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I just kind of asked a girl if she wants to be my GF.
She said she would be after the exams, because right now her mental state is fucked and relationships would only add to stress.
Is this actually legit or am I completely fucked here? And if so should I try to get the truth from her?
We had some sexual activities like BJ, HJ..
She said she likes me multiple times.
Exams dont start for like 20 more days or so.
Some context, ask me if you need anything else.
If she really liked you she would be your girlfriend now, just move on and ignore her.
>>17112533
Fuck.. this one hurts like a brick to the face.
On a scale from 1 to 10 how cringy is girl confessing her feelings to a male friend?
>>17111921
1. We don't really mind those things at all
>>17111921
As cringy as a guy that never confesses his feelings and lives to regret it years down the line, washed-up, lonely, and depressed.
>>17111921
Depends on how attractive she is.
>guy I'm dating wants to know my kinks
>/adv/ says relationships are built on trust and confidence and I should share my sexual fantasies
>ok.jpg
>"hey potential bf my fantasies are: a lot of super gorgeous fictional people, mostly guys, doing various sex stuff with each other"
>"I never fantasize about me or you but maybe if you could pretend to be one of them for me"
>mfw...
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Because they want you to think about them during sex, not faggy animu characters. How would you feel if your bf said he has many animu waifus and asked you to pretend to be one of them?
>>17111668
how many girls are even into animu husbandos? i have that faggy anime look going for me (not intentional) i know some like but i dont know about most. anyway he probably reacted this way because he wants you to imagine him during sex, not a fictional character.
>>17111675
I wouldn't be jealous honestly, I have my own husbandos and it's not like 2D is real despite being superior. As long as I'm his only 3D girl I don't mind if he spends time with 2D. Plus it'd be cool to meet someone who understands how you feel (/a/ doesn't understand how I feel they want 3D girls to be exclusive to them just like their 2D waifus and get mad when you think about someone else 2D or 3D)
>Because they want you to think about them during sex
Then...
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Can I get some perspective on this?
I feel/am nearly entirely alone. I live with my Dad and I've been a neet for 5 months and I've been relishing in it. Living and contributing to society sickens me and I enjoy being alone because everywhere I've been & worked has exposed me to the simplicity of the human mind and it upsets me that most people on this planet cant stand to look at themselves and question their own existence. No one is special or important, no one is better or worse, no one is destined for greatness because in the end we all pass away...
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I guess this a shitty thing to ask on here.
You're perspective is selfish. You admitted you were a selfish person in your post. You would rather leech off of someone else than get out there and live your life like those that you criticize so harshly. Finding something that makes you want to experience life isn't something to be ashamed of. You're missing the bigger picture here. Yes consumerism is shit that's obvious but that isn't all there is to life only a small part of it. Step outside of your box. Pretend you were in someone else's place. Stop being so selfish and cynical.
how old are you
yes life is fucking garbage but what can you really do about it?
Why do women respond better when you ignore them rather than chase them for their affection ?
Why do guys respond better when you ignore them rather than chase them for their affection ?
>>17111527
Why do men continue to chase girls when they've been friend zoned?
Because people want what they can't have.
>>17111532
We want what we cant get
what are the main reasons as to why females cheat?
When they feel ignored, petty revenge
>>17111124
Cause they're women and retarded
>>17111124
Femanon here,
it's not always females, males do it too, I know of plenty of men who have cheated on there girlfriends (myself included). We're both equal to blame.
First relationship and all, she quivers and she is wet as fuck every time so I know she's not faking it, and it has been with my fingers so far as we haven't had actual sex yet. Is this normal or a sign of good chemistry?
In 1.5 hours? I'd hope so.
>>17110511
Not automatically calling her a fake, but there's not really a way to tell if a girl is actually cumming or not
>>17110512
She mentioned that she normally only cums once and not every guy has been able to get her off/cared about her pleasure before. I on the other hand spent quite a lot of time reading guides on how to get a girl to cum and have been putting those into practice.
I know not everyone orgasms from penetration, but isn't penetration meant to feel at least a little bit good?
Even the so called g spot ome hither stroking doesn't work. I just have no feeling there at all.
>>17109572
>I just have no feeling there at all.
See a doctor. Sometimes numbness can be a psychosexual reaction to childhood sexual trauma.
>>17109584
I don't have childhood sexual trauma
You could be thinking about it too much which is preventing you from really relaxing and enjoying it. Have you tried doing it yourself with a toy or something?
Girlfriend's friend who is also a friend of mine has cheated on her boyfriend, twice, with the same guy in the span of a week.
He only knows about the first time (inb4 cuck) but he said he wouldn't forgive her again.
Do I tell him about the second time? I risk ruining my friendship with his girlfriend and make my gf angry at me, but I hate cheating.
Pic unrelated
Nice quackers
>>17109570
Do what feels right.
>>17109570
>Do I tell him about the second time?
Your hatred for cheating has nothing to with the fact that whatever is going on between them is none of your business.
Stay out of it. The only reason you want to get involved is to satisfy some personal moral code of yours and this situation has nothing to do with you.
ITT: We share experiences of what characteristics of them made us chase that person we love(d).
>>17107932
OP here, I'll start.
She was fiery, even though she was dependent she wasn't afraid of conflict and was able to take on the world. Very present and in the moment to.
She was Italian, and had more direction in life than myself.
>>17107932
>Smile
>Tiny caramel body with cute tits
>A tiny, yet plump enough ass to have bounce up and down my thing
>Pretty damn cheerful
>Almond-ish eyes
>Short hair, my fetish
How do you find the motivation to do or work towards anything meaningful with your life when the whole system is on the cusp collapsing and we're all going to go back to the stone-age anyway?
something to pass the time tbqh
>>17107038
fair enough
Im here now. might as well waste resources while I can...
but in all actuality-it's the little things-my cat, good music, quality gel pens I can draw cool shit with-that make life worth living
Should I fuck someone else's gf?
I don't know the guy. Never met him.
Girl says she wants me. I keep telling her she has a bf but that she keeps texting me to give her the d.
Should I just do it /adv/ ?
I feel like karma is gonna bite Me in the ass .
If you don't, someone else will
>>17111443
Good point anon.
>>17111436
>Karma will bite you in the ass
What if she was your gf? She wouldndo the same to you.
Girls like that are crazy anyway.
Don't do it OP.
Ask anything I might just be able to help!
fee=cool pic
>>17110036
Alright I'll bite.
Why should anyone ask you for advice when they can ask literally anyone else on this board who wont insist on stupid games?
>>17110045
Simply because I like to help and I will put effort in trying to give best advice possible.
More perspectives on issue person can get that much better so even if asking everyone else one more view point can't hurt right?
It is not a game how hard can be to drop random pic when everyone has folders for it
and I'm in need of some.
i keep getting texts from married women. should i fuck one?
i want to keep the baby but he doesnt.
he said he's not ready yet.
and im feel so sad if i abortion..
what should i do?
>>17109566
how do you feel about adoption? how long have you been pregnant? why do you want to keep the baby?
>>17109566 (OP)
i wanna be a parent. im really happy for a baby but he doesnt.. uhm less than 2 weeks? sorry for my bad english
>>17109576
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>>>17109566 (OP) (OP)
>i wanna be a parent. im really happy for a baby but he doesnt.. uhm less than 2 weeks? sorry for my bad english.. sorry 1st time posting someone on 4chan
My boyfriend is always telling me I'm too emotional. I usually get sad because he is being a dick. He wants me to "control my feelings better" and tells me that I get sad over nothing.
I don't know if I should do what he says and just pretend to be happy all the time for him. What if I am over reacting to everything? How can I tell if I am?
tl;dr How do I remain objective in my relationship?
>>17108899
By taking meds to fix your crazy.
>>17108899
Well how can you tell you're overreacting?
Try giving us an example and see what others think
But prepare yourself for "kill ur self" post and filter those out
Objectivity is an abstract concept. It is not a thing and humans can never hope to attain it because to observe something you have to exist and to exist you have to take up physical space which means you have a perspective.
The only way we can help you is if you tell us the specific things. Then we can give you our opinions and see if it is you who is crazy or if it is your boyfriend who is being a dick.
