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>Became really close friends with Guy A over the semester
>I would text him for hours, never judged me, fun to hangout with
>However I was into guy B
>Guy A asked me out on a date, I declined
>I date guy B, well I'm doing so I didn't talk to guy A much anymore
>Guy B treated me like crap
>Now I think I'm having feelings for A
>I tried to text him asking if he wanted to hangout on friday, he said he was busy
>I told him I brought some study snacks (in grad school) and he should come get some. He said "sounds good" but never got any
>How to I get Guy A to like me again?
Kek u dun fukt up m80 time 2 move on
Fuck you
Lol he can tell exactly what you're doing. You're pathetic. Latching onto another guy when your first relationship is failing. Sounds like Guy A is a pretty sensible dude and not okay with being some bitch's backup plan.
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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
>>17107050
Why would a girl do this to me?
>meet girl on tinder
>go on dates
>have sex
>cuddle
>go out for dinner
>we take turns with paying for our dates
>we both cuddle and lay on the sofa together
>we hold hands
>we kiss
>we cuddle
and then she drops the ball on me
>I have the feeling you want to see me more than just once a week and I think you want us to be more serious and that you want more than me. I dont want to lead you on
Why the fuck would a girl do this? If it was just sex, why did we even do all the other things?
I finally developed feelings for someone after being single, depressed and alone for the past 4 years and i'm now more lost than forever. :(
I hate this life, i want off
>>17107181
Over text too. I honestly thought she had feelings for me too otherwise she wouldn't do all the stuff with me. Why would she even tell me that she wanted to lay in bed with me if she doesn't have feelings for me?
>>17107188
How do I stop hurting so much? How to dry my tears? I've only been hurt once this bad before which was 4 years ago, took me 3 years to recover. I dont want to go through all this again. I was finally getting my life back on track by going to the gym and i'm getting help finding a job and I finally got rid of my depression but I feel it's back now and it's worse than ever.
All I wanted was for us to love eachother and live happily.
Are these kind of relationships even possible in 2016? I feel like I have unrealistic worldview and expectations due to movies from the past where love and happyness does exist.
A girl invited me to an edm festival. We're both gonna dress up as lifeguards for it (I don gotta explain nuthin). I just got my stuff in the mail, and I figured that I might as well do something more than just a lame pic of the clothing.
Should I send her >pic related?
>>17108871
fuck it
I sent it
wish me luck guys
>>17108891
I was going to tell you not to
>>17108892
why not?
The thread about the OP accidentally raping his gf got me scared.
How do I make sure it doesn't happen to me?
Last time I told someone about things I didn't want in bed he called me a bitch and ragequit dating me.
Stop dating rapists and start dating me
>>17108801
Don't sleep with anyone you don't trust.
>>17108801
Rape is a social construct.
Before I met my girlfriend in college 6 months ago, I strongly believed in what MGTOW said about women; being manipulative, money-hungry, and incapable of truly loving a man in a relationship.
The issue with my girlfriend is money (comes from extremely poor family), and whether I know she's using me for my wallet or not. She insists that she loves me for who I am and not my money, but that nagging voice from MGTOW is screaming that she's a gold digger. All she asks from me is for me to getting her food outside of her meal plan.
What should I do? Is MGTOW right about her? Is the ideology flawed?
If you can't tell the difference between getting occasionally asked for food and getting screwed out of your bank account you're fucking dumb.
>>17108467
It's almost every day. Also, are you people incapable of giving advice without flipping a shit?
>>17108467
>this OP
stop being a paranoid douche
How many of you actually even have friends ?
How many of you actually do something besides browsing 4chan and playing games during your free time?
How may of you are decent looking?
How many of you are even happy?
>How many of you actually even have friends ?
Not me, all of mine are dead, don't contact me anymore, or on the internet.
>How many of you actually do something besides browsing 4chan and playing games during your free time?
I'm an artist.
>How may of you are decent looking?
I consider myself to be so, I've had long term relationships with women.
>How many of you are even happy?
Some days are better than others.
>>17107100
>Not me, all of mine are dead, don't contact me anymore, or on the internet.
>I'm an artist.
My condolences anon.
> I used to have friends but I alienated my self from them
>I sometimes get on you tube
>I used to be decent looking but now im kind of fat.
> I'm occasionally happy
So my 19 y/o gf wants to go clubbing foe her first time with a bunch of her girl friends, but I'm feeling uncomfortable with the whole situation. She won't be drinking, and I 100% trust that her intentions are to have a good time with friends, not to hook up with any guys. She even invited me to go, but I'm not a club guy and I don't want to crash their girls night. I'm just uncomfortable with the fact that she is good looking and will definitely have guys trying to rub up on her. Is it reasonable for me to be anxious? Also, should I try to talk her out of going if I'm feeling strongly against it? She already knows how I feel about the situation, but still really wants to go.
You need to go and be there fuck girls nite if they want that they can go to a movie
Let her go, if she were to cheat on you, you would not know anything about it.
Yes, its anoying and its ok to feel anxious about it.
Oh boy, that first post-18 relationship. When you're both learning how to adult.
You're... going to have to learn this part for yourself OP.
I'm a life-long Republican who is part of the #NeverTrump movement.
I don't know what to do now that that fool is the GOP nominee. I feel lost and abandoned by my party. I need help from my bros in /adv/. Should I stay home or go big and vote for Hillary in November?
>>17106786
Maybe just take a break from politics for awhile. You have a few months to decide, you don't have to go off half-cocked now just because you're sad/pissed off
>>17106786
Vote third party.
>>17106786
why do you feel you have to choose between the people that are presented to you? write in votes are valid and you aren't selling yourself a delusion of "picking the winning team", especially when both teams are more or less out to just fuck you over.
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now and we're trying to step up our intimacy. For some fucking reason though, I just can't get IN her. I'll be hard and I'll go in for the penetration, but I'll miss and almost instantly start going soft. I don't get it. What's wrong with me? I really don't think I'm nervous, but I don't fucking know. I just want to be able to fuck her.
>>17106455
How do you miss..
>> sorry I put it in your pooper
>>17106493
I don't know. At this point it feels like my dick just bends around the fucking thing like a cartoon. Plus she's tight, so unless I'm marble-column levels of hard I might as well be pushing rope.
>>17106501
Generally some foreplay.
After that, grab your dick.
If you really can't find the only wet hole,
Rub your dick head up and down until you feel it.
Slowly enter.
Rocket science yo?
How accurate is /r9k/'s views on women and dating?
>>17106208
Their observations are accurate, their conclusions are not.
In-.
How accurate is a weather forecast?
I was just diagnosed as Bipolar.
Any advise from anons who have either themselves been or family/friends who have been diagnosed?
>>17105332
My dad was bipolar, and he killed himself
Take your meds
Do NOT become an alcoholic
Depression phase is tough as fuck, but it's the manic phase that kills friendships and relationships and fucks your economy.
Take ypur meds
Take your meds
Take your meds
>>17105395
Don't take any meds OP
Read Madness and Civilization by Foucault
Then Prometheus Rising by R.A.W.
I really upset my gf last night.
Basically we were having sex but I never made her wet enough and I stuck it in. She said it hurt but I just kinda got caught up and carried on until I came. Immediately after she stopped talking to me and ignored me for the past day. I've tried really hard to apologise but it feels like my words don't get through, and if I hug or kiss her she starts crying.
Just before she sent me a text saying that for the first time in her life she felt like an object to be used. And ever since her body is just repelling me.
/adv/ what do I do?
Dude...you raped her. You're literally a rapist...
>>17100482
RAPE
A
P
E
seriously though man, she is probably going to have trouble trusting you after this
Don't end your relationship on bad terms with her...EVER. She will go back to this moment and try to legally ruin your life as revenge
You know what to do.
Dear J -
I hate you. I fucking hate you. You targeted me, fucked me, and then dumped me. You used me like a piece of trash. I've never had that happen before and everyone tells me it's because you're 25. I was so stupid I hate myself. I hate myself more than I hate you, and I hate you a lot. I want to hurt and humiliate you like you did me. I know some things about you and none of them are nice. I hate seeing you because I feel that shame all over again. I want you to stay away forever, then maybe I'll be able to heal. What you did was fucked up. You are a malignant narcissist. Google it. That's YOU, isnt' it? You did all those things to me. You "love-bombed" me and I was so lonely I fell for it like a fucking idiot.
L,
I miss you so much.
Next life, right?
M.
>>17093919
I've gone through a similar experience myself, I'm sorry anon, the next few months are going to be a torrent of uncontrolled emotions that can do more damage than this guy did to you. While revenge seems necessary, it's best to walk away and try to put them out of your mind. These people feel no shame, guilt or remorse, and no matter what you do to them they will just continue predating on vulnerable people because it's just their nature.
You should seek counseling, it will help. Don't use family or friends, it will just make you feel worse now that they know about your private life and traumas.
It's hard to believe people like this exist but now you know and you'll be more guarded if you encounter one again.
so /adv/ i need help, how do i fix the huge communication issue in my relationship?
its gotten so bad that she blew up at each other over a simple text of "I'm off early, sup?" (i can go into more details but it makes no fucking sense regardless)
this has been going on for a long time, and my gf is basically threatening to break up with me every other week, or we go days without talking cause her solution to a problem is to ignore me.
i've suggested we go for relationship counselling to work on our communication because we both definitely care for each other in our ways, but it gets mistranslated and blown out of proportion that both of us are unhappy at the end of the day.
any halp?
>>17107426
More details about that incident please
>>17107432
so i've been working six day weeks for the past month or so, and haven't been taking much time off (we have the option to go home early if it's a slow period) because ive been saving up for our upcoming vacation.
today, happened to be one of those magical days where the manager asked to either send me home early or keep me an extra hour over my original end time. i opted for the early leave because i knew she had the night off and figured we could spend some quality time together.
texted her at 8pm "im off early, sup?" her reply was 'deciding what to do' . i replied with "okay just driving coworkers home"
I dropped everyone off and texted her around 8:40pm saying "did you decide what to do"
'i think im going out." (now like all women when she's mad she'll use periods)
i reply with 'okay, why does that warrant you being mad at me?"
'because its like you dont exist'
"how? i took off work early for you, changed my day off to match yours"
'you didnt try to make plans or communicate them with me."
this is where it gets all fuzzy, cause im still trying to figure out how the hell i was suppose to do any of this cause i was suppose to be working until 10pm and i was driving my friends home. so in all this time that elapsed i couldnt talk to her anyway.
i can keep going but the rest of this gets pretty petty, repetitive, and makes no sense
>>17107450
If you wanted to spend time with her, why the fuck didn't you just say so? Instead of saying "okay just driving coworkers home," why didn't you say something like "how about we___?"
You're trying to paint her as the irrational one, but you're just as bad as she is.
I'm planing on fighting someone tomorrow. Any tips?
Watch out for his Kaioken.
I don't know, kick him in the balls? Fighting someone is gay, stop doing that
Don't get into fights, it's a degenerate thing to do. People can get charged with assault. I recommend not wasting time fighting and tell them to gtfo or you'll btfo them with police.
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