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We are due to renew our contract with the landlord in 10 days. 7 days ago we had a random flat inspection and the flat was messy, not damaged at all, just a lot of used plates and trash sitting around, still fairly clean. The landlord sent us a letter saying it was unacceptable. We rang and said that it was due to medical reasons that we were struggling with staying on top of the tidying and its not usually like that, and asked if we will be allowed to renew still. They said its 50/50.
If they do not allow us to renew the contract in 10 days, will be evicted immediately? We will be legally homeless as we cannot get anywhere else due to them not actually telling us in time that we can't renew. Can they legally kick us out in 10 days with no warning?
>>17093561
what country?
>>17093561
they will tell you a date dumb ass. and if youre dirty and have a expensive apartment then you dont deserve one.
my first serious long term relationship ever.
>a month ago the girl i've known and been dating for a year confessed to me she had slept with my best friend 4 times in the past three weeks leading up to that.
>she claims i was emotionally distant, in-affectionate towards her, we were fighting, and figured feared I was going to break up with her.
>she acknowledges and stresses that this is no excuse. claims she was weak, vulnerable and caught up.
>childhood...
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>>17093546
>>17093546
fast forward to today
>i officially broke up with her two weeks ago and had sex with a girl from class three days later. it wasn't right but i was trying to move on the only way i knew how. wasn't done out of spite..
>she finds out, goes beserk, but accepts it and says she'll live with it. she still is shitty and indignant about it from time to time ironically though. she judges...
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>>17093546
get out now OP. You stay and it will only prolong your misery
why the fuck would you stay??? i swear "love" blinds people much more than anger
Hello /adv/, my 15 year old son is never with his friends anymore, he never goes outside and is just in his room all day. He goes too ranger meetings and to school, but other than that he doesnt do anything outside of the family house and ive asked him several times to go too his friends but he just rejects it and goes back to his room or insists to do something else instead.
How do i make him become social again?
>picture unrelated
>>17093518
How old are you OP?
>>17093518
Has something happened between your son and his friends? A fallout maybe?
Ugh, hello you guys.
I am just sad all the time, my boyfriend of 2 years left me because in his view, I gained too much weight and I would be too fat in general.
Idk this made me so sad, as I really love food :/
And it seems that only the thin and pretty girls get all the attention, while the fat girls are left behind :/
This is so unfair!
Fit people love food too!
Just find healthier food that is very enjoyable, and pickup a fun exercise routine.
There's this illusion that people suffer to not be fat and that's just untrue.
So he likes skinny girls and you stopped being one. That's kinda just a thing some guys are or aren't into, and it can easily become a dealbreaker. It's not unfair at all really. everyone has standards. Plenty of guys don't give a shit about how thick you are.
Loosing weight is also not very tough or hard once you learn how to do so, so if you have a beef with yourself for being on the thick side, do something about it. /fit/ is an absolute shithole, don't ask for advice there, but the /fit/ wiki in the sticky is an absolutely fantastic resource....
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How much weight is the question
But just leaving is a dick move, he could have said something to you before it came to this
Hey /adv/ I have a question. How do I get more knowledge of computers. I'm currently a junior in highschool and I never really knew what I wanted to do after graduating until recently since I realized I'm always on my laptop. Hopefully after i have enough experience I'll know what I to do later on.
>>17093512
Learn hardware or coding
>>17093519
Umm how do I do that?
>>17093512
>high school
You're good. I didnt know what to do until the last year of college. And it was programming.
>how do I do that?
Simple. Tutorials, tutorials. Try codecademy, make some basic applications. See if you like it. Build something fun, some simple game or so.
All this assuming you want to be a developer and not an IT guy who deals with cables and networks, because I cant help there.
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I accidentally reverse image searched a hentai's front cover with the little girl sitting in her brother's lap with my own Google account. Is the police going to come after me now?
>>17093474
lol just clean your history/cache newfag:
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=pthc+download
>>17093478
I mean, like is google going to send this info to the authorities?
>>17093481
follow the instructions in the link.
How do I dance at bars and clubs without looking like an idiot? Whats the etiquette of dancing with strangers?
I just don't
Walk up to a girl, offer her a drink, take it elsewhere as soon as possible. If she has to dance, make it obvious you dont treat it seriously and do some stupid shit, make her laugh, say I tried to tell you in terrible haha I know roll your eyes and proceed to take it elsewhere as soon as possible
If you really must, just walk up and try to take a turn. Rejections are not common, even if she doesnr really want you, you would at least be some time killer before another guy takes a turn. The actual dancing doesnt matter, go youtube something if...
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most people can't dance for shit. Just accept that, get drunk enough that you don't care and have fun with it
Drugs. Dancing is all about confidence, and you dont have it. Once youve danced a few times it wont be hard cuz firmiliar territory, buy to start drugs. Either extasy (perfect for dance like no other) or shrooms (might dance, might talk to nature, either way a gr8 night.)
I'm 18 years old, lean and physically active. About 2 hours ago I thought I was having a heart attack with palpitations, chest pain, trembling, dizziness, sweating, feeling like I couldn't breathe, a nasty lump in my throat and severe stomach butterflys. After the initial attack my body was trembling for minutes. I thought I was having a heart attack and going to die.
2 hours later I'm writing this. I still feel bad but a lot better. My heart is still beating faster than normal and I still have that butterflies in stomach feeling. wtf happened?
Go to urgent care or the ER
Ive also never had this happen to me before
>>17093442
Call 911 or call the hospital for an ambulance if you think it will happen again. If you think you're safe enough to drive, go to the ER immediately
Hey /adv/, I left my gf(call her E) and best friend of 4 years 13 months ago. I rushed into another relationship for 11 months. New relationship was toxic and destroyed any semblance of who i was. After leaving this relationship, I had no friends(other girl made me stop talking to people and I thought it was okay at the time). Now I have zero friends, interests, hobbies(besides just playing LoL). But i never stopped thinking about e, even while being involved for the last 11 months. But I'm 100% sure e will not get back with me ever again. I just want my best friend back....
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>>17093432
>Also, a friend who i was supposed to go to prom
Underageb8. Reported
>>17093435
You can be 18 and a senior in high school
>>17093440
you also don't have to be 18 to post on a worksafe board
My mom's got a boyfriend, they are about 9 years togther.
We are living at his house, that he bought for us.
It was for me, my brother, and them. Brother left, so it's now the three of us. I'm currectly in the army, so I see the house every weekend.
Now the thing is, he's the devil.
He fights all the time with my mom, kicked us many times out of the house(empty threats), even hits her on several occasions.
He's a nightmare and he makes our lives hell.
But the house we live in is fantastic, all my friends are here, my girlfriend...
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you're in the army, son
ask ur army; if anything you could have your buddies have a 'talk' with this guy about his physical abuse. ;D
>>17093397
This. How big is this guy? I figured an army dude could stand up to some wife beater no problem.
>>17093408
Yeah, I could take him, as he's 60 somthing years old.
But violence won't get me a thing.. I still want to live in the house, and fighting him will only make it so I'll have to leave. It can also make me wind up in jail, because I'm a soldier.
It's caturday
>>17093390
Hell yea time to game, fap, and put some new parts in my pc rig.
>>17093406
I'm going to college next year. Any advice you can give me so I don't end up like the fucker in pic related?
Seriously, I don't wanna become this guy
>>17093391
then don't?
i dont understand why you think it's some unconscious choice you fucking dumbass
my advice is learn to manage your anxiety. consistently remind yourself that college is place that is enjoyable, everyone is in college to better themselves (and the world subsequently). its a place you are able to fuck around and make mistakes and no body is really going to make a big deal. I dont know what your parents were like growing up, but the anxiety mindset is what you should focus on fixing.
oh and there are usually classes the first year that tell you how to do academic research / the teachers also tell you
Again dont worry B+)
Yes/No?
Does it make a noticeable difference in terms of easyness if its not mandatory?
You're not at college to get laid.
>>17093356
But anon, I am.
>>17093356
Yeah, you're there for that ”""""""quality""""""" education.
I live in a family of 7. My mom & dad, 3 younger siblings, and my grandmother.
My grandmother is the aunt to a homeless man who will usually come stay with us. Even though no one wants the homeless man to stay in our home.
My mom, dad, and grandmother don't want him here but they say "he is family" and so they let him stay despite the fact that the entire living room STINKS when he's here.
So sometimes I get angry just thinking about the homeless man.I want to tell him off, but I'm afraid that my parents will reprimand me, even...
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>>17093336
This guy isn't "a homeless man." This guy is a family member. Grow the fuck up.
>>17093337
But he's placing an undue burden on our family, instead of going off to pester someone in his own family. It's fucking bullshit.
>>17093341
>someone in his own family
Your family IS his family.
The only one who is bullshit here is you.
I really want to suck cock. Preferably men in their late 30's/40's. I've already sucked my friend's cock but he's about my age, and I want older.
What is the best way to go about this, while remaining discreet?
Gaybar/gayclub.
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Craigslist m4m. Depending on how populated the area u live in is u can get it going relatively quickly. From my experiences it's pretty safe and discreet
>>17093340
Tell me about your experiences
