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Why you're still not believing in the only true redpill, the lookism theory?
Do you think the guy in pic uses "game"?
Do you think your gf will not want to have sex with him if he wants to?
Wtf is up with his cheeks?
I'll admit when a guy is attractive but the cheeks make his face ugly.
>>17071457
They'are god-tier cheeks.
>selfie
>manchild
>tattoo
>piercings
2/10 would not bang
Hi, thank you for taking time to read this weird and wonderful story about my journey. I met this girl on Skout from Turkey. We got close to each other, and decided to meet each other around Christmas time. We both committed to each other and told each other we loved each other and what not. However, we were both aware of cultural differences and traditions as she was a Muslim. We were meant to meet each other in August of last year, however I didn't have the money to do it, and I felt horrible for stringing her along but I did everything I could do to make it happen but...
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I said No and she appeared to be much happier. I just told her that I was really confused at the moment, and she said that I couldn't imagine how confused she felt too. I don't how to interpret this situation, or just say screw her and move on, but I don't want to make a mistake I would regret either.
Please give me some advice because I don't know what to do
Can you think of any way to make it work? Being in a similar situation, I feel for you. ):
Whatever you do, do not press her to turn her back on her beliefs/family/culture/whatever.
A friend back home married this Muslim girl and her parents disowned her. Long story short, she has clinical depression now and he wants to end it but he's afraid she'll kill herself.
If it's just not possible OP, then at least try to explain it to her rationally that if an oppurtunity for happiness presents itself to either one of you, that it would be silly not...
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I didn't pressure her, get mad at her or anything. I told her that I understood and said to her that I hope she finds the right person in her life and she got very emotional and started crying. She would randomly start crying on a lot of occasions while we were together. Before I traveled over, she said that the only way we could be together properly would if I became a muslim and I told her I would do that. I know it sounds a bit much, but I have been with girls and all I worry about is being cheated on and I hated having that anxiety, but I never had that with her because.
She...
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This is nagging at me, and I don't know what to do. Am I wrong to dwell on this? How do I move on?
Knew my GF since begging of college. We were good friends, and in last year of college we hooked up and started dating at end of college. Now wrapping up grad school and thinking about moving in together and taking it to next step.
I can't stop thinking about her past. She was somewhat slutty in college, and definitely did somethings in the past that hurt me - slept with a close friend for example. I keep thinking of stories she told me about before we...
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>>17070884
There's higher quality girls out there, dude.
Don't be a cuck.
Sounds like you need some basic talk therapy.
Who someone is yesterday doesn't mean they will be or are that person tomorrow. People change. Their opinion on how to live changes. Their values in lif change. If the current person your partner is is someone that fits very well with you, then that is what's really important.
Now, if she hasnt changed, if she still has more than just a nagging fantasy every now and then about fucking some new guy behind a shed, or getting plowed by big black Darrell, then you have grounds for ending the relationship. That's...
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>trying to wife a slut
What could possibly go wrong? Listen to your instinct OP, run the fuck away.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years, living together for two. It hasn't always been roses, but we love each other and we're willing to try to get better at communicating blah blah blah.
But last month his brother died and it's sent him in to this existential crisis, one that I did not handle well. It seems so obvious what a shit bag I was being now, but I didn't even notice it at the time. He wanted to start going out a lot more and he works in the morning and I work at night so we don't see each other as is. I was giving him a hard...
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>>17070764
Let me get this straight. You treated him like crap and he asked you for a month and after a week you feel like moving on?
By all means then, do him a favor and let him find someone who actually appreciates him.
>>17070764
you sound like spoiled little brat. Its all about you isnt it? Your bf was depressed after his brother died and you were givng him crap because he didnt pay as much attention to you.
Fuck you bitch
>>17070774
I wouldn't say like crap. I just wanted to spend time together. And no I don't want to move on. I want more than anything for him to come home. I miss him so much it's making me physically ill. I'm just scared I'm sitting at home crying and throwing up and he's out there having the time of his life and I don't want to prolong feeling like this for a month if at the end of it he's just going to break it off. I'd rather find out sooner than later.
So my fiancee has a steam "friend" who chats with her constantly.
In the morning, while she's at work , while she's at school and basically all through the day.
Basically at least twice as much as we do. I've seen their chats and it's full of flirting and has been escalating to "I miss playing you" and heart emojis.
This is making me uncomfortable but she says I'd be uncomfortable with ANY male friendship she has and, she's right. I view friendship with the opposite sex as at the very least back up partners and at the worst romantic rivals.
But she says she wants male friends recently because"they're easier to talk to and less dramatic than girls".
They're only steam friends and aren't facebook friends or have each others numbers and she doesn't have snapchat. But can I really trust this? Am I just supposed to trust her while she develops a relationship with a guy who most likely is trying to bang her.
>>17070717
I had a similar situation very recently, OP. My advice? Cut this shit while you can. As her fiancee, you actually have some authority here man, fucking take it. If they're talking all day and sending flirty messages that isn't cool, it doesn't matter if it's on Steam or Facebook or whatever. I had a very, very similar situation to yours OP, and I fucking lost her.
>>17070777
What happened?
>>17070717
how do they "flirt"? because i've seen guys who accuse guys of flirting for merely saying "hello :3" which some faggots do to greet girls.
i dunno op, i guess i'm kinda like your girl, except i spam heart emojis to both girls and guys, so its not like i treat them any differently. i only "flirt" with my girl friends though.
but when i do notice guys flirting, i'll let them know my bf wouldn't appreciate that and thank them for whatever compliments they...
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Question to the femanons: are you bitter?
I mean lots of guys on 4chan cry about gender roles and how men are supposed to do a lot of shut for pussy while the girl doesn't have to do anything. That world view is jaded and destructive, that's for sure, as adopting it will yield nothing but pain and hate for yourself.
However, there is some truth in there. I see lots of guys in my vicinity completely pussy whipped, doing everything and demeaning themselves for a girl to pay them attention. And they're doing it all the same way.
Now femanons, I guess a...
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>>17069954
>get free stuff
hard to say no to free stuff
not my fault men are dumb enough to do anything for the chance to fuck
It's not my fault the guys you know are spineless and put women on a pedestal
>>17069954
I feel sorry for the UGLY chicks, it's like they don't exist.
I am stuck in a massive rut. I am 28 years old, had to move back with my parents. Because of my massive debt.
I have $20,000 in Student Loan Debt, and $10,000 in Medical Debt. I currently pay a total of $400 a month to pay this debt
Since I have had to move in with my parents, they began charging me rent and I have had to pay more than my share of the utilities (more than half), and buy my own food. This isn't bad, but the problem is. I only work for $9 an hour. Full time, sometimes I have overtime. I have no money at the end of the month. My job is down the...
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>>17068609
Got any savings?
Why are your parents such dicks to you?
Sucks to be you, should have gotten a good degree instead of the dogshit one you've chosen.
My advice would be maybe you should ask for duties instead of paying that much in rent. Like cleaning, mowing, etc in supplementation to the charge of rent.
hey /adv/ I'm overweight, what do?
>>17068364
Recognize that you are overweight. Want to not be overweight. Read Eat to Live and realize that you have a shitty diet. Change your life.
>>17068364
Eat less, exercise more, don't drink soda, don't eat chips.
Just what the fuck is wrong with normies in general? I cant fucking stand them.
They are loud, obnoxious and stupid, and this shit is driving me insane.
Like today in Class some faggot brought up the topic of the new StarWars movie and I was on a highway to cringe town when some dude said: ''Yeah I just left at half of the movie I couldnt stand shit XD'', some other whore said ''Lol yeah Like who was that Skywalker guy I looked out for it on my phone'', ''Yeah and that evil dude I was wondering if that was like...
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holy shit shut up. this is so annoying god damn dude. this post is like a guy who won't stop talking while watching a movie.
>>17068292
So are you here to offer advice or...?
>>17068284
Wowwow, normies have existed in all generations in the first place. 2nd, you have 4Chan to be with us non-normies. Tells us more about these faggots.
I can't get over my ex. I left him 7 months ago, i still think about him every day, i still think he's amazing, we were together for 7 years, he is always on my mind, i've tried so hard to get over him, i've tried not talking to him for a few months, ive tried being friends with him, ive tried dating other people, none of it works or gets him out of my head.
I don't know what to do. I can't get back with him, it took so much courage and strength to leave him, i cant go back on that decision.
>>17068130
Why did you dump him?
>>17068138
He had become emotionally distant and wasn't there for me when i needed him.
I feel bad because since we split he went to a lot of therapy sessions and ive really noticed a positive change in him. He's the man now i always knew he was inside, but i don't get to have him now. A cruel trick of the universe, after i leave, then he makes the changes..
>>17068130
so stop being a faggot and tell him your feelings?
So I went with this guy for drinks yesterday. It was my idea and it wasn't meant to be a date, but he was down with it. He wanted to pay for my drinks and food but I told him I'll pay for myself, we chatted a bit and had loads of laugh, it was a fun evening in general.
Now, we are kinda friends, so it's pretty normal that he texts every othet day or so. But after that evening he writes to almost all the time since yesterday and I was wondering if it means anything? He didn't try any moves on our meeting but now he's being extra clingy (not that...
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>>17068105
did you explicitly tell him it was not meant as a date?
Otherwise i'd say he's into you and acting patient, but is definitely interested
>>17068118
No, I didn't tell him that explicitly, but I think it was pretty clear since we didn't go anywhere fancy and I wasn't being seductive or something
Sure it wasn't a date but you still met someone. It sounds like you might like him back as you don't mind the attention. I would say clear it up, you can't accept the attention positively but jerk him around if he wants to hang out again. Straighten out expectations now.
So /adv/.
I've basically squandered my whole freshman year of college in terms of romantic endeavors. I'm about to turn 19, and I'm a virgin, and I've never had a real girlfriend. I'm an engineering student so I'm about to get my figurative shit pushed in by my impending time commitment.
I've wanted to lose my virginity to someone I knew and liked (despite male virginity having no intrinsic value), but have basically stopped caring and have been thinking that what's best for me would be to start focusing on getting pussy as...
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Why do you want this? Is it because of social pressure, or do you want to prove to yourself that you're capable of receiving romantic attention from a woman? Or do you want to live a full life? Whichever way, you didn't choose a very good major for it, and the number of girls easily accessible in your classes will decrease as time goes on. You have to be in some sort of social circle in order to be romantically involved with anyone (unless you are lucky or exceptional). You don't need to use your brain to get a girlfriend and sometimes it's better if you...
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>>17067960
I'm kinda dead inside.
I do want to prove to myself I can get romantic attention and I do want to live a full life. I mean, it's unlikely I'll change majors (assuming things go well for me on that front). I've got friends.
I've kind of had an epiphany about sex and now don't value it at all really, I just figure I can get some enjoyment out of it by putting in some effort.
I'd say I have an okay personality, my hobbies are boring (vidya, films, cartoons, and anime mostly)...
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>>17067960
>>17067983
I'd say social pressure is also a big factor but I don't consider it *as* much because one shouldn't really care about that. Like, the main reason I wanted a girlfriend initially was because of emotional reasons/validation.
Is there any reason to join the military if you have a decent career? Or is it really just for people without other good options?
>>17067898
unless you can think of one, why should it matter. if you have a decent career why would you consider?
perhaps if you know you can jump back into your career and just want to use the military to pay for college, so that when yuo return to civilian life you can get a house easy.
but for most people its easier and less risky to just stay at your career.
>>17067898
>reason to military:
I like shooting people.
I like torturing people.
I like people yelling at me.
I like people telling me what to do.
I like guns.
I like planes, humvees, tanks, submarines.
I want to get N-year fitness program for free and they even force me to complete it.
I don't know what to do anymore.
I want to defend my country (lol).
I never really liked the thinking and doing this I can mostly not think and have money!
>>17067898
>Is there any reason to join the military if you have a decent career?
Only if you make one yourself.
>Or is it really just for people without other good options?
No, but if it doesn't appeal to you on a personal level then it's no better than anything else that doesn't appeal.
I've been using the internet since 13, I was a Christian who went to church on sundays and helped the poor. Then I found yahoo answers, and all these atheists attacked me for being Christian, that hurt my feelings a lot and made me non-Christian. I stopped going to church and helping the poor and I that was when I became rebellious against my parents, got into trouble and my grades got bad. To this day I still am getting debunked brutally, I want to debunk them hard for ruining my life but it's usually them who win. I don't think atheism is correct but they are...
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>>17067636
>There will be someone who won't understand that this is bait
But you did get a laugh out of me OP
>>17067639
No, this is how my life really went from 13-19.
>>17067636
>. I wish 4chan could raid some atheist site and shit on them but I know 4chan is mostly atheist.
not even an athiest but doesent shit like this oppose the philosophy of christianity? i thought you where meant to be turn the other cheek as its the intent of your god to punish and judge people, not you. sounds like you have unresolved shame anyway. you should read some christian philosphers if you want to create a good argument. i have never met an intelligent christian anyway, so good luck.
just found out I have HIV and i wanna kill myself
that's what you get for being /fit/
>>17093090
Here's what you do
>have unprotected sex with as many non-whites as possible
>laugh and laugh and laugh
