did you honestly wait for sex? I want to start looking for a wife and I'm still a virgin but I'm worried they'll lie to me.
I live in Anchorage if it matters
tell me something anon, why is virginity so important to you?
The Prophet's first wife was much older than him and not a virgin, though she gave him nothing but love and devoted support when he thought he had gone insane after first receiving divine inspiration.
>>17049301
Any woman that would cover herself as part of her religion is a fucking moron. Why be with a fucking moron?
>>17049306
He also fucked a child, so maybe we shouldnt be taking our lessons from him.
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>>17048800
>I'm a stupid idiot who doesn't know how to check the catalog
>>17048805
>I'm a fuckwit who doesn't realise the other thread is autosaging
How do talk to PRINCESSES<3?
Is something truly wrong with you if you can't lose your virginity by your early/mid 20s?
>>17042729
Nope.
There's no age limit on the V Card. We have cultural expectations that push us toward a specific age, but you're living your own life. Don't let it be dictated by some inane schedule of life accomplishments.
Can't? Yes. Don't? No.
>>17042733
I can vouch for this. I didn't really start appreciating all that I have done and all that I have been through until very recently. And I don't regret having spent so much time absorbed in my passions and my future, that I haven't been in any meaningful relationship for many years now. I don't think I will die alone and unloved, but I have a better understanding of what I want, so "settling" on the first pretty girl hasn't been a real option for me. Cheesy as it sounds, I'm...
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Do most tall buildings have the rooftop door unlocked or is that just some bullshit that's in the movies?
Yes, it's exactly what it sounds like.
>>17049120
its bullshit from movies, almost every rooftop door has automatic locks
it is however quite easy to pick open a non-deadbolted door with a knife
>>17049128
Don't have knives. 'Straya. What else should I do? I mean, people managing to get up onto the roof of buildings is not unheard of, but don't they usually get arrested?
>>17049120
Planning on jumping?
Why is this so looked down on?
I have a mediocre career. I got my education, i work, i love doing my job and there are a lot of ways to go even further with this (i work in special needs education and care, you can go up with that pretty far and earn very good money).
But i realize that the thing i love most about my job is looking after the kids. All my life, what i really wanted is devote my heart to having a family, provide them with a loving and nurturing home.
I really dig traditional gender roles. But i feel like people think that it's a bad choice to just be a "housewife and mom". That it's the sign of a lazy girl with no ambitions and goals in life. One who seeks an easy way out, just to sit on her husbands pockets for the rest of her life. Why is this? Why is it not "good enough" to be a mom and wife? I mean, obviously i would go the extra mile since this is my JOB.
I will still do it, no matter what everyone thinks of me, but i would really like to know why this is not acceptable anymore?
what advice are you looking for exactly?
Because a lot of stay at home wifes are garbage, in that they stay at home all day, barely take care of the household, and are honestly glorified neets.
That's not to say you can't be a quality housewife that stays productive, but its kind of hard to take seriously unless you guys already have some young children. Then once they get older into their teens you start slipping back into glorified neet territory.
If you're willing to go the extra mile, hey more power to you. A lot of them if not most don't however.
>>17046570
I'd like advice on how to avoid being a lazy airheaded housewife.
>>17046571
I've never seen it that way, but it makes absolute sense. Glorified neets...
Ofc, i would still work until there are kids! And i think i would take it up again when they are older again. Good thing about my job is that there is a whole lot of part time working and it doesn't matter too much if you have a few years away from it.
What would that "extra mile" consist of for you?
For me it would include stuff like actually doing activities with the kids, making sure that the house is spotless, that errands are run and bills are paid, that there's good food on the table every day, that i use the time i have to look after myself and not, yknow "get fat and ugly". Basically, i'd do everything i can so my husband would be able to focus on his work/career and be able to come home to a beautiful home, filled with happy kids, yummy food and a lovely wife. If the kids get older and i find that i can't use all my time in an usefull and productive way i'd take up work again or do some volunteering for a good cause.
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Reposting this since I didn't realize the old thread hit the bump limit. Just giving an update on the girl I met at the Smash 4 tournament.
So update on this. We're talking and things are going well. One of my friends is helping me out. She didn't respond for an hour and he told me to wait the same time so I don't look desperate or like I was waiting for her to respond. I think this is going well. Later on, I'm going to ask her to hang out.
>>17044738
Reposting from previous thread since it hit bump limit.
Girl I'm currently with is pretty bad when it comes to responding to messages.
If she's currently online or waiting for a text from me (for example when we're going out that day), then she answers very fast. If neither case is true, then shepretty much doesn't answer at all, no matter how much time passes, until I write her when she's online. This makes me kind of angry, because when I do, I feel...
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Do girls give a fuck about mild / minimal acne and redspots on face? Plz respond
This is a bit of an odd situation.
Ive been in love with my best friend for like 7 years strong and nothings really changed there. The thing about a year ago I started hearing rumors of her sexual experimentation from her roomies. Hearing about the woman you love being a slut is devastating. So I killed all emotions I had for her and distanced myself from her.
About 3 months ago she started hinting that she wanted to spend more time together and has been throwing signs that maybe there was something between us. Then shit blew up and she basically begged me to go out...
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>>17046625
are you 110% certain the rumours are true? if you answer with anything less than 100% you fucked up.
Congrats, she'll be good in bed. Go get em tiger.
Honestly, think about it this way. If you slept around with a bunch of girls and then fell in love with an old friend and then found out that they don't like you back because you're a 'slut' and 'used food's, how would you feel about it? You can't change shit bout the past, dude, and you can't give people second chances if the past is all you think about
Once a slut always a slut.
And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted...
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>>17044982
I have christianity's morals but not it's beliefs.
I understand the bible and the theory behind it. For example,. atheists always ask: "If god really loved you, why would he send you to hell?"
The answer is that he doesn't, you put yourself there by being an awful person, which is parenting on his part.
But the more I understand and the more I digested the theory that made sense, the stupider I realized this had become.
Full atheist now.
Christians don't bother...
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Take all kinds of shit but, the reward is in heaven...
Blessed are the poor but, then the vatican is made out of gold.
Get fucked you jesus bitch.
>>17045019
Adam was a man born in perfect circumstances
Adam was supernaturally created and fashioned by God
Adam walked with God, he talked with God
Yet in spite of all of this, Adam disobeyed God, and was cast out of the Garden
In the beginning, all of mankind knew God. Yet they still chose to sin
Overtime, mankind devolved into sin and grew further away from God
Adam wasn't the first to sin, it was Satan. The devil and a third of the angels were cast out of the third heaven...
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Didn't get the job. Kinda feels bad man...
im doing everything againsy my better judgement and silencing it to trust you!
>>17037949
What a great opportunity to start something online, OP!
Pseudo girlfriend pseudo cheated on me. Roommates had to be kicked out, Lost my job, got a shitter job and lost that too. Despaired for like two months.
Tried to kill myself and failed.
Tried to kill myself again and got interrupted and then decided to work on myself and it seems to be slowly coming together. Therapists and social workers just depress me further. Maybe next week will be the week things get better for me or maybe I'm further punishing myself and need to die sooner then later. Can't quite make up my mind. Feels like I'm not good enough for anything.
Men of /adv/,
In your personal experience how important is having a crew/squad/tribe?
I'm not talking about just friends, people you hang it with, I'm talking about men who you're actively doing things with. Like frequently working on projects together, going to the gym, etc.
I feel that this dynamic is largely absent in 2016 America, but it would be hugely beneficial for self-development.
Thoughts?
I got a crew of about 7 friends, 2 of which Im really close with.
I would say it's extremely important and beneficial. It boosts your self confidence. Allows you to see your own faults and deal with them. Gives you a sense of belonging. Not to mention it gives you funny stories to tell.
it's important. you just have to be able to find that balance where you don't let them distract you from being successful, or better yet, elevate each other to be better.
my childhood crew disbanded, and my college crew lives too far away to actually be a crew anymore.
now i don't have a crew and feel worse off desu.
>>17045043
your question is confusing? your mates who you hang with and talk shit with ARE your crew... no not all of you will want to do the same thing together. and or some of your friends may not like hanging with each other. but thats cool, and its not just lacking in america: its everywhere. blame your feminist movement and the rise of the SJW females. there is no male empowerment anywhere. if you want male empowerment go join the big buddy programme and mentor a kid who has no father and has no one to hang with.
I'm going to kill myself tonight. How can I get charcoal burning (probably in a disposable bbq) in an enclosed space while minimizing the risk of it setting the surroundings on fire?
I'm not sure how likely it is to scorch the ceiling, etc, but as long as the building doesn't burn down it should be fine. And once the flames have died down, will it be safe to place it in an even more enclosed space so long as there are no flammable fabrics, etc?
Pic related, can't afford or wait for one.
legit question, I don't want to burn my flat down or poison anyone nearby by mistake lol
Then don't kill yourself in such an irresponsible and inconsiderate fashion you autist.
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This is a pic of my cousin how do I get her to have sex with me? She's playful and likes to have fun and have banter she's 21 I'm 19 we go to the movies sometimes but I don't know if she likes me back I doubt it because they're very little signs that she does and we are family. Despite sex between cousins being legal in my country it's still shunned for most families such as mine.
>>17044116
Introduce her to heroine or crack. Couple hits she'll be hooked and prepared to do anything for another hit.
Rufies in vodka. Works like a dream
The same way you seduce anyone else that you know.
So my wife is a stay at home mom who always uses kids as an excuse to never get anything done. I usually work 11 hour days, and when I'm not working I'm cleaning up after her messes she leaves around the home. She gets very defensive when I point out that when I get home nothing is done. She always says the kids have kept her busy or she needs a break. Half the time when I get home though, she's laying on the couch with our two kids, Disney movie on the TV, and her on Facebook. Tonight it erupted into a huge fight and ended with her calling me a faggot.
I...
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Hire a maid service.
>>17042941
Never been married, but divorce seems like a better option to living with someone who treats you like shit. Not to mention she probably has that complex which is like "I've got my man 4life time to get fat". Honestly though, I would leave her. Name calling, being a lazy bitch, and basic at that?
Leave. Her.
>>17042946
Nah, stay at home wife implies this is one of her few responsibilities. I'm not going to shell out cash to do the shit she should be doing. She actually payed some lady 50 bucks to clean our home twice without letting me know.
how do I stop feeling guilty about dating an asian girl as a white guy? I can feel people staring at us in public and I feel so guilty
Guilty? mother fucker feel proud! do you not realize mother fuckers are staring because they are jelly as a mother fucker, I would be.
>>17041225
Virtuous women > race of a woman
That being said make sure your current gf is virtuous .
>>17041225
>guilty
Of what? There is literally nothing to feel guilty about
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Gf has low self esteem and hates her body. She's started gaining weight and I'm worried she'll hate herself more and/or make unhealthy decisions like starving herself. I can't approach the topic with her directly, so what should I do?
>>17040225
Why can't you approach her about it? You'll need to do it in a tactful manner but this is going to be better than hinting to her. Just try and reassure her that she looks great but if she feels negative about herself, you could start exercising together so she feels better.
If you really don't want to speak to her (and again, I'd recommend this option), maybe start going on walks/hikes together and cook her healthier meals.
>>17040225
how do you know she has low selfesteem and hates her body? if she told you, then you can talk to her openly about how you think she's going down a dark road atm and that you are worried about her. suggest professional help. tell her you love her. and that you love her the way she is. but that she need help or this will get worse.