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>I'd be happy to have lunch with you and your friend but I don't feel comfortable going on a one on one date with someone I haven't seen in several years
What did she mean by this? What's uncomfortable about not having seen someone for several years.
>>17014556
Probably doesn't trust you/doesn't want to be stuck alone with someone she may not enjoy spending time with.
>>17014556
She assumes that she will be uncomfortable/that it will be awkward if it's just the 2 of you.
Not having seen someone for several years in itself is not awkward.
What is your history like with this girl? Perhaps she thinks you may have had a crush on her and wants to make it clear that she's still only interested in a platonic relationship?
At any rate, try not to take it personally. Go hang out with her and a friend and show her that you've grown to be fun and sociable in the last couple years.
If she enjoys hanging out with you, then she'll be more comfortable with the idea of a 1 on 1 date
>>17014570
Met her a couple years ago through parents. Saw her parents by chance recently and asked her out.
Some months ago i began to hangout with my new occurred friend... Like a lot... After some time we kissed and i began to develop feelings for her... i'm like a emotional bomb, soon to explode... Since then we have being kissing a lot and sometimes it ended out in sex...
After the first time we kissed, she said she don't want to start anything serious, but she likes what we are doing. After some time i told her my feelings, and she still don't feel the same way. At that time she also said "If i meet a nice boy in a club, i wouldn't hesitate to...
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Hello anon. I woul personally advice you to explain your feellings well to her. Maybe you should go out more. Like on dates and shit and then get to a point where you think she feels the same towards you. If it's unbareable just confess to her. But from what you say this girl really loves casual sex, so be careful with that.
>>17014577
If anything, I think OP should stay away from her. He's starting to develop feelings for someone he's never gonna be in a relationship with. This is only going to hurt him more as time goes on.
>>17014577
Thanks for the tip, i really shouldn't have confessed directly... however I have tried asking her out on dates and for some little walks, but she just want to cuddle in the bed :/
The funny thing is that she've never done casual sex before, i have known her kinda well for 4 years now. So it's confusing...
I really thinking about holding back, i'm just not the type for casual sex.
>>17014586
I kinda feel the same way... But...
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My girlfriend and I never have had sex. There's been penetration with fingers, and the off chance of dried precum, mostly after urination on my fingers.
What are the odds of her being pregnant?
She's a week from her usual period time and is showing pms.
But she spotted a brown dot on her panties today. Something to worry about?
She is not nauseous or is she showing any pregnancy symptoms.
We are both 20.
Zero unless she's fucking someone else behind ur back.
Relax.
>>17014538
>We are both 20.
Its completely unacceptable for a pair of 20 year olds to be this stupid.
>>17014538
>What are the odds of her being pregnant?
Not quite zero, but close enough as makes no practical difference. But letting her go first (or, you know, washing your hands) would be even better.
Are all girls kind of demanding? Have now my fourth girlfriend and everyone of them acted so shy and submissive in the beginning but after some months they turned out to be very demanding, making rules, etc. My current girlfriend already wants to convince me with good names for our future kids, she pressures me that we gonna have many cats and a dog because she always wanted that (even I said in the beginning I never wanna have a dog), she decides where wo go for holiday, etc.
Those examples may sound a bit strange but I think you know what I mean. I claim that I'm...
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>>17014500
Ignore her and continue to do what you want. Basically be selfish, and don't really pay attention to her because she does that to you. Make her feel worthless and regress to her submissive state.
/inb4 terrible advice
Why don't you want a dog? Dogs are great.
>>17014500
>I never wanna have a dog
what kind of man are you
Hey /adv/, first time poster in here and pretty much in all of 4chan, so please excuse me if I have no idea what I’m doing.
Here's the situation I'm in: I'm 19 and I’ve been in what I think is a happy, healthy and loving relationship for a year and a half now. Prior to that, I was in a different relationship for roughly 6 months. Prior to that, I didn’t have very much confidence when it came to pursuing girls and was also in that awkward stage in terms of my looks. Today, I feel as though I’ve reached my peak attractiveness and I have also grown...
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So, what’s the issue? Well, to put it as succinctly as I can (which is not one of my strong points), I just find myself attracted to and interested in pursuing other girls. Some of you may be saying that’s normal, but I think it’s starting to go beyond where it should. That, and the feeling is relatively new. When at the bar or club with friends I find myself interested in approaching girls. When on Facebook I find myself interested in sparking conversations with girls I used to have my eyes on, but never gave a shot with. I picture myself having first...
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Let me make one thing clear. I have never and have no plan on acting on any of these feelings. I would never do that. However, these feelings are very strong, stronger than I feel they should be… and it feels rather wrong to have them, especially when they used to be pretty completely nonexistent. I would barely even bat my eye at an attractive girl walking by before. My mindset used to be more along the lines “meh, I’m happy with my girlfriend, no need to even look” and while I am still just as happy with her, I now find myself curious and interested...
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It appears that this is an issue you may need to sort out yourself, I can only provide well thought out plans. I understand the need for adventure, which if you wish to explore do so, but understand the chances of destroying the good thing present is there. If you feel that the present is not worth risking do not explore. I am also young and I have decided logically that it is actually best to not date at all because I understand that someone compatible with me is one in a million. Just think through options, would you risk losing your mate
I'm extremely depressed and feel more anxiety now than I ever have in my life; I feel so nervous and alone right now even though I do have friends
the reason why is because tonight is the night in which I sleep alone, which I haven't for the passed seven months or so. Every night, my girlfriend slept with me, everything was perfect and we were so happy, I won't go over why she is gone, it isn't relevant, but I feel it is going to be an extremely rough night for me as to try to sleep, when I have already cried and felt loneliness to a point where I genuinely...
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>>17014430
>everything was perfect and we were so happy
Evidently not
>>17014435
She is dead. We didn't break up.
>>17014487
And you couldn't save her.
The girl I like called me too muscular. She used the work bulky in particular.
Since then Ive been looking at my stats in comparison to others and shes right I am too bulky. How do I lose muscle mass. I weigh about 185lbs at 6'.
In particular my arms are bulky compared to my body. The circumference of my bicep/tricep is about 15 1/4 inches while the average is about 11 3/4 inches. Or something like 39 vs 30 centimeters. My chest is like 44~45 inches.
I do go to the gym a lot in comparison to my friends. But its not like Im lifting huge numbers. max bench is...
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>>17014422
>The fall of an alpha.
This bitch will complain that you are too masculine and when you size down she'll be waiting to hit you with "you're too scrawny now, I wanna date chad". Fuck her man, do what you love and find someone more suitable. This bitch will destroy your life my man, you do not want to look back at the end of that relationship and say "I wish I never gave up gymming for that whore"
>>17014422
dude enter your stats here
http://symmetricstrength.com/
and post a screenshot of your level
>>17014548
This this this a million times this. Stop lifting for no one. If she can't accept you as you are now, she's not worth your time.
>People close to me call me a Shaman.
>Innate ability to provide illuminating insight
What's going on?
Problems, questions, quarrels. Let me help.
I have food poisoning. What the fuck do I do? Been laying in bed all day feeling like I'm dying.
>>17014390
What should I spend a large tax refund on?
My only hobby is anime.
I already have a lot of savings.
Can I pay you to be my personal advisor on Skype?
are LDRs really as bad as the overwhelming majority of the board makes them out to be?
ive been thinking about telling a girl i've known online for a couple of years now that i have feelings for her, but the ldr hate on this board makes me really skeptical. I already have plans to move out towards that area shes living in but that wont be able to happen until around this time next year.
should i tell her now and try to make he relationship work for a year online? or just wait until i'm closer and hope she doesn't get in a serious relationship in the meantime?
>>17014347
Whats the point of incurring all the costs of a relationship without any of the benefits?
Depends on several factors, in my opinion.
>how long distance
>your age
>ability to see each other (time, cost, etc)
>attitude towards LDR
