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Should people with red hair be allowed to date considering it's so rare all those couples would look like brother-sister incest ones? Reason I ask is I've been talking to a red haired girl online and we both have hit it off.
Redheads should stick with their own kind.
Sorry but redheads are like poison to me. They're hot as fuck but they kll me.
>>17093886
Red heads are a precious thing. Marry her and produce many children so that more people can date cute red heads
>>17093897
But how do you handle incest inquiries by randoms in the street?
Niggas I'm getting married n sheit. How do I buy a ring? Also we talked about it briefly and she said she'd prefer something other than a diamond because she doesn't really like them. Now I'm even more confused.
>>17093856
Like an engagement ring?
>>17093856
>Niggas I'm getting married
Dude...
>>17093883
I guess? Oh fuck, are you saying there's like two rings involved with this? Like an engagement ring AND a wedding ring?
>>17093888
Crazy tax benefits for us
Me and this girl have been talking for a month and ive already told her how i feel but she says she dosent feel the same yet. Is there any way to make this go faster or shuld i just keep waiting and let her feelings sink in? Pic for attention
>>17093803
if there's one thing you can't do in life is make someone love you
if you are really desperate just wait and try to get lucky,
>>17093803
Why love someone that doesn't love you back? At that point you can't seriously say you're attracted to anything more than their looks. I really don't understand. Why pursue someone that literally doesn't like you for who you are, and won't?
>>17093803
>posting jontron and his hardcore homo homies
Is the thing at the back with long hair male or female? I honestly can't tell.
I'm always chasing women and when I get them I lose interest and chase a new one.
Example: there are two women, one is objectively better that the other. So I chased the better one and got her. Now I'm interested in the other girl even though I know she's not as good and won't be as well of a match.
My mind is now making the other woman a 10/10 and my own girl a 7. Do I need help?
>>17093779
You sound like that guy who has two families at once.
Your life will be never dull and always full of surprises for you and the ones you love.
Did your parents make you chase their love?
>>17093790
No, they were always very loving.
I think I just want to fuck cuties.I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and by 25 I only had about 4 partners. Now at 27 the women seem to be rolling in and I can't resist.
Can being lonely for a long time make you gay?
I think I've become gay or bi. Not sure exactly.
>attracted to only girls throughout high school
>too ugly, fat, and weird to get them
>get fit; lose a lot of weight and gain muscles
>still insecure and low self-esteem
>convinced I'll never get a girl
>go to university, meet some people
>one...
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>>17093739
cool
>>17093739
Some guys are just so feminine and pretty that it would be gay not to fuck them. You're alright.
>>17093739
>I'm still attracted to women, so am I bi?
Sounds like it. I don't think being lonely will make you gay or bi, but I think it can make you willing to be a lot more open minded about fucking a dude, especially one with feminine features.
Gay or straight, normal sex or masturbation, general sex tip thread - Ask or answer
What are ways I can spice up my sex life?
I'm miles away from my boyfriend and returning home on Monday, for months he's been constantly talking about sex and trying to convince me to have phone sex. I would want it to be more than amazing on Monday, so how would I go about doing it so it's not just normal stuff?
Is there any time when it's acceptable to kiss a prostitute?
>>17093695
What is normal for you guys?
As for my own question:
I'm allergic to many forms of lubricant, KY Jelly, ID velvet / millenium, etc. Are there any anons who are also allergic to lubricants and have found alternatives?
>>17093704
Never kiss a prostitute
>>17093732
I have a buddy that gets burned from many different lubes and he uses coconut oil
>live at a boarding house type place
>misplace a container lid in one of the common areas
>nobody seems to have seen it (read : someone took it for some reason and wont return it)
>the lid belongs to a $5 tin container that I use to store tea/coffee, and the container itself is useless without the lid
>nobody sells replacement lids obviously
So i've got a container that is pretty much useless with no lid,...
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They make stretchy plastic lids that fit a variety of sized containers.
>>17093696
hmm, never seen anything like that in supermarkets here. Is it airtight?
buy a new container
So, I've been kind of confused for a bit, sexually speaking. I have a GF I have been with for over 5 years and I'm happy with her all around. The things is, I'm a chronic masturbater and when I use the internet I jerk off to a range of stuff (BBW, Grannies, trannies, traps, and even regular guys if they have natural feminine qualities). Now, in my regular everyday life I feel like I'd never date or have a relationship with someone who is a guy or a transsexual, but I have no problems jerking off to them online if they fit my fancy.
Does that still...
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>>17093684
Holy shit op.
Probably nothing to big. I mean think about it, guys do stupid shit when we jack off. You're a bit different since you masturbate most of the time but I'm sure it's nothing serious.
>>17093723
Its been bugging me for a while, especially since every now and then I get that "dread" feeling after I nut to some femboy online. Today, I've kinda been up and about thinking about it more than usual. I never really talked to anybody it, definitely nobody in my social circle.
>>17093751
I feel you man. I had a phase where I'd jack off go lolis because I was kinda abused by my fem cousin when I was young. I don't do it anymore but I do have a slight fetish in incest porn now.
And there has to be someone you know that does this too. They might do the same thing you do to and are also afraid of saying anything to anybody. Just low key bring up something about porn man. Don't you have a best bro?
I bought a new-ish car about 6 months ago.
Yesterday morning some fucking dumbass made a left turn straight into me instead of yielding like he was supposed to. The state police gave him a ticket and insurance said I wouldn't be at fault, which is good.
When I bought the car, I put 20% down and financed the rest. I also got that 'GAP' insurance to cover any remaining balance not covered in case of a total loss.
My question now is: am I going to get that down payment back somehow, or do I need to save up that money all over again? Is it reasonable...
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>not buying an old drop-top Miata and keeping the rest of the money
You brought this on yourself.
>>17093698
Nice meme
>>>/o/
>>17093673
No
You will get a lump sum of money unless your insurance company forces you to repair the car at their expense.
This lump sum can be used to pay off the rest of your loan or outright buy a new one.
You will not win anything from this, sorry
After lurking here on 4chan for several years and taking a lot of advice I finally started to become more of a social person since I got to university half a year ago. I found new great friends, I've been making out with quite a bunch of girls, my life is really great and all, but I have no idea on how to actually ask a girl I like out.
See, there's this crush of mine, we meet each other randomly at university parties around once a month, and practically every time we end up making out and acting like if we've been together for years. We rarely talk a lot...
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>>17093655
you're a fucking faggot who should consider suicide
>>17093655
>this crush
>every time making out
>her birthday
i would personally go for flower since it is cheaper and almost all girls like flowers. And yes you should definitely go ask her out.
>>17093655
OP, first off, you are a retard.
Girl will make out with you? not sure if you can ask her out? haha what? The message for her Bday seems a little too...umm formal? Like I feel giving a message with a present is something people do once they have already started dating. It may go well, but that was my first thought. My suggestion, just ask her out dude. You already know shes attracted to you enough to makeout. Just say hey (insert name here) would you like to go get dinner and catch a movie this Friday?
Pretty...
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There's a guy in my class who I recently got to know, we've been 'seeing' each other for a few weeks. We haven't said anything like we like each other but we have hooked up, we flirt but we don't act romantic like going on proper dates. We tend to keep it casual like just going out to eat together then maybe studying together in the library, things like that. We don't act couple-y, as in we don't hold hands or hug goodbye or something like that.
We have both broken up with our exes a few months ago. I broke up with mine in January...
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>>17093638
One of the bullet proof solution to almost all relationship problems is proper communication.
But before you ask him about the EX, you should make sure what you exactly want WANT from and FEEL for him.
>claims that he doesn't miss his ex
This is what he does so he doesn't look like miserable man in your eyes.
>>17093659
In the beginning when we just started talking, we were telling each other about our exes and why we broke up, stuff like that, and when he said that she moved overseas I said directly "you must miss her then" and he said no.
I'm shy to mention the instagram thing because we've only been hanging out a few weeks so I'm scared of sounding like someone crazy
The instagram shit is pretty dodgy. Fuck that.
So anons I'm a girl and I'm into my male friend. I never did anything with a boy, never even flirted, was/am pretty sheltered, so the big question is: how do I show my interest? Any clues how I should act around him? What kind of verbal or non-verbal clues can I give him? Help a girl out, please
Depends on the guy
Dont play those games for long its annoying as hell
Flirting and such
Just spend time with him and say something or just make a move
grab his genitals playfully out of nowhere
>>17093627
>make a move
Meaning what, should I climb on his lap or try to kiss him or...?
I am feeling sad and lonely, to save you all the trouble of crying and bitching, just recommend me a movie I should watch
I've watched all the superhero movies, top 3 movies for me I'd say is probably; Whiplash, Fight Club and Matrix (first part). The only comedy I ever found really funny was 21 and 22 Jump Street, John Wick is one of the rare action movies that I actually enjoyed (aside from superhero stuff) that's about it... Fire away multiple suggestions if you have any, I may have seen the thing that you posted so anything is welcome here.
As...
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Bade Runner is on Netflix for another seven hours if you haven't seen it.
>>17093634
Netflix not available in my conutry, luckily, I am a swashbuckler and will find it on the open seas...
Thanks
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1125849/
I'm socially isolated from people. I Literally have no friends and no life, no social life either. I have no idea what it is, but I'm always pushed away by people. I've had these problems since childhood, I'm not a 25 year old man and it's really getting to me. I'm always a target for people, I can do nothing and out of nowhere and I'm getting fucked with or someone wants to fight. It's taken a mental and social toll on me. I want to have a social life, and a life in general, but when I'm pushed aside all the time I don't really...
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>>17093565
I am not a 25 year old man either. What else do we have in common?
I'm in the same boat OP. I've tried many times to make friends and yet I get so close only to realize nobody really likes me. I think it has to do with my personality, like there's something there that makes people afraid or they just hate it.
>>17093573
Meant to say I am a 25 year old man.
>>17093574
I don't know what it is, I do have social anxiety due to being bullied in my teens into my early twenties. People really fucked me up, I try to forget those things and try to get around new people but it's almost impossible due to the things In my other post.
/adv/ am I fucked?
I'm nearly 21 and I feel like there must be something wrong with me. I don't have many friends, but the friends I do have are all in relationships, or are single intentionally so they can have casual sex. I had one girlfriend two years ago and I think she must have felt sorry for me or something. People always talk about how they've had girls hit on them or come on to them. No one has ever approached me before, and I've never even noticed anyone flirting with me, even though I'm quite engaging to talk to and act a little that way...
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>>17093564
>I am young and I don't do the same stuff my friends are telling me they are doing.
>Am I bad?
Yea man, you are seeking self-worth through your friend's deeds. That is a sign of your lack of confidence or missing life goal.
Have you ever considered what do YOU want? Because comparing yourself with your friends will get you only so far, but not into your life goal.
>bla bla bla missing girlfriend bla bla my...
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>>17093636
But I know what I want out of life. I go to the best university in my country, I study computer science and I want to be a software engineer so that I can afford to buy my own house one day. And I want to have a family, and hopefully be able to raise my kids outside the city because it's not very nice for that.
I have pursued women. They tend not to be interested in me, and I'm very shy and take rejection personally even though I know I shouldn't. I'm just saying that it seems that so many...
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>>17093661
>so many people have stories
Yea, the word story is important, because it can be a fairytale, not accurate documentary.
>cute girl approached them
Either your friends are magnets for girls by being 9+/10, they lie or they live on different planet.
There is no telling if you are ugly unless you post some picture.
Just take the girl hunt in your own hands and start the hunt. If your friends are such magnets, go to the actions with them...
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