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Terrible. I lost someone close to me because I can't control my emotions
Not well. This girl I've been seeing stopped talking to me today. I'm afraid its because I'm a weird bundle of anxiety. :/
Hopeless in despair. I've been improving my life, quit smoking, trying new things, yet I'm still alone.
And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted...
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And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment (Hebrews 9:27)
In the mid 1980's Howard Storm had a near-death experience. It did not start out with the chorus of angels we commonly hear about. Howard descended into a hellish state of his own making. But he was saved by Love and a faith that he had spent his entire life up to that point rejecting.
In Parts I & II, Howard talks about his death, descent into a hellish state and rescue by Jesus and his Angels.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VsyWGPoMiMI
Spirit Break Out - Kim Walker Smith
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_TOOXRpn8w
I had some missionaries stop me in a mall and explain to me over the course of 3 and a half hours how the bible proves that the Papacy is the anti-Christ. Should I remain a Catholic or join a different branch of Christianity? Which branch?
The first time my bf abused me was after giving birth to our now 5 year old girl. Since then it has been a cycle. Every couple of months he will either threaten to hit me or he will throw things at the wall or he will actually hit me. He hasn't hit me in a while. It's been almost a year I believe since he choked me. I suffer from low self esteem. My parents, mostly my mother, used to abuse me constantly by throwing things at me or pulling my hair, slapping me, hitting any parts of my body. I have a lot of fear. I have driving anxiety and social anxiety that also causes...
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why is that your question and not what you can do to get away from him?
Leave him DUMBASS, log all bruises he gives you on camera and get a restraining order, its important to record evidence so there's no chance he gets the kid.
If you don't leave him your child will think this behavior is normal and probably enter into an abusive relationship when they're older, do you want to protect them or not? He could start hitting your child any day.
>>17024174
First of all, I'm sorry to hear what your bf does to you and I can really hear the concern you have for your daughter. You sound to me like you care very much fot her. Unfortunately, I can't tell you why your bf abuses you and not your daughter because i dont know why. I can however be here for a bit and listen to anything you might want to say
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Girls:
Would you feel comfortable with a guy who open carries?
>>17023896
what are you carrying? your waifu pillow?
>>17023913
I'll be purchasing one in the future
Girlfriend says she doesn't want a future with me if I plan to have psychedelics as a part of my life. Specifically LSD which she thinks is horrible. She says "I don't want to be with some illegal drug user, what are you going to use next? I know you'll start using even worse stuff" yet she drinks alcohol regularly and smokes cigarettes every once in a while when I beg her not to for health reasons
Should I even miss her if this is her attitude?
>>17023884
All I can think about looking at that picture is how it would be such a bitch to keep it clean.
>>17023884
Answer some questions I have (keep in mind they are all mostly directed at you because you are the one I am talking to):
What does this relationship mean for you?
What does LSD do for you?
Also, expand more on the attitude that your girlfriend has that you mentioned.
Does it even matter? This isn't a "who's in the right" situation. This is simply a "you two just aren't compatible and you both need to move on to people who are" situation.
Hey /adv/
This girl I've been seeing was raped tonight. She likes to party, she stays out late, and occasionally does coke. She is currently visiting a big city and theres nothing I can do about it.
She was out late with some people that she had met there. On her own. She was eventually looking for a cab at 4AM. At this point a man came up behind her and held both her arms behind her.
She walked past a doorman and all the way up into his apartment. Once inside he forced himself on her. The man said he needed to use the bathroom at this point she made...
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>occasionally does coke.
Drop her
Not your fucking problem
>>17022580
She tells me its only once a month at the most, but I'm thinking since she was in the big city till 4am maybe she was?
>>17022589
Once EVER is too much. You don't need the chaos of hard drugs in your life no pussy is worth that shit. Toss it in the trash.
hey guys, my boyfriend(fiance really) of 6 and a half years and I just broke up because i found out he was cheating on me with someone underaged
what do i do?
I got all of his stuff out of my apartment
now im just sitting here on the floor with a 12 pack of not hard enough liquor
he was my entire life, we met when we were 16 and we've been together ever since
i know
high school sweetheart blah blah but i was 100% sure we were fine
he blamed it on my depression but you don't cheat on someone with depression
any advice on what to do next?
I'mc...
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I feel bad for people like you whenever I read it.
and for a sociopath that's pretty weird but yeah.
Idk what to advice you but if you play vidyas I could accompany you for a while.
How underage? Like 17 or 14?
If it was really too young, you need to sober up and then call police.
Are your financially stable? If not think about that first which is good because it should keep you occupied. Got a car? think about that too. Any thought of stuff you need to get done and straighten out, now is a good time to do it to keep you focused off your ex.
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
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>>17020007
How do I maintain eye contact with women?
How do I not internally freak out when I'm talking to them? I've gotten much, much better at it, but it still happens at the most random times and I'm tired of it.
Girls:
I'd like to ask out a certain girl, but I only see her when she's working, and she's generally busy, in addition to the fact that it seems inappropriate to bother someone at work. Advice?
I don't want to post a picture, but I don't understand why some girls call me "the best looking guy they've ever seen," super charismatic, and then have other girls just totally disinterested.
How can I be so far on the ends of the spectrum depending on the person?
/adv/, I'm scared and I'm worried. I don't know how to handle this situation.
I'm 22, just moved back in with my parents. I have an 11 year old sister. And she's...
There's something wrong with her. Or, rather, how she's been raised.
I've found, in her room and things (I'm staying in her room right now while I do some apartment hunting), writings. She likes to write, but the subject matter is disturbing and way beyond what she should be doing.
>"My dad wanted one. Since I've never done...
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You need to find the source. But with all that social media use it could be hard. If you don't cut off her contact with the source it will just continue. You could try blocking sites on her phone/computer. If she goes berserk about that then its time to take her to see a therapist.
>11 year olds don't act like this, man
yeah they do.
are you male or female yourself OP?
>>17019407
>the source
I'm sure it's all the social media, I'm not prepared to cut off her internet obviously, but she's going to lose it. I know she is.
I, myself, am seeing a therapist.
>>17019409
>yeah they do
Yeah, 11 year olds get curious and look at porn and shit but this is habitual, every day, CONSTANTLY. This shit isn't normal for anyone.
I'm a female. Wasn't...
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yesterday my gf finally agreed to have sex with me and she laughed at my small dick (it's only 4,5inch when erect) and then she decided to jerk me off then left
let's get to the point, do any of you ever tried to do any kind of penis enlargement method? did it work?
what method did you use?
i saw so many methods from medicines to massages but there are so many of them it confuses me
i don't mind if it takes me a year to grow it, i just want a bigger dick
nothing you can do, just get another fag to cock battle againsy
>>17016016
so when she laughed, was it in a mean way? Like a "Awww, that's a cute little cock" way, or "haha, you're kidding right anon?" kind of way?
>>17016016
could you make a convincing trap/sissyboy?
Maybe your destiny is to suck dick and get plowed by those of us with big fatties who are into.
Am I an asshole for not wanting to hang out with a girl after she rejects me?
She told me we should hang out as "friends" during the summer but I don't think I could handle it.
No, you're not. Just make sure to explain to her why you don't want to hang out.
You're probably her second choice, as the first didn't work out. I wouldn't.
Also, whats the webm? I have a mac.
>>17011922
Let her know that girls aren't fun to just hang out with.
Ive been having nightmares every day since tuesday about whether i get the job or not
Also i think i accidentally threw away my meds when i was cleaning out my car. Fuck
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>quit antipsychotics so i can finally lose some of the ridiculous amount of weight i've gained while on them
>cue godawful dreams, irritability, depression, voices in my goddamn head
>a-at least the weight is flying off
also
>start beginner's programming course
>five minutes into it
>"hmm i should check /adv/"
>thirty minutes later...
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WHAT THE FUCK
I keep having these ideas. Like, I think of something to do, open up my text editor and I already forgot
TWICE it has happened to me in the last 20 minutes
>>17011947
>>start beginner's programming course
>>five minutes into it
>>"hmm i should check /adv/"
iktf
I start reading some ruby shit
and I already lost interest.
Not that I'm not interested really, I would rather just play with a few things rather than read and read and read.
Also, anon, make it a point not to open the browser until you've at least solved a problem.
You're...
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Ok I'm here in need of real insight. Please help me. I just found out I'm pregnant. I put my information into a due date calculator and this is how big the fetus should be.
and what do you need help with?
>>17022318
I guess I just want to sort out my feelings before I tell anyone? Maybe get some insight as to how I should handle this situation.
>>17022331
tell the supposed father to be?
my friend got raped. how do I help her? i want to be there for her but I don't know how and it's driving me crazy
>>17020964
Was she violently raped by a criminal?
Or was she raped™ by Chad and her friends found out later?
either way she probably had an orgasm during the act. drop her off at a therapist or a college gender studies program and find better friends
>>17020964
Tell them to go to the police right now if they haven't already, even if the offender doesn't get arrested this time a file will be built up so that they may eventually go to jail. If your friend doesn't go to the police they are selfish and are basically letting the offender get away with something they'll probably do again.
>>17020964
Exposure therapy helps.
Just rape her till she builds up a tolerance for it.
Is college a meme?
No, college isn't a meme. But it's a tool for getting into a field you like, not a "one size fits all" approach to landing a satisfying career. Personally, I say that college works best when you know exactly what you want to do, how to get there, and are sure earning a degree is part of that process.
>>17020218
Yeah. Real college is just a place where people go to learn a shit ton. Its not parties. Its not shitloads of pussy. Its education. You dont have to go but it will make you more do$h in life.
Did you see American Pie, or Scary Movie, or When Harry Met Sally, or any movie in the last 10 years
College is an experience, but education is not.
