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I live in a small four apartment complex. Parking is limited to only the front face of the complex and a small lot to the side, but there is enough room for everyone. I've lived here four years and it has never been a problem.
Today an old lady moved into the first floor and the first thing she said was "I live here now so you need to move your car out front of MY apartment!" and walked off. There's a sign on her door saying "DO NOT PARK IN FRONT OF MY APARTMENT" which is fully one third of the available space.
Is it a dick move to...
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Tell her to fuck off and there's only enough parking for everyone currently without her bullshit
If you're all alowed to park in the lot and its on your lease then there's literally nothing she can do
If she causes problems complain about her, its the owners final say because its his parking lot
There's no reason for her to be a dick if she wanted her own driveway she should get her own house.
>>17090423
It is always better to not escalate things, as long as it's no inconvenience to you. would you have to walk far if you didnt park there? it sounds like there are enough spots. if there are other spots, just respect her demand, rude and stupid as it is. people like that are vengeful, she may cause you trouble down the road if you call her a dumb cunt, as much as she deserves it. if it would be a pain in the ass to park elsewhere, tell her (politely) to get fucked.
>>17090423
you arent really being specific enough. how many spaces are there?
realistically there should be an equal number of spaces per apartment. however some apartments might get extra spaces. a 2 bedroom will likely have two people who own cars, whereas a studio only 1.
but if there are 4 spaces and 4 apartments, or 8 spaces and 4 apartments, no reason it cane be divided fairly.
so tell us.
>getting a wife
>getting a good job
>buying a house
Is any of this stuff even remotely possible? jesus christ it seems like you have to win the lottery to get any of them
It's not like these are unreasonable demands or anything. Just normal stuff. And yet it's still not even something conceivably possible. has life always been this shit?
>>17090421
>being a good person
>learning valuable skills for things you have an interest in and going where jobs are
>see 2nd
>getting a wife
Not at all.
>getting a good job
Depends on what level of commitment and how ambitious you are
>getting a house
Directly related to 1 and 2.
>>17090421
It's not easy to live a simple life anymore OP. If you want a wife and a house and a job well then, you're just entitled. Forget kids too, it's too expensive to raise them nowadays. Don't worry though, the state will iron out the resulting demographic issues by importing tons of third world migrants and making your life even worse!
Are there any was a fat and fugly girl can escape friendzone*
I know bout losing weight but other than that?
Lose weight.
Allow yourself to be used wholly as a sexual object in secrecy, promising to never show public affection or to bother them, but you'll give them a blow job when they require one
Learn to speak English. Are you a ghetto illiterate or a foreigner? I can't tell but I do know what you just typed makes no sense!!!
I hate my face so much that I spend hours just comparing my face to other people and I don't want to...It's such a huge waste of time, but I can't seem to stop. I think if I didn't care about my face I would be able to concentrate on actual important stuff. I've even gone makeup free for a few months to become comfortable with how I look, but it hasn't worked.
:( I need advice on how to get over this. I just don't want to care how I look anymore, with makeup or not. I don't think I'm hideous, but I just seriously don't want to even care.
help help help please. I've spent probably weeks of time in my life wasted on this.
Pic related. It's a frog I have in my backyard
Your own face isn't something you should judge, since you know yourself too well to estimate your worth basing on the appearance. Consider that the way you look matters only to other people, but should not concern you at all. Instead of comparing your face to faces of others, try to figure out how much your appearance influences the way people treat you. To do it, look at their faces and think - do I really care that much how they look? Would you dislike a person completely just because he/she isn't attractive? Of course not. And from what you wrote, I assume you aren't...
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>>17090406
Great post, however if people wouldn't care how others look there wouldn't even be terms like ugly and beautiful.
>>17090426
Oh, of course it matters. But when someone, like OP, hates his face, he starts thinking that your appearance is the most important factor, if not the only one. Unless you are seriously ugly, it's not. Most flaws you see in the mirror are either invisible to others, or they just don't care.
>23
>Me and ex broke up 6 months ago after being together 2 years
>Kind of had to, she was moving soon and getting involved in some shit I didn't want anything to deal with
>She is back now, cleaned up a bit
>Working on her CNA
>Really wants to get back with me, and we're supposed to hang tomorrow for an hour or two
I still love her and don't see much of a reason...
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>>17090311
You're family likely knows better, but you won't listen. She'll burn you eventually, OP
>>17090316
My family despises every girl I've ever dated. They really don't know any better.
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
So I'm not quite sure when this started, but my mom and I have a habit of speaking little kid talk to each other and try to sound like a baby. Its so frequent that I feel wierd when I dont talk like that to my mom.
I think it started when we started talking like that to the cats and made up this baby language where you have clench/grind your teeth while talking like a minion or tobuscus but more extreme.
for example
"aschi ji bobo you cant go in thewa wittle gwuy"
and if she tells me its my bday or something i say "im dusta baybee" and...
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Maybe maybe not, but I occasionally have to contend with that shit from my sister and her boyfriend whenever the family happens to get together and let me and everyone else listening tell you it's the grossest kind of speech in the world for 3rd parties to hear.
It may be disgusting for others but I suppose it's normal behavior, for lovers. An adult man and his mother talking like is something completely abnormal. Your mom should not be trying to ageplay with you.
That's creepy as fuck, OP.
>>17090300
OP here, Im not a grown man, im a teenage girl and my mother and I are both straight.
Okay, so I have an odd dilemma. I just took Calc III at community college (I took it before at a university, but it didn't transfer because of bureaucratic reasons). At the beginning of the semester I was lazy and got ~44% on the first midterm. then I got my act together and got 83% on the next one. The third midterm was full of surprises and had weird questions like I'd never seen before even though I did the homework, and I got another 44%. The cumulative final was monday and I got 81%
This professor drops the lowest midterm and I calculated my exact grade...
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>>17090252
Threaten him.
>>17090279
kek.
I looked at his grading policy, and it's this:
"Grading Policy
90 – 100% A
80 - 89% B
70 – 79% C
60 – 69% D
Below 60% F"
So if he's consistent with his sigfigs (rounding to the nearest percentage point), I should pass. Should I mention that?
Definitely talk to him. Profs sometimes are willing to work with you, especially when you showed that much improvement and you're that close. I don't think actually recommending a course of action is good tho. Some profs get kind of egotistical about running their classrooms.
How do I be a better poster on www.4chan.org?
>>17090241
Read your message before posting it. If it has some sense or logic rewrite it.
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