>I don't like how you play dnd all the time anon :(

Cya bitch

>>17077156

Picture yourself how your relationship will be the next 10 years. If you're not happy, then why waste the fucking time?

>>17077156
She told me I was the second guy in the relationship. I told her she could have the other one, told him about it, and cut that bitch off.

My life is fucked enough. I don't need to add that trainwreck into the situation.

Women, if the man of your dreams, the love of your life wanted to have anal sex with you regularly, would you do it?

>>17077221
like my dad always says, " if she won't let you fuck her in the ass, move on"

>>17077221
No, because he wouldn't be the man of my dreams, the love of my life if he wanted me to do something I'm not comfortable with.

>>17075417
>Advice how do you cope with having to be someone else to get the things you want?
I refuse to play the game. Hence why I have been single for over 10 years and haven't gotten laid in that time period, nor do I care.

Being myself is too important to me. If I'm going to be with a girl, then it's going to be with one who "likes" me for who I am, however long that may last.

>>17075420
Do you ever worry that you will wait forever?

>>17075436
Not really. I've had some fulfilling relationships before, and they've always just sort of fallen into my lap. As long as I talk to the right girls and take the right opportunities, I'm sure I'll find someone again. Maybe eventually it'll last long-term, maybe it won't. As much as I enjoy romance, I'm perfectly happy alone as well, so to me it's worth it.

>>17074865
So basically you were a whore and now your beta provider found out about it.

>>17074865
What kind of things did you in detail?

>>17074871
I am not a whore or ever have been and hes an amazing guy. And even more Ive left my promiscuous days behind.

>>17071374
Alright, J. I'll see you there.

-J

Dear S,

I miss you a lot. It's been almost two months now and I still think about you everyday, you're driving me crazy. Some days it feels like I wake up with a stone in my chest and I can't find enough energy to do anything but just lay there and think of you.
Why do you have to live so far away, we could've been so great together.
One part of me wish that I never met you and the other part couldn't be more grateful.
Thank you for giving me a chance and showing me what love is.

- V

M

I don't know buddy, I just do not know. One day I'm smitten with you, next day you don't give a fuck about me and I immediately dislike you, and feel like you don't like me either. That beer, it was a stupid idea. I was stupid. But no more of that, I promise.


K

Absolutely.
Negative attitudes that are unchanging show a lack of care/interest/love from the other end, and will otherwise inevitably rot away at you, even if only slowly. If he doesn't want to become positive, your relationship surely won't be.

Wanting to call it quits is a reason itself to call it quits. There's no resolution to be had. You're not going to change him, he's not going to willingly change himself, you're slowly going to become more negative in response.

He had had a more rough and tumble life than me. His parents divorced when he was 1, which he seems to never have gotten over. He became a huge drug addict and never went to college and live as a broke addict at his mom's house for 10 years while she constantly ridiculed him for being a loser but also had sexual attraction towards him.

Sometimes he can be very positive and sweet but at least once a day his negativity comes out. I've never been with someone so challenging.

>>17076928
>I've never met one in real life, so I'm a bit biased in that regard

I live in Birmingham, England. It has probably the second largest concentrated Muslim population in the country, behind Bradford (also known as Bradistan). I've met many Muslims and deal with them on a daily basis. I am also not white.

I have a tendency to dislike and be weary of Muslims as a rule, because most I've met have been pretty shitty people.

It's fine, really....
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Have you tried reading the Qur'an, talking to actual Muslims, and stuff like that?

I'm friends with a wonderful and nice family of Muslims, and have studied the Qur'an and Islamic theology, and I think that's largely what's stopped me from becoming prejudiced against Muslims.

You could also try studying Sufi Islam, which is IIRC pacifistic in nature.

>>17076965
>Have you tried reading the Qur'an

“The Jews say, ‘Ezra is the son of Allah’; and the Christians say, ‘The Messiah is the son of Allah.’ That is their statement from their mouths; they imitate the saying of those who disbelieved [before them]. May Allah destroy them; how are they deluded?” (Sahih International 9:30)

>>17076467
Is this that bad for you and your relationship ?
I mean yeah, she fucked, so what, everyone fucks. She can't unfuck people for you. It's her past. Doesn't mean she's a cheater

Isn't this pasta?

>>17076477
most women have not had sex with 35 men by the age of 23

>>17073367
Ya fucked up

>>17073367
Don't contact her anymore.
If you are lucky, she will initiate something.

It's gone. It's done. Do not text her anymore. You've crossed into "he's weird" category. Do not cross into "he's a fucking creep".

how long does it take to fall in love with someone? ì`ve been going over a month with a guy but i just care about him,i have cried a few times because i missed him, he already said he loves me but i`m not sure yet.

should i break things up with him or wait?

Girl just text me saying she'd like to go out with and I have literally no idea how to respond.

She's super nice and all but there's another girl I'm into and going on a date with someone whilst pining for someone else is a really shitty thing to do.

>>17072159
science says love takes about a month, but you could argue that it could take more/less time if you only see each other a few times a month

>>17069918

You're a pretty massive idiot who has combined immaturity with emotional reasoning combined with a good does of confirmation bias. Your shitty attitude towards will will continue to turn them off, which you'll use to reinforce your wrong-headed beliefs. Please do grow up and learn to understand women as people like anyone else. So long as you're this angry and afraid of them you'll never manage a healthy relationship since no one wants to be treated like an enemy combatant within a relationship....
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>>17069918
You're not entitled to anything. Intimate relationships, with anyone, are not for you. Stop trying. You will get burned if you maintain this attitude and keep pursuing a "meaningful relationship" in your twenties, mark my words.

>>17069918
>and I'm never going to have the charisma or money to attract one that isn't garbage.
You have already set yourself up to fail. You don't see yourself succeeding, and because of it you probably never will. Instead you wallow in self pity, anger, and despair from the bottom of the pit you keep yourself in by no choice other than your own. You can climb out or dig deeper. Whether or not you find something outside of that hole is a gamble, but you aren't gonna get...
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I am probably just being a hopeless idiot, but I am trying to do something to try and get something going in with her. But I fear that I blew it already 2 weeks ago. And now there's only 7 more times I'll see her before school ends for the semester. And I probably won't see her again past that.


I have her new, but she did the run around with being busy when I asked her to grab coffee. So, now her I am trying to speak to her a bit to try recovering something.

We need to break up but all of my friends are really her friends. I need to figure out who I am but I don't want to be shunned to the outside...

I fucking hate myself. I'm a 27 year old, depressed, awkward, anxious and unattractive man, and will be alone forever.
I'm worthless and should just give up on this piece of shit life.

Just bee urself

>>17073668
I'm a drunk moody reckless whore and being pumped full of testosterone is probably not going to help that

>>17073659

Why in the goddamn world would you ever want to be a man?

You know being a man is life on hard mode right?

Being a man is a near constant state of suffering with very little pleasure until you either harden into metal or get burned into ash. There is no in-between.

>>17069929

Don't do it, you'll like it, it'll take over your life and rob you of everything. Of course you're an idiot who thinks you're above addiction so you're going to do it anyway but remember me when things start to fall apart.

>>17069933
One time isn't going to fuck my life up.
I can't even afford to make it a habit, so even if I love it, I'll just detox for a bit and go back to normal.

>>17069938
Tell that yourself m8

Heroin is toxic, you and your gf are lost as soon as you take it

Wear tight clothes, wear skinny jeans and make your penis visible.

>>17064666
i doubt people will notice

>>17064717
Maybe it depends on where you live but many girls (esoecially the whore ones) always look at men's crotches, even at mine but they turn away quickly because I have a small dick, they stare at big cocks.