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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
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>Would you date a virgin?
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Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes...
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>they seem interested
>they're even the ones who initiate the most sometimes
>then suddenly nothing, and when you go to them they're clod and give one word answers
Have you ever been the one who's suddenly cold? Why?
I just don't get why these things happen. It seems to happen to a lot of people, leaving them puzzled. It may be happening to me right now and I'm wondering what happens in those who do that.
>talking to this girl I met at a concert
>she lives in another town
>keep wondering how much I should talk to her
>if I talk to her every time I want to, and propose to see each other too often, she might think I'm clingy
>if I don't talk to her often she might forget me and lose interest
She used start conversations and it flowed really well, and then suddenly it's cold.
I don't...
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There's this girl I've wanted to go out with (we've known each other in highschool and I took her to prom) for a while, and we went one one day a while back, and I don't think it went well, but she agreed to go again sometime. Even tho we agreed on a time, she never got back to me. Whatever right?
After trying to instigate conversation (nothing weird just boring shit like "hey" or something relevant) I matched her on tinder. Because she never got back to me I figured "fuck it" and messaged her on tinder "nice butt" and...
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Ask a doctor anything.
Stop pretending to be a doctor online and giving out medical advice you read on wikipedia. It's dangerous and will cause more problems because you cannot accurately diagnose online.
I did a myriad of drugs over a long period of time and still feel a bit cloudy mentally, even after months of not using. I know I haven't given you much information to work off of, but generally speaking, how much can you brain improve after ingesting neurotoxic chemicals?
do you guys really party and fuck around with the nurses, pls tell me the truth
How do you females feel about the constant,daily stream of adult 20yo+ men who are always talking about killing themselves because they've never had sex/gf/kiss
>>17066019
(I am a single person and cannot speak for an entire group, whatever group it may be) I wish people didn't take virginity so seriously. Yes, there are people who have amazing first times. 90% of the time, it's mediocre at best. Your first time will be awkward. When you lose your virginity, it most likely won't be with the person you stay with. It sounds like such bullshit, but I really wish people wouldn't see sex as such an amazing, perfect act.
Spoiled and bored and childish
Learn a skill, get a hobby beyond sitting at the computer and maybe someone will find them interesting. Holy fuck. Self pity and sour grapes are not anything to offer another person when you are asking them to offer you somega part of them physically or romantically. Too many people trying to take without knowing what giving is, I hope none of them have credit cards.
they delight in it. women are terrorists.
if you aren't sure, it is probably them
begin ghost battles
Dear CUNT
I know you've almost finished your bachelor,
but please, don't move back to my city.
I really don't want to run into you again.
Eat shit and die.
Sincerely,
Anon
Hey dee
Pretty please don't leave me wondering here
If you wanna hang out, nice, I wanted to. I want to get to know you more. If you didn't want to and you just used an excuse to dodge it, please tell me so. You said you would call back but seriously just tell me, it's ok. I don't bite and we don't know each other much anyways.
I just don't wanna bother you, since it's my fault and all that thing happened a year ago. I'm a dumbass and I'll take your cold shoulder as punishment if you want.
K
I wish you would tell me where we went wrong. I still love you so much it hurts, even though you ended us 2 months ago. You offered to stay friends, but then treated me like dirt when you acknowledged me at all. How did it all fall apart so quickly? You say I didn't do anything wrong, but how can I believe that when you shifted your entire attitude toward me so quickly? I wish I could hate you for the way you treated me - being angry at you would dull the pain of knowing you don't love me anymore like you used to - but I can't do it. As pathetic as it...
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Scrolling through my texts has really made me realize how few friends I have. I've only texted like 12 people in the past year, half of those have been family members or co-workers, and one prostitute.
I've literally only hung out with 1 person in the past month, who is a good friend I see regularly.
How the fuck are you supposed to meet people when you're an adult? I'm 24 and working, a couple years out of college. I feel like this isolation is negatively affecting other areas of my life, I've been feeling depressed and unmotivated at work lately..
Go to church, if they have people your age they are probably nice. At least if it's a Catholic church, I don't really know other kinds.
Or join a charity group in your area.
>durr but im atheist omg stop shoving ur religion
then disregard my advice and try something else
>>17066804
I occasionally go to church with my parents but it's mostly older people and children, no one my age.
>>17066798
I've never seen anyone 23+ on this site escape NEET-dom or become more social. The best that usually happens is that they get a job and upgrade to shut-in.
Your thread is one of many and /adv/ is shit at giving practical advice.
Why does /adv/ believe in the friendzone all of a sudden?
About a year or two ago, you would see posts claiming that the FZ didn't exist, and you would be called out for complaining about somebody FZing you. But now, just about any relationship advice on this board is going to be greeted with "you're going to get FZ'd if XYZ," or that the person has already been FZ'd by the object of their affection (regardless if there's sufficient information to warrant that conclusion).
And while we're on the subject, /adv/ is seemingly...
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>>17065781
4chan all viewpoints and all subtypes, it gives no exception to adv, and certainly not gender issues. If discussion is not your thing you may find tumblr a more welcoming community.
*allows
/adv/ finally experienced the dread that is the friend zone and learned to never let some vagina push you around like that.
