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What's your opinion on self harm /adv/?
Does it completely disqualify a girl in your book?
>>17095287
Oh god yes.
I mean with alcohol or coke, you can see why someone would do that in the first place and then get hooked, with cutting, you're just a fucked up weirdo if the idea of cutting your own flesh sounds like a good idea one day. Fucking freaks.
Mostly. It's a lot of psychological baggage that a lot of people can't deal with, especially In adulthood. I guess if I truly cared about the person I'd try to get them the help they need, but unfortunately if it wasn't enough I'd have to leave them for my own wellbeing
>>17095287
I'm into it. Maybe her self esteem will be low enough to get her into a relationship with me.
So I'll probably get roasted for asking this but every man would usually think about this in his 20's
Is it bad to pay for sex off a prostitute while your in a relationship?
Yeah, It's obviously bad
>>17095104
No, that's fine. Usually people don't spend their life with the ones they are involved with in their 20s.
Sow your wild oats and have fun.
>>17095104
If you have to pay for sex in general I think you have serious issues that you need to fix.
Where I can pay for bareback sex, not get bankrupted by it, and not get any diseases?
>>17095048
Have you tried rape?
>>17095059
That doesn't fall under the 3 listed criteria
question is what would bankrupt you
What is the best way to deal with racism? I get bullied everyday for being an asian dude. I try ignoring it but it really hurts me to hear this shit daily.
What country are you from? Where do they bully you, school work everyday life?
>>17094961
Own it and embrace racial stereotypes to make fun of others.
What do the fags say, faggot?
Ask a Jew a question.
>>17093825
Where were you born?
Where are you now?
How do you know you are Jew?
Are you circumcised?
What is your favourite cereal?
I was born in America, Live in America, I know i am a jew because i practice judaism, i am circumcised, my favorite cereal is fruity pebbles
>have crush on guy in my year at uni
>assume he's out of my league and not interested
>become closer friends
>overhear conversation with his friends
>apparently, he's been crushing on me for at least a year now
We've went to the theatre 3 times now, not sure if those were dates. I've tried to show my interest more openly, like playfully resting my head on his shoulders etc. He's said...
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do the mario
>>17092761
this will lead to nowhere
How about just kissing him?
Me and my boyfriend are smoking weed tonight for the first time, (lemon haze) any tips on how to go home 3 hours after smoking it and not smell or look high?
Bring deodorant / body spray
Drink lots of water to keep your eyes going red
Eat something carbohydrate heavy like bread before you go home
First off, weed isn't some prescription pill. The strand doesn't make a fucking difference.
Second, gravity bongs or vapes are pretty good to combat the smell. Avoid joints/blunts. Worst comes to worst, use a sploof when you exhale.
If you must smoke a joint or a pipe then smoke outside in an open area with good ventilation to avoid smoke fumes on your person.
Even do it with minimal clothing or even naked since he's your significant other. Shower afterwards to be safe.
Definitely recommend eye drops too.
I smoke with a vape most of the time so it's not as much of an issue such as with a splif.
As far as I am concerned, this was just a friendly conversation between us. But I just am curious if there were any subtle things within it that hint towards anything.
Names and Course ID's are censored.
BITCH WANTS YOU TO ASK HER OUT IN THAT FREE PERIOD.
God you people are thick.
Literally nothing dude. Are you autistic or something?
What are you supposed to wear to a club or a party when you're a fat girl? You can't wear dresses because >belly, jeans and a top are too casual.
What are you supposed to do?
Go to gym or stay home and cry or get over yourself and wear whatever.
>>17090702
You're supposed to lose weight or buy clothes that fit.
>>17090702
I'd say a good pair of dark jeans and a dressy top with sandals can be dressy enough. Or just a darker dress with less patterns that is cut a certain way can draw attention away from those areas.
If your gf improves herself while in the relationship by losing weight or otherwise becoming more attractive, is she guaranteed to leave/cuck you? What if you improve yourself too?
>>17089027
Not guaranteed... But she might get more unwanted attention that make her feel sexier. And you may want to ask how you can be a part of her journey. so that way she doesn't grow apart from you.
I def got hotter after uni, but never cheated on my bf. No desire to...
>>17089027
>gf isn't changing herself
Lazy whore, I can't help but cheat on her!
>gf changes herself
Shallow whore, she's gonna cuck me!
No. Are you really going to be one of those insecure fucks that gets MAD at their partner for improving themselves? Are you fat as shit?
Why don't you join her, fatty.
My grandmother insulted my husband's cooking and he's pretty upset about it, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better.
She's extremely hard to please and doesn't like a whole lot of foods, so he made a typical southern country breakfast; Biscuits & gravy, scrambled eggs, bacon, homefries, and hand squeezed orange juice. It was pretty good, but he also cooks at a restaurant for a living so that's a given.
When we were finished he asked what she thought of the meal, and she said he "destroyed the eggs"...
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>>17093808
Those eggs do look pretty boring desu senpai..
>>17093812
That's not his food, I just googled "country breakfast"
Is cooking a big deal to him? Is it a passion?
If so it is likely that he has just taken a knock to his confidence. Don't stress about it.
What can I do to become a feminist? Where to start?
I want to be part of the movement
Don't.
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Instead of becoming a feminist specifically, consider becoming a progressive more generally. That is a movement which is much more worthy of support.
>>17093497
Here's a video guide for you.
>https://youtu.be/hg4RXxtFqKw
Ok so /adv/ I have been married to my wife for the past year and half, and we were engaged for a year before that. They is this guy named Mike who apparently took her virginity like 7 years ago. She's been texting him about twice a week on and off since the beginning of our marriage, and maybe skypes him once every other month for an hour.
She insists that its just innocent friendship and I would be inclinced to believe her but I've been cheated on before with these EXACT SAME CIRCUMSTANCES surrounding it.
She's diagnosed bipolar which I'm sure...
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Her behavior is inappropriate. Everything is always 'innocent' until it isn't. If it really were no big deal to her, she'd not get defensive and wouldn't have a problem cutting him out.
Welcome to the failed marriage club. It hurts at first, but you'll be glad to be free later. I'll buy you your first drink when you show up to the meeting.
>>17092609
I appreciate the input, I really do. I love this girl but its like she lacks any empathy for my point of view. I am just dumbfounded as to how she thinks that this ISN'T a problem
>>17092597
To be brutally honest. Your wife is fucking him for years. They probably even fucked when you were engaged. Save money for a good lawyer because you will need a fucking divorce. Never ever let your girl be 'friends' with someone she already had sexual relations with.
Hi /adv/
There is something I noticed with my boyfriend of 2 years. Whenever I am stressed, mad or upset, he pulls away from me and doesn't really talk to me. Are all guys like this or was I really lucky with my ex? My ex used to cuddle me and text me until I felt better again but my current boyfriend just goes silent until I come around.
I am thinking maybe he is not the right one for me since I don't feel like I can find comfort in him when I am upset.
Deal with your issues like an adult and don't expect to constantly lean on him.
If anything ask him for advice on how to deal with your shit as he should ideally be supportive but to be expected to be comforted all the time is tough for anyone to provide that level of care.
>>17092535
He doesn't wanna deal with your shit. Smart kid.
>>17092535
When his time comes to be all sad and depressed and stressed out due to life - pull this exact same shit on him. Everyone goes through bouts of bullshit - that is life. You're supposed to be supportive with eachother damn
i feel like i'm not bringing NEARLY enough to the table to justify my bf's enthusiasm over me. am i just insecure af or does this sound fishy to you too?
>single mom, chubby/borderline fat, average to low income
he on the other side is
>just getting his degree, makes very good money, is /fit/ as fuck, most selfless and caring guy i have ever come across
i can't relax. i always think that this must be some sort of really mean joke or that it's all just a huge misundertanding.
He's definitely a sucker, hold onto him tight and never let go.
>>17092142
>hold onto him tight and never let go
that's what i plan to do. but then again i feel like he could do so much better and feel guilty...
>>17092134
maybe he just sees more in you than you see in yourself?
