. Good companies often look at Github contributions to evaluate programmers, especially those without a college degree.
>Be a month before me and bf are official
>Say we love each other and all that jazz
>Aren't dating yet because he isn't ready
>Tell him about irl friends that are kinda "free spirits"
>I was interested in casual sex
>I do it with one person
>Doesn't feel right, tell him about it
>Never fuck someone else...
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You can't say "i love you" to someone then go fuck others and expect it to not have an impact. You're a cheating whore and you know it
>>17051015
hahahaha goes and fucks others.
Expects that person to care about him.
Tough luck woman, you've dunn it now
>>17051020
>>17051022
Except he knew that sort of thing was going to happen back then.
We were not officially dating.
He didn't tell me that he objected to it and that I shouldn't do it. So at the time, it was very VERY grey.
I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do now.
I am super close friends with a group of 3 boys at my college. These boys love hanging out with me and think that I am physically attractive- but they don't "come on" to me.
In a way this has been great because I've been able to get to know them all very closely, but I think they're worried that if any of them make a move, they'll ruin the awesome dynamic we have going on.
Atleast- that's what I THINK is going on. None of these boys have had any sexual experience, so they're in that kinda awkward middle-school-y state where any...
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You're going to ruin the friendship between them on some level possibly. Being a guy who has never had experience with woman, he's going to be new to love, always hang out with you, have to learn a ton of lessons and.. Man.. Ah whatever lol, I've seen it happen too many times
>>17050240
Simple as it seems, the next logical step would be building physical intimacy. As a female you have leeway to do certain things guys can't generally do, like put your hand on his thigh when sitting and avidly talking, or grabbing his hand or the like. That's what I say would be the next logical step. All it takes is you holding their hand and looking them in the eye and in 5 seconds he'll be thinking about you for the next five hours.
And in the event he's too anxious to ever show signs...
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>>17050240
Options are as follows
A: pursue romantic relationship with
B: maintain friend status
Note: if you want romance and hold back, the friend option will wither and die anyway as you force eachother apart
A is likely best option, realize one way or another, shy of marriage: you're doomed to eventually stop talking to him
Recently my mom and I have been getting into arguments over something very petty; a poster. In my bedroom I have a poster or two featuring some lolicon. Today she told me I should take it down, and when I didn't want to it borke down into her crying and yelling at me. She went on about how it "makes her uncomfortable" and shes "worried for my mental health. Also she went about how I should be able to hide the posters once for our cousins coming over so I can seem nomal. That pissed me off....so apprently I'm the fuck up child or something ? Besides it my room, not her's.
>>17049856
Let's see the poster op.
>>17049856
Take it down apologize to your mother you fuck up, if you want to broadcast being a future child watch list suspect move out
>>17049856
>In my bedroom I have a poster or two featuring some lolicon
Bruh. It's bad enough you like that at all.
