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I am a high school senior, and one of my teachers is coming on to me. I don't know how I should pursue this possibility. What are some ways I could turn this into a sexual relationship.
>>17103216
Bumping for interest.
>>17103216
Ask for private lessons. Just you and her.
Just flirt back, then ask for personal tutoring or lessons. Try to isolate the two of you then shifting the conversation away from school, toward... Other things
if I dumped a few photos of myself could you guys help me pick the best ones for my tinder? im trying to get more matches, ive been getting hardly any the past month
OK.
>>17103221
god bless
this is my current first pic yes its sideways ill flip the others
>>17103232
First things I see that are wrong about this.
>You're naked
In a pool or not, you're exposing yourself to people that just see you for the first time.
>Angle
The top angle of that shot is creepy in this situation
Also, I might consider going to /fa/ to get some help in aesthetics
I'm really considering getting dreads.
...but know next to nothing about how to start them, maintain them...etc.
I'm a white male with dirty blonde hair that's somewhere between wavy and curly and about 9 inches long all-around. Its not thick, but not thin either and starts to dread itself naturally if i don't comb it for about 2 weeks.
Any dreadheads out there who can give me some good advice?
>>17102367
Just don't wash your hair or comb your hair.
Dreads are pretty God damn disgusting t b h, enjoy smelling like poo
>>17102374
if i do that then they come out looking really shitty. Like all bunched together and diff sizes. I want them to look pretty nice
Does being a skinnier girl automatically make you more attractive? Does it make that girl more prettier and desirable than a girl with a little more weight?
Also, general body type preference thread.
Pick a number.
>>17098421
Rolling
Any but 1,6,7,9
Generally you cant look at it like that
Depends on the people in question
Guy A may like a curvy girl but guy B will be happier with a skinny flat chested girl while guy C loves chubby or average girls
>automatically
no
>statistically
yes
How can I get a guy who appreciates me and treats me well? Or is it possible that some women are just so shitty that nobody will treat them well?
Treat yourself well.
Be more independent, and you can start choosing from the good ones.
>>17103828
What if I am so shitty that I can't get anyone good?
>>17103828
This.
Also, learn to spot shitty behavior.
>be black
>be born to literally the worst race in the world. 0 contributions to civilization. on the receiving end of getting BTFO'd by whites and arabs throughout history
>home continent is an absolute fucking shithole
>everyone is scared of you
>women see you as a hyper sex machine when you just want meaningful relationship
>all the sexy black women go for white boys except for some...
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I think you meant to post this on /r9k/ there are worse things than being black you could have been born indian they have a legit reason to compain. indians are the least desired race in the world
go take out some of your brothers before you become an hero
>>17102730
>0 contributions to civilization.
Thanks for peanut butter
What are some hobbies/interests GUARANTEED to get girls interested in me?
I suck at music so inb4 play an instrument
None? A hobby doesn't make the man.
Gym. Get fit. You wont meet them in the gym. But they'll open up to you in other places.
>>17101808
sports
you'll get in shape, bring the bantz, and learn to be more aggressive
>hit on countless girls
>get rejected
>hit on countless more
>find one that is so head over heels for you she'll do anything to make you happy
>have sex with her when you want
>ignore her when you don't
>treat her like shit
>wash, rinse, repeat
Why are guys likes this?
One guy fucks you and ignores you afterwards
All guys are evil
How many guys have you fucked that you can safely assume this is all guys, you rancid slut?
>>17101753
I blame the jews and their feminist puppets, but hey that's just me.
I have a strange question, regarding another thread. It's the situation with the guy who fucked his girfriend "dry" and she said it hurts and he just kept on? Well, everyone there is saying he raped her. I'm not sure I would say that, and I'm female. But still it makes me question: let's say I'm having consensual sex with a guy and he's fucking my pussy and then suddenly without warning, lube, or gentleness shoves his dick in my ass and I scream? Because this happened to me. Is that rape? It sure felt like it. He pulled out immediately...
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no, I don't think so
it was a dick move and he really shouldn't have done it but when you said stop he did immediately and apologized, if he had kept going despite your protestations like the OP of that other thread did then that would have been another matter. Its also possible, but unlikely, that it was a genuine accident.
I really hope that negative experience didn't turn you off from ever trying anal for real though.
>>17101484
I am still confused on how you guys even get in without wetness.
>>17101499
It didn't. I asked another guy to do me for real and I loved it.
>disclaimer: male. mid 20's I have had relationships and can get sex not-infrequently
I honestly am just tired of the female gender. Not on some 'women-hating' shit but I will be honest and say I hold them in contempt and slight annoyance. just don't see the fucking point in dating and investing time and energy in women, save for family like your mother or something.
You spend your time and money on someone who MIGHT reciprocate 1/4 of your emotional investment while that same investment is getting diluted by an army of thirsty dudes validating the girl's existence if she's somewhat attractive thanks to Tinder, Instagram, etc. . That's just how it is sure, but is it worth all of that trouble?
And then the man has to be the confident 'leader' for a woman? Waaay too much fucking work. A protector? There's guns, mace, and secure apartments, we don't live in the fucking caveman days anymore, not in 'murica. Why the shit should I have to put in all that effort to be a protector when it's unnecessary? The man has to be her alpha male stoic stable 'rock'... like why waste your time on somebody who is so mentally fragile and weak they can't stand on their own two feet? Is that what being 'feminine' is? Fucking Ew.
Sometimes I feel inclined to date one of those 'strong independent women' feminists so I don't have to hold their hand 24/7 and just do my own thing and chill. Sometimes I feel like I should just friend-zone a bunch of gay dudes for companionship and fap to straight-porn/hire escorts and get my sexual needs satisfied that way. Sometimes I feel like going straight hikikomori and living a chill but inwardly directed life.
Is this line of thinking normal for someone my age?
>>17100313
Of course its not normal, how many people have you dated? You're prejudiced, but it can be fixed, its probably your fault for always going for the dames types of girls: the stereotypes. I honestly feel someone with experience with relationships wouldn't feel the way you do, having sex doesn't count.
>>17100325
I've 'dated' 3 girls in my life. I've had sex with a little over 30
>>17100313
i kind of feel the same way. by no means do i hate or even dislike women and i cant stand the red pill shit. women just annoy me most of the time, at the ones i seem to meet. i think the competition is too high now due to social media, tinder etc. from my experience women expect too much from men, they often want us to be successful but at the same time give them attention all the time, it doesn't work that way, i need to spend time doing my own thing if i want to get anywhere in life.
sex for first time. I last about 15 minutes, she tells me I'm big, I have a bit of a hard time keeping a rythm and finding a comfortable position. We fall asleep and wake up like, 5 hours later and decided to go for round 2. I lasted half an hour and couldn't finish and just got soft which was embarrassing as all shit. She said it was good but she didn't cum, she's honest about that I guess. I have made her cum with my tounge but she takes an hour to finish and it's exhausting.
Now here's my problem. She told me she's cum from penetration once in her life. When questioned she said she was stupid to say that and it was shit anyway and I was already better. But now I have the gnawing feeling like I failed. Some of her compliments didn't seem genuine, others did, I don't know, fucking kill me
>>17100257
Dude, lighten up. Sex takes a lot of practice to get good at, and it takes a lot of mutual practice to get good at it with someone else.
My wife takes a LOT of warmup and pumping at a specific angle to stimulate her clit, and it's taken hundreds of fucks and lots of talking through her anxiety and bullshit to get good at it. Meanwhile my first girlfriend would cum repeatedly at the drop of a hat.
People are different, and good sex isn't always easy.
Well obviously she's lying to make you feel better, but I wouldn't sweat it. Not everyone can be a sex god the first time. Hell I only last about 15 minutes tops, and I've had sex multiple times. Just don't worry too much about it.
>>17100257
>Now here's my problem. She told me she's cum from penetration once in her life. When questioned she said she was stupid to say that and it was shit anyway and I was already better. But now I have the gnawing feeling like I failed. Some of her compliments didn't seem genuine, others did, I don't know, fucking kill me
Quit being a baby if you want to get good at pleasing her.
If she sees that any hint of her sexual experience will hit you right in the feels and make you wilt, she'll stop talking to you about it. You kinda want to know what makes her get off, so you have to make her comfortable about talking about it. You knew she wasn't a virgin, right? So man up and stop being a pussy drama queen.
I am unhappy in my relationship. I find my boyfriend to be argumentative and immature. In the past two months I have given him a car, bought all his food, and given him over a thousand dollrs becausr he cant pay his rent or for school books. He is still broke and now he attacks me all the time and says he wants to break up because I dont make him happy. He said I dont do enough for him. I just hate him and find him disgusted but I also feel very depressed and broken from this experience.
Are you unhappy in a relationship? Do you think you would be happier outside of this relationship? Then leave it.
>>17102998
So break up with him and move on. He sounds like a little bitch
I just feel like shit.
I provide EVERYTHING for this person and let them live like a king and still it isn't enough? Still I'm not good enough and I'm not doing enough?
What is so wrong with me
Is it a red flag?
Yes.
As a female who historically has had more guy friends than female friends, yes.
I stopped hanging out with all dudes when I was about 18 and realized they were all trying to have sex with me.
I just want a friend who won't try to fuck me. ):
No.
I've been happily married for well over a decade, and I still have more male friends than female. I just don't like hanging around other women, they're too catty and judgemental. My husband has known this about me since we were dating and has no worries. He actually agrees with me. I have one good female friend, and she provides more than enough female drama for me.
It really depends on the woman's personality, though. There's women who like hanging out with men for attention, and then there's women like me, who just prefer the company...
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Is learning a language just for fun (i.e. almost never spoken in your region) a bad thing?
Of course not. Why would it be?
>>17099966
But you will never use it anyway (eg. an Aussie learning French or a Taiwanese person learning Spanish).
>>17099999
Nice quints.
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Ladies: Why do women become afraid or run away when they meet a guy who is everything they want? Is there crazy long term realizations going on that are hard to handle? It's such a bummer as a guy to find a girl and it go between night and day on how she feels once you get close..
>>17099282
It goes both ways and is 100% subjective. It could be because they thought this before, but something went horribly wrong and now they have to be more cautious. Or they think there's something wrong with them personally and don't want to mess things up. Or a million other reasons.
>>17099282
Maybe you're not what they want after all and it takes getting close to see the real you. If this is a repeating pattern for you take a look at yourself first before blaming women
