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How do I train my girlfriend into my Nazi uniform fetish?
You don't.
>tfw she isn't even white
Lol you have it easy op
>>17097339
Halloween costume then sex then "we should do this again".
How to break up with a suicidal girl, who lives 2 hours away? I'm pretty sure I'm not able to do it, but I have to. I have problems to disappoint or say no to people.
Go see her and tell her beforehand that you need to talk so that she will expect something probably-not-good. Tell her honestly but gently why you want to break up (or if your reason is something like "your boobs are too small" or something equally douchebag-y, come up with something that's not about her). Something like "I don't want to date" or "I just see you as a friend only". If she takes it badly, try to comfort her and BE NICE and understanding. If she starts begging or something, just let her down gently by letting her know that...
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>>17097242
^this, but bring a hidden camera just in case she's actually batshit insane, that way you have proof of anything she does
>>17097242
Nice advice, thanks. Should I really tell her why? Her clinginess, her boredom and especially cause I don't really have feelings for here are the reasons.
hey, /adv/, im kind of in a huge fucking rut.
my entire life, ive never gotten good grades. i know if i apply myself, i can get good grades but im always too sad or depressed or fucking LAZY to try
highschool my grades were shit. i studied for my SAT and i got a good grade (not great, but good) and i got accepted into the uni that i wanted to go to, but not the study that i wanted to do. applied for mechanical engineering, got engineering technologies or some shit like that.
so i'm currently going to community college. i got financial aid, so i'm...
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anyone?
tl:dr
ive got shit grades in highschool, go to community college, get shit grades in two semesters. am i fucked?
>>17097138
If you're getting shit grades because you're lazy that's your problem. You have to find something that motivates you enough to do all of the assignments and study for the exams.
If you are getting shit grades because you're not understanding something you may want to reach out and see if you can get some tutoring or help.
Stop doing this senpai. Go make a schedule and force yourself to apply it. Don't hide behind depression/laziness because they're convenient scapegoats. You might get this a lot but go work out, find a group of friends or something else that you can focus on. You're getting a wonderful chance anon, don't blow it.
Say a guy sold some highschool kids weed but he put various chemicals in it like bleach or ammonia,could he get in trouble? I know for a fact one kid smoked it ( coughed like crazy, threw up everywhere) .
>>17097026
>selling weed
>is this illegal?
probably. check local laws. putting these chemicals into it is pretty fucked, you should get all the potheads together and go fuck his shit up
>>17097048
It's kinda funny honestly .
>>17097026
Considering bleach and ammonia can kill people when ingested, and if mixed create a gas that specifically destroys your lungs, then yeah you'd get in serious trouble.
Might even be considered attempted murder, depending on the specific circumstances.
Hey /adv/
There's a sort of friend of mine I have a crush on. Last week I asked her if she wanted to go with me to some event in my city that she's probably interested in. She said "I'll see if I can and I'll tell you". We didn't text after that but I met her yesterday and I asked her again, since the event is still going on. She said something like "uhmm idk I have exams" I think. I suggested a specific day when the entry is free. She said "I have college that day" (in the morning). I said what about after college, in...
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Ask her aggressively, like "do you wanna go out with me or not?", or ask her whether she'd like to choose a different place...but first ask her whether she's into those kind of events.
>>17097039
Thanks for the advice. Well in this case the event is a book fair*. She went to the same one last year and said it was nice. And she does read and is into books, etc.
*(I was afraid to give details here, but to be honest if she comes to 4chan she'll instantly tell I'm talking about her from the original post now)
DUDE, take a clue already
She isn't interested. Just let her go.
IF she was interested, she'd come back to you
>everyone says to meet a girl you need to get out and do stuff
>finally start going out
>every girl out there is with their bfs already
>realize how bullshit this advice is because all the available girls aren't out because they have no bf to go out with
So does anyone have any useful advice or is college literally the only way to meet girls outside?
Yep literally every girl has a boyfriend already oh well may as well give up since every girl on the planet is taken.
How much time did you spend trying out this advice before you came to the conclusion it's bullshit? One night? One week? Shit doesn't just happen immediately. Just because you never left your home, doesn't mean all single people are like that.
Anyway, if you really find that you can't meet single people at social events, try volunteering for a charity or local politician. Great way to meet people. Or, try online dating, which exists to help people exactly like you do exactly the thing you're trying to do.
>>17097023
I feel so bad for this girl I've been talking to. She's obviously in love with me and I don't consciously mean to go out of my way to use her but that's basically what it is. She's cute but chubby and I'm just not super attracted to her physically. I'm even *less* attracted to her emotionally/mentally (she's much younger than me, but still more than legal) and there is a huge difference in maturity.
The reasons I talk to her are:
A) I know her world will crumble if I stop. She's insanely depressed and insecure. She has...
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>>17096966
get her this book https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I%27m_OK_%E2%80%93_You%27re_OK#Four_life_positions
She obvi needs help, but there's nothing you can do yourself
Man, cut this crap out. You letting this poor girl do that to you is no different than a girl letting a beta orbiter polish her nails while using his back as a stool or whatever while insisting that she made it clear to him that she just wants to be friends.
Of course you feel bad, you are aware that she is bending over backwards for you because she is in love with you and you are using that to get the little that you DO want from her. It doesn't matter that you tell her you don't want a relationship, someone as fucked up as she is right now who is badly in...
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>>17096999
You're right, I completely agree. I *know* inside it's wrong. Any suggestions on how to go about breaking it to her? I am absolutely certain she's going to think that it's because she's unattractive/unworthy/disgusting, etc. I really do care about her as a friend as person and want the best for her.
I don't understand girls /adv/.
I'm not that autistic, can talk to them and had relationships, but I just can't understand the way they think.
Things like constantly changing social media status and profile pic, being mean to other girls behind their back, their focus on feelings, the importance of social status and how people perceive them etc.
I just can't get why they do this. I really don't.
Can some femanons explain?
Stop profile stalking and try interacting with people, cuz everything you listed just sounds like descriptions of 16yos on Facebook.
>>17096928
You won't understand all women, pick one and get to know her.
>>17096928
My vagina has not asked me to do any of the things you have listed. Does this mean I am trans? Any help will be appreciated.
My gf just broke up with me.. Can you give me some comfort and protips how to get over this. I was the one who broke up first--> we thinked it out--> back together--> week goes, girl gives hints that maybe wants a break atleast--> this weekend says that wants to breakup, has crush on someone else. Was my first serious relationship, so really dont know how to cope with this.
>>17096854
Chill with friends. Shitpost on 4chan. Do a hobby you like. Realize you wont even remember her name in like 5 years.
>>17096856
Good advice. Just so new feeling, I kinda missed out all the good things in relationship, while i was in one. I missed singlelife, and now when i have it, I start to realize the good things in relationship.. Sucks
>>17096869
Its important to have bad times in life and negative feelings. Can't have good times without the bad.
What are your thoughts on a 6 foot 125 lb 19 year old guy? I don't have any disorders or dieseases, I'm just always dormant.
atleast you're not fat.
>>17096833
>I'm just always dormant
/adv/ how do you keep your ego under control?
?????????
>>17096846
I don't know, stop being an asshole? Having confidence is fine, but an ego is usually held up by believing yourself to be superior to others, which is generally wrong
Come over and I'll beat the shit out of you. That usually does it.
i need serious help. this girl is so great and i just get so nervous around her i just need advice on how not to completely fuck this up. im so god awful with women and i dont know what im doing.
Need more context....
>>17096775
we were literally alone last night smoking a cigarette outside and i totally couldve made a move but i pussied out and she told me while we were talking this morning that she wouldve been totally cool with it and i was just like "well i'll remember it for next time" and i just felt myself cringe at hearing myself say that and i just feel like i really fucked up an opportunity
>>17096788
At this point just make sure that there is a next time, and don't miss the opportunity when there is.
Hey!
Do you have any awesome or rare hobbies? Share it with community you can post photo,video or just write about it.
P.S I need this to pass school term I'm making presentation about this
I do cave exploration. It's pretty cool, definitely Type 2 fun.
Ain't nobody got time for hobbies.
Get a job, kid.
I consume rare and extreme pornography
How fucked am I if I have years of patient noncompliance written in my medical records?
>>17096746
I don't even know what you're referring to, anon. Which is a good thing! Plan B- change countries.
>>17096746
>How fucked am I if I have years of patient noncompliance written in my medical records?
That depends. Not very many people are allowed to see medical records, so their ability to fuck you over is limited to some very specific contexts. What exactly is it you're trying to do?
>>17096746
Fucked in what sense? Noncompliance for what disease?
How do I eat ass /adv/? Any tips or techniques that are good. Do you enjoy eating ass and do you enjoy having your ass eaten?
Its pretty easy really considering there's nothing there to pleasure.
Run your tongue up and down the crack, spend extra time on the hole, lick in circular motions, go in a little if you're brave.
All in all I enjoy it, its a great start to anal or putting in a buttplug.
Other than that though, it is what it is just pretend its a pussy and go to town
Eat some mints and blow air on the hole.
>>17096765
What does it taste like? Does she need to prep any?
