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I have been suicidal for a long time, therapy & meds don't help.
I already know what the problem is but people don't take me seriously.
I'm suicidal/depressed because I'm a virgin.
Therapy & suicide hotlines will not make me lose my virginity.
I have been rejected by over 300 women in my life.
I have many women call me cute/attractive, I get accepted to go on dates
but I can never seal the deal with women.
I am thinking about ending my life next month, I already told my company I will be quitting.
It's really...
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Perhaps people might take you more seriously if you explained to them what about being virgin makes you want to end your life. I'm a virgin too. I'm sure sex is great (people literally kill for it on occasion), but is the lack of it really worth giving up on everything else you could experience in life?
Also, I think people usually take hookers to motels.
do it, it will easy on your fear.
don't be stupid, world is harder to live when you are stupid.
and never go full retard.
http://www.blackdragonblog.com/
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if I ask a girl who is at best an acquaintance to go hiking with me, will she construe it as a threat of rape and murder?
>>17061125
It's a bit weird to ask anyone you don't know that well on a hike
>>17061128
bye
Consider me triggerd or other buzzword for saying the following
but do people (who are white and male) actually don't so how moronic this image is? I'm just trying to level here.
don't see how*
>>17060327
/adv/ rule 3
>>17060334
I'm not venting.
Is NoFap legit? Like would it actually improve my social skills and be a better person overall?
It would help your sex life/relationship with girls, but it won't turn a sperg into a normie
no it doesnt help anything, you'll just end up beating off someplace that you shouldn't
>>17061296
If you spend your time mindlessly browsing 4chan in place of fapping, you're a fucking dumbass and will fail.
NoFap's point is to be busy with productive shit. Get off of the internet if you want to succeed with this 'challenge.'
NEVER GET MARRIED
If you thought no-fault divorce was bad enough, you should see at-fault divorce
>Be 23, fell for the marriage meme
>Within 8 months marriage starts going downhill, after 2 months it bottoms out.
>Sex twice a month, on a good month, usually only once.
>She has gained almost 40lb in the 2 years
>Don't dislike each other that much, but the flare is certainly gone.
>Get...
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Do you expect us to feel bad for you? You fucked this up.
>>17060152
>She becomes pregnant
>my child
Are you sure?
Is this child by any chance of a dark skin?
>>17060152
What has your wife done to earn half of your assets? What entitles her to that? Did she help you build your business or something?
Are you a virgin /adv?
>>17043685
Yes
At first I didn't have sex with anyone because I was waiting for "the one" and turned down any girl that wasn't fit to what I felt that entailed or I didn't feel any emotions toward. Eventually I realized that was just young, wishful thinking and gave up on it. Since I'm religious, I just plan on marrying a nice religious girl now and waiting for marriage.
Although I do sometimes feel like a complete fool for turning down the advances of women. A girl in a drawing class...
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>>17043711
Did you really turn down that girl because of your beliefs or were you just scared to show your dick?
Don't lie share your honest answer. Props to you for believing in no sex before marriage, I used to be like that until I lost my virginity at 19 years old.
Nope. Over the past decade I've had a few fingers inside 5 women, my dick in 4. It's nice and all, but once you get laid a few times you can't believe how much time, energy and thought you invested into what is essentially a short, pleasurable sensation.
I emotionally abuse my fiancee because I know I can get away with it.
I can't help it. I know it's wrong but I get so frustrated or angry when she does something wrong that I say things like "well if that's how you feel then I'm not sure we can be married" or just ignore her for like 2 days straight.
Advice please?
Please don't call me a monster. I'm trying to stop.
>>17060452
Just break up with her.
>>17060459
Why? I do love her. I could never do that. I do love her, I just don't understand why I do this.
>>17060452
>emotionally abuse
no such thing
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>>17058697
Femanons, how important is confidence to you?
>>17058703
i think it's more important that our confidence is at about the same level than just "have loads of it". i'm rather shy and awkward. so is my bf. we go together pretty perfectly thanks to this.
OP, please add the cuddle guy and Brandon back into the FAQ. If they're not there, they start shitposting again
You remember that one person? That one person you made eye contact with? That one person you obsessed about yet never managed to talk to? You remember how you lied to yourself about how much you are over playing it and they are not really that perfect when deep down you know this is all you want? the person you lied o yourself about, how you would be better of without them how you didn't need them you will find someone else? The one that got away?
Well I'm just wondering if girls feel this too
Yupp well at least I do.
>>17058201
I have had friends who have done this. I've coached them through countless boys that they didn't even know who they became infatuated with.
I haven't had that because I'm a heartless robot. Or asexual. Or lesbian. Or whatever.
>>17058209
Do you cry?
>>17058213
>Or asexual. Or lesbian. Or whatever.
Or mentally ill
Is it weird for a married woman to be friends with an unmarried man?
I am 25, was taking classes part time while I was pregnant and after I had my son. One guy was in all of my classes so we started talking and eventually working on two extensive group projects together. I just moved back to the area and don't really know anyone. I will have days off in the middle of the week while my son is in daycare and my husband is working. Would it be wrong to hang out with this guy? We have quite a bit in common and I'm not exactly hot after just having my baby. Will...
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What do I say so it doesn't seem like I just want to bone? Husband knows all about this btw.
>>17058295
>Is it weird for a married woman to be friends with an unmarried man?
Only if he doesn't become a mutual friend of your husband, and you don't include your husband when it comes to meeting up. My husband knows I would never do anything to wrong him, but I still choose not to hang out around guys one-on-one out of respect. It's just something that many people look down upon.
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>>17058391
I do plan on letting him meet my husband and stuff; he knows I have a kid, we're friends in Facebook. But I have days during the week off, my husband works Monday-Friday and I want someone else to hang out with?
What aspect of a person, physical or otherwise, turns you off a person the most?
Mine has to be Creepiness.
Lying.
>>17056542
That and cheating have to be a close second
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Do guys like it when a girl rests their head on your chest?
>>17056261
Yes. At least I do.
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>>17056261
Shut up, womern!
Dayum ladybabble.
I guess it that find out her political views increased my optimism a bit? Doubtful though. (Labels herself as Left Wing, Could be only Bernie level, or could be further left like me. And stated that she would protest for the Same cause I would)
I guess that is is possible that she is just becoming more comfortable with Left wing views due to our class being quite Vocal (especially with Socialistic and Anarchistic views, at least 3 in the class want a Left Anarchist Society) and I always give somewhat radical speeches. The one I'm writing now wont be any different, probably even more Radical than the last.
I'd like to think me tipping well compensates for my degenerate behaviour.
>>17050200
It does. Do not worry.
>>17050200
You're damn sure it does.
Hi /adv/
30 year old female here. My fiancé called off the engagement and packed his stuff and left after he started raging like a berserk.
Thing is, he asked how many men I have slept with before we met and I gave him the correct answer, which is a lot more than he apparently is comfortable with.
I never lied to him, I never said it was "just a few", but obviously I did not feel the need to rub it in his face unless he specifically asked.
Ironically, he was the one who lied to me, initially. When we first had sex he told me he had fucked a lot of women. He is extremely tall, very handsome, green eyes, athletic and very educated and articulate so I thought it figured, but he lied. I may have had sex with lots of other guys during the past years, but I have never felt that way for any of them. I deeply love this man and now he left me and called off the wedding for something that has nothing to do with our relationship.
He says he can't trust me anymore, even though I never lied or cheated on him and that he couldn't imagine having children with a person with such a sexual past.
Is there any way I can bring him back to reason? I want this man, he and I fit so perfectly together and I just can't understand how this can be such a dealbreaker to him. We've had such intense connection right from the moment we first met which is why he asked me to marry him only after 4 months into the relationship. I just don't want to lose him...
4 months, is this shit for real?
you're better off without this idiot and you're an idiot too for overlooking such obvious red flags
>>17054547
you can't post this and not tell us the number. He may be overreacting or he may not be.
this dudes a fucking nutjob lady. nobody in there right mind would marry someone after 4 months. you havent even gotten out of the honeymoon phase. are you happy to be married to an insecure manchild for the rest of your life sans divorce? hes going to question every relationship with a male you ever have. baka get rid of this jabroni
ONE QUESTION....NO MEMES....NO BS...STRAIGHT UP LEGIT ANSWERS....FROM GIRLS PLEASE
Does height matter? And how much? Does a guy have to make up for it in other ways if hes shorter?
Whats the cut off point?
Please honest answer and no bully
Just date short girls faggot.
My bf is like 5'2, I'm like 5'1 it doesn't bother me at all. The only way dating a short guy would bother me is if he was shorter than I am, so if you're 4'11 date a midget/dwarf kek
Most girls just want a guy tallER than them.
On average, the IDEAL is 4 inches taller. Anything more than that gets closer to too tall territory, and shorter get closer to too short (because it gets closer to being shortER than her).
It's all completely relative to the individual girl's height.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691293/pdf/12713744.pdf
>>17053513
>http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691293/pdf/12713744.pdf
Thanks anon. I will go an hero now
